FabSwingers.com forum: When you close your eyes for the final time, and your lungs breath their last breath...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...what will you remember about your life, what did you achieve, what made it worth while, what will it be, that makes you reach it's end, with a comforted smile on your face...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gorgeous perfect kind little girls

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By *uvesmuffinCouple
over a year ago

Barking

Did i turn the Oven off

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"My gorgeous perfect kind little girls

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully I would have done right by those closest to me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot my memory is going now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did i turn the Oven off"

If you didn't, it may possibly be the reason why you're dying.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

My 3 amazing sons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my kids

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By *uvesmuffinCouple
over a year ago

Barking

Yes when they lower me down in my Y shaped coffin, just want to laugh my head off xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Hypoxia should mean I won't be able to recall anything.

I hope I will have remained true to myself to the very end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were my children proud to call me their Dad.

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over a year ago

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By *uvesmuffinCouple
over a year ago

Barking

"Did i turn the Oven off

If you didn't, it may possibly be the reason why you're dying."

Which would put me into a right panic as its Electric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I hope I'm too spaced out to be reminiscing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

Thats sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

Perhaps you need to share your feelings with people more often? You seem to have some poetry in you...

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

My last thought will be what will my family think when they find my stash of women's clothes and sex toys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did i turn the Oven off

If you didn't, it may possibly be the reason why you're dying.

Which would put me into a right panic as its Electric

Well I don't know, maybe you have a pacemaker or something?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

You've got children. Unless you have mightly pissed off all of them I'm sure one will be there towards the end.

I'll be dead at the bottom of the stairs with one of the neighbourhood cats eating my eyes before anyone finds me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank fuck that shite's over.

Then I'll wake up and remember I'm a south American bullfrog dreaming I'm human. Prove I'm not. Go on, I dare ya!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I want to die like my uncle, peacefully in his sleep... not screaming and terrified like his passengers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids & if my parents are still alive. X

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

Get back in touch with him!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my kids had a good happy life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

Get back in touch with him!!

who?

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Far too early too even contemplate that... sorry op, may be an 'old fecker,' but life in the old dog yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be dead at the bottom of the stairs with one of the neighbourhood cats eating my eyes before anyone finds me.

What a pretty picture.

I won't be having kids so I'd better hope I die before Marc... otherwise at least I have dogs, they eat faster than cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll think about how much time I've been on the Internet, time well spent I think

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'll be dead at the bottom of the stairs with one of the neighbourhood cats eating my eyes before anyone finds me.

What a pretty picture.

I won't be having kids so I'd better hope I die before Marc... otherwise at least I have dogs, they eat faster than cats.

The neighbourhood dogs don't manage to find their way in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far too early too even contemplate that... sorry op, may be an 'old fecker,' but life in the old dog yet!"

Death knows no time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my cubs will grow up to be better men than me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm not sure, as it's going to depend on where I'm at in my life. Achievements etc - no. It'll be goodbye and sharing my love, I hope - if I'm aware that I'm about to die.

I've thought of having a death doing what I really love or just a silent passing - we just don't know, in general, so it's about some luck and chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I loved with all of my heart and never feared to give of myself. That I did all that I could when I could and that my kids think well of me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id be seriously worried if i hadnt given any thought to my life till my last breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id be seriously worried if i hadnt given any thought to my life till my last breath"

i seem to be doing it a lot just lately

i think about things that have never bothered me before

maybe its because im getting older

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

"
that is so sad to here from someone with kids

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

Get back in touch with him!!

who?"

The one you stopped seeing because you had feelings for him lol! Sorry, I'm just an incurable romantic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

Get back in touch with him!!

who?

The one you stopped seeing because you had feelings for him lol! Sorry, I'm just an incurable romantic!

oh i though you ment the ex, i was going to say what do i want to get back in touch with him for

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I might think i hope to god my son doesnt get to lay me out god knows what would get shoved in my holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

that is so sad to here from someone with kids"

There was never any love in my marriage, even when i married him i didnt love him, we spent most of our marriage in separate bedrooms

My kids where the only good thing to come out of it but at the end of the day you dont have to love somebody to have sex with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...what will you remember about your life, what did you achieve, what made it worth while, what will it be, that makes you reach it's end, with a comforted smile on your face...?"

Probbaly nothing a random delusion or two then nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

What did you do to piss your kids off?

And you're statisticsly only 50% of the way through your life.

Go fix it if it upsets you

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Working on it/towards it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

What did you do to piss your kids off?

And you're statisticsly only 50% of the way through your life.

Go fix it if it upsets you"

i didnt do anything to piss my kids off but im talking about being inlove and im not inlove with my kids

i was talking about things you share with somebody your inlove with not what you share with your kids

ok i'll fix it i'll just grab the next guy i see and move him in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure anyone dies with a smile on their face unless they are heavily sedated.

I'm fairly sure I'll be in some kind of pain thinking "Fuck, so this is what it feels like".

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

You've got children. Unless you have mightly pissed off all of them I'm sure one will be there towards the end.

I'll be dead at the bottom of the stairs with one of the neighbourhood cats eating my eyes before anyone finds me.

Ha! Yep! Me too!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

that is so sad to here from someone with kids

There was never any love in my marriage, even when i married him i didnt love him, we spent most of our marriage in separate bedrooms

My kids where the only good thing to come out of it but at the end of the day you dont have to love somebody to have sex with them "
you always say you have no intention of being in a relationship and im sure one of your kids will be at your bedside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im going to die in a fire anyway some gypsie told me, mind you according to her i died 6 years ago

so my last thoughts will probably be where the fucks the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...what will you remember about your life, what did you achieve, what made it worth while, what will it be, that makes you reach it's end, with a comforted smile on your face...?"

Dude that's a bit deep. I actually thought about this earlier today coincidentally. And o thought about the many girl's hearts I broke, my childhood and some fab moments of course. I need to create better memories, I know. Already wrote myself the memo. Pretty deep existentialist post though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my last breath, i want to say "I've hidden the money in...." and then die...will drive people insane trying to find what i don't have lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

"
I could of written that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"im going to die in a fire anyway some gypsie told me, mind you according to her i died 6 years ago

so my last thoughts will probably be where the fucks the door

"
and your only bloody 40 you got half your life left to meet someone,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The little things...done with love.....

I dreamt that the time had come BY

Fernand de Vinck

I dreamt that the time had come to carry back to my Father the treasures I was sent to gather on earth.

So I held out my chalice to my brother angel to be filled with the values of my life.

I thought of bright achievement, renown and success,

but they vanished in the emptiness of glamour.

When it was handed back to me,

I found my cup filled to the brim with what I thought were tiny things,

hardly noticed and long forgotten,

but now, sparkling with the inner light of the love they contained.

Then I walked holding high the grail of my soul

and there was joy in heaven.

( I believe in my own kind of heaven with no God. But I love these sentiments and hope when my time comes, I'm able to remember them.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

that is so sad to here from someone with kids

There was never any love in my marriage, even when i married him i didnt love him, we spent most of our marriage in separate bedrooms

My kids where the only good thing to come out of it but at the end of the day you dont have to love somebody to have sex with them

you always say you have no intention of being in a relationship and im sure one of your kids will be at your bedside "

i dont anymore, i think i've been on my own for that long i'm just used to it now, i'm not sure i could ajust to being with somebody

i do sometimes wonder what it would have been like being with somebody that cared about me though

i'm digging myself in a hole now arent i?

i know what i mean i'm just not getting it into word properly

i wouldnt change my life now i just look back on it and wonder how it would have been different had i married somebody i loved and who loved me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

I could of written that.

i wish i hadn't now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did i turn the Oven off"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

that is so sad to here from someone with kids

There was never any love in my marriage, even when i married him i didnt love him, we spent most of our marriage in separate bedrooms

My kids where the only good thing to come out of it but at the end of the day you dont have to love somebody to have sex with them

you always say you have no intention of being in a relationship and im sure one of your kids will be at your bedside

i dont anymore, i think i've been on my own for that long i'm just used to it now, i'm not sure i could ajust to being with somebody

i do sometimes wonder what it would have been like being with somebody that cared about me though

i'm digging myself in a hole now arent i?

i know what i mean i'm just not getting it into word properly

i wouldnt change my life now i just look back on it and wonder how it would have been different had i married somebody i loved and who loved me "
one person on here who i never thought in a million years ended up all loved up. I shall await your "im leaving ive met the man of my dreams" thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be saying " I left all my money in the ...................."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"My gorgeous perfect kind little girls

...and how they've grown into perfect women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think about living. And sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

I could of written that.

i wish i hadn't now

"
Don't be silly, it's well written and lovely xx

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

"
wow kinda dark and deep but I know how you feel

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Hopefully all the good things I have done the people I have made smile and maybe having that some one to be with me til the end......... that or if I have time for a wank before I go lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

It was unconventional but fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nirvana? The moment of judgement and truth is nigh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children and grandchildren..

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

That I hope my children will forgive me for everything that happened. That they, as adults (hopefully) will come to realise that every decision I made, everything I did, was for them, to keep them safe, and so they felt they were loved as much as they were/are.

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By *omersetfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Glastonbury

That when I had more than I needed I built a bigger table, not a taller fence.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Fuck you all I did it my way and enjoyd it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It was unconventional but fun

Damn right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I held my wife when she passed away, just pray there is a heaven and that the changing of my ways allows me to enter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hope that my children live long and healthy lives, find happiness and remember their old mum fondly and with love. That is all

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've been thinking about a lot of things recently but I'm not sharing....id rather not think about death just yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

This sounds mawkish but I hope I have time to think about how I loved and was loved by those closest to me. I also hope I have time to think "thank goodness I gave up work and spent the last part of my life relaxing by the sea"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've been thinking about a lot of things recently but I'm not sharing....id rather not think about death just yet "

Has it hurt

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"This sounds mawkish but I hope I have time to think about how I loved and was loved by those closest to me. I also hope I have time to think "thank goodness I gave up work and spent the last part of my life relaxing by the sea"

Bloody good answer and I plan on doing the same 3 years to go and can't wait. I've worked my Titsey off for it and sacrificed my youth to do it. Good on ya

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"...what will you remember about your life, what did you achieve, what made it worth while, what will it be, that makes you reach it's end, with a comforted smile on your face...?"

If I'm honest, I don't really care what I'm thinking about. It's almost most to be just down random crap thrown be your me memory about nothing that matters at the time.

Your final minute on this earth will be just another one of 40 million- odd minutes and as long as I spent most of those happy, contented and doing more harm than good I'll have done allright.

People spend years, especially their final years, believing that it all had to be about something or for something and that you have leave some great legacy behind.

Far too much emphasis and importance attached to your last minutes/days/weeks on this earth. They're no more important than all the others so go out and make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My times with Pooch the walks and times we shared.

The hope that I have mo regrets and lived my life to the fullest with a passion for every thing I have ever done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had let all these passengers of the bus before I drove along this mountain Road!

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By *entkinkcplCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

"
....thats a very sad read , I do feel very lucky now to have my man in my life , because that could so of easily been me saying those things x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

That's so said and I really like you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

That's so said and I really like you

Sad ffs sad

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't "

Thankfully palliative care ( end of life care) has improved dramatically. It is very rare that people's pain cannot be controlled.

As a community nurse I was with several people as they took their last breath. My aim was to allow them and their families to have the best possible death. No pain or sickness.....just gentle quiet time to be together as they drift away.

The majority of my families will recall those vital last hours as a peaceful, calm passing. Sharing memories, funny stories and music.

If you were happy and loud in life, why shouldn't your death be just the same.

It's not an event to be scared of. Well not till its imminent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you're dying though.

When they're jumping on your chest, breaking ribs, to keep your brain alive...

It hurts.

After it stops hurting - it starts again when they manage to pull you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

...it's never too late. Don't give up looking.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is my next life going to be like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is my next life going to be like "

It's interesting to think that if reincarnation is true, then every one has already experienced death countless times, and indeed, the one you're living now was once your 'next life'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hope it's as good as this one right now.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would hope that the people I have loved along the way felt a little of the same towards me and that I had some damn good times doing some extraordinary things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family and the joy they have all bought me (hopefully!)

And the amazing things I will have achieved and think 'yeah I did all that!'

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

What did you do to piss your kids off?

And you're statisticsly only 50% of the way through your life.

Go fix it if it upsets you

i didnt do anything to piss my kids off but im talking about being inlove and im not inlove with my kids

i was talking about things you share with somebody your inlove with not what you share with your kids

ok i'll fix it i'll just grab the next guy i see and move him in

You got about 10 million potential candidates in the uk.

Atart interviewing :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't "

Ah but you need to remeber your brain has a finely honed ability to forget whats not real.

Like what did you dream last night or last tuesday?

What you see in those moments is easily lost by the time the itch of the catheter wakes you up :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

"
I have loved and list all those you mention and they say its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all....i disagree. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't

Ah but you need to remeber your brain has a finely honed ability to forget whats not real.

Like what did you dream last night or last tuesday?

What you see in those moments is easily lost by the time the itch of the catheter wakes you up :p"

They didn't have time to get one in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't

Ah but you need to remeber your brain has a finely honed ability to forget whats not real.

Like what did you dream last night or last tuesday?

What you see in those moments is easily lost by the time the itch of the catheter wakes you up :p

They didn't have time to get one in

Ahh they weren't expecting you to wake up then :p

High dose opiates = the most agonising inability to pee ever the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't

Ah but you need to remeber your brain has a finely honed ability to forget whats not real.

Like what did you dream last night or last tuesday?

What you see in those moments is easily lost by the time the itch of the catheter wakes you up :p

They didn't have time to get one in

Ahh they weren't expecting you to wake up then :p

High dose opiates = the most agonising inability to pee ever the next day"

He was signing his name on the cert when the nurse got a facefull of blood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a lot.

There's no flashbacks

No bright light

No angels

None of the bollocks spouted

It just hurts

A lot

Then it doesn't

Ah but you need to remeber your brain has a finely honed ability to forget whats not real.

Like what did you dream last night or last tuesday?

What you see in those moments is easily lost by the time the itch of the catheter wakes you up :p

They didn't have time to get one in

Ahh they weren't expecting you to wake up then :p

High dose opiates = the most agonising inability to pee ever the next day

He was signing his name on the cert when the nurse got a facefull of blood

You've got to love a doctor who's prompt with the paperwork.

Although maybe a little slapdash woth the stethoscope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah btw they get paid for the forms to confirm who you are before cremation etc.

"Cash for ash" is the joke for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In his defence - it was the third time I'd coded in 4 hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In his defence - it was the third time I'd coded in 4 hrs

More hassle than your worth :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't die easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st rule!.

don't waste good "life" time worrying about "death" time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That i've never been in love

That i have never felt loved or wanted

That i have never had anybody to share my life with

Nobody to come home to and share my good news, or tell me everythings going to be ok when i have bad news

That when i die there will be nobody at my bedside to hold my hand and tell me they love me

I've been alone most of my life and im used to it now but i do wonder sometimes how it would feel to have somebody who actually wants you to come home, somebody who was pleased to see you

And i'll never knowing

I shall ponder it on my death bed

I could of written that.

I think Peter Green beat you to it.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"...what will you remember about your life, what did you achieve, what made it worth while, what will it be, that makes you reach it's end, with a comforted smile on your face...?"

Don't worry handsome. ...I'll make sure you have a happy look on your face at the end!

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