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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it right for a woman my age to entertain men in there twenties and thirties ,i just cant bring myself to meet them,i get asked all the time ,but would feel like a mother figure,anyone else feel like that.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If its wrong I dont want to be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Pam its up to you who you get intimate with personal choice xxxx age is only a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah - weve played with people in those age brackets - consenting adults is just that - keep enjoying it xx

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Only do what you are comfortable with , everyone has there own personal limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it right for a woman my age to entertain men in there twenties and thirties ,i just cant bring myself to meet them,i get asked all the time ,but would feel like a mother figure,anyone else feel like that."

Not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I raised this the other day and was told by the majority it's got fuck all to do with me

I think it's sad that older ladies set age limits so young

An ego thing

Then moan about wanting men not boys

Grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not wrong but not something I would do.....same as you get asked all the time. My eldest two kids are in their 20,s so really not for me

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Of course not. You certainly aren't old and the guys are grown ups fully capable of making their choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish i could but my head tells me Nooooo,i have nephews in their twenties,and just feel it would be wrong,and what do guys of that age what a 58 year old for,when there are lots of young ladies on here.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Forget the age and just look at the pics...If you like what you see then go for it and have fun...The guys will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not wrong but not something I would do.....same as you get asked all the time. My eldest two kids are in their 20,s so really not for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to say not the age of my kids but theyre getting older so now it so long as theyre not local and possibly a friend of my kids - have played with a lady very close to the age of one of mine - and it was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has never been much if an issue with me....it depends on the person and their own maturity....I've had fun with 19-68 in the past couple of years....no worries.

Just go with what your own gut feeling tells you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op , if you think it's wrong , then clearly it is for you .

But to generalise and say it's wrong is far from the truth . Plenty of older women love to play with younger guys , and they love it too .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forget the age and just look at the pics...If you like what you see then go for it and have fun...The guys will

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Ive looked and ive looked and they are gorgeous but i cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your head says no then your answer is no, don't do anything you are uncomfortable with.

Personally I don't look at age, just if I'm attracted to someone but everyone is different.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose."

no it isnt obvious

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

There is nothing wrong in it - just do what you are comfortable with

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose."

Not at all. I've been in 'contest' with younger, slimmer ladies and they have chosen me

Fook knows why in my case though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When i go on a meet i like to have conversation to ,what could i chat to a twenty year old about lol,not saying they would be intelligent mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose.

Not at all. I've been in 'contest' with younger, slimmer ladies and they have chosen me

Fook knows why in my case though!

It's the hair

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose."

not with all no, some will yes and some will for a myriad of reasons not be attracted to the younger lady..

same with some older/younger men and women..

we are a 'fickle' bunch us humans but it makes us all the more interesting for it..

go with how you feel, with whom you are comfortable with etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what ever you feel comfortable with! I'm 30 and I personally won't go younger than 23/24 (too close to teens for my liking) or older than 47 (coz that's how old my mum is!) x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose."

Well the amount that message me on here they can't be that choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its only wrong if your a guy that likes younger ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes but I'm 58 and a bbw lol so if Kate moss was stood next to me ,he would pick me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the younger guys...some younger than my Son...seems bad but... he knows and doesn't care as long as I am happy .... I like them n they like me so....is all harmless fun....although if you had told me I would be doing this a year ago I woulda told ya to not be so daft....who knew!!??!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I have seen lots of pictures online of old women having sex with young lads, its no big deal. Sometimes they chat with you for ages on here arrange a meet, then you don't hear from them again anyway, same as you do with other men on here. For all we know they could be taking the piss and sitting in a room with their mates, pretending they want to meet you. I have met a few nice young men in the past but maybe I was just lucky then, they aren't going to all be nice.

Some men on here could be sending you messages when they are d*unk.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose.

Not at all. I've been in 'contest' with younger, slimmer ladies and they have chosen me

Fook knows why in my case though!

you have a great arse..?

think the stereotypes we are bombarded with as being the 'beautiful' ones and therefore they are 'sexy and desired' is apart of a bigger issue but its one that many aspire to hence it sells..

most of it is twaddle..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have seen lots of pictures online of old women having sex with young lads, its no big deal. Sometimes they chat with you for ages on here arrange a meet, then you don't hear from them again anyway, same as you do with other men on here. For all we know they could be taking the piss and sitting in a room with their mates, pretending they want to meet you. I have met a few nice young men in the past but maybe I was just lucky then, they aren't going to all be nice.

Some men on here could be sending you messages when they are d*unk."
yes they probaly are d*unk lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Got a 26 year old i been chatting to and he's gorgeous but Nooooooooooooooooooooooo mustnt lol but that's not to say I'm not tempted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on how you feel yourself. Lots of guts live meeting older women and lots of older women love younger guys. It's all about personal taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All depends on how you feel yourself. Lots of guts live meeting older women and lots of older women love younger guys. It's all about personal taste"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on how you feel yourself. Lots of guts live meeting older women and lots of older women love younger guys. It's all about personal taste

If you see one you like have a chat and see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met younger guys.

They were lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember the thread a few days ago the guy who was gonna meet a 18 year old girl. He was allmost 50. It didnt go well unlike this thread lol. One rule for guys and another for you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think that age matters more to woman than to men as in men will happily have sex with woman much younger than them but not all woman will.

Maybe it's the maternal instinct that's built into the female that stops a lot of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember the thread a few days ago the guy who was gonna meet a 18 year old girl. He was allmost 50. It didnt go well unlike this thread lol. One rule for guys and another for you ladies

I remember that. I thought some of the attitudes of people on that thread were way out of order.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"I remember the thread a few days ago the guy who was gonna meet a 18 year old girl. He was allmost 50. It didnt go well unlike this thread lol. One rule for guys and another for you ladies

Weird but at end of day if 2 consenting adults want to why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i go on a meet i like to have conversation to ,what could i chat to a twenty year old about lol,not saying they would be intelligent mind you."

It depends on the 20 something in question

I've always go on better with people older then me as I've always been very mature inspite of my age.

And let's face it just because you know how old someone is doesn't mean you know them, my age isn't who I am

There are people on here twice my age who are far less mature and act so childish on here so no matter the person and no matter their age they are their own person.

And to comment on what you said about competing with younger woman...I'd say older woman have the monopoly on younger men and older men have the same for woman closer to my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met younger guys.

They were lovely

And they want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel it's wrong, I'm just not personally attracted to that dynamic and find the fad for "Milfs" and "Cougars" bloomin' tedious. Well perhaps I find the assumption that, due to the fact that I'm over 40, that must be what I'm into. It really is not. Personal Choice.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Whats wrong with feeling like a mother figure anyway? Maybe they feel like they have to impress women of their own age more, maybe they feel comfortable with an old person. One young man I met said I was one of the most chilled laid back person he had ever met.

Where as I have met men my age or older who have insulted me.

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By *ike00465Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met younger guys.

They were lovely

And they want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish i could but my head tells me Nooooo,i have nephews in their twenties,and just feel it would be wrong,and what do guys of that age what a 58 year old for,when there are lots of young ladies on here."

Definitely not about age...if theres a mutual attraction there why hold back?

Could be missing out on some mind blowing sex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If your not comfortable then dont meet them.

I only meet guys younger than me and if they are 32 or under i have a brilliant test they have to get through which makes me laugh caise obviously they dont know they are being tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're comfortable with it OP, then just go for it

I've met someone who's quite a bit older than me before, and I'd far rather him than a 20-something guy who only has a big cock and a six pack going for him. IMO, if you have chemistry then the age gap doesn't particularly matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I feel exactly the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rule it out? If you get a connection with someone then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're comfortable with it OP, then just go for it

And whats wrong with a six pack and a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's clearly wrong for you if you aren't comfortable with it. Doesn't mean it's wrong for anyone else though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think like everything on this site it all boils down to personal prefrence weather it be age, BDSM, group sex or whatever else, some people like it...some dont

Im just looking foward to getting abit older now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it feels wrong don't do it. I feel perfectly comfortable with much younger men when our personalities are compatible. My regular partners were 28,29 and 32 when I met them. They are now 34,31 and 36. Before them I met a 23 yr old when I was 43 and was seeing him regularly for 2 years. I've tried older men and men my age and I feel more comfortable with younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're comfortable with it OP, then just go for it

And whats wrong with a six pack and a big cock

I like something to cuddle and I have a shallow foof so big cocks hurt.

That's what's wrong with a six pack and a big cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're comfortable with it OP, then just go for it

And whats wrong with a six pack and a big cock

I like something to cuddle and I have a shallow foof so big cocks hurt.

That's what's wrong with a six pack and a big cock.

Well i have neither but ive been called a big cock many a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if i was stood next to a lovely young lady and the twenty or thirty year old had a choice ,of which one he could have,its obvious which one he would choose.

Not at all. I've been in 'contest' with younger, slimmer ladies and they have chosen me

Fook knows why in my case though!

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because you're stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with what you feel is comfortable for you. Most of my meets have been with younger guys. But in saying that I don't discriminate any age. I do find I get on well with younger people but that could be because I'm young at heart. Yes I have met younger than my daughter and no I don't feel ashamed of it. At the end of the day we are all consenting adults wanting nsa fun. And I personally don't see it as an ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started reading the replies on here and the R Kelly song popped into head.....

My minds telling me no, but my body's telling me yes. Ain't nothing wrong, with a little bump and grind

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"When i go on a meet i like to have conversation to ,what could i chat to a twenty year old about lol,not saying they would be intelligent mind you."

If they're young enough to be at uni then their course or what they want to do after. Their job (if working) their hobbies, where they go clubbing or pretty much anything you'd talk about with someone older. Not every young person is immature and short of life skills, the same as not all older people are. I probably get on better with younger people as I embrace my inner child...Climbing trees and bike rides with the nipper and my hobby (when I get the time) is mountain/land boarding, not the usual pursuit of an older guy as I've been told many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to ask and you have doubts then yes its wrong - for you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you're not comfortable with it, even if others are, then you should still have tons of choice from the guys in the age range that you're good with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think that age matters more to woman than to men as in men will happily have sex with woman much younger than them but not all woman will.

Maybe it's the maternal instinct that's built into the female that stops a lot of them.

Not every man will happily have sex with women much younger than them.

I personally don't like to meet people much younger than 40.

I'm not saying it's wrong though, it's just not for me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have a thing for the older gentlemen

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't get this to be honest. How can anyone say what right or wrong for anyone else. If you like it and he's game fill ya fucking boots. Life to short to give 2 shits what anyone else thinks

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I have a thing for the older gentlemen

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really weird because it's not something that a lot of older women understand. But believe me when I say this, theRe is something uniquely attractive about an older woman. Not just in terms of how they look but their experience and confidence and the fact they know their bodies shouldn't be underestimated

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Forget the age and just look at the pics...If you like what you see then go for it and have fun...The guys will

Ive looked and ive looked and they are gorgeous but i cant

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"I have a thing for the older gentlemen

Well hello

Pamela if it makes you uncomfortable it's unlikely to be fun but if it excites you because of the naughtiness enjoy it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I have a thing for the older gentlemen

I know

Not you though you are an older brother from another mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your preference of course, and among consenting adults why not..

That said and without playing devils advocate id like to see the outcome of a 60 year old man talking about chasing 20 year old girls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its your preference of course, and among consenting adults why not..

That said and without playing devils advocate id like to see the outcome of a 60 year old man talking about chasing 20 year old girls!!

I don't chase men,they chase me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own personal view ... I prefer the let's say mature woman, in most cases she's mature in mind and body and hopefully more connected intellectually.

Don't put yourself down.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I have a thing for the older gentlemen

I know

Not you though you are an older brother from another mother

God damn this always the friend thing of mine is never get my dick wet on here no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even think about the age of someone when I'm with them. None of my regular partners have ever mentioned it and certainly don't see me as a milf or cougar,they aren't words in their vocabulary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your great replies have made me have second thoughts,half way thoughts at the moment

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By *ike00465Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If your not comfortable then dont meet them.

I only meet guys younger than me and if they are 32 or under i have a brilliant test they have to get through which makes me laugh caise obviously they dont know they are being tested

They do now lol x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Its your preference of course, and among consenting adults why not..

That said and without playing devils advocate id like to see the outcome of a 60 year old man talking about chasing 20 year old girls!!

I don't chase anyone, they always contact me and I don't meet everyone who does only maybe if they contact me a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right for you. Maybe explain to a younger person that you find them physically attractive but you're struggling with their age? A social would maybe help you in that situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are both comfortable with it, we don't see it as an issue. You only live once so if you enjoy it, you're not harming anyone, all adults. Why not?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Each to their own, I tried younger men years ago and realised it wasn't for me, I'll stick with my own age or older for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you both get the enjoyment and satisfaction your looking for out of it then I don't see how it could be wrong.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

No I'm 53 and prefer guys in their 30s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people say your only as old as the person you feel I usually respond with "I average out at about 27 then!" I make no bones about it, judge me if ya wanna...I care not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If your not comfortable then dont meet them.

I only meet guys younger than me and if they are 32 or under i have a brilliant test they have to get through which makes me laugh caise obviously they dont know they are being tested

They do now lol x"
not how lol

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By *iscomanMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Age is just a number

Some 20 /25 old like an older lady

So it is up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer ladies my age or older

I prefer guys to be younger though

15-20 years my junior is pretty much my upper limit for males, late teens to early 20's is my preference.

I've given up wondering why ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would only meet guys around our ages. We do get lots of messeges from young guys but they dont interest us.

I have children in their 30s and 20s so would never ever meet guys those ages nor guys my parents age.

So mid 40s to 60 ish suits us. We have more in common with guys those ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda think like that to

some how it doesnt seem right when the guys the same age or younger then your sons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I kinda think like that to

some how it doesnt seem right when the guys the same age or younger then your sons"
Very true bestie

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