FabSwingers.com forum: Verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are new bies and had a couple of meets with a couple but they haven't verified us

Why is this is it because they want to keep us to themselves or because they don't want others knowing they have met us?

It's knocking our confidence as we been on here a while and it makes people think we are not genuine

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Some are lazy

Some don't veri as a rule.

Who knows?

Don't sweat it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Have you asked them. Some don't like to give veris unless you want them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's that big a deal, ask them. They'll be able to tell you.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Don't let it knock your confidence.

Maybe they are just not that into verifications.

Try messaging them saying that as newbies the verification could help you get more meetings.

Don't get stressed about it though.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Why would someone not leaving you a verification 'knock your confidence'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now don't give as don't wish people to know what we do .. And I don't show new ones I have had .. I had people mailing other I meet saying they new me and different things so I felt it was best for me.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I now don't give as don't wish people to know what we do .. And I don't show new ones I have had .. I had people mailing other I meet saying they new me and different things so I felt it was best for me."

Yes but I igno_ed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask them it could be something simple xx

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Did you leave them a veri? Sometimes people just forget and if you leave them a veri it reminds them.

Failing that, I'll meet you both and leave you a glowing veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you leave them a veri? Sometimes people just forget and if you leave them a veri it reminds them.

Failing that, I'll meet you both and leave you a glowing veri

If you havent had one you cant leave one xx

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

As a rule I always ask if someone wishes to be verified. Quite a number don't, presumably because they prefer others not to know their meets.

As most others have said. ..just ask.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"As a rule I always ask if someone wishes to be verified. Quite a number don't, presumably because they prefer others not to know their meets.

As most others have said. ..just ask. "

This

MrsSB

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not everyone does verify, we always ask.Don't let it get you down ,doesnt mean they didn't have a great time.;)miss.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well if youve met them more than once they obviously like you.

You could simply ask them.

I do get as newbies you would like a verification but you cant let it knock your confidence. There will be all sorts of things that could knock your confidence on here. The longer your on the more relaxed about things you will become

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi not that big a deal but was our first big step and thought everything was good now not replying seems un fair that you can't verify someone untill they have you

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

But... but... but.. I wanna know what you do lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

get to a social or a club..meet some nice folks and even some clubs will veri you..social ones are just as valid. dont let it stop you, use it as good motivation to get out and about more xx

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