FabSwingers.com forum: Friends list

By *i-cambs OP Man
over a year ago

March

Am i the unluckiest guy on here? Have 9 fems and 2 couples on my list and often chat. This year between em they have amassed just one meet between em. Am i being to polite to people? Over to you lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're comfortable with it then that can work. I use mine as a current list of people I want to meet. There's one long termer on there but she's been clear about that from the off and as she's beautiful inside and out I'm happy with that.

For the most part though unless there's some upfront reason why not to meet in person I'd be removing them from my list if things weren't moving along on the basis of 'she can't be that interested in me'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I'm concerned the site friends list function provides no meaningful service that cant be duplicated on a more personal basis which requires making real time social interactions with those site members you regard worthy of repeated association ....

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"As far as I'm concerned the site friends list function provides no meaningful service that cant be duplicated on a more personal basis which requires making real time social interactions with those site members you regard worthy of repeated association ....

Isn't that the disclaimer from the bottom of all your pm's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that the disclaimer from the bottom of all your pm's?"
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Oi Chuckles...... I'll have you know .....

I wouldn't want to be friends with anyone who would even have me on their friend-list because they obviously lack taste..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all depends on what you're trying to develop with these people and if you're happy with that.

Last year I managed a grand total of 3 meets from any quarter and of those 2 were friends. However this year I've met lots more and my friends list have been just that.

Personally I enjoy chatting with friends, I think making contacts is partially what this is all about.

I guess what I'm driving at is that no one can tell you what you want from fab, what you want from your contacts. If you're happy then great, if not then take steps to change it. You get out what you put in

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