FabSwingers.com forum: Can we have some MORE new blood in the forums please?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was going to give this the slightly more poetic thread name 'Shaking the Tree', but no one visits my threads when I give them nice names

I was fortunate enough to have a couple of women catch my eye on the last thread, so, lets see if I can encourage any further lovelies out of hiding...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some new gentleman all for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's up with the old gentlemen ?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nearly newbie!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will

Use the thread for new perving material

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Single men please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching this thread with interest

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

And where do you think you've been hmmmm the stick I've took because you didn't make a part 2 gsssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And where do you think you've been hmmmm the stick I've took because you didn't make a part 2 gsssss"

Moan moan moan, pmt time Bladey?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"What's up with the old gentlemen ?? Lol"
ive killed them all of thats why there is fresh blood needed

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"And where do you think you've been hmmmm the stick I've took because you didn't make a part 2 gsssss

Moan moan moan, pmt time Bladey?

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?"

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Pfffft

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Not so new , and not very female either

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?"

Stop copying me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Pfffft

What do you care anyway, you've turned now haven't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up with the old gentlemen ?? Lolive killed them all of thats why there is fresh blood needed

See, and in the last thread I said there were no newbies because I take their life force.

Between us there is little hope for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Stop copying me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Stop copying me

I'll tell on you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Pfffft

What do you care anyway, you've turned now haven't you

Only for miss lick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Pfffft

What do you care anyway, you've turned now haven't you

Turned as in gone to the other side.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

I'm a man. 1 out of 4 ain't bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Stop copying me

I'll tell on you

Tell who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And where do you think you've been hmmmm the stick I've took because you didn't make a part 2 gsssss"

dont ask jezebel to close another thread though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they turned you down then, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Got two of those, but what's sarky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Got two of those, but what's sarky?"

As in sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Got two of those, but what's sarky?"

It's a traditional Japanese rice wine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Got two of those, but what's sarky?

As in sarcastic

Hello,

Is it me your looking fooooor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think single men stay away from the forums, any slightly controversial comment or idea is immediately shot down by the forum police, plus most of the guys are on fab to get meets, forum usage wastes a lot of "copy & paste" time! Not that there is anything wrong with copy & paste, who would want to physically type hundreds of messages with very little chance of a reply? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Got two of those, but what's sarky?

It's a traditional Japanese rice wine."

Ah right, was reading in the wrong accent.

I'll pop down to the shop and get some.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm here jumping up and down wildly x I'd do cartwheels round the lounge but I never could so will just have to jump and wave to be a newbie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think single men stay away from the forums, any slightly controversial comment or idea is immediately shot down by the forum police"

Then fight back, make your point, address criticism and bollocks to those who disagree with you. The arseholes rule the roost because people let them.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Stop copying me

I'll tell on you

Tell who?"

Ghostbusters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Stop copying me

I'll tell on you

Tell who?

Ghostbusters?"

The male or female ones?

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It passes the time when it's a rubbish television viewing night.

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

"I'm here jumping up and down wildly x I'd do cartwheels round the lounge but I never could so will just have to jump and wave to be a newbie x"

You might have to shout over this lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It passes the time when it's a rubbish television viewing night."

I don't have a tv. I don't miss it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some new gentleman all for me please

now thats just being greedy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Am I having an attack of deja vu?

Stop copying me

I'll tell on you

Tell who?

Ghostbusters?

The male or female ones?"

The male ones

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By *odestyB007Woman
over a year ago

Winchester

sexybrain - If they caught your eye, why not message them hmf....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sexybrain - If they caught your eye, why not message them hmf....

I did, and one is rather nice...bit far away though, as is often the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sexybrain - If they caught your eye, why not message them hmf....

I did, and one is rather nice...bit far away though, as is often the case."

As is the want of many trying to use the forum for meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sexybrain - If they caught your eye, why not message them hmf....

I did, and one is rather nice...bit far away though, as is often the case.

As is the want of many trying to use the forum for meeting"

There are very few local women I fancy, and those who catch my eye are unresponsive. To be totally honest, I think online swinging is inherently flawed, and almost entirely pointless for single males.

Awaits predictable response...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

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you called lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bare necessities of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sexybrain - If they caught your eye, why not message them hmf....

I did, and one is rather nice...bit far away though, as is often the case.

As is the want of many trying to use the forum for meeting

Awaits predictable response..."

It's the same for many of us. I wouldn't dream of finding what i want from the forum.....hence why I'm mostly disagreeable..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bliney! Why a thread to post my first comment on!!

Single bloke with hard thighs here..... Just ask miss Watson!!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Waiting on the sidelines for a female post to agree with (single male playbook page 2)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new ish but I'm more of a reader than a contributor !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And autocorrect kills me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single man revealing himself right here....

Be nice, say hello xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with this

most of the site don't venture on to the forums. I dunno why.... everyone's charming

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lets give this another boost, the previous one seemed to reveal a few newcomers, but sadly they've gone again...

It's not enough to give a warm welcome, if you forget to freshen up their drinks while the party is still going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck with this

most of the site don't venture on to the forums. I dunno why.... everyone's charming

you reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all from sunny Scotland! Relatively new to the forums. Autocorrect loves me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello everyone from the sunny shire! Just started using the forums, so basically a newbie lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Hello everyone from the sunny shire! Just started using the forums, so basically a newbie lol"

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sort of new and learning a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What qualifies a newbie?

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

perving is good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new, is it any good this place then ?

I've heard the birds are gagging for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink needing refreshed up in sunny aberdeen

Not a Newby but been forum lurking with occasional comments over the last few years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sort of new and learning a lot."

new(ish) name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sort of new and learning a lot.

new(ish) name?

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"perving is good x"

We sort of new lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More of the female kind please.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Nah.

Orf with their heads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll pretend to be new if you like.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I took me a long time to join in with the forums, so many newbies seem to get shot down or beaten up with written text.

Is it a surprise that people don't join in with the threads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I took me a long time to join in with the forums, so many newbies seem to get shot down or beaten up with written text.

Is it a surprise that people don't join in with the threads?

Mostly if they're single males, a good looking woman will usually be welcomed with open arms - by myself included, though my interest will end swiftly if I don't find her character intriguing also.

Single males who want to use the forums regularly will have to learn how to stand their ground and fight back against all the sniping, especially if they're open about their desire to find sexual partners on here and not just chit chat, there's a strong element of the social club here, outsiders aren't welcome.

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"I took me a long time to join in with the forums, so many newbies seem to get shot down or beaten up with written text.

Is it a surprise that people don't join in with the threads?

Exactly what I said last time there was an newbie appeal. A lot of the time, the original question/point gets hidden/lost amongst the general chit chat from the regulars, who pretty much ignore the rest of us anyway, so I tend to lose interest in joining in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can but try. I'm very trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to get someone I've been speaking to to use the forums because he's funny and think he would give good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooohhhhhhhh do I smell fresh meat??

Welcome, welcome!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Always good to see new people here but sad so many think we ignore you. I know I for 1 do try to welcome anyone new male or female. If you don't join in this place will die so please post post and post some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooooohhhhhhhh do I smell fresh meat??

Welcome, welcome!

Is that a sexual hunter coming out searching for prey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello to all.....well I guess you'd class is as new blood, given that we only joined last week lol......we've been waiting and waiting for the time to tick down before the site would let us loose on the forums haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made a couple of posts but kinda a forum newbie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi newbie here ...i do tend to use forums more than chat to be honest.

I tend to hide well n comment inbetween laughing at threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped trying to join in with these threads recently as they seem very clicky and newbies as I was then, just seem to be ignored,,sorry but it does feel a little like that sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been dipping in to the forum a lil bit. Just the occasional comment, or contrubution now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've stopped trying to join in with these threads recently as they seem very clicky and newbies as I was then, just seem to be ignored,,sorry but it does feel a little like that sometimes "

Think of it more like starting a new job where the people all sort of know each other and have little jokes etc. Some have even fucked each other. Once you get used to it and people get used to you, it becomes easier to interact.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"I've stopped trying to join in with these threads recently as they seem very clicky and newbies as I was then, just seem to be ignored,,sorry but it does feel a little like that sometimes "

Oh it's not, they're a lovely bunch really...just bring cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be like a baptism of fire sometimes.

Especially if you have a strong personality and don't take any shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to quote anyone due to the limited amount of responses each thread can have, especially if it seems like it's going to be a popular thread. I do acknowledge and read every comment though. If you notice I'm more inclined to quote or converse with someone that's trying to argue with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try not to quote anyone due to the limited amount of responses each thread can have, especially if it seems like it's going to be a popular thread. I do acknowledge and read every comment though. If you notice I'm more inclined to quote or converse with someone that's trying to argue with me. "

Oh be quiet tea bags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've stopped trying to join in with these threads recently as they seem very clicky and newbies as I was then, just seem to be ignored,,sorry but it does feel a little like that sometimes "

This goes for me too. Posted a few comments here and there but gone back to lurking

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

I'm an experienced newbie. Does that count?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've been dipping in to the forum a lil bit. Just the occasional comment, or contrubution now and then"

Wow, dip in more often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started posting in here ...taken me 9 months to start though ....got some catching up to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh be quiet tea bags

See this can be construed as cliquey!

I like to consider myself a lone bag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be like a baptism of fire sometimes.

Especially if you have a strong personality and don't take any shit.

No it can be a baptism of fire if you're a dick and talk shit! If you have strong personality you'll be welcomed. Being aggressive and argumentative isn't a strong personality it's a toxic personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been dipping in to the forum a lil bit. Just the occasional comment, or contrubution now and then

Wow, dip in more often!

Oh, well if you insist Ma'am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh be quiet tea bags

See this can be construed as cliquey!

I like to consider myself a lone bag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be like a baptism of fire sometimes.

Especially if you have a strong personality and don't take any shit.

You have two choices in here.

You either shy away from posting in the forums because of feeling your going to get put down etc as mentioned by people earlier in this thread.

Or you stand your ground which can results in some heated exchanges of words. That doesn't make that person automatically a dick or aggressive for standing up for themselves.

Some people can't be arsed with the drama that can arise by posting in the forums and that's why they don't post in them anymore as they have already mentioned on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

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By *dam123321Man
over a year ago

London

New blood here, east London all you lovely people

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Fresh meat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw him first Joe

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By *dam123321Man
over a year ago

London

Not sure if yous two are talking about me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There are so many people that come and go and change names that I never know who is new and who isn't.

Makes no odds to me. New or Not..... it's a forum.

As for getting ignored or shot down - it's mostly perception in a situation of uncertainty.

There are a few human beings

who put the feelings of others first.

Just a few mind

and probably not the ones repeatedly screaming how lovely they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are so many people that come and go and change names that I never know who is new and who isn't.

Makes no odds to me. New or Not..... it's a forum.

As for getting ignored or shot down - it's mostly perception in a situation of uncertainty.

There are a few human beings

who put the feelings of others first.

Just a few mind

and probably not the ones repeatedly screaming how lovely they are. "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"There are so many people that come and go and change names that I never know who is new and who isn't.

Makes no odds to me. New or Not..... it's a forum.

As for getting ignored or shot down - it's mostly perception in a situation of uncertainty.

There are a few human beings

who put the feelings of others first.

Just a few mind

and probably not the ones repeatedly screaming how lovely they are. "

You don't half talk some sense some times

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

And then there are those who seem new, but aren't.

I see right through those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've stopped trying to join in with these threads recently as they seem very clicky and newbies as I was then, just seem to be ignored,,sorry but it does feel a little like that sometimes "

If there was an option to 'Like' posts I think many people would be pleasantly surprised that they are noticed and liked.

I like lots of posts but usually just comment on one. I don't pay much attention to who said it though- unless I find myself agreeing (or disagreeing) too much with one person, in case they think I'm a mad stalker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've stopped trying to join in with these threads recently as they seem very clicky and newbies as I was then, just seem to be ignored,,sorry but it does feel a little like that sometimes

If there was an option to 'Like' posts I think many people would be pleasantly surprised that they are noticed and liked.

You can stalk me as much as you want

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading."

Totally agree the forums have become a closed shop for the "in Crowd" only. I can't believe you are calling for new blood when anyone new is ignored or shouted down by the so called regulars who own the forums holding court over anyone new who dares to encroach on their territory.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

Nobody owns the forums they are here for anyone who chooses to use them and if you find my post up there somewhere you see my comments about the place dying unless more join in. There's not a lot more I can say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

A bit like this thread then? I see a few newcomers popping up here and then, but otherwise, it's the same old same old, saying the same old same old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I join in when and if I can, but only on certain threads that interest me. I tend not to be looking to meet anyone from the forums, or anywhere else, so its not that agenda for me. An interesting debate is ... often get fed up with people taking things personally and rude people who resort to personal insults, that's from someone who has been on the forums for a year .... more rude people here than ever and less who can have a proper debate without it getting personal. I haven't red the whole thread, so its not aimed at anyone in particular, in case anyone thinks it is

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hi all from sunny Scotland! Relatively new to the forums. Autocorrect loves me ! "

Sunny Scotland isn't something you can say often

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"New blood here, east London all you lovely people

G'day Adam.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hello everyone from the sunny shire! Just started using the forums, so basically a newbie lol"

Hi. I like poetry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

I agree with you and the rest of the posts similar to yours on this thread.

But there are some who will disagree with what you've said and refuse to believe what you say is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

I wouldn't say the forums are dying, however there is certainly a dearth of decent conversation. If you look through the threads that are there at the moment and they are mostly quite banal.

My opinion is that this is a consequence of many people not wishing to start a thread of any substance because they know they will be shouted down and personally insulted along with their profile ripped to shreds.

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

I've always found that forum life takes time to bed yourself in properly. If you walked up to a group of people in a real life situation who all knew each other well and instantly tried to become too familiar with them they would react defensively.

You have to do it gradually and gracefully, and actively work towards not pissing people off by demanding to be included.

That's my take on it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

I've been on here for years and people have said similar for as long as I can remember

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not exactly new here but I tend to post and sod the consequences - albeit living within the site rules. I don't intend in life to do anything other than respect others and realise that I'm never going to be everyones' cup of tea.

It's great to see old and new people posting - you get to know people a little more this way. Perhaps the site could offer those - perhaps annoying - popups or something, that would inform users that Fab has a great Forum. This would likely get more into the area, though I think only validated users can actually post here.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Most people don't have the time to constantly be on here, so when you do make the odd comment it usually gets ignored as it gets swamped in the regulars backwards and forwards posts.

Most of the threads are full of the one liners which really should be in PMs. For those not involved in the regulars in jokes it makes for very boring reading.

I wouldn't say the forums are dying, however there is certainly a dearth of decent conversation. If you look through the threads that are there at the moment and they are mostly quite banal.

I love threads with a bit of substance, about issues surrounding swinging though ... not about politics in general. But, things get very personal, people take offense and start name calling or can't follow through on their point .... I don't start too many threads because I am so on and off here .... I agree there seems to be a core of people who post on the more 'banal' but they are here for the social community the forums bring, even if its a virtual one.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Or have buggar all better to do with their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not exactly new here but I tend to post and sod the consequences - albeit living within the site rules. I don't intend in life to do anything other than respect others and realise that I'm never going to be everyones' cup of tea.

Like alot of people on here I've stopped making threads now as can't be bothered with the hassle. I just post a bit on other peoples threads and that's it now .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Or have buggar all better to do with their time."

About that ripping people to shreds thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums lurker here....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Forums lurker here....

xx"

Hi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like alot of people on here I've stopped making threads now as can't be bothered with the hassle. I just post a bit on other peoples threads and that's it now ."

But then they've won.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Like alot of people on here I've stopped making threads now as can't be bothered with the hassle. I just post a bit on other peoples threads and that's it now ."

Same here

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

same people posting same shit threads everyday

kiss fuck avoid

compliment the poster above

is squirting real

blah blah blah kindergarten stuff by supposedly adults.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"same people posting same shit threads everyday

kiss fuck avoid

compliment the poster above

is squirting real

blah blah blah kindergarten stuff by supposedly adults."

Haven't seen a squirting one for a while though ... they get too personal these days

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

I've always thought of the cam rooms as being like Facebook and the forums as being more akin to Twitter.

In any case, it's the same shit - just a different day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they are only welcomed once

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be a thread killer....!!every time I post up something, I'm always the last person to comment, wtf like!! Rip this thread now!!!!!

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"I seem to be a thread killer....!!every time I post up something, I'm always the last person to comment, wtf like!! Rip this thread now!!!!! "

I know how you feel, it is because you are not one of the hitler fraternity here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to be a thread killer....!!every time I post up something, I'm always the last person to comment, wtf like!! Rip this thread now!!!!!

I know how you feel, it is because you are not one of the hitler fraternity here."
my point exactly and if you have an opinion and it doesn't match the others well you struggle

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Opinions are like arseholes...

...everybody has one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opinions are like arseholes...

...everybody has one."
not everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opinions are like arseholes...

...everybody has one. not everyone "

Not everyone has as arsehole

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

It is about time the mods and admin here listened to the many instead of the few who seem to think they can rule the forums with their high horse views, every new poster I see here is shouted down by a member who seems to think they have a god given right to be here. Yes i will risk the ban for the the ordinary member who just wants to be accepted and not attacked by the spelling police or the moral society or the the lets play a stupid bloody game cos I am sad brigade. Nuff said.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

"Opinions are like arseholes...

...everybody has one. not everyone "

Not everyone has an arsehole?

I suppose that explains the shit that comes out of some people's mouths...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opinions are like arseholes...

...everybody has one. not everyone

Not everyone has an arsehole?

I suppose that explains the shit that comes out of some people's mouths..."
people have opinions just not arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is about time the mods and admin here listened to the many instead of the few who seem to think they can rule the forums with their high horse views, every new poster I see here is shouted down by a member who seems to think they have a god given right to be here. Yes i will risk the ban for the the ordinary member who just wants to be accepted and not attacked by the spelling police or the moral society or the the lets play a stupid bloody game cos I am sad brigade. Nuff said."
this is correct tbh X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here two years now (new pro same name) and I've always enjoyed the forums even when as a newbie I struggled to be heard/seen. Some times I still struggle now but the best advice I was given was to persevere as it does take time to be noticed on here. But don't think that is unique to this forum because it isn't. In fact it's often said that fab has some of the internets friendliest members and I do belive that is true because let's face it to be a swinger is to be trusting to those who you are inviting into the most personal aspects of your life.

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this site

i love swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been here two years now (new pro same name) and I've always enjoyed the forums even when as a newbie I struggled to be heard/seen. Some times I still struggle now but the best advice I was given was to persevere as it does take time to be noticed on here. But don't think that is unique to this forum because it isn't. In fact it's often said that fab has some of the internets friendliest members and I do belive that is true because let's face it to be a swinger is to be trusting to those who you are inviting into the most personal aspects of your life.

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx"
who says fab has the friendliest users ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx who says fab has the friendliest users ?"

Fab has SOME of the friendlest members.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx"

Those aren't the limbs I want to be open...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx

Those aren't the limbs I want to be open..."

Pervert

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx who says fab has the friendliest users ?

Fab has SOME of the friendlest members."
it must be true!!! The moon is made of cheese

I could only hear that fab has the most friendly members on a post about unfriendly members

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Pervert

xxx"

Guilty as charged, your honour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx"

Who decides if we're likeable or not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx

Who decides if we're likeable or not though

"
the friendly ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx

Who decides if we're likeable or not though

The forum clique of course

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx

Who decides if we're likeable or not though

the friendly ones

That clears that up then, thanks

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

So newbies persevere with the forums because those of you who are likeable will be welcomed in with open arms. Xxx

Who decides if we're likeable or not though

The forum clique of course

xxx"
i find the forums have the better people on fab, people with something to say, not your type you get in your inbox, hi x , meet now, etc. as for clique we all started at one point new to forums, and dont be bothered if your likeable or not, you probably never meet them all in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the newbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame people feel put off from posting on the forums as it's nice to have new topics and debates from other people rather than the same ones.

As when it's the same people posting the same things over and over again the forums become stale and stagnant.

Have you noticed people are recently resorting to resurrecting old threads out of sheer boredom in the forums?

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"same people posting same shit threads everyday

kiss fuck avoid

compliment the poster above

is squirting real

blah blah blah kindergarten stuff by supposedly adults."

Yep, totally agree ...oh and don't forget the braggers, certain site members seem to feel the need to boast continuously. I thought that was what Facebook was for

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"same people posting same shit threads everyday

kiss fuck avoid

compliment the poster above

is squirting real

blah blah blah kindergarten stuff by supposedly adults.

Yep, totally agree ...oh and don't forget the braggers, certain site members seem to feel the need to boast continuously. I thought that was what Facebook was for

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't posted for about a week or so... Does that count?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Give up carry on bitching folks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"A lot of the time, the original question/point gets hidden/lost amongst the general chit chat from the regulars, who pretty much ignore the rest of us anyway, so I tend to lose interest in joining in x"

That's the part it's best to join in with, the banal chat and banter

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

What do frogs do when they die? Croak?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If someone new wants to join in in the forums they will.

If they are interesting or funny or in some way engaging they will enjoy it.

If they are negative types who expect red carpet treatment and whinge if they don't get it then they won't.

It's life, it's like being the new kid at school or starting anew job. No one is interested in you unless you are interesting back.

That's how I see it

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if we're putting requests in ~ funny, sarky men with hard thighs please

Got two of those, but what's sarky?

It's a traditional Japanese rice wine."

I actually just lol-ed, ok... It was more of a snort!

I'm new in these parts! Hellooooooo

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'd not say no to some new and gorgeous men though

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