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Vanilla and proud? (Sometimes)

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes I am.

I'm sure at times I'm the only one.

I do think that sensual, gentle and tender sex is so eroric and hugely underrated on here. Is that because the site is aimed at couples who already share that with each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think different people like different things - and that's human nature.

Swinging is quite adventurous behaviors, so it makes sense that people will be adventurous in other parts of their sex life too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I do both depending on the person.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I have found that most swingers are vanilla in their tastes

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

for me it's the person.........if you click and are comfortable and you both have the same humour....

you can be comfortable experimenting.......x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found that most swingers are vanilla in their tastes"

Same here....the adventure/fun for many is the change of faces/partners.....often I've found ladies are seeking fairly "normal" stuff. Not all though, thankfully!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm just me and like to go with the flow. Never was a sheep and not going to change now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just do what I do.

Would describe it as mostly vanilla with a hint of kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't stand vanilla. When I want to be fucked, I want to be fucked good and proper

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I really can't stand vanilla. When I want to be fucked, I want to be fucked good and proper "

Hmmmm on the other hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't stand vanilla. When I want to be fucked, I want to be fucked good and proper

Hmmmm on the other hand "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla with a twist for me

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I really can't stand vanilla. When I want to be fucked, I want to be fucked good and proper

Hmmmm on the other hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's room for it all here. A feather gently stroked across your back, a back massage, candle wax dripped onto boobs, followed by a spanked arse.

I really like BDSM but simply kissing I still find a huge turn on and that's vanilla.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't stand vanilla. When I want to be fucked, I want to be fucked good and proper "

Oh but who says you cant be with vanilla?

I just dont find warersports or two cocks adds anything for me. But really passionate rip my dress and i push him down onto the bed in the moment sex is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

"

Just like to say I hate your hubby the stuffy that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

"

Haha perhaps my definition of vanilla is different to yours. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

Just like to say I hate your hubby the stuffy that "

I turned 30 recently and since then my sex drive is through the roof. Poor thing has to satisfy me 3/4 times a day, he keeps telling me to get off him haha

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

Just like to say I hate your hubby the stuffy that

I turned 30 recently and since then my sex drive is through the roof. Poor thing has to satisfy me 3/4 times a day, he keeps telling me to get off him haha"

Owwwww the poor we lamb it must be hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

Haha perhaps my definition of vanilla is different to yours. Xx"

I think it might be chick coz I've never peed on anyone haha

I think of it as all lovey dovey, sensual, massaging etc.

We don't do the nasty porn stuff where they smack girl round face lol

I'd knock him out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who said anything about water sports? Lol

I've been with my husband for 12 years and we've tried the whole slow, looking into each other's eyes... And 2 minutes in, I bend over arse in air and demand him to fuck me

Haha perhaps my definition of vanilla is different to yours. Xx

I think it might be chick coz I've never peed on anyone haha

I think of it as all lovey dovey, sensual, massaging etc.

We don't do the nasty porn stuff where they smack girl round face lol

I'd knock him out xx"

Haha well from what you describe thats same as my tastes so have fun and im totally jealous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to stay quite vanilla in a swinging scenario (as vanilla as three or moresomes get)

The kinky stuff is reserved for hubby who knows my limits and has my trust.

If a fuck buddy wanted to get kinky they'd have to become a regular meet and put some legwork into gaining my trust first.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I am.

I'm sure at times I'm the only one.

I do think that sensual, gentle and tender sex is so eroric and hugely underrated on here. Is that because the site is aimed at couples who already share that with each other? "

It's all I'm looking for. Prefer the full experience, a couple of drinks, maybe a meal. All night in a hotel with cuddles and sleep in between. A perfect meet for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pounded relentlessly would be less than vanilla for me. It's bland,at least vanilla has some flavour.

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By *ike00465Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sorry to ask

but what is vanilla ?

I like chocolate mint x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being pounded relentlessly would be less than vanilla for me. It's bland,at least vanilla has some flavour. "

Oh no thank you, it has to have some drive in it, or I might as well close my eyes and think what I'm making for tea

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Yes I am.

I'm sure at times I'm the only one.

I do think that sensual, gentle and tender sex is so eroric and hugely underrated on here. Is that because the site is aimed at couples who already share that with each other?

It's all I'm looking for. Prefer the full experience, a couple of drinks, maybe a meal. All night in a hotel with cuddles and sleep in between. A perfect meet for me."

And so far away. . Men of Scotland take note ha ha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no idea how id describe my sex life. Just me having sex is it doing it how i like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best sex I've ever had has been slow, gentle and tender! But every now and again passion and wanting takes over

Nothing wrong with being 'vanilla' so long as you're open minded to the fact that there maybe other stuff out there that you enjoy top of you want to experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's room for it all here. A feather gently stroked across your back, a back massage, candle wax dripped onto boobs, followed by a spanked arse.

I really like BDSM but simply kissing I still find a huge turn on and that's vanilla.

Sarah "

Where is it written that kink must be painful, kink can be slow and erotic, l ( have feathers, silk and massage gloves in my collection) or fast and hard ( the usual whips and crops).

It is a broad church and depends on what the partner desires.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

definitely with the right person and you both feel so natural together it's a must

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