FabSwingers.com forum: Do you hope for all night hugs after a meet

By *enmidsguy OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

Its only 1:30 dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You stayed for an hour after.. you are a bloody hero mate

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prefer overnight meets but that's just me and to be honest I haven't gone wrong and had amazing over night meets....however you are not wrong in what you decide to do

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

Do the dishes next time n bleach the bog before u go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dramarama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "

Eh midnight to 5am is 5hrs where does the hr after meeting come from?

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

I detect a whiff of the untruth about this my dear watson

Please do tell us more about the case evidence

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I prefer overnight meets but that's just me and to be honest I haven't gone wrong and had amazing over night meets....however you are not wrong in what you decide to do "

This

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

Good grief and how do you know the defendant in this case?

Are you in cahoots with the story

For some wierd thrill

Watson bring me the thumbscrews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x "

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

"We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x

Fred n rose liked this also....

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By *enmidsguy OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"I detect a whiff of the untruth about this my dear watson

Please do tell us more about the case evidence "

Totally true my friend, I had to go to work at 7 too lol

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

Hmmmmm it was colonel mustards daughter the loonatic must be stopped before she takes over the world

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By *enmidsguy OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I meant I left an hour after we had our little bit of fun.

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By *enmidsguy OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I thought so too lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x

Fred n rose liked this also...."

That's pretty sick dude

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By *llywalesWoman
over a year ago

"We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x

Lol

Fred n rose liked this also...."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x

Lol

Fred n rose liked this also...."

How did you get away with that avatar. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up."

Careful mate. Don't generalise.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Noooooo

Its NSA not hugging for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only meet for for cuddles.. but it is nice when they stay over for sex after x "

hahaha. Can I meet you for a cuddle ?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Not for me! Maybe a little cuddle but definitely not all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good snuggle me

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Love a good snuggle me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good cuddle but it's the sex I have trouble with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No right or wrong.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I very rarely stay over, but then I always tell the person before we meet that I won't be staying the night...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have always enjoyed overnight meets, it's is nice to have a snuggle after sex if that's what you are both happy with, plus the morning sex is always a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't "hope" for them but I only sleep with people I really like and get on with as friends as well as sexually. So spooning up together if it's an over nighter is something I enjoy as much as the sex together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always enjoyed overnight meets, it's is nice to have a snuggle after sex if that's what you are both happy with, plus the morning sex is always a bonus

Of course morning sex mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lack of communication before hand.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I very rarely stay over, but then I always tell the person before we meet that I won't be staying the night... "

Exactly this - did you say that you will or wont be staying the night

Communication is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all .

Clearly she had a different agenda , more akin to a dating site .

NSA all the way for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go

well thanks that was good thanks for having me lets do it again sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all .

Clearly she had a different agenda , more akin to a dating site .

NSA all the way for us ."

lmao

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've had women stay over for 2 nights, so I suppose cuddles are inevitable

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

There is a diff between snuggles and round 2

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Fuck and go

well thanks that was good thanks for having me lets do it again sometime

I have done that too, had some fun, had a chat and left, the circumstances of a meet dictate what the right thing to do is

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up.

Careful mate. Don't generalise. "

I know you'll store this conversation and bring it up in the future when I think all is forgotten/forgiven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddles required

I've developed a technique where I can dress them as they cum

By the time I've swallowed, they're half way down the stairs

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up.

Careful mate. Don't generalise.

I know you'll store this conversation and bring it up in the future when I think all is forgotten/forgiven."

Surely people don't save posts on their notes about that person so they can use it against them at a later more convenient time???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us married guys need to have fun makesure both parties are satisfied and leave before we are missed i suppose that may be considered wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cuddles. Anyone want to join me ?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"No cuddles required

I've developed a technique where I can dress them as they cum

By the time I've swallowed, they're half way down the stairs

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No cuddles required

I've developed a technique where I can dress them as they cum

By the time I've swallowed, they're half way down the stairs

;-)

Too funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask to meet her again and hold her so tight she can't move,keep asking if she's comfy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up."

Maybe the women you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just handcuff them to the radiator, then they can't leave.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I've had women stay over for 2 nights, so I suppose cuddles are inevitable

and then the chlorform ran out ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's really worth investing time before a meet to ensure expectations are matched and appropriate. Kissing, cuddling, available time are just some aspects to cover.

If you have misled someone then it's poor and predictable that someone feels aggrieved. Otherwise if you need to leave then you're at liberty as a non-incarcerated individual to get out.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There's no rules..... Make sure you tell your next potential that it's a Till Cum do Us Part type of meet.......

And then pray LIKE FUCK that she doesn't come first and kick your ass as you leave

You did nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go always seems so cold and clinical especially if you know the person quite well or,thought you did.

Almost feels like you may as well hold your hand out and get paid.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

????? It's 9:15pm

Wot country you in ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like hugging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

????? It's 9:15pm

Wot country you in ??????"

wow just wow hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

????? It's 9:15pm

Wot country you in ??????"

This was posted over twenty weeks ago haha. Not sure if you looked at the date lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meant I left an hour after we had our little bit of fun. "

You can call that a little! I don't do shag and go either!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Well I was matched with Markoh for a pint....

So I was hoping

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Fuck and go always seems so cold and clinical especially if you know the person quite well or,thought you did.

Almost feels like you may as well hold your hand out and get paid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I was matched with Markoh for a pint....

So I was hoping

Did you get some cuddles and smooches?

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

It all depends on what kind of meet it was and what was agreed on...if the session was intense leaving her after an hour is selfish... after care is as important as the play.

Communicate however lustful you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol

I would have thought a cuddle was a given. I'd feel used without a little imtimacy personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It all depends on what kind of meet it was and what was agreed on...if the session was intense leaving her after an hour is selfish... after care is as important as the play.

Communicate however lustful you feel.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Love a good post coital spoon myself

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

????? It's 9:15pm

Wot country you in ??????

This was posted over twenty weeks ago haha. Not sure if you looked at the date lol. "

Lol ya I just notised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

????? It's 9:15pm

Wot country you in ??????"

check out when it was posted...

21 weeks ago

who knows what time the OP posted

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Shared bath then taxi

Thanks and bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good post coital spoon myself

Now you're talking!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Love a good post coital spoon myself

Now you're talking!

Anytime sunshine smile

Besides a snoozy spoon helps round two access

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I will in the winter months it's freezing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good post coital spoon myself

Now you're talking!

Anytime sunshine smile

Besides a snoozy spoon helps round two access

There is that.... I'm not the one and done type anyway

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Love a good post coital spoon myself

Now you're talking!

Anytime sunshine smile

Besides a snoozy spoon helps round two access

There is that.... I'm not the one and done type anyway

Same here.. can't get enough of a good thing

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

In my mind its nsa and its fine to leave pretty much straight away. I'd see anything else as much too needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. "

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my mind its nsa and its fine to leave pretty much straight away. I'd see anything else as much too needy."

Nice that you see it that way. But I disagree with your needy point. Its a hug, not a wedding ring lol. NSA doesn't have to mean cold and clinical.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies "

Bumped uglies??? Hahaha not heard that one before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather go for food, because i'm usually hungry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies "

And he denied her a cuddle for a full hour before leaving?! That's just cruel

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

No, just bad English, met at midnight, yapping, drinking fucking till 4am left at 5..

Neither fuck & go or all nighters are wrong, but you need to make sure you are all singing the same tune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies

And he denied her a cuddle for a full hour before leaving?! That's just cruel"

Think it was chat, shag and quickly exit straight after... Literally

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies

Bumped uglies??? Hahaha not heard that one before!

lol genitals ain't that attractive really

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do love an overnight meet. It's usually planned though that it's an overnight.

I do love the anytime during the night and morning sex. Cuddling in to each other and spooning.

You haven't done anything wrong and no one deserves to be abused verbally like that. Deep breath and move on.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't do cold clinical meets, but I make that clear up front. Years ago a young pup thought he was being funny, but he wasn't laughing when I told him to get dressed and get the fuck out (wasn't from here)

I'm nobodies fuck and go

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"Well I was matched with Markoh for a pint....

So I was hoping

Did you get some cuddles and smooches?

He hasn't even messaged!

I was starting to go off him

, then he put that bloody blonde wig on!

Got me all going again, it did

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like a cuddle after sex with a lady.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a cuddle after sex with a lady. "

Glad you qualified that bud, you'd have had a dozen blow and go emails if not!!

Forums get all the "straight" dudes lurkin

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a cuddle after sex with a lady. "

Bless your little cottons.You see ladies there is a spooner out there. mwah'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.

We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.

Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...

I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies

Bumped uglies??? Hahaha not heard that one before!

lol genitals ain't that attractive really

Mine is carved from Greek Gods I'll have you know! That's why I don't show it on here.... Jealousy is an ugly, ugly thing!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd rather go for food, because i'm usually hungry"

Now this I can do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather go for food, because i'm usually hungry

Now this I can do! "

Chinese?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou. "

Yasss

I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I was matched with Markoh for a pint....

So I was hoping

Did you get some cuddles and smooches?

He hasn't even messaged!

I was starting to go off him

, then he put that bloody blonde wig on!

Got me all going again, it did

Tempting you with that blonde wig! He's nothing but a tease!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd rather go for food, because i'm usually hungry

Now this I can do!

Chinese?

Noodles? Can you make sure there is meat though. I feel deprived this evening

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.

Yasss

I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot. "

I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol

I would have thought a cuddle was a given. I'd feel used without a little imtimacy personally. "
if a meet tried to cuddle id freak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.

Yasss

I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.

I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. "

You are your own little central heating unit then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol

I would have thought a cuddle was a given. I'd feel used without a little imtimacy personally. if a meet tried to cuddle id freak. "

Lol. Each to their own. That's why i prefer regular to one nighters.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

See opinions are like aresholes, every bodies got one

Takes all kinds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I like a cuddle after sex with a lady.

Glad you qualified that bud, you'd have had a dozen blow and go emails if not!!

Forums get all the "straight" dudes lurkin

They are starting to arrive!!!

the lock button is on fire

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion."

Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'?

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou. "

Oh to be in your bed........

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over a year ago

I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.

Yasss

I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot. "

I can cope for a couple of minutes and then I just want to sprawl out

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over a year ago

"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.

Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'?

Possibly. He definitely farted a lot.

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over a year ago

"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.

Yasss

I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.

I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. "

Same. I'll warm them up then they have to roll over and leave me alone so I can stick my feet out of the end of the duvet.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things. "

Intriguing

tell me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many men cuddle. I don't mind either way.

I'm used to watching television with a snoring man next to me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.

Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'?

Possibly. He definitely farted a lot."

Dreams of sulphurous volcanoes?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Im a cuddler but each to their own. OP nowt wrong or right with what you did as it was your meet and perhaps she expected more and you didnt relaise. May be next time (assuming you meet her again) you can just cuddle to make up for it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

He has 15 minutes of chat time, no cuddles, then he can feck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.

Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'?

Possibly. He definitely farted a lot.

Dreams of sulphurous volcanoes? "

The Apocalypse. It was all fire and brimstone

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I get really hot during the night, spoon and touching for a bit then I will wake you up later with a warm hand at your entrance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't like is waking up in the night with a huge arm and leg pinning me down onto the bed. I get all panicky and want to cry.

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over a year ago

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

tell me more "

I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.

Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.

Yasss

I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.

I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. "

Exactly what we do! H is like ice compared to me so cuddles to warm up, post sex cuddles till she's asleep then it's "Get me the fuck to the cold side of the bed & turn the pillows too!! Our alarm is set 45mins before we need to get up. So cuddles are first & last thing we do each day

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"What I don't like is waking up in the night with a huge arm and leg pinning me down onto the bed. I get all panicky and want to cry. "

I get that, but how about a hot hard boaby between your thighs/cheeks? That ok?

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

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I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "

I had an ex that did this, awesome... best way to wake up with some sexy tampering going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

tell me more

I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "

We still haven't concluded that picture deal we discussed

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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago

osterley

I prefer over night meets and cuddling and kissing it's just seems right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep! "

Hahaha

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over a year ago

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

tell me more

I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "

Isn't that rape? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep! "

Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

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I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.

Isn't that rape? Lol"

I explicitly give my permission before sleeping

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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago

osterley

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Poor car ! Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

^ she's so flipping blunt.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Love all-night cuddles with the right person, certainly not everyone.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

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I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "

Best way to wake them up!

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over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

tell me more

I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.

Best way to wake them up!"

I'm always up while sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Oh yes... I woke myself up inward farting once!

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over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound

Or if you can't get to your car if you put your finger over your bum hole you can release it like a puff, have to wash your fingers afterwards though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has 15 minutes of chat time, no cuddles, then he can feck off

"
hahaha...

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over a year ago

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

tell me more

I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "

Winning comment.

(Sometimes I do this, too, and it's always well received!)

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over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound

Or if you can't get to your car if you put your finger over your bum hole you can release it like a puff, have to wash your fingers afterwards though. "

If you hold your bum cheeks apart it doesn't make a sound. Obviously that won't stop the smell but if it's the noise you're concerned about.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Far too much strategic thinking going into farting by these girls

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over a year ago

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

tell me more

I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.

Isn't that rape? Lol"

Right for 2 years I've expressed my fondness for sleeping guys and people have said it's essentially rape because you can't give consent if you're not concious. But, every guy that's put himself in my bedroom is fully aware of what will happen.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound

Or if you can't get to your car if you put your finger over your bum hole you can release it like a puff, have to wash your fingers afterwards though.

If you hold your bum cheeks apart it doesn't make a sound. Obviously that won't stop the smell but if it's the noise you're concerned about."

Although if you need a hand someday with that ruby give me a call

happily be your cheeky lad lol

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

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I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.

Isn't that rape? Lol

Prior awareness and acceptance equals not rape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up unless I have been speaking to the person for a while I won't even stay the hour ... So u stayed longer than I do

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over a year ago

"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.

Intriguing

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I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.

Isn't that rape? Lol

*Heads to Wales for a nap

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Up unless I have been speaking to the person for a while I won't even stay the hour ... So u stayed longer than I do "

Are you saying your meets don't last an hour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Up unless I have been speaking to the person for a while I won't even stay the hour ... So u stayed longer than I do

Are you saying your meets don't last an hour?

I should be so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!

Wow! I thought that was just me! Haha.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Up unless I have been speaking to the person for a while I won't even stay the hour ... So u stayed longer than I do

Are you saying your meets don't last an hour?

I should be so lucky

Meeting the wrong dudes

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Sleepovers are best, but as long as the guy doesn't run out the door as soon as he's done it's fine. An hour should do.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Fuck no, most men snore.....one of my pet hates!!!!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Sleepovers are best, but as long as the guy doesn't run out the door as soon as he's done it's fine. An hour should do."

I'm just getting tired in my jaw after an hour... what's the hurry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles and smoochies, with the right person (even without sex) - but agree that after a while, I often get too hot, so have to disengage, to cool down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck no, most men snore.....one of my pet hates!!!!"

Met a few of those... I usually make excuses in that regard, of why I have to go home a bit earlier than planned.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Fuck no, most men snore.....one of my pet hates!!!!

Met a few of those... I usually make excuses in that regard, of why I have to go home a bit earlier than planned. "

Their loss snoring mofos

I'd make sure you were way too tired to go anywhere

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I do like to be cuddled to sleep but it can't happen every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing about post meets is the after sex spoobing in bed till we both fall asleep.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Best thing about post meets is the after sex spoobing in bed till we both fall asleep. "

Spoobing sounds hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best thing about post meets is the after sex spoobing in bed till we both fall asleep.

Spoobing sounds hot

It is

Gently cup one arm around your ladies waist and the other arm under her chest gently cupping a breast and gently nibble at the nape of her neck till.you nod off.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Best thing about post meets is the after sex spoobing in bed till we both fall asleep.

Spoobing sounds hot

It is

Gently cup one arm around your ladies waist and the other arm under her chest gently cupping a breast and gently nibble at the nape of her neck till.you nod off."

lol trademarked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's only a one off meet then why worry.

When ya go for a crap you don't cuddle it afterwards do you??

However, if it's likely to be an on going thing then maybe a little bit of communication & consideration may not have gone a miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's only a one off meet then why worry.

When ya go for a crap you don't cuddle it afterwards do you??

However, if it's likely to be an on going thing then maybe a little bit of communication & consideration may not have gone a miss."

you're from that school of charm aren't you?

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

In my mind its nsa and its fine to leave pretty much straight away. I'd see anything else as much too needy."

Tbh I think there'll always be a difference in the 'needs' of couples and singles on fab! Couples get (or should get) all their emotional/affection needs from their partners so they tend to look to other sexual partners purely for sex (and perhaps friendship). Singles, unless they have kids (which is a different kind of affection obviously), don't have a partner to satisfy their affection/nurturing needs so they often look for compatible meets to fulfil that need - eg lots of cuddles and affection after/in between sex. It doesn't make us needy or desperate for a relationship (as some seem to think) - it makes us human!

However - unless it was agreed that the op would stay overnight, I think staying for an hour afterwards for cuddles seems completely reasonable!

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