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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that bi guys you think aren't as much accepted as the bi woman ?,Id say it's a little narrow minded of some to say concidrring were all swingers .The only time some bi guys are accepted is when there known individually and not as a whole like gay community .We all have bi gay straight friends they accept who one another is .So why not majority of people whats your view upon this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is down to the simple fact women are far more ok with admitting the idea excites them... in society its become quite ok... even cool to be a bi female yet for the majority of guys they see to admit is a weakness and furthermore they would be outcast in someway.

My gut feeling... there's as many bi guys as there are bi females.... just when it comes to bi guys very few like to admit it.... the amount of guys I've been with who just did it because they are d*unk etc is quite amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am bi and dont have a problem with bi men. i just think that its all sexual fun and a case of fun what or who ever with.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

unfortunately its one of those areas where society has conflicting views ...

just ask a guy who is fantasising about a 3 some which of his mates he's going to bring to play - and watch the reaction ! A generalisation i know, but representative of far more of jo public than not.

its the same lines as guys who play lots are studs and girls who do are whores .

change does come ..we've seen huge strides forward in how the gay and lesbian communities are seen , but its a slow process especially when you dont fit neatly into a box that can be easily labelled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well ladys interesting replys wandered when you would all bite .Cant say I have any quibbles in admitance myself though very interesting answers thankyou .Yeah I feel a lot of guys fear what there friends or familly will say or how they'll be treated for a while it was such a guy thing to fantasize about beingbwith two girls being gay bi whatever but now there seems to have been an opposite reaction where as females like to see guys getting it on

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I didn't see anyone biting, just answering your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that bi guys you think aren't as much accepted as the bi woman ?,Id say it's a little narrow minded of some to say concidrring were all swingers .The only time some bi guys are accepted is when there known individually and not as a whole like gay community .We all have bi gay straight friends they accept who one another is .So why not majority of people whats your view upon this ? "

What many people, men in couples seem to think that Bi blokes will want to play with them, the man. It's all to do with the pre play chat, what you want to happen and don't etc...

So straight men in couples, if you want to meet a bi blokes as part of a 3sum, just make sure they know your not wanting any bi fun simple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no great shakes to put on your profile something along the lines of:

"Hubby isn't bi but isn't bi-phobic about it either. Respect that we're happy to meet bi-guys as well as straight ones."

To be bisexual means that one likes to play with both sexes, but it isn't mandatory. As a bisexual man it would mortify me to think that a straight guy thinks I'm going to force myself upon him or try and shove my cock in his mouth. If he isn't getting anything from it, neither am I.

We can play with straight couples and be as straight as they are, although we have met one couple where the fem was bi and wasn't having any of it when Siren said she wasn't. She laughingly joked that Siren hadn't been licked till she been licked by a woman and proceeded to demonstrate. It did sod all for us and we never saw them again.

Bigirls can be more forceful than anyone else in this scene, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....profile something along the lines of:."

Oh off to change profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no great shakes to put on your profile something along the lines of:

"Hubby isn't bi but isn't bi-phobic about it either. Respect that we're happy to meet bi-guys as well as straight ones."

To be bisexual means that one likes to play with both sexes, but it isn't mandatory. As a bisexual man it would mortify me to think that a straight guy thinks I'm going to force myself upon him or try and shove my cock in his mouth. If he isn't getting anything from it, neither am I.

We can play with straight couples and be as straight as they are, although we have met one couple where the fem was bi and wasn't having any of it when Siren said she wasn't. She laughingly joked that Siren hadn't been licked till she been licked by a woman and proceeded to demonstrate. It did sod all for us and we never saw them again.

Bigirls can be more forceful than anyone else in this scene, sometimes."

Can't agree more, and it seems there are several guys in couples who do think a bi guy is automatically gonna try to f*ck them etc... some guys take a very narrow view point and fail to understand often to bi or gay guys they are simply not attractive.

Nice post!

:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some psychological basis in men's bisexuality being a turn off too. There was a study which rated men and women's 'excitement' when watching different types of porn. Women had roughly the same excitement levels when watching straight, lesbian and gay porn, whereas straight men were turned off by the gay porn and gay men were turned off by the lesbian porn. I don't think anyone will doubt that there's something weird about how a man's mind works!

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Why is it that bi guys you think aren't as much accepted as the bi woman ?,Id say it's a little narrow minded of some to say concidrring were all swingers .The only time some bi guys are accepted is when there known individually and not as a whole like gay community .We all have bi gay straight friends they accept who one another is .So why not majority of people whats your view upon this ? "

I have a theory that many men are a little intimidated with another guy around when naked. Not just in swinging but all round. The number of men that get distressed if you invade there personal space in a rugby changing room is alarming.

At the end of the day it’s a choice thing. Personally I have no issues with other men about but it really doesn’t do anything at all for me seeing another naked man. I do appreciate the art of fucking and how another man performs but hey 99% of us wach chick flicks so that’s pretty normal I figure.

Maybe it is a lack of confidence on some peoples minds that make them a little uppity with bi guys. “don’t touch me as I might like it”. I guess its easy for me not to get my hair off as im naturally assertive and was in the forces for a while. Now that’s naked men all together lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's such a shame that bi-guys get excluded or put down...

Personally, I'm very happy in the company of Bi guys, they are open-minded, easy to talk to and are usually a lot of fun - and I don't mind playing with them...

Sad to say, but my experience tells me that in comparison straight men are nearly always narrow-minded, act as if woman are just here to please them, and are above all just plain utterly boring! Can't even remember the last time a straight guy turned me on...

So please, bi-guys - know that it isn't the whole world that's against you...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"It's no great shakes to put on your profile something along the lines of:

"Hubby isn't bi but isn't bi-phobic about it either. Respect that we're happy to meet bi-guys as well as straight ones."

To be bisexual means that one likes to play with both sexes, but it isn't mandatory. As a bisexual man it would mortify me to think that a straight guy thinks I'm going to force myself upon him or try and shove my cock in his mouth. If he isn't getting anything from it, neither am I.

We can play with straight couples and be as straight as they are, although we have met one couple where the fem was bi and wasn't having any of it when Siren said she wasn't. She laughingly joked that Siren hadn't been licked till she been licked by a woman and proceeded to demonstrate. It did sod all for us and we never saw them again.

Bigirls can be more forceful than anyone else in this scene, sometimes."

We have found bi guys the same wishy. The amount of mails we get telling us that the Mr doesn't know what he is missing is unbelievable.

What they and anyone should realise, it doesn't turn him on, he can't see it ever turning him on, so in turn doesn't want to try it.

As for the women in your 4some, wow, there is someone who didn't know what the word boundaries meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lmao. Very well said annivixan

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's no great shakes to put on your profile something along the lines of:

"Hubby isn't bi but isn't bi-phobic about it either. Respect that we're happy to meet bi-guys as well as straight ones."

To be bisexual means that one likes to play with both sexes, but it isn't mandatory. As a bisexual man it would mortify me to think that a straight guy thinks I'm going to force myself upon him or try and shove my cock in his mouth. If he isn't getting anything from it, neither am I.

We can play with straight couples and be as straight as they are, although we have met one couple where the fem was bi and wasn't having any of it when Siren said she wasn't. She laughingly joked that Siren hadn't been licked till she been licked by a woman and proceeded to demonstrate. It did sod all for us and we never saw them again.

Bigirls can be more forceful than anyone else in this scene, sometimes."

Had somthing similar on profile for ages we find it comical when we get mail saying "Sorry wife isn't Bi, so were not what your looking for"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's such a shame that bi-guys get excluded or put down...

Personally, I'm very happy in the company of Bi guys, they are open-minded, easy to talk to and are usually a lot of fun - and I don't mind playing with them...

Sad to say, but my experience tells me that in comparison straight men are nearly always narrow-minded, act as if woman are just here to please them, and are above all just plain utterly boring! Can't even remember the last time a straight guy turned me on...

So please, bi-guys - know that it isn't the whole world that's against you...

"

No ones suggesting the world is against... Not for a Minute. Some of the funniest nicest people we know are Bi.. I just don't fancy dabbling simple as lol.

As for straight being boring... Thats narrow minded pmsl!

So being Bi suddenly makes you Mr funster ff's lol... Thats a new one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok let's not get to serious & nasty here alright everyone has there own views as we all know chill gosh LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you define "Bi"? If you count sucking the cum of 2 guys from a womans pussy and giving it to her in a kiss being Bi - then I am defo 'Bi'..! How about being alongside a guy while your cocks are being sucked simultaneously? Or DP? It's all about what turns ppl on - end-of..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hmmm your profile says you have a scence of humour did you lose that somewhere omg cmon people yesterdays news thread is old move on LOL darn some of you are so cranky today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you're right - must be cos it's Monday..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well whatever it is snap outa it LOL ah Monday blues has struck and targeted LOL cheer up soon be weekend again hehe Think you should say upon your pro though that your numerous bar Mondays I'm cranky lmao later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's such a shame that bi-guys get excluded or put down...

Personally, I'm very happy in the company of Bi guys, they are open-minded, easy to talk to and are usually a lot of fun - and I don't mind playing with them...

Sad to say, but my experience tells me that in comparison straight men are nearly always narrow-minded, act as if woman are just here to please them, and are above all just plain utterly boring! Can't even remember the last time a straight guy turned me on...

So please, bi-guys - know that it isn't the whole world that's against you...

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