FabSwingers.com forum: My views on Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me, sex is a beautiful thing that helps you connect to someone on another level. I hate how it's taboo to openly talk about your sex life in public. If you have too much sex, you're a slut (which I do not believe. You just enjoy sex more). If you don't have enough sex, you're a prude. If you have a sexual relationship with more than one person at a time, you are disgusting? As a polygamist at heart, as it is how I have always thought, this has always worried me. I do not hate on monogamysts for their choice to be with one person. If I found the right person, I would happily be Monogymous for them if they wished. But it doesn't happen the same way?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society judges - we are very good at that. Even on here - where it's supposed to be more open minded.

As a couple, we have a couple of friends outside of swinging who know some of what we do, they don't judge us badly for it. They're actually very curious about it. You may be surprised by reactions if you are open, but just pick your audience carefully.

Sarah

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me sex is just an itch to be scratched ...... but for many reason I prefer to avoid publicly sharing my urge to scratch that itch .....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have several friends who I would think are "Prude" but when I joked the other day about orgies and gangbangs, they said that they were down and are even considering getting fabs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have recreational sex and emotional sex. I love casual sex. Its exciting. Just fucking your mates, next door neighbour or co-worker for the orgasm and fun. And then you have emotional sex. With someone you love, can be very fullfilling

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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I don't think it's a bad thing not to be able to talk openly about your sex life in public. I don't particularly want to hear about someone's anak fisting session over my original recipe meal of a Friday night. I don't judge those who want to do it bit I don't want to hear about it all the time.