FabSwingers.com forum: How long was/is your longest relationship?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years 5 months so far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 years & counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years only :s

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We met while still at school, so been together a fair few years now.

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By *arkthespark1Man
over a year ago

coventry

17 years for me. 7 married then the itch occoured??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

31 years

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

36 years and on going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

31 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years and counting and Christ it's gone fast..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as stars are above us and longer if we can..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im impossible to date..

id like to find someone, but i just mega fuck things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"15 years and counting and Christ it's gone fast.."

Doesn't just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years and counting. Prior to that it was about a month. I get bored easily. Really easily....that's how i knew Clem was the guy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forty years with Lapsang Souchong and a brown, smouldering mistress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought it was 11 years but it was 9 for me, according to that ex anyway.

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

This one is, and I think the honesty that you need to make a success of swinging, applied to all areas of our relationship is the reason why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months. Lmao obviously relationships ain't my thing. Hahahahahahahaha

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

5 months been told iam to nice and boring so they cheat and then iam a cunt who just fucks slut and iam too mean and nasty so can't get the mix right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never got past the three year mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 yrs but hats of to 36 yrs wow amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 years........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made it to almost 20 years...and single now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years ...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right."

16 years and counting

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

14 years 10 months and counting...here's to the next 14 and the 14 after that etc

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"This one is, and I think the honesty that you need to make a success of swinging, applied to all areas of our relationship is the reason why."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years 3 months

Good going seen as we're 30 and 32

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years and done thank goodness

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

over 30,then she made me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years for me my only proper relationship been single 3 years now but live in hope of finding a swinger one day lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 years with my ex-husband

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

25 years before he died

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

12 yrs glad to get rid

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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20 happy years for us X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years and think it was 3 years to long

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never been married, but have had 4 long term relationships.

The first was for 6 yrs, she was 5 yrs & 2 days older than me and I finished it as I thought she was too jealous.

The second was for 5 yrs, she was 13 yrs older than me, I met her in 1990 aged 28 and we had an open relationship and I had my first meet with her through Rendezvous before we went our separate ways.

The third was for 9 yrs with the bitch who ripped me off for £80,000

My last ex was with for 5 yrs.

Still speak to all except number 3 who I would love to fuck up the arse

with a cactus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been married, but have had 4 long term relationships.

The first was for 6 yrs, she was 5 yrs & 2 days older than me and I finished it as I thought she was too jealous.

The second was for 5 yrs, she was 13 yrs older than me, I met her in 1990 aged 28 and we had an open relationship and I had my first meet with her through Rendezvous before we went our separate ways.

The third was for 9 yrs with the bitch who ripped me off for £80,000

My last ex was with for 5 yrs.

Still speak to all except number 3 who I would love to fuck up the arse

with a cactus

Haha that's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 30 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 years and still get butterflies when he walks in from work!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 ,years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made it to almost 20 years...and single now..."

Same for me too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 years

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

I've only had the one relationship and it's still going strong at 31 years. Love him to bits still.

Mrs S

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

1st date: 27 years ago, and I can honestly say I am as happy now as I have ever been, probably more so.

Mr ddc

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Just over 11 years married so including dating and time for the divorce to start 13 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years then 8 years 2 x 6 years 2 1/2 years and a couple of shorter ones in between.

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

11years and still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll be 10 years in July and he still gives me butterflies

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

But 10years married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 years still having the time of our lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 yr and that was that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years with ex husband.

14 years with ex partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"25 years and still get butterflies when he walks in from work!

xx"

I miss those butterflies. Loving all the love on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"14 years with ex husband.

14 years with ex partner."

You do better than me, you manage twice the 7 year itch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im impossible to date..

id like to find someone, but i just mega fuck things up "
awwww why!!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Just a few months off 20 years. We started seeing each other when I was 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed 16 yrs before she ran off with her work colleague. Shit happens. We're still friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years and 10 months so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 years and counting.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

"Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right."

Same for me. Left my x just before our 7 year anniversary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Was married for 8 years not sure how long we was together before that but it gradually turned to shite after we got married. Think other than that about the 7 years mark so yep I think your right op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years. Twas not wasted though. I learned alot about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my marriage ended the day before our 8th wedding anniversary....best present I ever had

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

6 months, as soon as the sun comes up I cut em all loose and works my excuse but the truth is I can't open up

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

32 years and still going strong love you baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"32 years and still going strong love you baby

Thanks

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"32 years and still going strong love you baby

Thanks

Sssshhhhhh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 yrs then 14 yes single now In a relationship for four months ! My second relationship ever !!!!

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

3 1/2 years but mostly less than 6 months

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

13 years almost exactly. Wouldn't have got that for fecking murder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 blissful years and still going

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

19.5 years - would've got less for murder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"32 years and still going strong love you baby

Thanks

Sssshhhhhh lol"

Sorry, was it supposed to be a secret?

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

I had a very happy 42 year relationship with my hair

but we have been breaking up for a while now

one of us should end it but its not that easy to finally let go

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

A little over 29 years... and still going strong lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 blissful years and still going

Nice one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 and a half years with my ex and the father of my child and Jesus I wish I'd had my child with someone else, she's 99% my genes anyway so would've had the same baby with someone else.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"19.5 years - would've got less for murder "

Haha, good point!! 20 years here....

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

I was with my ex for 21 years 16 married K was 18 years with hers 13 married we have been together 13 and a half and its gone so fast, couldnt be happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"15 years and counting and Christ it's gone fast.."

Excellent name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right."

7 years for me. The last 4 years about 2 months seems to be it

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"32 years and still going strong love you baby

Thanks

Sssshhhhhh lol

Sorry, was it supposed to be a secret?

Oh no the cat's out of the bag what will the wife say. Lol

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

3 years 3 months

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

13.5 years so far, with Frisky and our love will go on until the stars have gone dark and the only light in the universe is the glow of our love...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"13.5 years so far, with Frisky and our love will go on until the stars have gone dark and the only light in the universe is the glow of our love...

Awwwww so sweet ya pair of big soft gits ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been married, but have had 4 long term relationships.

The first was for 6 yrs, she was 5 yrs & 2 days older than me and I finished it as I thought she was too jealous.

The second was for 5 yrs, she was 13 yrs older than me, I met her in 1990 aged 28 and we had an open relationship and I had my first meet with her through Rendezvous before we went our separate ways.

The third was for 9 yrs with the bitch who ripped me off for £80,000

My last ex was with for 5 yrs.

Still speak to all except number 3 who I would love to fuck up the arse

with a cactus

Haha that's funny

The 80 grand bit wasn't.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

"13.5 years so far, with Frisky and our love will go on until the stars have gone dark and the only light in the universe is the glow of our love...

Awwwww so sweet ya pair of big soft gits ya

Don't tell Frisky I said that...

She will start expecting flowers and chocolates...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

21 this year with hubby and just over 10 years in a swinging relationship - not that we spent much of it swinging thanks to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five years.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We have been together 20 years, met at college when we were 16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 years and still going strong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 yeras and still rolling

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

18 yrs...

Still going.. I'm lucky he has no issue with me doing this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right."
Ive had 2 relationships that both ended during the so called 7 year itch and I thought it was right too, but then I met Ali and ive had 14 blissfully happy years with my gorgeous Wifey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right."

Snap..but still have sex with her most weekends

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've never been in a relationship. I'm still waiting for the right lady to come along.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"26 years"

Same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 years and still counting

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

35 years and looking forward to the next 35 years

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

17 years

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

45 years now ..

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

30 years in August

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years here glad I'm free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years 6 of which was married quite happy to be free haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 months

Really?? But you're more than hot enough I'd spend at least the first year on those breasts haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eternal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6yrs, was a fucking nightmare the last few months though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met the Mrs when she was just over 18, and shes 40 now... something must have gone right cos shes still with me and we are very much in love still

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

31 years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for 7 years... I am not sure it was a relationship as it coincided with me working overseas for 7 years....

I used to think the secret to a happy marriage was a separate duvet and separate continents

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"Seven years for me. I reckon that 7 year itch theory must be right."

7 yrs (twice!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married for 7 years... I am not sure it was a relationship as it coincided with me working overseas for 7 years....

I used to think the secret to a happy marriage was a separate duvet and separate continents "

Bank job? Lol .... kiddin before anyone jumps on the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did ten years and never been more happy to get out of it and live a bit xx

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london

52 years. We met at school. Then she passed away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married for 7 years... I am not sure it was a relationship as it coincided with me working overseas for 7 years....

I used to think the secret to a happy marriage was a separate duvet and separate continents

Bank job? Lol .... kiddin before anyone jumps on the post.

Strangely... yes! How did you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married for 7 years... I am not sure it was a relationship as it coincided with me working overseas for 7 years....

I used to think the secret to a happy marriage was a separate duvet and separate continents

Bank job? Lol .... kiddin before anyone jumps on the post.

Strangely... yes! How did you know?"

Recognised you from the papers! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 22 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

29 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been in one relationship it lasted 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had 3, i cant remeber how long the first one was but was just a few years, then together and finally married for over 22 years and now with a wonderful guy for about 9 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 yrs and glad its over

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