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The thrill of the chase

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to find men will bombard me with messages until i get to the point of saying i will meet and then......... nothing

Messages dry up, plans get cancelled and never re arranged. Why??? Is ir just the thrill of the chase. One guy skyped every day for a week and we chatted for at least an hr a day and he said we should meet as soon as he had a day off then he stopped replying the day he was off and went on another meet. Why invest all the time in getting to know me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of people use this site as a time pass and have no intention of meeting.

he was probably chatting to other women at the same time as you.

i also wouldn't be surprised if the other woman was easier to meet so he went with the easy option.

don't take anything personally on here, it's a site where nobody really matters or cares for you and is after some kind of escape. the harder it is for them to do that the less interested they will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is something in wanting what you can't have. So for some men and women, couples it is all the fun of the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to find men will bombard me with messages until i get to the point of saying i will meet and then......... nothing

Messages dry up, plans get cancelled and never re arranged. Why??? Is ir just the thrill of the chase. One guy skyped every day for a week and we chatted for at least an hr a day and he said we should meet as soon as he had a day off then he stopped replying the day he was off and went on another meet. Why invest all the time in getting to know me."

If i say im going to meet, we will be meeting

There is no point playing games on here really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know sometimes the nerves can get the better of you but after so long chatting I would have thought he was passed that.

I have heard some people do this just for fun, same as some couples are not couples but guys just playing around, why I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it odd? So many topics on here seem to suggest that people would like far less chase and far more meet!

Go figure

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

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I dont know i have conversationa fizzle out. Not had one when proper meet details have been sorted. Wouldnt really be possible to meet everyone you chat to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to find men will bombard me with messages until i get to the point of saying i will meet and then......... nothing

Messages dry up, plans get cancelled and never re arranged. Why??? Is ir just the thrill of the chase. One guy skyped every day for a week and we chatted for at least an hr a day and he said we should meet as soon as he had a day off then he stopped replying the day he was off and went on another meet. Why invest all the time in getting to know me."

It happens more to males on here, as in a woman giving it all the chat and then suddenly losing intrest, just an ego boost I suppose.

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