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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But how many people really want a relationship, how many lie and say they do ?? Do people manipulate people's feelings and is it morally wrong?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Overthinking doesn't equate to meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No yes and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us .

It is exactly what it is , and no pretence .

We meet , we play , no strings , no pressure .

We fulfill fantasies and that's all there is to it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how many people really want a relationship, how many lie and say they do ?? Do people manipulate people's feelings and is it morally wrong?"

How many people are going to admit to manipulating people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could sex without having to meet anyone I'd be utterly delighted .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't struggle for meets. I only meet people I'm attracted to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are local too lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships. Not necessarily exclusive ones though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But how many people really want a relationship, how many lie and say they do ?? Do people manipulate people's feelings and is it morally wrong?"

Loads and yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for fun, I'm single though so open to meeting a potential partner. I don't feel the need to manipulate anyone, if your ideals differ then I won't meet, simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean people lie that they want a relationship just to get the shag? I think strangely there's less of that here than from what friends have told me happens on dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's true. Most are on here n dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried dating sites and was lied to more than not...Men usually involved..

I like the honesty (usually) from here and have made some good friends....and only meet people I feel a connection with

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"If I could sex without having to meet anyone I'd be utterly delighted .....

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It's called wanking dear

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I tried dating sites and was lied to more than not...Men usually involved..

I like the honesty (usually) from here and have made some good friends....and only meet people I feel a connection with "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tried dating sites and was lied to more than not...Men usually involved..

I like the honesty (usually) from here and have made some good friends....and only meet people I feel a connection with "
I fully agree with this to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could say one way or the other but to be able to comment would involve meeting someone . That hasn't happened. But what I can say is that im looking for a partner thats into this lifestyle .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried dating sites and was lied to more than not...Men usually involved..

I like the honesty (usually) from here and have made some good friends....and only meet people I feel a connection with I fully agree with this to be honest"

Thankyou....I occasionally have some insight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for nsa sex and at a push a fuck buddy but I'm certainly not looking for anything serious. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships. Not necessarily exclusive ones though."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships. Not necessarily exclusive ones though."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

And yet people do find their relationships here. I can think of four marriages just in the last 18 months.

We choose how much we trust people. Yes, some will say one thing and mean another but it takes two (or more) to make a relationship.

I would like a relationship but they grow one meet at a time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And yet people do find their relationships here. I can think of four marriages just in the last 18 months.

We choose how much we trust people. Yes, some will say one thing and mean another but it takes two (or more) to make a relationship.

I would like a relationship but they grow one meet at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships. Not necessarily exclusive ones though."

Well it is a sex site for us , and a bloody good one at that .

As for swinging being about relationships , exclusive or not , that's not necessarily the case either .

As most will agree , swinging hasn't got a definitive description . It really is different for everyone , and NSA sex would be at the core of all of them .

Not necessarily the main emphasis as it is for us , but that doesn't make us right or wrong does it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldn't mind one. usually relationships just happen for me so i don't bother looking for them,

plus like my own company as well.

but i'm looking for something specific now so might as well put it out there what i want. with someone specific as well and not just anyone.

i've been manipulated into being someone's fetish for them, he was a lying, using twat but didn't make it obvious. it's a learning experience that's all, a very hurtful one but fuck it, life goes on.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not us .

It is exactly what it is , and no pretence .

We meet , we play , no strings , no pressure .

We fulfill fantasies and that's all there is to it .

"

So you don't want to marry me. Well thanks a lot

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Nice tits

Wanna shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice tits

Wanna shag?"

Are you staring into that mirror again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships. Not necessarily exclusive ones though."

Quite right

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I probably will have a relationship at some point in my life but my life's pretty good as a single person.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd like a primary partner. Cuck, FLR, poly or open relationship so I can still frolic with others.

Until that person rocks up, gonna keep having fun

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I'd like a good friend that demands loyalty but will cuck me....... a lot..

but I don't want a relationship

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"But how many people really want a relationship, how many lie and say they do ?? Do people manipulate people's feelings and is it morally wrong?"

Human beings manipulate one another's feelings all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a sex site. The clue is in the name.

Swinging is about relationships. Not necessarily exclusive ones though.

Well it is a sex site for us , and a bloody good one at that .

As for swinging being about relationships , exclusive or not , that's not necessarily the case either .

As most will agree , swinging hasn't got a definitive description . It really is different for everyone , and NSA sex would be at the core of all of them .

Not necessarily the main emphasis as it is for us , but that doesn't make us right or wrong does it ?

"

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