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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ?? "yes it does..... people can block for whatever good or bad reason they like... dust yaself down, move on and just be the best "you" you can be... | |||
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"get over it, someone blocks u, move on, simples" oi, who are you calling us simples tch!  | |||
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"yeh thats what iv thought, i guessed it happens to others just show's how sad some people are on here in my book " You may be sad tonight....but you will get over it by the morning | |||
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"yeh thats what iv thought, i guessed it happens to others just show's how sad some people are on here in my book " Why is it sad? YOU may think you're being "nice" the recipient may have found you creepy/pushy/aggressive/not their cup of tea...any number of reasons! Don't be rude because people block you, concentrate on those that respond, check you're contacting people looking for single men. Good luck! | |||
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"get over it, someone blocks u, move on, simples oi, who are you calling us simples tch! ":P not u, the solution is simples | |||
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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ?? "it happens oh dear ive block every one on this thread sorry but just didnt like you looking at me it happens now do see what i mean how crazy is that | |||
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"get over it, someone blocks u, move on, simples oi, who are you calling us simples tch! :P not u, the solution is simples"oh ok, I got summa that but it's soap? | |||
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"dont worry i got it myself chatted 2 a nice female an then bang block an remove for no obvious reason kinda thought it was wierd also kinda thought it was something 1 else using her account " yeh iv thought that with a few on here | |||
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"dont worry i got it myself chatted 2 a nice female an then bang block an remove for no obvious reason kinda thought it was wierd also kinda thought it was something 1 else using her account " It could never have been that you might have just bored them/ said something they didn't like could it?
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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ?? "i block pestering people, people who dont take no for an answer, or not my type | |||
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"yeh thats what iv thought, i guessed it happens to others just show's how sad some people are on here in my book " The blocks are provided for people to use whichever was they want to..it doesn't make people sad, it makes them have a choice. I am sure you will find the need to block someone at some point. | |||
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"tbh im not that bothered about it, jst think its a but rude thats all, i know each to there own and all that " Well sweets if your not bothered why post it on here? | |||
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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ?? "Shock horror are you suggesting we ban the block button? Can it only be used to block single males? Answers on a postcard please lol | |||
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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ??
Shock horror are you suggesting we ban the block button? Can it only be used to block single males? Answers on a postcard please lol"has this post got under your skin ? cos the sarky comment is poor | |||
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"Sorry but on here you will need to develop a thicker skin. Messages will get deleted with out being read you will get deleted. You will get blocked too. If you was blocked it was because you simply wasn't their cup of tea. Without knowing all the facts and the message we can't comment what you said to them. Remember your version of a nice message may be different to someone elses." That is spot on! | |||
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as for boxers I don't wear them I'm a french knicker person myself.
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"To the OP have you thought about finding out where they live, knocking on their door at say 3am and asking why they blocked you? I would."  | |||
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"To the OP have you thought about finding out where they live, knocking on their door at say 3am and asking why they blocked you? I would. "He will have to stalk her to find out where she lives. | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol "Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners! | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!"spot on thats my point !! | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!"But we only have the OP words that it was good manners. As someone here pointed out Sassy I think his message could have been a bit creepy we will never know. | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked "your reputation goes before you
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked "Same here sweets does it bother us. No. | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!
But we only have the OP words that it was good manners. As someone here pointed out Sassy I think his message could have been a bit creepy we will never know. "yeh asking how someone is and being nice at the start of a message, then seeing if they fancyed a chat etc realy creepy !!! you make me scratch my head and wonder !! | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked
Same here sweets does it bother us. No.
"no it does not bother me, i just dont understand how someones who you have never spoken to decides to block you and before you all say it, yes i know its because thyey can lol | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!
But we only have the OP words that it was good manners. As someone here pointed out Sassy I think his message could have been a bit creepy we will never know.
yeh asking how someone is and being nice at the start of a message, then seeing if they fancyed a chat etc realy creepy !!! you make me scratch my head and wonder !!"People will block you for all kinds of reasons, you can send the nicest message on the site but if they dont fancy you or your out of their age range or any other reason they do not want to meet you most will find it just easier to block you then replying telling you your not for them Now you may say you'd sooner just get a polite thanks but no thanks reply and be happy with that, but believe me a lot arnt, lots of men on here cant take rejection, ive had abusive comes backs a few times by guys i've sent a polite no to, had one guy tell me i was nothing but a two bit used whore anyway, and a few tell me i should be grateful and how they can do better than me anyway You only have to get so many of them type of replies before you start not sending no thanks replies and just blocking Maybe you are nice Maybe you would never dream of being so rude but only you know that not the person you mailed I know that does make you feel any better but maybe it will make you understand why a lot of women just block x | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!"I never get the "their loss" argument. If someone doesn't want you, how on earth can it be their loss?!! | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked "Ditto - same here. Difference is we recognise the individual's right to block us regardless and don't feel the need to come on the forums and cry like little girls because someone has the audacity to block us. The arrogance of some is staggering!  | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!
I never get the "their loss" argument. If someone doesn't want you, how on earth can it be their loss?!! "i was going to post something along them lines I think the same as you if i mail someone cause i like them and they block me surely its my loss as i wanted to meet them? | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
Bang on - just think that they are not worth your time if they're that rude by blocking you for good manners!
I never get the "their loss" argument. If someone doesn't want you, how on earth can it be their loss?!!
i was going to post something along them lines
I think the same as you
if i mail someone cause i like them and they block me surely its my loss as i wanted to meet them? "...and there ya go! | |||
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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ?? "I think some block because they are not interested and don't want you to take it to heart. Best thing is to move on and message someone else. There are lots of nice women out there  | |||
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"Im starting to wonder what iv done !! does this happen to anyone else or just the males who dont give the ladies abuse & give stupid 1 liners ??
I think some block because they are not interested and don't want you to take it to heart. Best thing is to move on and message someone else. There are lots of nice women out there "not much you can do about the block its there for a reason | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked "Yeah. Now that's rude! Blocked for being on fabs! lol 
Oh well, let's nose around in someone else's profile!
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"to be honest if we ask for a face pic and their not our type i say thanks but no thanks and block them to so i dont forget who ive asked and not liked" we mainly use the block in the same way.. also those who we've mailed and said we're not their type so again don't make mistake to try again another time | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked
Same here sweets does it bother us. No.
no it does not bother me, i just dont understand how someones who you have never spoken to decides to block you
and before you all say it, yes i know its because thyey can lol "perhaps they recognised that peachy bottom of yours and realising that you live just up the street from them they have blocked you in case you recognise them back | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked "I can tell you why that is. If, for example, you wish to prove a particular point, you've critiqued someones profile without their permission and you've posted in the forum and they dont want you looking at their profile in order to do that, then they will block you, and it must have worked cos you wouldnt know you were blocked unless you'd tried to take another peek. Ive said you but I mean generally, applying to all of us. | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol "I’ve never understood “their loss” business
If someone chooses not to interact, they’ve obviously decided you’re not for them, can’t see how they’ve “lost” anything really.
People usually use the phrase “their loss” as a defence mechanism for rejection
As for us, yeh, we block people, but only those that are not for us, we block because should they contact us anytime in the future, it saves having repeat the same message | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
I’ve never understood “their loss” business
If someone chooses not to interact, they’ve obviously decided you’re not for them, can’t see how they’ve “lost” anything really.
People usually use the phrase “their loss” as a defence mechanism for rejection
As for us, yeh, we block people, but only those that are not for us, we block because should they contact us anytime in the future, it saves having repeat the same message "So now were not allowed say "their loss" what next i say | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
I’ve never understood “their loss” business
If someone chooses not to interact, they’ve obviously decided you’re not for them, can’t see how they’ve “lost” anything really.
People usually use the phrase “their loss” as a defence mechanism for rejection
As for us, yeh, we block people, but only those that are not for us, we block because should they contact us anytime in the future, it saves having repeat the same message
So now were not allowed say "their loss" what next i say "No one has said you're not allowed to say "their loss"!
What has been said is some of us don't understand it as how can someone not wanting you be their loss: marked difference! | |||
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked
Yeah. Now that's rude! Blocked for being on fabs! lol
Oh well, let's nose around in someone else's profile!
S**t! Blocked from that too! "People just block you for all kinds of reasons, maybe made a comment on a thread they didn't like *block* they have looked at your profile and don't like you *block* even tho you have never mailed them or asked to meet may as well block you anyway to be on the safe side lol maybe they don't like someone on your verification list or how many verifications you have *block*block* Could be anything lots of people on here don't have to talk to you to decide they don't like you But you just move along to the ones who do | |||
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"Its happened to us too, their loss lol
I’ve never understood “their loss” business
If someone chooses not to interact, they’ve obviously decided you’re not for them, can’t see how they’ve “lost” anything really.
People usually use the phrase “their loss” as a defence mechanism for rejection
As for us, yeh, we block people, but only those that are not for us, we block because should they contact us anytime in the future, it saves having repeat the same message
So now were not allowed say "their loss" what next i say "please do not say as it could be offensive to some people.
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"i dont message people and they still block me lol Lost count of the amount of times ive read a post on here by people ive never even spoken to, gone to nose their profile and i've been blocked
Yeah. Now that's rude! Blocked for being on fabs! lol
Oh well, let's nose around in someone else's profile!
S**t! Blocked from that too!
People just block you for all kinds of reasons, maybe made a comment on a thread they didn't like *block* they have looked at your profile and don't like you *block* even tho you have never mailed them or asked to meet may as well block you anyway to be on the safe side lol maybe they don't like someone on your verification list or how many verifications you have *block*block*
Could be anything lots of people on here don't have to talk to you to decide they don't like you
But you just move along to the ones who do"I don't care, I just find it funny. If you don't get why they blocked you then it means you won't get them! Not gonna be much chemistry methinks! | |||
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"well the one thing I have learnt is that you aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea all of the time.. so why people let it "sweat" them is beyond me... I am me... like it or hate it.... " straight! | |||
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"Yes I do sit on my backside contradicting people so bite me lol" no thanks | |||
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"Yes I do sit on my backside contradicting people so bite me lolno thanks" We only have you word that this woman was a silly cow hearsay once again. Lol | |||
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"Yes I do sit on my backside contradicting people so bite me lolno thanks We only have you word that this woman was a silly cow hearsay once again. Lol" Come, come, you don't usually let a small thing like facts get in the way. | |||
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"We got blocked for saying hello two weeks a go to a couple just petty o think as being polite and having manners does not cost much, yes we block people but only members who don’t have pics or cam and then ask to show tits etc, but don’t let people put you of by blocking you just do the same to them and just enjoy the site you do get some stuck up people who think they own their arse 24 /7 contradicting people what they have put on forums we got blocked just for the few days because some silly cow reported us for having our say all she was doing was stirring trouble for us in forum post just because we said your blocked she got us blocked for posting stuff. So Just enjoy the forum and chat rooms etc…. and don’t rise to their attention, as you know most people thrive on attention to make them look big as they sit on there backside 24/7 contradicting people lol." Just to clarify. The only person who can get themselves blocked from ANY part of the site are themselves. You are in charge of your own keyboard so no other member can "get" you banned or make you type. Now although you are obviously having a pop at someone on this post I am leaving it on as I can't edit your post , but please leave any issues away from the forums as it might end up in a forum ban. If someone is winding you up by posting then ignore their posts and if the posts are against rules then REPORT the post. | |||
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