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Marriageless sex?

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Is the sex better when you are single or does the knowledge and intimacy with your partner win hands down?

Discussion please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it with my hubs. If we had it i wouldnt be here no one else has ever come close to knowing my buttons and tells like him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a theory about sex and I think sexual relations can be divided into two sets.

The first set is mechanical sex which could also be termed recreational sex. You see or meet someone and you become intimate; its pure attraction with only a modicum of emotion, other than passion, involved.

The second set is dived further into two sub sets. The sub set of romance, candles and soft gentle passion with someone you have emotional bonds or someone you love. Equally those madly and passionately in love can undertake the kind of sex mentioned in set one the passionate embrace pure and unbridled lust that comes from a base of love and deep emotion.

There are of course derivatives of both sets ..............just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better when you don't have to trail the internet for a fuck tbh.

just knowing someone is gonna fuck you can be sexy. although i prefer spontaneous sex so don't like to plan it and just have sex every day.

it's why i want a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is better with knowledge of each other, Mrs l is really quite difficult to make cum unless you know her switches in which case it's easy, we can meet people and they can try for hours and nothing, and it can take me minutes, that is simply 19 years of knowing her, random sex is fun ale hot but when we get home after a meet is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My married sex life was abysmal. I'm going with better now I'm single and can choose who I have sex with and do what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My relationship sex hasn't been amazing in the past tbh. But some of the meets I've had from here have been explosive! Some mediocre. Which makes me wonder why I bother. But then someone gets me going properly and I remember why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I add masterbation into the mix?

My married sex life was pretty crap although it did have its moments but always instergated by me.

As for finding sex on here it's also been a mixed bag. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mix is endless and its each to their own.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I prefer it with my hubs. If we had it i wouldnt be here no one else has ever come close to knowing my buttons and tells like him xx"

I'm the same. But being with a woman is something hubby can't give me. And being with another guy is just different. Always better with hubby.

Mrs SB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had shit sex in a relationship and great sex in a relationship.

I've also had shit sex when single and great sex when single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met two men through the last site I was on who gave me the best sex I've ever had. Was amazing, both for different reasons, and I then met both regularly.

But, when I'm loved up in a relationship I feel the sex (after the initial year) tends to be a bit roll on roll off. The snuggles etc are better, but the quality dies off pretty rapid. It's probably a mutual thing, I don't feel like being a filthy slut 24/7 so on here I can do it when I'm in the mood.

Why can I never post concise messages?

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Does anyone feel guilty afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone feel guilty afterwards?"

guilty about what?

i don't think i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone feel guilty afterwards?"

Yes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Is the sex better when you are single or does the knowledge and intimacy with your partner win hands down?

Discussion please"

You can have good or bad sex either way, but for me the best sex includes intimacy and emotion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a theory about sex and I think sexual relations can be divided into two sets.

The first set is mechanical sex which could also be termed recreational sex. You see or meet someone and you become intimate; its pure attraction with only a modicum of emotion, other than passion, involved.

The second set is dived further into two sub sets. The sub set of romance, candles and soft gentle passion with someone you have emotional bonds or someone you love. Equally those madly and passionately in love can undertake the kind of sex mentioned in set one the passionate embrace pure and unbridled lust that comes from a base of love and deep emotion.

There are of course derivatives of both sets ..............just saying!"

I don't have any sex that resembles those three comments to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a theory about sex and I think sexual relations can be divided into two sets.

The first set is mechanical sex which could also be termed recreational sex. You see or meet someone and you become intimate; its pure attraction with only a modicum of emotion, other than passion, involved.

The second set is dived further into two sub sets. The sub set of romance, candles and soft gentle passion with someone you have emotional bonds or someone you love. Equally those madly and passionately in love can undertake the kind of sex mentioned in set one the passionate embrace pure and unbridled lust that comes from a base of love and deep emotion.

There are of course derivatives of both sets ..............just saying!

I don't have any sex that resembles those three comments to be honest."

The comments totally fit my experience though. And I've slept with over 100+ guys in total (in case anyone is judging me by my veris!).

How would you describe your experiences Wasphunter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a theory about sex and I think sexual relations can be divided into two sets.

The first set is mechanical sex which could also be termed recreational sex. You see or meet someone and you become intimate; its pure attraction with only a modicum of emotion, other than passion, involved.

The second set is dived further into two sub sets. The sub set of romance, candles and soft gentle passion with someone you have emotional bonds or someone you love. Equally those madly and passionately in love can undertake the kind of sex mentioned in set one the passionate embrace pure and unbridled lust that comes from a base of love and deep emotion.

There are of course derivatives of both sets ..............just saying!

I don't have any sex that resembles those three comments to be honest."
I would be interested to know what kind of sex you have, if that is not a to personal question?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its different. I have sex with different people cause its the variety i need unless i meet mr ben.

But sex in my relationship is completly different.

Feel guilty about what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a theory about sex and I think sexual relations can be divided into two sets.

The first set is mechanical sex which could also be termed recreational sex. You see or meet someone and you become intimate; its pure attraction with only a modicum of emotion, other than passion, involved.

The second set is dived further into two sub sets. The sub set of romance, candles and soft gentle passion with someone you have emotional bonds or someone you love. Equally those madly and passionately in love can undertake the kind of sex mentioned in set one the passionate embrace pure and unbridled lust that comes from a base of love and deep emotion.

There are of course derivatives of both sets ..............just saying!

I don't have any sex that resembles those three comments to be honest.

The comments totally fit my experience though. And I've slept with over 100+ guys in total (in case anyone is judging me by my veris!).

How would you describe your experiences Wasphunter?"

I don't have 'mechanical' sex based on 'pure attraction' - whatever that is.

I don't do romance, candles, or 'soft, gentle passion'.

Nor do I do 'passionate embraces' and 'pure and unbridled lust that comes from a base of love and deep emotion'.

I just have fucking awesome sex that doesn't fit into the any of the above three categories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every possible type of sex is better with Sabrina , except random spontaneous sex with a stranger .

That's why we are here .

And the meets are great , but in a completely different way to the sex we have together .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kinky sex and that comes wirh someone who I can trust and know inside out. Never happens with a random fuck. Only ever in a relationship.

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