FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Last minute

Jump to newest
 

By *rincesscaracouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

A last minute meet or a meet well planned in advance? What do people prefer and what works best in your opinion? We were considering a little mmmf tonight which is a bit short notice, does anyone else do this?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I say a pre planned meet but had a cracking short notice meet and club fun last night

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short notice meets work best for us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to talk to people for a fair while in advance - I talked to the last person I met for five months beforehand - and as my meets tend to live a fair while away in advance works the best.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like to plan ahead and chat first. Chatted to someone on and off for about a year before I had sex with her.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get to know someone before a meet so its usually planned ahead, on the otherhand though, once I do know somebody and have met them before, I have no issues with short notice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I tend to talk to people for a fair while in advance - I talked to the last person I met for five months beforehand - and as my meets tend to live a fair while away in advance works the best."

My normal meets are club meets but this one was a one off

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)

Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)

Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go"

Not all men do

I meet someone who expects absolutely nothing when we see each other... he usually gets a little something though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincesscaracouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)

Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go"

We have had cum and go gangbangs before which were planned in advance and worked well but thought we might try spontaneous tonight and see if anyone turns up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)

Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go"

Jesus, I must be part female then if thats the case......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Planned

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like short notice met but with people I have spoken to before

If I had already exchanged mail or met somebody before last minute meets work well for me, I wouldn't meet somebody I didn't know at all last minute

I find planned meets don't work, something always seems to come up and the meet cancelled before the date arrives

Plus if you plan a week or so in advance they still have time to keep looking and drop you if a better offer comes up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot"

You're such a romantic...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot

You're such a romantic..."

My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot

You're such a romantic...

My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks "

Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot

You're such a romantic...

My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks

Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?"

That's deep red, not purple. But I have a lot of dressing gowns, including two from the Covent Garden Dressing Gown Co.

Nice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We try for planned or at least have met them to see we get on. Saying that socials have lead to more on the night.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

I'm rubbish at planning something always happen to get in the way.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done spontaneous meets and with the exception of an MFM we did spontaneously, all my single male spontaneous meets have been not good.

Meets are just much better when you get to know someone first. And it feels a tiny bit safer too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot

You're such a romantic...

My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks

Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?

That's deep red, not purple. But I have a lot of dressing gowns, including two from the Covent Garden Dressing Gown Co.

Nice.

"

That is terrifically posh! Well it looks snuggly anyway, regardless of colour.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot

You're such a romantic...

My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks

Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?

That's deep red, not purple. But I have a lot of dressing gowns, including two from the Covent Garden Dressing Gown Co.

Nice.

That is terrifically posh! Well it looks snuggly anyway, regardless of colour. "

They are gorgeous. I've got one that's black and yellow and another that's red, green and brown.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Planned: after an exchange of messages and a social. Dodged many a bullet I can tell you!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planned: after an exchange of messages and a social. Dodged many a bullet I can tell you! "

This and sometimes we may not be their type either so it works better.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Planned meets and a social. But 4 times ive posted in meets today breaking all my rules and all 4 where brilliant but i wouldnt push my look

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abit of both, a planned meet, then if it continues they can become short notice and spontaneous, happend to me the other day, meet after a while of talking, then then the next had 2 messages and was there again within the hour, was very sexy actually

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prefer planned meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Planned"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top