FabSwingers.com forum: Lust & Fantasy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would anyone else say that lust and fantasy are as, if not more important than sexual acts themselves?

I find when Im with a girl, I love to watch her playing with herself for ages before I even touch her. Its almost as though the more and longer the tease, the more intense the final pleasure when you do touch.

Taking this a step further, you could apply it to what we do on this site. The teasing, the chase, the not getting, is almost as important as the final getting. The ying to its yang. Without the desire, I wonder if the getting would be as good.

I wonder to what extent porn stars find sex, and what they are doing enjoyable and a total thrill in comparison to what us wankers (sorry maybe speaking for myself), fantasise their experiences are like.

I did once hear that some peoples fantasies never match up to their expectations when they finally achieve them.

Im not saying that not getting it at all would be a thrill, but I am conscious of the fact that lust and desire plays an important role, I just wonder to what extent!

Sorry for the ramble!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i believe there is more to the act than penetration....

too many ways to enjoy each other to concentrate solely on that