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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

feel that you have unintentionally upset someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah everyday lol xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"feel that you have unintentionally upset someone."

yeah, they were coffee creams and not toffee ones. now STFU!!! x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Yes....but they are usually people that are looking for an excuse to be upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would never intentionally upset someone.

i would hope someone would tell me if i had.

or do i expect too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"feel that you have unintentionally upset someone."

do you think you have upset someone? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is..........

you can upset someone be it unintentionally and they never tell ya ...

Few mths, yrs down the line they say..

"remember when"

Whats that all about eh...

I aint no mind reader

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester


"feel that you have unintentionally upset someone."

it's ok you're forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tendency to speak without thinking so....often I do yes!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"feel that you have unintentionally upset someone."

uh oh, what have you said or done??

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i always think i do coz half the time i dont think before i say haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people hung draw and quarter you and they know absolutely nothing about you or your personality and the way things tend to come out. Lack of body language be it on the internet or the phone can be a bugger.

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries


"feel that you have unintentionally upset someone."

No - I usually mean to do it

Vixen

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Prob with the written word, be it here, FB, MSN, there is no intonation and something written innocently can be read the wrong way

Why not ask, you will then find out either way, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prob with the written word, be it here, FB, MSN, there is no intonation and something written innocently can be read the wrong way

x"

Agree...sometimes though people just like to take offense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the time. But then i am a pessimist and believe everything i do upsets someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prob with the written word, be it here, FB, MSN, there is no intonation and something written innocently can be read the wrong way

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Agree...sometimes though people just like to take offense!"

*takes the huff*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. The Lord above.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

yes, you did upset me!! the coffee creams were ucalled for - you should be ashamed xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"i would never intentionally upset someone.

i would hope someone would tell me if i had.

or do i expect too much?

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I hope you don't expect too much... I would expect the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened to me more since joining this site and I genuinely don't know what I did to get the cold shoulder. I have a suspicion that it has something to do with that phrase "No strings attached." Whilst I don't expect strings, I did used to expect courtesy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i am sure if your just open about stuff people see how things are x if not its them not you xxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

All the time. Some people can fly off the handle at what you thought was a flippant remark intended to raise a smile

In real life I am paranoid about this also cos I would hate for anyone to think I had tried to hurt them in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"It has happened to me more since joining this site and I genuinely don't know what I did to get the cold shoulder. I have a suspicion that it has something to do with that phrase "No strings attached." Whilst I don't expect strings, I did used to expect courtesy... "

I hope you do still expect courtesy!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"feel that you have unintentionally upset someone."

No. Because I don't care if I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do care if I have unintentionally upset someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this goes back to some other threads. Who we are, what we do and how we are treated. all interlinked imho.

We can hold our morals as a yardstick to measure against others, but in the end it is ourself we ultimately hold it against. What will your thought's be on your deathbed.

My philosophy is to do no [intentional] harm. My mileage varies day to day though of course!

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