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Are men that desperate that they will travel any distance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are. Others aren't.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We have a guy who makes a 4 hour round trip on a regular basis. Must cost him a fortune.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I think the max I'd do is about an hour an half. Although most of the people we have chatted to have been under an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing a lot wouldn't and of those that would, they would have to know that what's at the end of the journey is worth it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why travel halfway around the world for a holiday,some people seem to think it's worth it.

May be it's the same for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any distance? For anyone?? Nope don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled about 450 miles for a shag. I'm FUCKING desperate.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I travel a lot anyway, to lots of countries, and visit UK fairly often, so , in a way, yes,

Though really it's a case of arranging meets at places I am travelling to anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I can't be bothered to answer the front door...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled all over the country and Scotland and Wales. I'm a nationwide swinger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I travelled all over the country and Scotland and Wales. I'm a nationwide swinger "

We know you are

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I travel a lot with work and thought it would be great for distance meets but alas it hasn't worked out.

Lots of couples and women say they won't meet people visiting an area even though with me it's regular throughout the year.

I need a plan b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled all over the country and Scotland and Wales. I'm a nationwide swinger

We know you are "
or as fab like to call it. A tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I do travel I would make the most of the trip, Not just go to get laid,

Do some sight seeing/something I have always wanted to see or stay in a nice hotel etc

I don't meet Women that often but am not going to travel a long distance just for a fuck and go,

On another point, Why are threads always about Men being desperate or saying something stupid etc I know the site has more of them but there are couples/Women etc on here as well

(That's not directed at the op by the way just thinking out loud)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I girl I used to see used to come from Wrexham to Halifax. She didn't seem desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A "meet" what is that? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I girl I used to see used to come from Wrexham to Halifax. She didn't seem desperate. "

Was she a man??

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ive had a guy travel from Ireland to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only men. I've had ladies travel long distances to come to see me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have travelled to meet people, and people have travelled to meet me...

and not just 20 miles or so, I mean North Wales to London and vice versa but we always know it will be well worth the journey

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Not only men. I've had ladies travel long distances to come to see me too "

Show off

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"If I do travel I would make the most of the trip, Not just go to get laid,

Do some sight seeing/something I have always wanted to see or stay in a nice hotel etc

I don't meet Women that often but am not going to travel a long distance just for a fuck and go,

On another point, Why are threads always about Men being desperate or saying something stupid etc I know the site has more of them but there are couples/Women etc on here as well

(That's not directed at the op by the way just thinking out loud)"

I agree threads seem to be anti men of late but in essence I love men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had a guy travel from Ireland to meet me "
I come from Ull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only men. I've had ladies travel long distances to come to see me too

Show off "
haha. Nah I think it was my promise of posh hotel and gifts that swung it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would travel the ends of the earth. For a "FAB" ice lolly. The "100's and 1000's" MMMMM, yummy, LMAO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I do travel I would make the most of the trip, Not just go to get laid,

Do some sight seeing/something I have always wanted to see or stay in a nice hotel etc

I don't meet Women that often but am not going to travel a long distance just for a fuck and go,

On another point, Why are threads always about Men being desperate or saying something stupid etc I know the site has more of them but there are couples/Women etc on here as well

(That's not directed at the op by the way just thinking out loud)

I agree threads seem to be anti men of late but in essence I love men "

My apologies I worded it wrong. I wasn't make bashing honestly.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I have traveled for about a four hour round trip, not because I was desperate, but because I fancied the women so much that I thought it was worth my time, and the money on fuel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not only men. I've had ladies travel long distances to come to see me too

Show off haha. Nah I think it was my promise of posh hotel and gifts that swung it "

I will remember that next time Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled about 450 miles for a shag. I'm FUCKING desperate. "

But you're a woman.....how on earth could you be desperate on here with all the guys gagging for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled all over the country and Scotland and Wales. I'm a nationwide swinger "

Are you going to be in Wales on the 7th toshn xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?"

I suppose it could be looked at a couple of ways. Some people would be prepared to travel a long distance for a relationship, so to do that then they must really Like the person they are meeting and really want to spend time with them.

On the other hand they may be so desparate for a shag that distance doesn't matter as long as they get to thunder through shepherds bush on a pogo stick

I'd say the first is more likely though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women have travelled thousands of miles just to meet me...and who can blame them!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had guys from London want to meet me. Not exactly just down the road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be in, Cardiff. 9th and 10th of July. If any ladies are interested. Yes, I am advertising my services.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Max I have travelled for a meet was about 50 miles... But that was to a couple, and they put me up and sorted breakfast out for my trouble.

I've done similar distance for parties (with hosts I already knew, and who had attended my parties previously)...and took a FB with me to the parties and stayed over to make a weekend of it.

Normally I wouldn't consider a one to one meet beyond say 30 miles/1 hour travel. As there is enough clunge more local to need to bother.

Travelling to me? For a party....from Scotland and Kent. For one to one...from Blackpool but I had been recommended to her lol....and I also included breakfast and went out for lunch before she went home.

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I've done long trips for women that I really like..

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Not only men. I've had ladies travel long distances to come to see me too

Show off haha. Nah I think it was my promise of posh hotel and gifts that swung it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the individual really ... However, I think it is rare someone would be desperate ... I think it would be the quality over quantity thing.

I personally have made a five hour round trip but I had other local offers I could have taken I just wasn't interested in them. So I would like to think others who travel as such would be in the same boat.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

In my younger days i used to travel lot further. Now I limit myself at max hours drive.

Dont think I would class myself as desperate in my younger days but had more drive and energy to travel 3 hours after work, have a meet and travel back home an hours sleep then work. Now I cant be bothered with that anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the individual really ... However, I think it is rare someone would be desperate ... I think it would be the quality over quantity thing.

I personally have made a five hour round trip but I had other local offers I could have taken I just wasn't interested in them. So I would like to think others who travel as such would be in the same boat. "

This is the same thing I was trying to explain to my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might do if it was his first meet and veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say desperation as such. But if you're having trouble meeting with people in your own area, surely this is what this site was made for? To allow you to meet likeminded people who will want to meet you but live further away from you and you normally would never have had the opportunity to meet them.

I struggle to get meets in my own area which is why I look further afield. Can make a nice day trip out for me as a minimum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes men will travel far..I had a guy come up from Preston to Perth to meet and although I warned him he way not click it wasn't a wasted journey

The lure of the fanny is much stronger than you think for guys....

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

People travel hours to a club, pay for the club, pay for a hotel then travel hours back; now is that desperate? Or is it that they know what they want and are prepared to do what is needed to be done in order to get it? I'd go with the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes men will travel far..I had a guy come up from Preston to Perth to meet and although I warned him he way not click it wasn't a wasted journey

The lure of the fanny is much stronger than you think for guys...."

the lure of the fanny - good book title

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

And the Proclaimers did think it was desperate.

I would walk 100 miles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the individual really ... However, I think it is rare someone would be desperate ... I think it would be the quality over quantity thing.

I personally have made a five hour round trip but I had other local offers I could have taken I just wasn't interested in them. So I would like to think others who travel as such would be in the same boat.

This is the same thing I was trying to explain to my friend "

Thing is when u don't want vanilla sex you sometimes have to go a bit further and that's okay. Doesn't mean you are desperate. I'm sure your friend should understand that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes men will travel far..I had a guy come up from Preston to Perth to meet and although I warned him he way not click it wasn't a wasted journey

The lure of the fanny is much stronger than you think for guys....

the lure of the fanny - good book title"

Bet it would be a world wide seller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has a (fabber) travelled far. Turned up at the rendesvous meeting place. Only to find out, that the other participant(s). Had no intention of meeting up in the first place. So, in essence, it was a set up and a wild goose chase.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I met guy travel from manchester for me but we're chatting for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a woman from a well known fetish site travel all the way from Ibiza to see me, would have been cool but we had only been speaking for a week, she then went on to stalk me and send weird pics of her dressed as a boy, I had to close my account and open a new one, then she started contacting my friends list asking if they knew where I was, it freaked me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not desperate, it's just that those I'm attracted to are miles away!

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By *lueman1966Man
over a year ago

SLOUGH

Why not?

No one knows you in town. So free to do all things couples /friends do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a woman from a well known fetish site travel all the way from Ibiza to see me, would have been cool but we had only been speaking for a week, she then went on to stalk me and send weird pics of her dressed as a boy, I had to close my account and open a new one, then she started contacting my friends list asking if they knew where I was, it freaked me out"

Sorry I found this hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think a prostitute would be a cheaper option if they were desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would travel for the right lady, spend a lot of time travelling with work so if can tie it in together then even better xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met guy travel from manchester for me but we're chatting for ages"

Same goes for me. I tend to spend longer chatting to someone long distance before I meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a woman from a well known fetish site travel all the way from Ibiza to see me, would have been cool but we had only been speaking for a week, she then went on to stalk me and send weird pics of her dressed as a boy, I had to close my account and open a new one, then she started contacting my friends list asking if they knew where I was, it freaked me out"

was she coming with the, Vengaboys. "we are going to, Ibiza." lol.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

God no. Think I've only travelled once to someone who was a few miles away. People always come to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes men will travel far..I had a guy come up from Preston to Perth to meet and although I warned him he way not click it wasn't a wasted journey

The lure of the fanny is much stronger than you think for guys....

the lure of the fanny - good book title

Bet it would be a world wide seller "

Hey you've given me an idea there! Hmmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should a guy need to be desperate to travel ?

If there is a click with someone, sexual or otherwise, most people (not just men) will want to take it further.

That's human nature not desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a woman from a well known fetish site travel all the way from Ibiza to see me, would have been cool but we had only been speaking for a week, she then went on to stalk me and send weird pics of her dressed as a boy, I had to close my account and open a new one, then she started contacting my friends list asking if they knew where I was, it freaked me out

Sorry I found this hilarious "

Yeah I laughed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled all over the country and Scotland and Wales. I'm a nationwide swinger

Are you going to be in Wales on the 7th toshn xxx"
No I'm banned from Wales. Grassing fucking sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should a guy need to be desperate to travel ?

If there is a click with someone, sexual or otherwise, most people (not just men) will want to take it further.

That's human nature not desperation."

I must admit I have thought about a little trip to Devon on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends on the people and the connection, have met ppl local and far and I definitely prefer the build up to the planned meets that aren't local, really great when exploring fantasies you want to live out, for me atleast.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If I do travel I would make the most of the trip, Not just go to get laid,

Do some sight seeing/something I have always wanted to see or stay in a nice hotel etc

I don't meet Women that often but am not going to travel a long distance just for a fuck and go,

On another point, Why are threads always about Men being desperate or saying something stupid etc I know the site has more of them but there are couples/Women etc on here as well

(That's not directed at the op by the way just thinking out loud)

I agree threads seem to be anti men of late but in essence I love men "

Of late?!!

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

I have travelled to France , other Channel Islands and took 2 flights to spend a weekend with a couple in Glasgow . I will travel for meets....doesn't make me desperate . If a man on here can't be arsed to make the effort for a meet he gets crucified .... If he does and travels , he's desperate . So nice to know our efforts are appreciated .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women think all men are desperate? Im not desperate at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy5 isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?"

6 hours is definately too far !! An hour drive tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll don a ginger wig, glasses and walk 500 miles

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

I'll happily travel to meet with someone, generally up to a two hour drive, but have travelled more than that.

Not because I am desperate - far from it - but because I wanted to meet the person I'd been talking to.

Hell, when I first started seeing my ex-wife I used to travel 3 hours by train to go see her. Each way.Every week.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have travelled north and south for meets and they were all worth it, it doesn't make you desperate in my opinion, some of the loveliest people just happen to be further away

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I'm fine with travelling a few hours if it's to meet someone I've chatted to a bit and am confident I'll have chemistry with.

I don't see that as 'desperate'. I'd only be sitting at home for that time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you forgetting where you are?

guys will go to all kindsa lengths for a shag onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule, I have limits regarding how far I would travel and I don't compromise on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself wld have to be super attracted to some1 to travel more than 1hr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself wld have to be super attracted to some1 to travel more than 1hr "
wouldn't go more than a hour simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel distances, it varies, I don't arrange quick meets generally or just spontaneous stuff so usually I know them a lot better. Definitely not desperate, I travel a bit with work too to be fair.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Desperation" is definitely the wrong word.

When I worked in North Wales, Mrs ddc would regularly drive up from London to see me, even though it was a pig of a journey that generally took 6-8 hours on a Friday evening, and I'd generally have to work much of the weekend. Back then it was called "love".

So I can definitely understand anyone on here, male or female, travelling for the right person.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled all over the country and Scotland and Wales. I'm a nationwide swinger

Are you going to be in Wales on the 7th toshn xxx No I'm banned from Wales. Grassing fucking sheep "

Pmsl was hoping to make it a fab hatrick xxx

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

50 miles max for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't travel now because of my homelife situation, but if single I'd probably be up and down the Country like an eager beaver.

On the last swingers site I was on, I had men visit from all over, which is fine for one off meets but I deliberately chose this site as it has more local men, which is what I'm looking for now as it's easier for my limited availability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had a guy travel from Ireland to meet me "

Lucky guy

I've travelled to the UK and will do so again, happily.

If there's a good connection, why not?

I wouldn't call myself desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's exactly why this site is what it is

People calling guys desperate

Maybe just maybe they chose to travel because they got on really well

To use the words 'that desperate' actually saddens me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call it desperate at all. When I was on here as single fem I would travel all over and it was great fun. Nice to visit new places and I would make a weekend out of it. I know lots of people all over as well so if I go to a club alone I'm always bound to bump into someone.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Desperation" is definitely the wrong word.

When I worked in North Wales, Mrs ddc would regularly drive up from London to see me, even though it was a pig of a journey that generally took 6-8 hours on a Friday evening, and I'd generally have to work much of the weekend. Back then it was called "love".

So I can definitely understand anyone on here, male or female, travelling for the right person.

Mr ddc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often travel hundreds of miles to visit friends (Just friends!) but I'm not sure I'd do the same 'just' for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right could I please clarify I don't in anyway way think guys are desperate for a lay if they travel.

My apologies I should have worded it better and I'm sorry.

But please can I point out I DON' T think guys are desperate if they travel a distance. It was an argument I was having with a fab friend who said that.

If I've offended people I am sorry it wasn't intended to

But what I don't appreciate is someone messaging saying that because of my post I do not deserve to ever get a meet on fab again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appears they'll even travel abroad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be desperate too then as I've done a 250 mile round trip to get laid. Not just once but a few times.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


" ...But what I don't appreciate is someone messaging saying that because of my post I do not deserve to ever get a meet on fab again "

Unless it's local, obvs

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?"

I'm the same... though I wouldn't say that the men I meet on here are "desperate" by any stretch of the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if the lass is supper hot or a dwarf...

If they aren't I don't give them the time of day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" ...But what I don't appreciate is someone messaging saying that because of my post I do not deserve to ever get a meet on fab again

Unless it's local, obvs

Mr ddc"

Haha well looks like I won't be meeting then because I don't meet too local. So looks like I'm doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?"

Well.... I'm now interested in just how seductive a kisser you are lol

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

i have travelled 312miles one way before, for the meet about 1hr meet and then come straight back. i consider it for the right people, not just to get laid. if there is something unique then i do consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only travel 20 miles at most cannot understand anyone going a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel for work - met a couple in Manny and it was definitely worth it.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

When we lived in Malta I had a guy fly out to meet...3 times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's me hoping a swinger moves into the house next door

Petrol prices are rising

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

If I like someone then I’ll travel. Got a trip to Birmingham planned soon for a club night as I know it will be a good night and life is about experiences and fun, I’m not about to let a little bit of distance spoil it. I’m certainly not desperate for sex. I like having memories and experiences that I look back and smile on, I’m realistic enough to know this isn’t always going to happen in my own backyard.

Besides it’s only a small island and I used to be a courier so I’m ok with travelling and seeing new places.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been to Hove before but any further than that, no soddin' chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some are & look on it as an adventure.

I've met people from way up North but they've travelled down here for business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to travel long distance for the right person. I like an overnighter in a hotel. A full night works for me, and if it works for her too, all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard tom cats travel miles and miles in search of females, some of the men on fab are no different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm the same... though I wouldn't say that the men I meet on here are "desperate" by any stretch of the imagination."

Well you wouldn't would you?? I don't think anyone would say "yeah....i only meet the desperate ones"

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Yet to find somebody who I would wish to travel far for, but one never knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel quite a distance ....but for the right company or experience....I'm single...I have weekends free at times so I can....don't think it's desperation....just that I could or can if I feel the woman is one I'd really like to meet. That said...not met a woman that would do the same and visit me but they are subject to loads of offers...so they don't have to I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you live more than a 20 minute drive away, forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had lots of guys travel for over two hours to see us . So a 4 hour round trip .

We also had an amazing meet with a guy from the forum who travelled from the other side of York for a meet , about four and a half hours on the train .

Was it worth it for them ?

I think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?"

I would more inclined to view that the excursion was motivated more by desire, than desperation.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Someone suggested Eastbourne!!!

FUCK OFF!!!!

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I rarely travel outside Belfast, even though I have a car. I certainly won't travel too far for a first meet with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, I don't mind travelling but I don't do it on the spur of the moment

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet guys in London all the time, although I'm usually down there anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you let me stay overnight and make me a sandwich, sure why not .

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By *alldarksurreyMan
over a year ago

surrey

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'd love to have the time to do a Fabs road trip and meet people from other parts of the country, but I don't.

So, in general, 45 minutes away is my limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to have the time to do a Fabs road trip and meet people from other parts of the country, but I don't.

So, in general, 45 minutes away is my limit. "

Dammit.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I doubt it's desperation, just wanting to meet a certain person they've clicked with.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'd love to have the time to do a Fabs road trip and meet people from other parts of the country, but I don't.

So, in general, 45 minutes away is my limit.

Dammit."

I was thinking that too

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I can, of course accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend "

I'm sure plenty of guys would travel for you! I mean your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times I travel over 350 miles just for work so if travel a decent distance for a meet if I feel there's a good connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 miles no more, no less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend "

I'll have me a freedom bus pass in a decade or so. Patience my ass.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"8 miles no more, no less."

That's Stonehenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 miles is my max.

But if she doesn't mind a longer journey to come see me then that's up to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

That's Stonehenge! "

No that's 4 miles away dum ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think so and when I was meeting I wasn't interested in anyone several hours away as I prefer to meet halfway and couldn't afford to

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"8 miles no more, no less.

That's Stonehenge! "

WE should go on June 21st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag never seemed to want to meet outside of Penge, always wondered if he met many ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend

I'm sure plenty of guys would travel for you! I mean your friend "

Hmm...I....i mean my friend...doesn't like to come across all demanding etc....and really doesn't like the idea of guys putting themselves out just to be (probably) disappointed ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend

I'll have me a freedom bus pass in a decade or so. Patience my ass. "

You drive the bloomin' thing....

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

What's quite a distance? A six hour trip isn't a long trip to me as I'm always travelling long distances with work and on my bikes.

I think it's all relevant. A long trip to one person is a short journey to another.

I don't think it's related to desperation

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've done long trips for women that I really like.."

Does Manchester to Dusseldorf every 2nd week for the Friday and Saturday nights count as a long way?

Then again she would come to me every 2 weeks as well but she would stay for 5 nights each time.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I must be a man, I am desparate tonight and would travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less."

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?"

Love that pub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a lot anyway, to lots of countries, and visit UK fairly often, so , in a way, yes,

Though really it's a case of arranging meets at places I am travelling to anyway."

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was staying in London last year and was contacted by a couple from Leeds. Me being a dumb American I thought it was 1 hour away by looking at the map...

I asked the taxi driver how much to get to Leeds?

He looked at me and said " Mate , I'll take you to the airport because that's the only way you're getting to Leeds tonight "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend "
I undoubtedly would ....lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?

Love that pub! "

That's because it's a good pub.

Fuck it, I'll see you there as Clem's blatantly busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to Kyoto once, driven by desire.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

1600 miles,, is that desperate?

No its because I knew who was waiting for me at the other end.

Time / distance makes no odds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?

Love that pub!

That's because it's a good pub.

Fuck it, I'll see you there as Clem's blatantly busy. "

It's a date...I'll see if i can d drag Clem along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?

Love that pub!

That's because it's a good pub.

Fuck it, I'll see you there as Clem's blatantly busy.

It's a date...I'll see if i can d drag Clem along "

Nah, we can't talk about him if he's there.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

It's funny, but looking through the posts here one thing becomes clear. Many of the people that say they wouldn't travel far generally live in areas with a higher population density (large towns and cities) whereas the ones that are prepared to travel further afield mainly seem to be in less populous or rural areas.

So, maybe you don't feel you want to travel as far because you actually don't HAVE to - there are more potential meets within a smaller area, and others are ore prepared to travel as they have less local choice.

Maybe this sheds some light on it, maybe not.

I like to travel. I am single. I have free time. Why not get out and about and meet new people, seeing new areas along the way. Is that so bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?

Love that pub!

That's because it's a good pub.

Fuck it, I'll see you there as Clem's blatantly busy.

It's a date...I'll see if i can d drag Clem along

Nah, we can't talk about him if he's there. "

This is very true....ok no Clem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?

Love that pub!

That's because it's a good pub.

Fuck it, I'll see you there as Clem's blatantly busy.

It's a date...I'll see if i can d drag Clem along

Nah, we can't talk about him if he's there.

This is very true....ok no Clem "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 miles no more, no less.

The Haunch of Venison alright for you?"

My most favorite tiny pub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, i see stuff was going on while i was doing my banking and what not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I girl I used to see used to come from Wrexham to Halifax. She didn't seem desperate.

Was she a man?? "

No more than you.

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By *icknpussy1000Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

If u have to travel that get a prositute it's cheaper than fuel

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"If u have to travel that get a prositute it's cheaper than fuel"

I can claim part of my fuel back from company but don't think they would let me claim for a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman should be happy and think that's she's worth the drive .

Maybe its the connection that man has with this particular woman and his willing to travel the distance to have the pleasure of ejoying her company .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flew to Hungary for a girl once, we'd always slept together isn't wasn't anything serious and she was absolutely amazing in bed. I felt like I had no choice - it was a worthwhile few days... Thinking about it and her makes me want to plan another trip before she gets a boyfriend haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, travelling is part of the fun, it isn't about desperation we just enjoy seeing new places and meeting new people. It is one of the reasons we have alot of friends all over the country, give us an excuse to see new places.

And meeting people from fab gives us an excuse to get a nice hotel, meet some new people and explore a new place. But it is an extra for us not a necessity for travel. Like next weekend we are travelling for racing, may try to meet someone or a couple near the place we are racing. Get a drink see how we get on kinda thing, its a good few hours from where we live but it's an excuse to meet new people, same as going to a club for us now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they?"
Absolutely not, and you cant really categorize men, this could apply to all people. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do or would both male and females.

I suppose it would depend on lots of factors for the people involved

as to why they would be prepared to travel a long distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men arnt desperate,didnt you know that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once cycled 60 miles in full cycling Lycra for a fuck and cycled back after.

120 miles there and back + a day of sex; good workout!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having a discussion with a fab friend about this. What's your thoughts on it?

I've met a few guys who have travelled quite a distance to meet me.Obviously these meets are not spur of the moment meets and have been planned a couple or weeks or so in advance. Bearing in mind I like to chat to a guy for a bit to get to know him. My friend says that most guys on here are that desperate for a meet they will travel any distance but I tend to disagree. I mean surely a guy isn't going to travel let's say a 6 hour round trip just to get laid is he, or do they? Absolutely not, and you cant really categorize men, this could apply to all people. Each to their own"

Read further down you will see I corrected myself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive officially become a desperate man as i now travel to lots of places for a social meet

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I would travel further than I have already both time and distance.

It really isn't desperation! It's about the right person being a long way away.

Desperation I would define somewhat different to, making an effort to plan, travel, have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember many years ago, being in the far north of England, and a woman driving up for the weekend from Southend. There's a slow-burning frisson from knowing there's trouble in transit that's more exciting to me than somebody being a stone's throw away.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm prepared to travel for the right person(s) it's not through desperation it's because I'd really like to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance a hour max

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"Just out of interest....where might one find these desperate men?...I'm asking for a friend

I'll have me a freedom bus pass in a decade or so. Patience my ass. "

I have a disabled bus pass, so I have that advantage, but it only gets you so far. That said I got all the way to Bedford on the bus and it only took 6 hours!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm prepared to travel for the right person(s) it's not through desperation it's because I'd really like to meet them. "

Could not have put that better myself!

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