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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

after a bad few weeks with 2 no shows and 2 meets where the couldn't be bothered to phone and say yes we are on etc

ive decided to have a break for a few days as i have wasted so much time like booking annual leave and changing plans on my Birthday when he didnt show

Am i wrong to stay on the site while i take a break as i'm being slated for it in chat

(not by the regs who i talk to BTW)

people saying if you aren't meeting leave the site

just curious am i so wrong to want a few days break before i start the process again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after a bad few weeks with 2 no shows and 2 meets where the couldn't be bothered to phone and say yes we are on etc

ive decided to have a break for a few days as i have wasted so much time like booking annual leave and changing plans on my Birthday when he didnt show

Am i wrong to stay on the site while i take a break as i'm being slated for it in chat

(not by the regs who i talk to BTW)

people saying if you aren't meeting leave the site

just curious am i so wrong to want a few days break before i start the process again "
ignore them you dont have to lots take a break but still like chatting on the forums and to friends

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Who cares what other people think? Use the site how you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely its up to you who and when and if you want to meet , leaving or not leaving the site is your decision not someone who you decide not to meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after a bad few weeks with 2 no shows and 2 meets where the couldn't be bothered to phone and say yes we are on etc

ive decided to have a break for a few days as i have wasted so much time like booking annual leave and changing plans on my Birthday when he didnt show

Am i wrong to stay on the site while i take a break as i'm being slated for it in chat

(not by the regs who i talk to BTW)

people saying if you aren't meeting leave the site

just curious am i so wrong to want a few days break before i start the process again "

We've had times like these only too often , no shows and rude behaviour can be very demoralising. We had times when we just werent in the right place mentally to meet, but i think this is when you need the support of those you regularly chat too.

So what if you're not meeting for a bit, your still a swinger in your own head arent you, its your business no-one elses at what pace you take these things, so id say , have a break and do whatever keeps you happy n sane xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you need support, I just think you need to ignore them. Can't understand why anyone would suggest someone left the site. Unless it's some jealous person trying to get rid of the competition lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If people concentrated as much on their own fun on here rather than worrying about how other people use the site im sure a lot more of them would be having a better time

Its your profile and its up to you what you do with it or how you use the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive taken breaks before and just put for forums only on my profile headline, ignore every one else, just carry on having fun, you don't have to meet if you don't want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for this

yes i still like the buzz of meeting someone new with that 1st touch kiss etc

i just think after the last few weeks i need some time out

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I don't see any thing wrong with not meeting. You have it posted on your page so I don't think its a big deal at all

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By *eppersCouple
over a year ago

telford

You stay right hear brummie, and sod the rest, You gotta go and recharge batteries, we all understand that but it don't mean you have to leave to doit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s some right desperate people on here that think if you’re not free 24/7 to meet you should be here, just ignore them and use the site for you and nobody else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after a bad few weeks with 2 no shows and 2 meets where the couldn't be bothered to phone and say yes we are on etc

ive decided to have a break for a few days as i have wasted so much time like booking annual leave and changing plans on my Birthday when he didnt show

Am i wrong to stay on the site while i take a break as i'm being slated for it in chat

(not by the regs who i talk to BTW)

people saying if you aren't meeting leave the site

just curious am i so wrong to want a few days break before i start the process again "

play don't play, your choice everyone's choice, we all have times when we like to slow down. Take na bliddy notice of em, they are just "hard cheesers".

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off "

are you mad? don't ever let anyone badger you into doing anything you really don't want to do

No wonder you're fed up with it at the moment if you're allowing yourself to meet people you don't want to just becasue they've pestered you

thats not fun at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off "

You are lovely, you take your time and take your choice of the best this site has to offer. Make friends first, if peeps are in a hurry it's not going to be much fun. Anyway guys you treat mean are always more keen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off

are you mad? don't ever let anyone badger you into doing anything you really don't want to do

No wonder you're fed up with it at the moment if you're allowing yourself to meet people you don't want to just becasue they've pestered you

thats not fun at all "

i think that helped me decide that i fall for so much shit on here BUT NO MORE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some folk that only use this site for the forums and chat...and that's ok.

my profile is hidden for the same reason, i have no intention of meeting anyone and i don't want anyone to misunderstand that and if i relied on writing it on my profile in neons, there are still those that wouldn't read it

it's your page. ignore anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute bollocks, hide your profile until you want to come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off "

I would have blocked him from my phone and here, ive got a lot stronger as time has gone on, i wont stand for nonesense from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after a bad few weeks with 2 no shows and 2 meets where the couldn't be bothered to phone and say yes we are on etc

ive decided to have a break for a few days as i have wasted so much time like booking annual leave and changing plans on my Birthday when he didnt show

Am i wrong to stay on the site while i take a break as i'm being slated for it in chat

(not by the regs who i talk to BTW)

people saying if you aren't meeting leave the site

just curious am i so wrong to want a few days break before i start the process again "

HEY no stay. I enjoy our chats (and your pics). I have not yet had a meet but i enjoy the social side of the site. I have made many good friends in the few months i have been on the site, you included.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off

I would have blocked him from my phone and here, ive got a lot stronger as time has gone on, i wont stand for nonesense from anyone "

as soon as my contract phone is up for renewal i will get a new phone number and use this one for my other one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have been here for months and months without a meet.....should we ask all them to leave the site too? NO. Socialising and chatting is fun, lets you get to know others and make friendships which may be great meets when you decide to play again. xxx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"after a bad few weeks with 2 no shows and 2 meets where the couldn't be bothered to phone and say yes we are on etc

ive decided to have a break for a few days as i have wasted so much time like booking annual leave and changing plans on my Birthday when he didnt show

Am i wrong to stay on the site while i take a break as i'm being slated for it in chat

(not by the regs who i talk to BTW)

people saying if you aren't meeting leave the site

just curious am i so wrong to want a few days break before i start the process again "

nothing wrong with that at all become a window shopper for a while and use the time to pick potential reliables i say .

There is no viable excuse with modern communications for not letting people know you cant make it ..i hope you blocked em ...unless that excuse involved being in hospital or bereavement of course

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You do what you want jac. Ive often taken a break from meeting then gotten back into. Sometimes a break is what we need sometimes. Sorry to here about your no showsxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for this

yes i still like the buzz of meeting someone new with that 1st touch kiss etc

i just think after the last few weeks i need some time out

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We all need time out sometimes sweets. I'm not meeting at the moment but I'm staying on here and those that know me know the reason. I'm just chatting and on the forums. It's not all about meets. Bollocks to them in chat. You stay sweets. Hope all works out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares what other people think? Use the site how you want to."

*Nods in agreement*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im happy meeting when i want to and hate people having a pop at me

on monday someone called me a time waster as i didn't want to meet as someone had a heart attack at work and died aged 45

so in the end after him badgering me on text i met him had a drink and went and i was right his pestering turned me right off "

Huh?!! Sorry...I don't understand this at all. Instead of blocking and ignoring you met someone you didn't want to?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Jac but if someone hassled me via text for a meet that would be creepy. I'd phone my operator and get him blocked. I certainly wouldnt have met him even to make a point that I wasn't a timewaster. Who gives a fuck what he thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever you want re: leaving/hiding your profile etc., and sod those who cannot accept everyone's needs and wants out of FAB or the swinging lifestyle is different!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive reworded my profile and im going to listen to the advice and take note

people that are like this with me arent worth me giving them a time of day

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

ffs some people are just twunts,meet once a year or once a week.i received abuse elsewhere for saying i meet without knowing names...just ignore the judgemental idiots and do what makes you happy

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