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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yesterday I was out for lunch with 8 strong women and the subject turned to how we look. 3 were wanting Botox 5 against it. But what I found so very sad is that the ones who wanted it ultimately wanted it to look good for others.

So what do you prefer a natural beauty with an odd laughter line and boobs that bounce uncontrollably. Or cosmetically enhanced and not moving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be natural. There's nothing better than a woman who is confident in her own skin and willing to flaunt what the gene pool handed out. Cosmetics just make people look plastic fantastic and is not for me I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer natural here - im going to let the face and body grow old disgracefully and act accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce? "
they do but you can def tell the difference to a natural pair

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think wrinkles looks good in appropriately aged individuals.

Botox enhanced taut face with saggy neck/arms looks weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about dying hair, shaving/waxing, make up, sun beds/fake tans, gel nails, blah blah blah? All enhance elements of the natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce? "

I would never have guessed your boobs were cosmetically enhanced if you hadn't said. They look very natural

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By *parkly MittensWoman
over a year ago

My own little world

I wear makeup to cover how tired I really am, I have worn underwear to help make me look slimmer, I wear heels to look taller.....

We all like to make the best of what we have but we also fake it regularly.

As long as you are happy does it really matter how much "help" you have had to look a certain way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had botox twice now, its OK so long as you don't get addicted to it and end up with freeze face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the more natural look on ladies but the odd fairly unnoticeable bit of this and that I don't mind.

It's the bloated lips and pure plastic looking bodies that turn me right off. I don't care how long I've gone without sex,there's no way I'm throwing my bones over a Barbie wannabe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the more natural look on ladies but the odd fairly unnoticeable bit of this and that I don't mind.

It's the bloated lips and pure plastic looking bodies that turn me right off. I don't care how long I've gone without sex,there's no way I'm throwing my bones over a Barbie wannabe "

I can't stand the huge lips, if it makes them happy fair play to them but I just look at some women and think why would you do that to yourself, each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural look please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural every time please. That's both physically and personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce?

I would never have guessed your boobs were cosmetically enhanced if you hadn't said. They look very natural "

Mwah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the more natural look on ladies but the odd fairly unnoticeable bit of this and that I don't mind.

It's the bloated lips and pure plastic looking bodies that turn me right off. I don't care how long I've gone without sex,there's no way I'm throwing my bones over a Barbie wannabe

I can't stand the huge lips, if it makes them happy fair play to them but I just look at some women and think why would you do that to yourself, each to their own I guess "

i suppose but why do these people not realise how ridiculous they look. Btw,I've been told I have fuller kissable lips but mine are natural and given to me at by the grace of my mother lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For myself defo natural I'd never have anything done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the more natural look on ladies but the odd fairly unnoticeable bit of this and that I don't mind.

It's the bloated lips and pure plastic looking bodies that turn me right off. I don't care how long I've gone without sex,there's no way I'm throwing my bones over a Barbie wannabe

I can't stand the huge lips, if it makes them happy fair play to them but I just look at some women and think why would you do that to yourself, each to their own I guess

i suppose but why do these people not realise how ridiculous they look. Btw,I've been told I have fuller kissable lips but mine are natural and given to me at by the grace of my mother lol. "

I've never even given my lips a thought, they just are what they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer the more natural look on ladies but the odd fairly unnoticeable bit of this and that I don't mind.

It's the bloated lips and pure plastic looking bodies that turn me right off. I don't care how long I've gone without sex,there's no way I'm throwing my bones over a Barbie wannabe

I can't stand the huge lips, if it makes them happy fair play to them but I just look at some women and think why would you do that to yourself, each to their own I guess "

Exactly my point. All 3 of my friends after chatting basically said they're were doing it too look better to the other sex. Not to make them happy. And yet looking at the male responses they are doing it but the majority of men don't like it. A bit like make up I suppose. most of my male friends prefer the natural look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it for myself, not for the opposite sex (or given my sexuality the same sex!). I'm jolly glad I did too.

As for the 'natural look' in make up. Chaps need to understand that doesn't mean no make up, just different make up and often far more of a task to do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the more natural look on ladies but the odd fairly unnoticeable bit of this and that I don't mind.

It's the bloated lips and pure plastic looking bodies that turn me right off. I don't care how long I've gone without sex,there's no way I'm throwing my bones over a Barbie wannabe

I can't stand the huge lips, if it makes them happy fair play to them but I just look at some women and think why would you do that to yourself, each to their own I guess

Exactly my point. All 3 of my friends after chatting basically said they're were doing it too look better to the other sex. Not to make them happy. And yet looking at the male responses they are doing it but the majority of men don't like it. A bit like make up I suppose. most of my male friends prefer the natural look "

As I said I've had botox, I had it for me though, I have nobody to look good for so it wasn't for anybody else

I just don't like the lines round my eye's so I though I'd give it a bash, to be honest I don't think I'd bother again the outcome for the money you pay isnt worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural look for me, it's what make each of us unique instead of making ourselves up to look like a clone of someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to lie though I'd love a tummy tuck and have seriously looked into it, after having three c sections its well and truely fucked, at times it actually stops me meeting people because I'm so paranoid about guys seeing it, when I have sex I never get naked I have to have something round my mid riff it affects me that much

I think at times its swings and roundabouts

OK so a lot don't like cosmetic surgery but if it gives you more confidence and makes you able to enjoy yourself better is it a bad thing?

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Hey pink here I was never allowed to dress up and feel sexy in my marriage and now I certainly make up for it ... Im 42 have crazy hair, lashes and boobs lol ... I have never felt so happy and I always say if you feel good about yourself that's all that matters and if you gain a few compliments along the way even better ..

Real or fake ? All gorgeous ... Mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Natural look for me, it's what make each of us unique instead of making ourselves up to look like a clone of someone else "

What do you class as a natural look though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Natural look for me, it's what make each of us unique instead of making ourselves up to look like a clone of someone else "

I'm still very much an individual. I'm certainly not a clone of anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had the money and were a bit younger I'd get different things done like my boobs as mine are very saggy after breastfeeding two children (where they increased to basketball size ) and then deflated dramatically when I stopped, and then losing/gaining weight etc.

However, I'd get it done for me, not for anyone else. It's my body, I have to live with it and lovers/partners come and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I was out for lunch with 8 strong women and the subject turned to how we look. 3 were wanting Botox 5 against it. But what I found so very sad is that the ones who wanted it ultimately wanted it to look good for others.

So what do you prefer a natural beauty with an odd laughter line and boobs that bounce uncontrollably. Or cosmetically enhanced and not moving? "

I'm a severe supporter of natural beauty. Even prefer ladies not to use make up everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer the more natural look.

The odd enhancement isn't out of the question, eg. Hair dye, nails, makeup etc just to enhance what you already have.

I get my nails done but that's mostly because of my job and I'm getting a spray tan because I don't want skin cancer!!

I would never rule out cosmetic surgery, but it frightens me and I can't afford it!!! I have gone through stages where I have wanted my boobs done and my tummy sorted but that mostly passes and I make the most of what nature gave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Natural look for me, it's what make each of us unique instead of making ourselves up to look like a clone of someone else

What do you class as a natural look though? "

Suppose it's down to personal preference but for me, would be no fake tan, no stupidly long fake lashes etc... Just enhance what you already have without going overboard.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Natural look for me, it's what make each of us unique instead of making ourselves up to look like a clone of someone else

I'm still very much an individual. I'm certainly not a clone of anyone else. "

The irony is people men who have commented or read this thread and say they prefer natural will forget about it in a few days and end up sending you a message.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

My hair looks like a zebra crossing at the moment.

It will be fake next week once I've had it dyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have the confidence to make the most of what I had when I was younger before having kids, so I have no qualms about using whatever it takes to get the body back to go with the new confidence now....just a case of saving up for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about dying hair, shaving/waxing, make up, sun beds/fake tans, gel nails, blah blah blah? All enhance elements of the natural. "

I dye my hair back to it's original colour to cover the grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what the guys who prefer "natural" are picturing in their heads?

I am guessing they want naturally full lipped, pert boobed, smooth skinned women who look great with no makeup?

I think they are really saying they don't like badly done enhancement.

I don't think many (any?) would kick someone out of bed if they'd had botox or a boob job, because if it's done well, you can't tell.

My friend has had a boob job. And hair extensions. I didn't realise until she told me. I never would have guessed. She gets a hell of a lot more attention than me when we go out together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce? they do but you can def tell the difference to a natural pair"

Nobody has ever guessed Mrs l's boobs are fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my roots done every 6 weeks but that's more for me than anyone else as very few can see the top of my head

I get my eyebrows waxed once a month but luckily I've never had to worry about wrinkles as I have good skin...

although it may be a different story in 10 years time...but all the women in my family have always looked younger than their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce?

I would never have guessed your boobs were cosmetically enhanced if you hadn't said. They look very natural "

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce?

I would never have guessed your boobs were cosmetically enhanced if you hadn't said. They look very natural

Seriously? "

I'm guessing not because she didn't even say she's had a boob job all she said was who said they didn't jiggle and bounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce?

I would never have guessed your boobs were cosmetically enhanced if you hadn't said. They look very natural

Seriously?

I'm guessing not because she didn't even say she's had a boob job all she said was who said they didn't jiggle and bounce "

Miss HH has mentioned in other threads that she's had a boob job. I just think they look very natural.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

For me I like natural. However, I can see the appeal of cosmetic surgery particularly for women as we are so harshly judged on looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I like natural. However, I can see the appeal of cosmetic surgery particularly for women as we are so harshly judged on looks. "

You're right, they're harshly judged...by other women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cosmetic!

I never go without my mascara!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I like natural. However, I can see the appeal of cosmetic surgery particularly for women as we are so harshly judged on looks.

You're right, they're harshly judged...by other women ."

That's true

You do tend to find it usually other women who put women down

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I prefer someone who is comfortable in their own skin, whether that's with or without cosmetic enhancement. I wax, I dye my roots, I have been known to wear makeup, nail varnish and hoik my boobs up lingerie on a date. I've also met regulars straight after work with my glasses on, grey roots, hair up in a ponytail, not a scrap of makeup, everyday underwear and in between waxes because I felt comfortable doing so.

If I could afford it then I would get my boobs lifted and pouchy tummy sorted. Weight loss and gravity have had a cumulative effect on those. But it's not a priority since I am comfortable in my own skin and that's really what matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I was out for lunch with 8 strong women and the subject turned to how we look. 3 were wanting Botox 5 against it. But what I found so very sad is that the ones who wanted it ultimately wanted it to look good for others.

So what do you prefer a natural beauty with an odd laughter line and boobs that bounce uncontrollably. Or cosmetically enhanced and not moving? "

Natural every time. Hate seeing Big Boob jobs, botoxed lips and stretched faces they look awful. Reminds me of sly StaLlone's mum. Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I was out for lunch with 8 strong women and the subject turned to how we look. 3 were wanting Botox 5 against it. But what I found so very sad is that the ones who wanted it ultimately wanted it to look good for others.

So what do you prefer a natural beauty with an odd laughter line and boobs that bounce uncontrollably. Or cosmetically enhanced and not moving?

Natural every time. Hate seeing Big Boob jobs, botoxed lips and stretched faces they look awful. Reminds me of sly StaLlone's mum. Next! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer someone who is comfortable in their own skin, whether that's with or without cosmetic enhancement. I wax, I dye my roots, I have been known to wear makeup, nail varnish and hoik my boobs up lingerie on a date. I've also met regulars straight after work with my glasses on, grey roots, hair up in a ponytail, not a scrap of makeup, everyday underwear and in between waxes because I felt comfortable doing so.

If I could afford it then I would get my boobs lifted and pouchy tummy sorted. Weight loss and gravity have had a cumulative effect on those. But it's not a priority since I am comfortable in my own skin and that's really what matters."

You leave that body alone most women will kill to look that good! Gorgeous! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce? they do but you can def tell the difference to a natural pair

Nobody has ever guessed Mrs l's boobs are fake"
I don't know why because its very obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I was out for lunch with 8 strong women and the subject turned to how we look. 3 were wanting Botox 5 against it. But what I found so very sad is that the ones who wanted it ultimately wanted it to look good for others.

So what do you prefer a natural beauty with an odd laughter line and boobs that bounce uncontrollably. Or cosmetically enhanced and not moving? "

I prefer people that are happy. Whatever makes them happy is great for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer someone confident in their own skin ...some need enhancement for that confidence then so be it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If done well no one can tell if your enhanced or not..

So it's up to the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I was out for lunch with 8 strong women and the subject turned to how we look. 3 were wanting Botox 5 against it. But what I found so very sad is that the ones who wanted it ultimately wanted it to look good for others.

So what do you prefer a natural beauty with an odd laughter line and boobs that bounce uncontrollably. Or cosmetically enhanced and not moving? "

Obviously I'd prefer to be a natural beauty but not all of us were blessed

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Natural please every time

Limited make up too

Obviously sometimes there is a medical reasons behind cosmetic surgery, it's not always for the want of changing ones looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I go for the unnatural look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally I go for the unnatural look "

Have you seen me without make up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally I go for the unnatural look

Have you seen me without make up?? "

OMG,,,Ya mean some folk take it off

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"For me I like natural. However, I can see the appeal of cosmetic surgery particularly for women as we are so harshly judged on looks.

You're right, they're harshly judged...by other women ."

And men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally I go for the unnatural look

Have you seen me without make up??

OMG,,,Ya mean some folk take it off "

Only because clem moans when i get it all over the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally I go for the unnatural look

Have you seen me without make up??

OMG,,,Ya mean some folk take it off

Only because clem moans when i get it all over the bed "

I moan then get it all over the bed now n then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally I go for the unnatural look

Have you seen me without make up??

OMG,,,Ya mean some folk take it off

Only because clem moans when i get it all over the bed

I moan then get it all over the bed now n then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally I go for the unnatural look "

If I could afford it I would too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says cosmetically enhanced boobs don't jiggle and bounce?

I would never have guessed your boobs were cosmetically enhanced if you hadn't said. They look very natural

Seriously? "

Unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow some of the comments on this thread have made me

The most beautiful of women are the ones that are happy, confident and content, who care how they achieved that, if by the grace of God, a great surgeron or buying out the cosmetic counter at boots.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Silicon Valley every day

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