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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Single with no intention of finding a partner, however if I do they yeah I'm sure I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not looking for a partner on here. If I met someone off the site I'd have no issue leaving. In saying that this place is bloody addictive! But I don't see me on here for the rest of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single with no intention of finding a partner, however if I do they yeah I'm sure I will "

Have you always done the swinging lifestyle when you have been with someone before? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No not looking for a partner on here. If I met someone off the site I'd have no issue leaving. In saying that this place is bloody addictive! But I don't see me on here for the rest of my life "

Was meant as not looking for "love" on here if you found someone outside of fab swingers x

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Single with no intention of finding a partner, however if I do they yeah I'm sure I will

Have you always done the swinging lifestyle when you have been with someone before? X"

No, I've mostly avoided relationships recently. And the ones I've had were before I joined here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner here, we chose a monogamous relationship. I wouldn't be content with any other type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not after a relationship

But if I was it wouldnt be a swinging one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single with no intention of finding a partner, however if I do they yeah I'm sure I will

Have you always done the swinging lifestyle when you have been with someone before? X

No, I've mostly avoided relationships recently. And the ones I've had were before I joined here. "

Ok cool x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for a partner just the folliwing;

Someone to go to gigs with

Someone to walk the beach with

Someone to dance with

Someone to picnic with

Someone to laugh with

Someone to drink with

Some to eat with

Someone to shenanigan with

Fab is great for that. It's not all fucking... but no ownership suits me grand and all of the above are possible ( though strangely not with same person lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single looking to mingle

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Not looking for a partner just the folliwing;

Someone to go to gigs with

Someone to walk the beach with

Someone to dance with

Someone to picnic with

Someone to laugh with

Someone to drink with

Some to eat with

Someone to shenanigan with

Fab is great for that. It's not all fucking... but no ownership suits me grand and all of the above are possible ( though strangely not with same person lol )"

Pretty much sums it up for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id not want a swinging relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for a partner just the folliwing;

Someone to go to gigs with

Someone to walk the beach with

Someone to dance with

Someone to picnic with

Someone to laugh with

Someone to drink with

Some to eat with

Someone to shenanigan with

Fab is great for that. It's not all fucking... but no ownership suits me grand and all of the above are possible ( though strangely not with same person lol )"

but not the emotional stuff?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Purely here for the shaggy waggy times x I'm married and love him to bits. He just never gets the urge I'm the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd prefer to stay but would leave if i had to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here as singles now meet as a couple and never alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for a partner so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for a partner just the folliwing;

Someone to go to gigs with

Someone to walk the beach with

Someone to dance with

Someone to picnic with

Someone to laugh with

Someone to drink with

Some to eat with

Someone to shenanigan with

Fab is great for that. It's not all fucking... but no ownership suits me grand and all of the above are possible ( though strangely not with same person lol )

but not the emotional stuff?

Too little of my heart left to break Sassy... if you are a friend... I will love you dearly and set myself afire to keep you warm, but I cannot give my heart..."

Spell corrections.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to find a swining partner with not emotional attachment

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Met my other half on here, neither of us was looking for a partner. We do club meets together but meet separately also.

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys "

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I'd only use this site until I got into a relationship (very unlikely though as there doesn't seem to be any good men out there these days). If I did, then I'd leave here as not interested in an open relationship, I'm traditional in that regard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to meet someone then I think it would be to have a swinging relationship, I don't think I could put that genie back in the bottle. Having said that though it's all purely theoretical as I'm not even looking right now and not likely to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is what you want and what you can handle isnt always the same things

I know loads of people who meet through swinging, start of as a swinging couple then give it up because swinging alone is not the same as sharing your partner and when push comes to shove, the reality don't match the fantasy and some can't handle that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally open minded to it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally open minded to it all "

Me too ...Fate has a way of finding people .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys

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I'd only use this site until I got into a relationship (very unlikely though as there doesn't seem to be any good men out there these days). If I did, then I'd leave here as not interested in an open relationship, I'm traditional in that regard."

Yea my kinda train of thoughts 4yrs single x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The problem is what you want and what you can handle isnt always the same things

I know loads of people who meet through swinging, start of as a swinging couple then give it up because swinging alone is not the same as sharing your partner and when push comes to shove, the reality don't match the fantasy and some can't handle that "

Totally understand what your saying I definitely couldn't do a swinging relationship personal choice each to there own I guess x

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I'm single and wouldn't really want to meet a partner from this site. If I did get into a relationship then I wouldn't need to be on here. I agree with being a traditionalist or old romantic about being with just the one I'm with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single and wouldn't really want to meet a partner from this site. If I did get into a relationship then I wouldn't need to be on here. I agree with being a traditionalist or old romantic about being with just the one I'm with."

Wh6 wouldn't you want to meet a partner from this site?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Single not looking actively for a relationship but open minded. I don't really want to use dating sites as I would prefer to meet someone the "old fashioned way" so until that time I'm using this site to have some fun and try some new things, new experiences etc.

If and when I do meet someone special I'm not bothered about it being a monogamous or swinging relationship as there is far more to love than just sex. Also different things work for different people and swinging probably only suits a minority of the population. You can't "convince" or persuade someone to live that life it has to be their own Choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single not looking actively for a relationship but open minded. I don't really want to use dating sites as I would prefer to meet someone the "old fashioned way" so until that time I'm using this site to have some fun and try some new things, new experiences etc.

If and when I do meet someone special I'm not bothered about it being a monogamous or swinging relationship as there is far more to love than just sex. Also different things work for different people and swinging probably only suits a minority of the population. You can't "convince" or persuade someone to live that life it has to be their own Choice."

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"The problem is what you want and what you can handle isnt always the same things

I know loads of people who meet through swinging, start of as a swinging couple then give it up because swinging alone is not the same as sharing your partner and when push comes to shove, the reality don't match the fantasy and some can't handle that "

See this is what I would worry about. At present I like the idea of staying this this lifestyle, however the reality may be very different and I may remain 1:1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single and wouldn't really want to meet a partner from this site. If I did get into a relationship then I wouldn't need to be on here. I agree with being a traditionalist or old romantic about being with just the one I'm with.

Wh6 wouldn't you want to meet a partner from this site?"

I wouldn't want a partner off here either

Can't speak for the lady you quoted but my reason is because I wouldn't want to swing as a couple and meeting somebody off here could cause problems, what if they did want to carry on swinging and you didn't? Is it fair to ask them to stop doing what they were doing when you met?

For me it would just be easier to meet somebody away from swinging if I wanted a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasnt looking for a partner on here when I joined about 5 or 6 years ago.

However I met a guy off here for a meet, we clicked, we dated, he proposed and we got engaged. He stopped all play with others, i was happy with that and we stayed together for 4.5 years.

Then last year it ended, well he ended it lol. So here I am again. If I met someone I wouldnt rule it out, but I also wouldnt want it to be a swinging relationship.

Maybe its my age lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I find the man I want to give my heart to, as well as my red hot luuuurving, I'll be off.

I don't think I could watch someone I cared about boff someone else so no chance of getting them on a swinging site with me.

I'm also a one man minx when loved up.

Sad and boring maybe, but true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me personally am a 1on1 guy and I guess traditionalist but old school this site has opened my eyes and when or if I settle down it won't be a open relationship just my personal choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not looking for a partner on here. If I met someone off the site I'd have no issue leaving. In saying that this place is bloody addictive! But I don't see me on here for the rest of my life "

Exactly this, I'm not looking but never say never.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Have a long term partner who knows I'm on here to meet others and has no issues with it. She is not interested in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys "

I don't meet on here. Wouldn't date someone from here. In a relationship, I'm absolutely monogamous and would never consider anything else x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single and not looking, so I haven't a clue who this hypothetical partner might be and what we'd want. Single is pretty satisfying and underrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind? "
This site has nothing to do with if I find a partner, I would find him in real life, not through the internet.

I don't HAVE to be a swinger but I most certainly think life is easier for all parties without monogamy.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I want a primary partner who is into swinging or doesn't expect me to stop having fun. Such admiration for open and secure swinging couples

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My ex was aware that I was on here, although she wouldn't have a profile, she was happy doing her thing and I have been ever since

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i would like a D/s relationship where both the fet and swinging scen are part of our fun, whether together or separately...if that changes organically over time thats fine, but ive got to have my fill of experiences that i want first..and i would respect the same desires in him..x

i dont vanilla date, so finding someone outside of the scenes is unlikely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very reluctant to give up those lifestyle now. I'm possibly the worst swinger ever as I don't meet all that often if I'm honest. But I wouldn't get into a relationship with someone without them knowing about this part of my life because I'd like to have to option to go with others. Mainly girls tbh.

Maybe in time that would stop and it would become more of a 1-1 thing. I don't know. I have some friends who have an open relationship and j think I'd like something similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a primary partner who is into swinging or doesn't expect me to stop having fun. Such admiration for open and secure swinging couples "

This goes for me too

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would like a partner,but someone who is open to playing with others

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Not looking for a partner just the folliwing;

Someone to go to gigs with

Someone to walk the beach with

Someone to dance with

Someone to picnic with

Someone to laugh with

Someone to drink with

Some to eat with

Someone to shenanigan with

Fab is great for that. It's not all fucking... but no ownership suits me grand and all of the above are possible ( though strangely not with same person lol )

but not the emotional stuff?

Too little of my heart left to break Sassy... if you are a friend... I will love you dearly and set myself afire to keep you warm, but I cannot give my heart...

Spell corrections.. lol"

I totally get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much single and very much intend to keep it that way, though it would be nice to meet a fb.... to be honest, it would be nice to meet anyone! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like a partner,but someone who is open to playing with others "

Arn't you a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a partner, Will I carry on ?

I can only say I don't know until it happens

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I'm not looking for a partner on here. I wouldn't get into a relationship with anyone from here either.

If I found someone to have a relationship with away from the site then I would hide my profile and stop logging in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like a partner,but someone who is open to playing with others

Arn't you a couple?"
no they are 2 single people getting together to act as a couple for meets

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys "

My views and reasons on why I joined and stay are different now to when then.

I'd like to find a lady who would fill all of the needs I have, I'd hope I did the same for her. If that happened I'd be out of here,

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here so best of both worlds.However both would have given swinging up if we has met someone away from here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on how me and the woman in question felt about each other.

If I felt our connection was a deep, intense and spiritual one, then I would want her for myself, I'd want to commit to her and that would be the end of swinging.

However, if she opened my eyes to a side of life which is light, fun, friendly and free, if I felt I could trust her and she me, then I'm sure we could continue to swing and love each other at the same time.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Im not looking for a partner

So not looking tbh i prefer nsa

Im happy being single, more freedom

More fun an best of all im a lot hapier in life not being tied to a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone it would have to be a swinging/ kinky relationship as that what I like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find a partner on here and carry on swinging. I was part of a swinging couple for five years.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm more inclined to find a partner within the scene. I think I've become too intrenched in it too leave but never say never plus all of my friends I have met in the scence so it would be hard to say goodbye to the most amazing social life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for a partner just the folliwing;

Someone to go to gigs with

Someone to walk the beach with

Someone to dance with

Someone to picnic with

Someone to laugh with

Someone to drink with

Some to eat with

Someone to shenanigan with

Fab is great for that. It's not all fucking... but no ownership suits me grand and all of the above are possible ( though strangely not with same person lol )

Pretty much sums it up for me "

Definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends where you meet, how and just general chemistry etc. I'd be open to a relationship that is part of this scene, though I'm not really a prolific swinger at all to be fair. I'm secure enough to have frank conversations about it all, with whomever really, but obviously there has to be that mutual understanding and everything etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally open minded to it all

Me too ...Fate has a way of finding people ."

It sure does I wanted nsa been single 14 years loved it then met someone on here , for that I am grateful and going to bloody enjoy it X

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys "

I honestly have no idea what "this world" is. I currently have no real interest in "the scene" either. As a single guy I've never been able to find a way into that world that satisfies me at all. I'm just ploughing my own furrow now, seeing what turns up and what comes along.

Finding a partner one day would be great but I've been deprived of a little female interaction for far too long, and so that's what I'm currently craving. As others have said, it's not all about the sex for me either. It's more just about being with a woman and having some good, fun filled experiences. The fact that you can be upfront about all the sex stuff on this site is just a bonus. It allows you to explore things sexually as well if that's what you want to do. All the while with no pressure or emotional baggage.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm interested to know if singles use this site until they find a partner and if you found the one would you introduce them to this world or leave it behind?

Just a question guys

I honestly have no idea what "this world" is. I currently have no real interest in "the scene" either. As a single guy I've never been able to find a way into that world that satisfies me at all. I'm just ploughing my own furrow now, seeing what turns up and what comes along.

Finding a partner one day would be great but I've been deprived of a little female interaction for far too long, and so that's what I'm currently craving. As others have said, it's not all about the sex for me either. It's more just about being with a woman and having some good, fun filled experiences. The fact that you can be upfront about all the sex stuff on this site is just a bonus. It allows you to explore things sexually as well if that's what you want to do. All the while with no pressure or emotional baggage."

Aww Howard you are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for love, here and outside. I'd really like to find a kinky girl for a swinging relationship, but if I fell for a monogamous vanilla then that would be that.

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