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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

It's so much easier to chat and flirt behind a screen !

We have a couples profile that we have met and played on a few times before but I have always been with my hubby

Tomorrow I am meeting a male alone for the first time it will be in a public place (pub) and hotel if we both want to play but I'm really nervous !

Excited but nervous !

We get on amazingly through messages will it be as easy face to face ?

Any advice please ? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it easier to actually speak to someone either face to face or on the phone rather than with messages/texts. I think we all find first meets nervous, good luck.

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I always find it easier to actually speak to someone either face to face or on the phone rather than with messages/texts. I think we all find first meets nervous, good luck."

I probably find it harder on the phone than face to face aswell

Lol

I'm hoping we just get on like we do in messages

Hate awkward silences

Xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Try not to put to much pressure on yourself,just go and have a chat see whether you like each other. If you don't then you can both part after a drink,if you do then great...enjoy the rest of your evening together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find it easier to actually speak to someone either face to face or on the phone rather than with messages/texts. I think we all find first meets nervous, good luck.

I probably find it harder on the phone than face to face aswell

Lol

I'm hoping we just get on like we do in messages

Hate awkward silences

Xx"

He is probably feeling exactly the same as you, so don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the same. But with each meet it gets just that little bit easier

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'd imagine that most people feel nervous before a meet. He's probably thinking and feeling the same.

Easier said than done, but don't put pressure on yourself. Things will either fall into place or they won't. If they don't, it's not the end of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember to bring mints or gum. And don't drink too fast. Everything will be fine

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Remember bj's are compulsory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the day I stop getting nervous before a meet is the day I stop meeting...

its only natural to feel that way but if you have hit it off via here first I am sure you will have no problem meeting face to face

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Remember bj's are compulsory "

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"the day I stop getting nervous before a meet is the day I stop meeting...

its only natural to feel that way but if you have hit it off via here first I am sure you will have no problem meeting face to face"

Yes I sort of like the feeling it's exciting and part of the build up so I know what you mean X

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By *i Lady Next Door OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I'd imagine that most people feel nervous before a meet. He's probably thinking and feeling the same.

Easier said than done, but don't put pressure on yourself. Things will either fall into place or they won't. If they don't, it's not the end of the world.

"

I know he is feeling the same ! Really excited too but the nerves are there !

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington


"It's so much easier to chat and flirt behind a screen !

We have a couples profile that we have met and played on a few times before but I have always been with my hubby

Tomorrow I am meeting a male alone for the first time it will be in a public place (pub) and hotel if we both want to play but I'm really nervous !

Excited but nervous !

We get on amazingly through messages will it be as easy face to face ?

Any advice please ? xxx "

Drinking lots of wine,

makes you feel fine.

Haha good look OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the excitement of a first meet. Just go into it with no pressure or expectations and enjoy it. Anything else, be it good chat, meal, a bit of naughty fun. Is simply a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same feelings about tomorrow. We're meeting for the first time at a hotel. Nerves are a good thing. If ever I don't feel any nerves then the excitement has died and I wouldn't meet.

You'll be fine

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"It's so much easier to chat and flirt behind a screen !

We have a couples profile that we have met and played on a few times before but I have always been with my hubby

Tomorrow I am meeting a male alone for the first time it will be in a public place (pub) and hotel if we both want to play but I'm really nervous !

Excited but nervous !

We get on amazingly through messages will it be as easy face to face ?

Any advice please ? xxx "

Relax. Go with the flow.

And mostly have fun

Mrs SB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After you've both had a really good chat over a drink or 2, you'll probably find the nerves have gone away

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