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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Hiya

I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem

"I'm here" !

But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males

Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?

Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because you've only currently meet single men? Wouldn't bother me but it might bother some.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Move to east Sussex

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Although I meet with my partner, I also have a single profile where I meet women alone .... but, as well as you being too far away, I found too many things that were 'no's' for you were things I am into .... plus I don't have the time for long drawn out chats. Pity really because who knows, we may have got on. Pepper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might sound daft but

The fact your so fit would stop me messaging you

Leagues and all that x

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Maybe it's because you've only currently meet single men? Wouldn't bother me but it might bother some. "

I have always said I would meet single men, single fems and couples

The only thing that has changed is I don't meet single males alone anymore as I have tried it and it's not my thing - that's where my veris have come from, and one is from my previous couples profile so I have actually only met one male as a meet alone fem xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cause you're bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads well to me (fem), I can't see anything that would put people off, very clear on what you want and like. However, we are outside your preferences so wouldn't message you and I like the pics you have

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Although I meet with my partner, I also have a single profile where I meet women alone .... but, as well as you being too far away, I found too many things that were 'no's' for you were things I am into .... plus I don't have the time for long drawn out chats. Pity really because who knows, we may have got on. Pepper."

Thankyou for the reply

I know a lot of people have a lot of different preferences but surely some couples have the same as me xx

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"It reads well to me (fem), I can't see anything that would put people off, very clear on what you want and like. However, we are outside your preferences so wouldn't message you and I like the pics you have "

Thankyou

Xx

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"It's cause you're bi "

Why would that stop MF bi fem couples messaging me ? Lol

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Might sound daft but

The fact your so fit would stop me messaging you

Leagues and all that x"

Leagues are personalities to me x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

So many miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's cause you're bi

Why would that stop MF bi fem couples messaging me ? Lol "

Sorry, nothing to do with you being female, just the bi bit as we all know bi guys won't get any offers here, was a lame joke..... I'll get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might sound daft but

The fact your so fit would stop me messaging you

Leagues and all that x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance and the fact you're a smoker but other than that you have a cracking profile. Hope you have more luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youve blocked single guys for a few days now. I often browse your profile

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"So many miles "

Seems my area is more vanilla than everyone else's lol X

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Youve blocked single guys for a few days now. I often browse your profile "

I turned them off and on at times and updated my status but I'm no longer meeting single guys now so it's staying off xx

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Distance and the fact you're a smoker but other than that you have a cracking profile. Hope you have more luck in the future "

Thankyou

I'm similar the other way round it puts me off if people don't smoke lol - well I wouldn't not meet because of it but easier if they do so it wasent awkward when I wanted a cig

Thanks for the compliments on my profile xx

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"It's cause you're bi

Why would that stop MF bi fem couples messaging me ? Lol

Sorry, nothing to do with you being female, just the bi bit as we all know bi guys won't get any offers here, was a

lame joke..... I'll get my coat "

Oh ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As your only veris are off men that maybe a little off putting, saying that we would meet you if everyone likes the face photos.

Sure you'll have no problems getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya

I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem

"I'm here" !

But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males

Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?

Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx "

as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...

are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple?

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"As your only veris are off men that maybe a little off putting, saying that we would meet you if everyone likes the face photos.

Sure you'll have no problems getting meets"

I haven't got veris from couples because I haven't met any yet because I don't get many messages catch 22 lol

And I have only met one male as a meet alone fem the other veri was a previous meet when we met as a couple and I/we no longer do both lol xx

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Hiya

I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem

"I'm here" !

But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males

Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?

Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx

as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...

are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple? "

I play with both the male and female if I met a couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya

I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem

"I'm here" !

But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males

Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?

Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx

as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...

are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple?

I play with both the male and female if I met a couple xx "

then I suggest you get proactive and do a search of bifem couples in your area...it wouldn't do any harm and it would put you in the driving seat, as it were

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Hiya

I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem

"I'm here" !

But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males

Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?

Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx

as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...

are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple?

I play with both the male and female if I met a couple xx

then I suggest you get proactive and do a search of bifem couples in your area...it wouldn't do any harm and it would put you in the driving seat, as it were"

When we had our couples profile we were never messaged by meet alone fems although we do have a couple of meets ffm - we had to do all the searching and messaging and it was hard work to arrange - do couples like meet alone fems to message them too ? Xx

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