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Being 27 and Single on here is hard work on here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is with all the timewasters on here getting in the way of the real guys and making our sexual lifes so hard to work on here? Lol

Feel like this is a good place to vent

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Its only hard if your male females find it very easy to get meets.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Thursday is rant day on the forums, so yes this is the right place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to know the best tactical way to get around this problem, i have huge loads ready to give out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hard work?

we're not that easy, that's your problem probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is hard at 27 I remember it well.

51 it's a piece of piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its only hard if your male females find it very easy to get meets. "
anf us tgirls too we get meets very easy x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

my heart bleeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""
Is that a little Bach I can hear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't know,life in general is hard at times,why should it be any different here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is with all the timewasters on here getting in the way of the real guys and making our sexual lifes so hard to work on here? Lol

Feel like this is a good place to vent "

OP, who is making your life such hard work?

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By *orset manMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

makes me smile

the amount of young blokes on here grumbling for attention

try getting real, genuine meets when 55

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ahhh! So everyone else is to blame cause you can't get laid? Gotcha! *taps nose*

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I suspect most "girlies" don't like their clit getting a "lashing" .

Seriously though - you're making the classic assumption that other men are spoiling it for you, when the problems are probably much closer to home. The photo is one obvious one.

Besides - timewasters and idiots only make the decent guys stand out even more.

Perhaps have a look at successful blokes - their approach is probably a bit different tbh.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a rant is the natural thing to do I I'll be here for ever if I let loose but it puts people off so keep the frustrations built up till you get a meet and let her have it!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I didn't want to mention 'girlies'. I'm to old anyway so definitely not a girlie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning about it isn't attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh how i am starting to regret making this post now, jesus christ lol

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Your username isn't ideal either

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

If you slapped my arse instead of saying hello, my fist may just make contact with your groin then I'd have you arrested. It's not 'cheeky' is objectification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to know the best tactical way to get around this problem, i have huge loads ready to give out lol"

You seem to have a sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh how i am starting to regret making this post now, jesus christ lol"

Instead of regretting it, learn from it and if any advice is given, act on it if you think it will help you personally.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Oh how i am starting to regret making this post now, jesus christ lol"

It's only going to get worse before it gets any better

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I need to know the best tactical way to get around this problem, i have huge loads ready to give out lol"

Hmmmmmmmm I wonder why women don't meet you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So basically, i need to come at this from a whole different angle, infact forget the angle, i may aswell just be a whole different shape lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be 27 again... happy days. Not sure I would be on here (I think I was overseas at 27)..

..enjoy your youth OP; but learn that which age giveth; patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh how i am starting to regret making this post now, jesus christ lol

It's only going to get worse before it gets any better "

Have faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard work?

we're not that easy, that's your problem probably. "

Loves this he gives up too easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. They never learn.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So basically, i need to come at this from a whole different angle, infact forget the angle, i may aswell just be a whole different shape lol "

The shape really doesn't matter, the content is more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is with all the timewasters on here getting in the way of the real guys and making our sexual lifes so hard to work on here? Lol

Feel like this is a good place to vent "

How are timewasrers getting in your way?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Oh dear. They never learn. "

The youth of today eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, i need to come at this from a whole different angle, infact forget the angle, i may aswell just be a whole different shape lol "

Just wondered who you thought was spoiling things for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username isn't ideal either "

Definitely off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes me smile

the amount of young blokes on here grumbling for attention

try getting real, genuine meets when 55"

The answer to that one is simple .

Marry a hottie 20 years younger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think i shall regroup and rise again in a different manner then report back with a updated insight to being 27 and single on here

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

What is or with all the young single girls on here moaning, can you not pull in the real world?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Oh how i am starting to regret making this post now, jesus christ lol

It's only going to get worse before it gets any better

Have faith "

No I'm more realistic than that,I have no faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I was still 27 lol.....but I would probably be knackered!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldnt say i give up, but im sure the women on here can agree the amount of messages they get off single guys is unreal, im sure plenty have been let down on meets aswell, hundreds of messages will go unread and what not....is this not true to fab or am i mistaken?

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"What is or with all the young single girls on here moaning, can you not pull in the real world?"
guys!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You may be exaggerating slightly there but I get your point. Now stop moaning and get on with it,your success is down to you and you alone,don't blame anyone else for your lack of meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

You haven't asked for a profile review and I hesitate to add some stuff about it, but here goes...

1. All younger men on here like older women (well most) - not unique

2. You have one photo (public) it's your cock - not unique

3. You have been told you are good at oral, someone somewhere will always tell you you are good at this - not unique

4. You moan a bit in your profile - not unique

So to summarise you aren't standing out from the crowd; change that and your luck may change.

I apologise if this advice is not wanted or patronising.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wouldnt that just be like asking what is the point in this whole site then?

Not everyone out there is just looking to explore there sexual prowess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP

You haven't asked for a profile review and I hesitate to add some stuff about it, but here goes...

1. All younger men on here like older women (well most) - not unique

2. You have one photo (public) it's your cock - not unique

3. You have been told you are good at oral, someone somewhere will always tell you you are good at this - not unique

4. You moan a bit in your profile - not unique

So to summarise you aren't standing out from the crowd; change that and your luck may change.

I apologise if this advice is not wanted or patronising.

"

Any advice is good advice for me pal

Im 1 for learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's boring when it's easy,trust me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's boring when it's easy,trust me "

But when it seems damn near impossible, it aint much better either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's boring when it's easy,trust me

But when it seems damn near impossible, it aint much better either lol"

Think of it as a challenge and put your all into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's boring when it's easy,trust me

But when it seems damn near impossible, it aint much better either lol

Think of it as a challenge and put your all into it "

Im not 1 to quit. I will come back from this better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt say i give up, but im sure the women on here can agree the amount of messages they get off single guys is unreal, im sure plenty have been let down on meets aswell, hundreds of messages will go unread and what not....is this not true to fab or am i mistaken?"

That's it in one, every male on here is in the same boat, if there was an easy way to meet on here I am sure someone would have posted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username isn't ideal either "

This and slapping my arse instead of saying hello hmmm wonder why there's no queue lol

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a social event mate. Slapping a womans arse before you know her is sexual assault not to mention bloody rude, re-write your profile, show respect and try to actually make friends with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh how i am starting to regret making this post now, jesus christ lol"

LOL definitely should have thought it through.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If you can't get laid - have a perv then a wank works for me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can't get laid - have a perv then a wank works for me lol "

LMFAO im gona take the constructive criticism and regroup i think

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"What is with all the timewasters on here getting in the way of the real guys and making our sexual lifes so hard to work on here? Lol

Feel like this is a good place to vent "
no it's not I'm in the same predicament change your attitude and get to some clubs do some networking

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