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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just come to the conclusion that the majority of 'single men' on here are sad, sex-starved married men.

I've just had a message asking to swap a pair of MrsJ's used knickers for X pair of his wife's (single man)!

Why ard they not on here as s couple like us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I agree. They are sad, what else can I say ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100% single, not married. Oh, yes "sex starved" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just come to the conclusion that the majority of 'single men' on here are sad, sex-starved married men.

I've just had a message asking to swap a pair of MrsJ's used knickers for X pair of his wife's (single man)!

Why ard they not on here as s couple like us? "

I'm not any of what you just said

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Maybe they're not married to a woman like Mrs J.

I was sad and sex starved after a few years of marriage.

If only fab was around before we tied the knot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people with single profiles can be just meeting on their own but their partner knows about it, so some single guys are genuine in that sense.

but yes there's a lot of cheaters on here. it's why i don't bother meeting much now.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

To be fair I've always thought of the term "single man" on a swinging site to mean "a man swinging alone". If his marital status bothers you, (and I appreciate that to many it does) you could just ask.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about married single fems

I suppose they can stay

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

Sex starved and sad yep

But not married or attached to someone

How do we prove it when this is people have already decided

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By *hats_in_a_usernameMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Married, not sex starved, we just both like a little extra (she's on here too).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did they get through your filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?"

they didnt think of that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A reasonable question me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I've always thought of the term "single man" on a swinging site to mean "a man swinging alone". If his marital status bothers you, (and I appreciate that to many it does) you could just ask.

Mr ddc"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm single, because nobody will have me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?"

Did I say the message was from this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

Says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

Actually yes you implied that in your thread opening speech

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just come to the conclusion that the majority of 'single men' on here are sad, sex-starved married men.

I've just had a message asking to swap a pair of MrsJ's used knickers for X pair of his wife's (single man)!

Why ard they not on here as s couple like us? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha Rumbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

So why are you slagging of single men on this site then if the message wasn't from this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

You said the majority of single Men on here.

So yes.

Unless youre saying that you decised this based on messages from other sites which would be a bizarre thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your experience doesn't reflect mine....I'm very happy to report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just come to the conclusion that the majority of 'single men' on here are sad, sex-starved married men.

I've just had a message asking to swap a pair of MrsJ's used knickers for X pair of his wife's (single man)!

Why ard they not on here as s couple like us?

May I refer you to the "majority of single men on here"... leading too "i've just had a message...."... going on to say "why aren't they on here as a couple..."

Your post is about being "on here"... perhaps if the "other" place has a forum you should post this there "

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Feel like we have to stick up for the 'single guys' here. Many are sad, many are sex starved ( it's a swingers site...clue is in the title) many are just idiots but that applies to just as many couples too. Had plenty of verified couples come across as complete dicks so it's all a level playing field. Problem is a large proportion of couples are up there own arse and snobs, feel like only they have the right to be on these sites and on most occasions have nothing to back that up. Everyone likes sex so we shouldn't be surprised that a FREE website like this or others should attract people from all walks of life, some with pretty weird tastes but as long as no one is badly treated we say go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad because that means more meets for the genuine single men like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is complaining about single guys that are married..

They are not looking for single guys too..

But in reality that could read as not looking for single guys but married are ok

Just saying

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I'm single, because nobody will have me "

Oh stop blubbing, I was just about to add that we don't think the majority of single men on here are sad, and your incessant weeping is somewhat ruining it.

Either that, or if being on a website looking for sex is sad, then doesn't that cover all of us, not just the men?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think op should be banned from the forums. Pathetic tbh from adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single lonely guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think op should be banned from the forums. Pathetic tbh from adults "

Now now single male profile bashing is an e-sport and as such should be encouraged... what else would we chat about? and anyway I like the shield maidens that leap to our defence

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised ."

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope "

Did you not get the memo when you signed up?? Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope

Did you not get the memo when you signed up?? Tut tut "

Dam I never bothered with the small print...must do better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy.... cant win

Single cream....cant stand

Single supplements...Disgrace

Single membership...How it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope "

It depends what sort of moaning you're talking about

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope

Did you not get the memo when you signed up?? Tut tut "

Must have missed that! And Scarlett, Oh......my........god.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope

Did you not get the memo when you signed up?? Tut tut

Must have missed that! And Scarlett, Oh......my........god..... "

What have i done now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope

It depends what sort of moaning you're talking about "

I'm open to coaching in the differing types of moaning available

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax


"EVery body needs something to moan about so guess we shouldn't be surprised .

Is moaning compulsory on here? I tend not to I hope

Did you not get the memo when you signed up?? Tut tut

Must have missed that! And Scarlett, Oh......my........god.....

What have i done now?? "

Our reaction to your pics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

Yes you did


"I've just come to the conclusion that the majority of 'single men' on here are sad, sex-starved married men.

I've just had a message asking to swap a pair of MrsJ's used knickers for X pair of his wife's (single man)!

Why ard they not on here as s couple like us? "

Why would a message else where influence how "you view the majority of single men on here". That makes absolutely no sense.

And a bit odd to then try and deny that it didn't happen on here when called out on it.

To be honest this thread just looks like a poor attempt at badmouthing single men based on something that quite possibly never happened

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

I'm not married .iv not got a girl friend.so quessing that make me single.

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By *reenEyedWifeCouple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"To be fair I've always thought of the term "single man" on a swinging site to mean "a man swinging alone". If his marital status bothers you, (and I appreciate that to many it does) you could just ask.

Mr ddc"

Yes, you can ask. But unfortunately, they lie like rugs.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

More single guy bashing but ye I get it just don't think we are all the same. I've not read the posts because I can't be arsed but I'm sure it's all been said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More single guy bashing but ye I get it just don't think we are all the same. I've not read the posts because I can't be arsed but I'm sure it's all been said"

It has mate. It is getting weary now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are the folks that bash from behind a computer. ..

So many times in clubs couples a females have told me that they are as guilty as most for lying and so on..

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"More single guy bashing but ye I get it just don't think we are all the same. I've not read the posts because I can't be arsed but I'm sure it's all been said

It has mate. It is getting weary now. "

Like I said I get it but fuck it boils my piss being taken as the same

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"To be fair I've always thought of the term "single man" on a swinging site to mean "a man swinging alone". If his marital status bothers you, (and I appreciate that to many it does) you could just ask.

Mr ddc

Yes, you can ask. But unfortunately, they lie like rugs. "

They? All of them?

We've seen quite a few profiles where people are honest and upfront about it.

That said, we've also seen a few iffy couples profiles, and not an insignificant number of iffy single fem profiles. But we still don't judge the majority based on the few.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Single and very comfortable with it!

Sad and sex starved????

Have had a damned good life!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging website ='in my eyes should be happy fun times, everybody welcome, each to their own, treat with respect

However These forums not jus this one can imply some true hate, every creed or breed is guilty..

I'm in no way a hippy but geez.. If on this example you don't like single guys join a website where there banned from...

Don't moan, live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Closed,thread got

to big)

Damn didn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice try lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice try lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not married, very much single, absolutely not sex starved.

I'll just leave now shall I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just come to the conclusion that the majority of 'single men' on here are sad, sex-starved married men.

I've just had a message asking to swap a pair of MrsJ's used knickers for X pair of his wife's (single man)!

Why ard they not on here as s couple like us? "

You can have a pair of my old briefs that I've worn for a week non stop if you like?

A bargain for only £500...

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever


"More single guy bashing but ye I get it just don't think we are all the same. I've not read the posts because I can't be arsed but I'm sure it's all been said

It has mate. It is getting weary now.

Like I said I get it but fuck it boils my piss being taken as the same "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its men like that (along with secret gay men wanting to suck straight mens cocks ) that make it hard for genuine single guys looking for msa fun . hope there mrs catches em abd cuts there cock off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex starved and sad yep

But not married or attached to someone

How do we prove it when this is people have already decided"

Yup! So many people on here pre-judge. Some women seem to feel because I'm a single guy I owe them something (which is by far not the case).

Shame really because I'm a genuine guy just looking to entertain nice women, get to know them and have fun times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some genuine, friendly, considerate and nice single guys on here, we know because we have meet them.... But, they are seriously outnumbered by the dickheads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some genuine, friendly, considerate and nice single guys on here, we know because we have meet them.... But, they are seriously outnumbered by the dickheads!"

Agree.. along with high percentage of females and couples that fall into that catagory too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some genuine, friendly, considerate and nice single guys on here, we know because we have meet them.... But, they are seriously outnumbered by the dickheads!

Agree.. along with high percentage of females and couples that fall into that catagory too"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some genuine, friendly, considerate and nice single guys on here, we know because we have meet them.... But, they are seriously outnumbered by the dickheads!

Agree.. along with high percentage of females and couples that fall into that catagory too"

Totally agree...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

The air must be terribly thin up high on that pedestal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The air must be terribly thin up high on that pedestal "

??

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By *h1tewolfMan
over a year ago

Rubery

I really think it shouldn't be your business judging what people choose to reveal of themselves.

Get off your high horse and let people live the way they want. You'll find that not trying to force people into your moral code will make your own life easier too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

What are you even talking about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

Seems like you're lying

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

all on her in the forums, have seen

single male = married male

married couple =single male

single female=married female

no matter what on profile. the SINGLE MALE= married gets the most slating off. single males are the lowest on here and take the most crap on forums. unless site asks for proof of marital status. not sure how. then this will be the norm. being a free site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not married, but I am sad and single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not married, very much single, absolutely not sex starved.

I'll just leave now shall I "

Don't you dare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of married women on here without their husbands consent as i have met a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not married not sad and as for sex well what can I say. I read about it on google once. Heard it was pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site?

Seems like you're lying"

Seems we'll never know...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am a single man who is single - I can go for weeks without sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site?

Seems like you're lying

Seems we'll never know..."

Attention seekers maybe ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its men like that (along with secret gay men wanting to suck straight mens cocks ) that make it hard for genuine single guys looking for msa fun . hope there mrs catches em abd cuts there cock off lol"

Surely the secretly gay men cant be making it hard for you to mee women.

Cause you know, cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they get through your filter?

Did I say the message was from this site? "

You did say why are they not on HERE as a couple like us so it's reasonable to assum the message was in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your experience doesn't reflect mine....I'm very happy to report. "

Nor mine, I've mean loads of lovely single guys from off here

Ok there are some idiots but they are not a reflection of the site in general, just as there are some idiot women and couples, I have found most guys on here to be ok

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