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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you are chatting to couple or single that live far away and you all seem to get on would you travel and meet up ?

If so how far would you travel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are chatting to couple or single that live far away and you all seem to get on would you travel and meet up ?

If so how far would you travel ?"

No - I have local on my profiel...and local it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would travel to meet folks I get on with and distance wouldn't come into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, keep it local (30mins I think). Always think further smacks of desperation, unless you happen to be in a city that take an hour to cross - i.e. london.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest - 30 mile radius. Closest to home? Nobody in the school catchment area!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I would travel to meet folks I get on with and distance wouldn't come into it"
Same here, its like travelling to meet friends for a fun get together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. I have very limited time as it is so wouldn't dream of spending my leisure time travelling for a meet.

However, I think I would view it differently if I didn't have a full time job and children. If I had more free time then I don't see why I couldn't combine a meet with a shopping trip to another city!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 hour tops not knowing the area as well puts me of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, keep it local (30mins I think). Always think further smacks of desperation, unless you happen to be in a city that take an hour to cross - i.e. london."
We would'nt say its desperation its about if theres a spark not just a meet because thay are local thats more of despertion we think.

And we are not saying you 2 are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, keep it local (30mins I think). Always think further smacks of desperation, unless you happen to be in a city that take an hour to cross - i.e. london. We would'nt say its desperation its about if theres a spark not just a meet because thay are local thats more of despertion we think.

And we are not saying you 2 are "

Pretty certain I didn't even imply that meeting someone local should only be because they are local? Of course people should choose selectively.

There's only so many types of people, we aren't all unique special snowflakes. If you have to travel 6 hours to find them (we got a mail from Wales the other day....), you aren't looking hard enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to travel 100 miles just to get to the nearest motorway, so travelling has never put us off.

Before we had to take a break we planned a weekend away about 500 miles from home.

Our nearest "close" friends are 75 miles away

If we put a 30 mile zone around our house, 30 miles north or south we are in the sea, 30 miles west or east we are on moorland

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

My hour tops preference is purely about convenience.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

80 mile radius maximum for me, although I do occasionally meet up with swinging/fetish friends I have in London when I am in the city.

And I hate the thought of people driving 300/400 miles to meet me, particularly as my first meet with anyone new is always social only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have to travel 100 miles just to get to the nearest motorway, so travelling has never put us off.

Before we had to take a break we planned a weekend away about 500 miles from home.

Our nearest "close" friends are 75 miles away

If we put a 30 mile zone around our house, 30 miles north or south we are in the sea, 30 miles west or east we are on moorland "

What about when it snows or is lashing down with gales? I need more info. Are you in the RAC or AA?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Furthest - 30 mile radius. Closest to home? Nobody in the school catchment area!"

school catchment area.... oooh... am i.... just....it would be close!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer over 30 mins away but under 1 hour, although we have a regular meet that live about 4 hours away, but they are sooooo worth it we dont mind travelling! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet those from far away.. and never travel..

However, I have turned down very persistant guys that assure me that 3 hours is nothing. I think they think I am joking that I would send them home after cumming..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah distance don't bother me. It's always good fun to visit a new city or place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah distance don't bother me. It's always good fun to visit a new city or place. "

4 hours on a train? lol

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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago

lost in the city of Atlantis

Would depend on the person....distance would not be an issue if I really wanted to meet them.

That's what car's, trains, planes and buses are for.

Well that and carting the kids around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah distance don't bother me. It's always good fun to visit a new city or place.

4 hours on a train? lol"

The time would fly by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, keep it local (30mins I think). Always think further smacks of desperation, unless you happen to be in a city that take an hour to cross - i.e. london."

I work 8 miles from home: the journey can take 90 minutes at rush hour...and that's using just a main road - the south circular! So for me, it would be a non starter meeting anyone outside London, as it's a trek as it is!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

sometimes is does make me wonder peeps go on about they cant get the meets if you put the extra leg work in i cant drive sadly so im dependent on public transport and within the brum is very good and some of my round journeys have been 40 miles and all well worth it may i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't travel to anyone and I accomidate at home no way would I travel miles and miles for a meet. Can't see the logic in it. Or maybe I'm too lazy nevermind I'm not changing now

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Yes I would travel to meet folks I get on with and distance wouldn't come into it"

come on then im waiting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be off the ball here but I'm guessing if someone did travel 200/300 miles for a meet they would expect sex. But I maybe be wrong. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may be off the ball here but I'm guessing if someone did travel 200/300 miles for a meet they would expect sex. But I maybe be wrong. Lol"

you old cynic you

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Oddly there are plenty of people who will travel from all over to go to a social.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

My meets through fab have been less than 30 miles away so far, but I would, and have been prepared to go a lot further, thats if I get invited in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel, if I can plan it to make a weekend of it then, sure! Long weekend city break to Manchester or something, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't travel to anyone and I accomidate at home no way would I travel miles and miles for a meet. Can't see the logic in it. Or maybe I'm too lazy nevermind I'm not changing now "

I'm with you. I travel (very short distances) if my kids are at home - hence I only meet people who can also accommodate.

I have a limited time to play, and I couldn't see myself spending hours travelling around the country for a shag. As my first meet is always social, it would be pointless someone saying they'd travel miles to me either, as you'd have to be damn desperate to meet for a Starbucks during my lunch time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may be off the ball here but I'm guessing if someone did travel 200/300 miles for a meet they would expect sex. But I maybe be wrong. Lol

you old cynic you "

That's me if I did travel all that way it ain't for a fucking cuppa lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next people will be asking you to pay their travel expenses. That's a whole new thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may be off the ball here but I'm guessing if someone did travel 200/300 miles for a meet they would expect sex. But I maybe be wrong. Lol"

Some expect it after a 40 mile trip!!! A guy I had been chatting to for a while suggested he come round to see how we got along - no agenda. I was up for it and he duly arrived.

We chatted.. small talk you know how it goes. After about 20 minutes I asked if he wanted another coffe and he said 'Well I won't bother as it looks as if I'm getting nothing here any time soon'

Without stopping for breath he started babbling about how I was very attractive and nice etc etc. and it wasn't me it was him... I let him finish then said 'Yeah you're right I don't like it when there's no electricity either. At which point he said you mean you don't fancy ME? in such an incredulous voice.

He was absolutely gutted and was trying to arrange another meet before he got out the door!!! He came to kiss me and I stepped back and held out my hand for him to shake. Next day I got a mail from him saying how rude it was of him not to bring wine!! I don't even drink lol!

I often wonder if he uses that 'persuasive' trick to get what he wants instantly, still?

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i don't see distance as a problem. As any motorcyclist will tell you the journey is part of the fun. My daily commute is just under 100 miles but i do think 300 miles each way is a bit far, unless i have a room booked for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some would come 100s of miles to meet me ........ and it worries me what if thay get here and we dont click? I have to have sex as come so far i would feel ..... theres loads i would love to meet.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I don't meet anyone from this planet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone from this planet."
lucky planet lol x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I don't meet anyone from this planet."

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" some would come 100s of miles to meet me ........ and it worries me what if thay get here and we dont click? I have to have sex as come so far i would feel ..... theres loads i would love to meet."

Jo, I'd walk a million miles, for one of your smiles, oh and a blow job perhaps

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I don't meet anyone from this planet."

how were the twins with four heads

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r)."

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if someone asked you to give them 1/2 towards petrol to come to you would you tell them to naff off?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets. "

I look forward to it.

I keep a few weapons ready just for the occasion.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

how were the twins with four heads "

I only do the blue chicks mate.

Those 4 headed ladies always confuse me, I aint no multi-tasker!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


" some would come 100s of miles to meet me ........ and it worries me what if thay get here and we dont click? I have to have sex as come so far i would feel ..... theres loads i would love to meet."

saying that not nice when they dont answer door and they have gone to bed whopps another story for a timewaster thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if someone asked you to give them 1/2 towards petrol to come to you would you tell them to naff off?"

Most definitely they have to make their own rules up as to what distance they can afford to travel to. Same as I decide if Im gonna offer them just coffee or a lovely meal when they get here. I like socialising as well as potentially getting laid.

If we were out at a restaurant though I'd make my own way there and pay for what I ate. I don't get the aa route planner out to see how far they have travelled (or vice versa) I take it as a read that its convenient distance and spend for us both.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets.

I look forward to it.

I keep a few weapons ready just for the occasion."

Just for everyone else's benefit Polo and I call her sex toys weapons, It's just a thing we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are chatting to couple or single that live far away and you all seem to get on would you travel and meet up ?

If so how far would you travel ?"

Chatted with a nice couple, well the female anyway, from Newport.

Its around 196 miles away (3.5 hours by car)

I will hopefully get to go and see them in the near future.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"If you are chatting to couple or single that live far away and you all seem to get on would you travel and meet up ?

If so how far would you travel ?"

We probably wouldn't get to the stage of chatting with them if they are not local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There aren't many women on here from the south west - so the idea of travelling isn't completely ruled out by me - depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my problem is i chat to people all over the country and tend to get on with a lot of people, some then become very attractive to me the more i talk to them. Very tempting sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens when you turn up smooth and they are not what you expected that's a 7 hr journey wasted.

Not for me as I hate wasting my time. But some will travel the distance then come on here and moan about it lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Question for those who are happy to drive Three or more hours for a meet...

So you drive all that way, all that time taken up (at least Six hours driving) and a hefty fuel bill to boot...

What if the other person/s doesn't fancy you and says "Thanks but I don't think we are suited"

Still think it's worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" some would come 100s of miles to meet me ........ and it worries me what if thay get here and we dont click? I have to have sex as come so far i would feel ..... theres loads i would love to meet.

Jo, I'd walk a million miles, for one of your smiles, oh and a blow job perhaps "
lol .. kisses you ... how do you know i am good at blow jobs , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I travelled a fair distance and we didn't get on, I'd probably just drive to the nearest town/city and go shopping/look around/kill myself etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still a waste of my time my money and wear and tear on my car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have to have sex as come so far i would feel ..... "

You wouldn't though, would you?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still a waste of my time my money and wear and tear on my car. "

My social meets are held three minutes from where I'm currently sat. Even then sometimes I think, gee, why did I bother, let alone travellin miles!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Question for those who are happy to drive Three or more hours for a meet...

So you drive all that way, all that time taken up (at least Six hours driving) and a hefty fuel bill to boot...

What if the other person/s doesn't fancy you and says "Thanks but I don't think we are suited"

Still think it's worth it?"

There have only been a few people I have even entertained the idea of meeting who lived a long distance away... even though I tend to let people come to me. In such cases I knew without doubt we would get on.

These are the people I tend to plan long meets with... full weekends with club visits and parties and so on.

They are the one in a million types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have to have sex as come so far i would feel .....

You wouldn't though, would you?!! "

Some will say yes, Well they are there so they might as well. They don't want to waste a good condom do they?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets.

I look forward to it.

I keep a few weapons ready just for the occasion.

Just for everyone else's benefit Polo and I call her sex toys weapons, It's just a thing we do. "

Just because I said when my arms are too tired to keep hitting you with the bat I'll stuff it up your arse... it doesn't maske it a sex toy!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets.

I look forward to it.

I keep a few weapons ready just for the occasion.

Just for everyone else's benefit Polo and I call her sex toys weapons, It's just a thing we do.

Just because I said when my arms are too tired to keep hitting you with the bat I'll stuff it up your arse... it doesn't maske it a sex toy! "

Gulp!

Are we still on for the meet though or not?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets.

I look forward to it.

I keep a few weapons ready just for the occasion.

Just for everyone else's benefit Polo and I call her sex toys weapons, It's just a thing we do.

Just because I said when my arms are too tired to keep hitting you with the bat I'll stuff it up your arse... it doesn't maske it a sex toy!

Gulp!

Are we still on for the meet though or not?"

Oh yes… just remember to wear the balaclava and to climb through the kitchen window… knocking the plant over and treading in the mud. Put a few small electrical goods in your bag... I’ll be waiting at the top of the stairs for you

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I LOVE long distance meets - for me it just adds to the thrill when I travel a distance never quite knowing what's going to happen when I arrive.

While long distance meets do have a habit of never materialising, in some ways the fact that there is a long distance between the other party and me works in favour of having a really exceptional time when they do pan out, as it forces you both to make an extra effort to get to know the other person / people and build that extra level of trust between you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I LOVE long distance meets - for me it just adds to the thrill when I travel a distance never quite knowing what's going to happen when I arrive.

While long distance meets do have a habit of never materialising, in some ways the fact that there is a long distance between the other party and me works in favour of having a really exceptional time when they do pan out, as it forces you both to make an extra effort to get to know the other person / people and build that extra level of trust between you "

agree's

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

You can have all the exchange of messages in the world....all the texts....all the phone chats....all the cam chats...

But.....until you meet that person face to face you are still not guaranteed there will be compatability....

So goes back to the question of what would be the outcome of a negative response from the other person/s if you have travelled hundreds of miles half expecting (or downright expecting) sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have to have sex as come so far i would feel .....

You wouldn't though, would you?!!

Some will say yes, Well they are there so they might as well. They don't want to waste a good condom do they?"

Hell's bells!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't meet anyone from this planet.

If only that were true the human race would be safe(r).

Shut it Polo! You're already marked down for one of my 'surprise' meets.

I look forward to it.

I keep a few weapons ready just for the occasion.

Just for everyone else's benefit Polo and I call her sex toys weapons, It's just a thing we do.

Just because I said when my arms are too tired to keep hitting you with the bat I'll stuff it up your arse... it doesn't maske it a sex toy!

Gulp!

Are we still on for the meet though or not?

Oh yes… just remember to wear the balaclava and to climb through the kitchen window… knocking the plant over and treading in the mud. Put a few small electrical goods in your bag... I’ll be waiting at the top of the stairs for you "

My dream girl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have all the exchange of messages in the world....all the texts....all the phone chats....all the cam chats...

But.....until you meet that person face to face you are still not guaranteed there will be compatability....

So goes back to the question of what would be the outcome of a negative response from the other person/s if you have travelled hundreds of miles half expecting (or downright expecting) sex?"

They'd come back and start a thread about timewasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said that lol

Met girl the weekend travelled 400 miles to be faced with a tranny. Not a real woman!

I've wasted money on someone who refused to suck my cock. What a fucking timewaster

I rest my case.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

As one or two on this forum will confirm, I`ve been known to travel from my home in East Dorset to Glasgow and Edinburgh for socials so I can see no reason why a meet wouldn`t be any different. I`m off to Blackpool for a small social this Saturday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As one or two on this forum will confirm, I`ve been known to travel from my home in East Dorset to Glasgow and Edinburgh for socials so I can see no reason why a meet wouldn`t be any different. I`m off to Blackpool for a small social this Saturday!"

You may travel the length and breadth of the British Isle in search of fun, and God speed to you. Some of us don't feel the need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to a light year.

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I don't mind travelling then again when its 30 minutes to get anywhere from where I live, and there's always a train!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I continuously turn guys down from Exmouth, Plymouth, Bolton in Lancashire, some places i have to look up on a map that i find are the other side of London, why??? I think its been said already, that these people should be looking in their own catchment area, anything beyond an 30-45 mins is just plain desperate. I cannot afford to travel to them, even halfway with some is more than i can afford, and i dont get into getting to know someone stage as i am not interested in anyone the other ends of the country. If that means i lose out on nice meets, so be it, i only meet socially first so to me makes an expensive journey for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have all the exchange of messages in the world....all the texts....all the phone chats....all the cam chats...

But.....until you meet that person face to face you are still not guaranteed there will be compatability....

So goes back to the question of what would be the outcome of a negative response from the other person/s if you have travelled hundreds of miles half expecting (or downright expecting) sex?"

Ive had that in fact we were arranging a meet and wasnt prepared to spend £25 on a hundred mile round trip if he didnt get sex, and ended it with well you only got to look at my verifications to know im goooood so i stayed home instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone in Preston once. But only because I had to be in Cumbria the following day fairly early in the morning for a wedding.

I wouldn't have gone all that way if I wasn't headed up there anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have all the exchange of messages in the world....all the texts....all the phone chats....all the cam chats...

But.....until you meet that person face to face you are still not guaranteed there will be compatability....

So goes back to the question of what would be the outcome of a negative response from the other person/s if you have travelled hundreds of miles half expecting (or downright expecting) sex?

Ive had that in fact we were arranging a meet and wasnt prepared to spend £25 on a hundred mile round trip if he didnt get sex, and ended it with well you only got to look at my verifications to know im goooood so i stayed home instead "

I wouldn't have even answered him in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only do local but have in past yrs traveled but only cos been there my self with m8 for weekend agreed to meet on the sundays as never travel bk till monday .but now i wnt do it had 2 relashinships at distance def dnt work .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to put my coat on and walk 3 mins down the road is as much effort as I'll put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

distance isnt a problem if there is a connection and if people r genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"distance isnt a problem if there is a connection and if people r genuine"

Ha ha I don't care what distance someone travels to me I ain't doing it back. That means I'm not genuine then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i went to Bratislava! but its not as bad as it sounds as i was in Vienna at the time so only an hour on the train - and i stayed the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone in Preston once. But only because I had to be in Cumbria the following day fairly early in the morning for a wedding.

I wouldn't have gone all that way if I wasn't headed up there anyway."

Did you go 'all the way' after going all that way

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i travelled to wales,but they were friends,who i really wanted to shag.When it comes to sex,i'm lazy i prefer ppl come here

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


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They'd come back and start a thread about timewasters! "

probably true - although from my perspective, if I had travelled 200 miles to meet someone and nothing ended up happening, then the only person I could accuse of wasting my time would be me.

Besides .... what else is free time for if it isn't for wasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance has never been an issue.

Obviously it is nice if you meet people localish as then you are able to meet them more often should you wish.

The only thing about travel is it takes a bit longer to organise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind traveling.

The farthest fa a meet so far is 254 miles xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i aint travelling anywhere.

All them gorgeous men gotta come to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i aint travelling anywhere.

All them gorgeous men gotta come to me "

Lazy git i bet ya makes em peel ya grapes as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course...

Why have a dog and bark yaself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to drive a 8h round trip for a pub social event on more than one occassion.

As for actual meet with single gent, 4h round trip is the most I have done so far.

I no longer entertain from home, and have booked rooms at nearby Travelodges once a month until the end of the year. This way, I avoid long distances.

However, I may consider driving long distances for the worthy ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given all the threads about the price of fuel, I'm amazed at how far some people will travel to meet someone. I think about 75 miles is probably my limit - and that's only because I live in the arse end of nowhere.

Anyway, think of how bad it is for the environment before you travel 100's of miles just for sex, when it's probably available on your doorstep. Now put down your car keys and go and seduce the next door neighbour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously have you seen my next door neighbour

Feck the environment, I'm hitting the road!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously have you seen my next door neighbour

Feck the environment, I'm hitting the road!"
Lol

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I think a trip to Norwich would not be too far for the right person.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I have had someone do a 500+ round trip to meet me and been told it would be a social meet. I never make promises or guarantees that fun will be had. However it did work out.

I have also made the journey from Edinburgh to and had the journey done from Burnley/London/wales/Ireland/australia... yes australia....

at the end of the day, if you think someone is worth meeting then you will make the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have all the exchange of messages in the world....all the texts....all the phone chats....all the cam chats...

But.....until you meet that person face to face you are still not guaranteed there will be compatability....

So goes back to the question of what would be the outcome of a negative response from the other person/s if you have travelled hundreds of miles half expecting (or downright expecting) sex?

Ive had that in fact we were arranging a meet and wasnt prepared to spend £25 on a hundred mile round trip if he didnt get sex, and ended it with well you only got to look at my verifications to know im goooood so i stayed home instead

I wouldn't have even answered him in the first place! "

yes but we had been chatting for sometime anyway, since before xmas, and it seemed about time we should arrange to meet, i didnt actually think he was that far, had i known, i wouldnt have bothered, just he did seem rather nice, not bad looking, supportive when my ex passed away, in reality just a complete nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given all the threads about the price of fuel, I'm amazed at how far some people will travel to meet someone. I think about 75 miles is probably my limit - and that's only because I live in the arse end of nowhere.

Anyway, think of how bad it is for the environment before you travel 100's of miles just for sex, when it's probably available on your doorstep. Now put down your car keys and go and seduce the next door neighbour. "

Bit difficult when one side happens to be friends of my son and the other side, well we just dont get on so i think i will just get my trusty vibrator out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"distance isnt a problem if there is a connection and if people r genuine"

Rubbish, just because someone doesnt want to travel miles to a meet, doesnt mean to say they are not genuine, we aint all rich like you

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

nobody is saying they are rich Kit, just that they are fortunate enough to be able to travel if THEY choose to.

Plus you never really know if someone is genuine until you actually meet them, whether they be round the corner or hundreds of miles away xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nobody is saying they are rich Kit, just that they are fortunate enough to be able to travel if THEY choose to.

Plus you never really know if someone is genuine until you actually meet them, whether they be round the corner or hundreds of miles away xx "

Yes i know but i was more commenting on the bit where he implied they werent genuine if they didnt/werent prepared to, so i was being sarcastic

i just dont have the option to travel the length and breadth of the country as i just cannot afford to

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"nobody is saying they are rich Kit, just that they are fortunate enough to be able to travel if THEY choose to.

Plus you never really know if someone is genuine until you actually meet them, whether they be round the corner or hundreds of miles away xx

Yes i know but i was more commenting on the bit where he implied they werent genuine if they didnt/werent prepared to, so i was being sarcastic

i just dont have the option to travel the length and breadth of the country as i just cannot afford to "

my apologies for not reading the thread/your answers properly in that case xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nobody is saying they are rich Kit, just that they are fortunate enough to be able to travel if THEY choose to.

Plus you never really know if someone is genuine until you actually meet them, whether they be round the corner or hundreds of miles away xx

Yes i know but i was more commenting on the bit where he implied they werent genuine if they didnt/werent prepared to, so i was being sarcastic

i just dont have the option to travel the length and breadth of the country as i just cannot afford to

my apologies for not reading the thread/your answers properly in that case xx"

Thats okay, have a good day

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"nobody is saying they are rich Kit, just that they are fortunate enough to be able to travel if THEY choose to.

Plus you never really know if someone is genuine until you actually meet them, whether they be round the corner or hundreds of miles away xx

Yes i know but i was more commenting on the bit where he implied they werent genuine if they didnt/werent prepared to, so i was being sarcastic

i just dont have the option to travel the length and breadth of the country as i just cannot afford to

my apologies for not reading the thread/your answers properly in that case xx

Thats okay, have a good day "

you too!! I think I need sleep lol x

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Well i aint travelling anywhere.

All them gorgeous men gotta come to me "

Can I join the Queue Please!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a trip to Norwich would not be too far for the right person."
i am ner swaffham But Norwich as most know it and boats ner there xx well if thay did travel i would put them up the night and give them dinner and full english in the morning , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had someone do a 500+ round trip to meet me and been told it would be a social meet. I never make promises or guarantees that fun will be had. However it did work out.

I have also made the journey from Edinburgh to and had the journey done from Burnley/London/wales/Ireland/australia... yes australia....

at the end of the day, if you think someone is worth meeting then you will make the effort"

Oh i would walk 500 miles and i would walk 500 more.......... xx

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

local for me as well says on profile yet like others get messages from peeps other side of the country, had one message from a guy going to island of mull asking how far i was from him.... em far enough not too meet lol

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I prefer local, but have travelled to London for a meet a couple of times (but and met them before, so knew it was worth it ) and am off to Edinburgh in May to see someone too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we wouldn't meet anyone now after we travelled 200 miles to a meet to be faced with a couple of fatties. They said they was thin. So no we would travel anymore not over 25 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean you travelled 200 miles to meet two people that didnt match their photos.

Katie. x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Well we wouldn't meet anyone now after we travelled 200 miles to a meet to be faced with a couple of fatties. They said they was thin. So no we would travel anymore not over 25 miles."

I do hope they were not members from this site because if they were then that is out of order insulting them like that on an open forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do hope they were not members from this site because if they were then that is out of order insulting them like that on an open forum..."

I believe they are members.. hence I removed my quote quoting it.. then stupidly did it in the above deleted post..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We turned up to find a couple that did not match their pictures and she was at least 7 stone overweight. I would call that fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We turned up to find a couple that did not match their pictures and she was at least 7 stone overweight. I would call that fat. "

but it doesnt need putting on the forum like that.. they didnt match their photos.. that was all that needed saying.. not insults.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we wouldn't meet anyone now after we travelled 200 miles to a meet to be faced with a couple of fatties. They said they was thin. So no we would travel anymore not over 25 miles."

Maybe you should of done a little more homework, cams are great for seeing what the person looks like. I dont mind traveling and so far they have been worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We turned up to find a couple that did not match their pictures and she was at least 7 stone overweight. I would call that fat.

but it doesnt need putting on the forum like that.. they didnt match their photos.. that was all that needed saying.. not insults.

Katie. x"

I wasn't insulting I was stating a fact. Sorry but me for one I'm not going go shag anything with a pulse. We have standards and we stick with them. Just because we travelled that way doesn't mean we would sleep with them. Some would some wouldn't. I'm stating facts. As for camming they didn't have one now we know the form we will ask all meets to show themselves on cam. We have done that since and we've had no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we wouldn't meet anyone now after we travelled 200 miles to a meet to be faced with a couple of fatties. They said they was thin. So no we would travel anymore not over 25 miles.

Maybe you should of done a little more homework, cams are great for seeing what the person looks like. I dont mind traveling and so far they have been worth it x"

I'm glad you can afford to. Some can't afford to travel to work nevermind meet. We won't be making that mistake again. Yes you've been lucky but some haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we wouldn't meet anyone now after we travelled 200 miles to a meet to be faced with a couple of fatties. They said they was thin. So no we would travel anymore not over 25 miles."

How about this for a rewording

We no longer travel over 25 miles for a meet. This is due to a dissapointing experience where we had travelled 200 miles, the couple we were meeting did not match the pictures we had seen,their pictures had obviously been taken when they were slimmer we decided they were not for us.

Far less insulting than calling people a couple of fatties. I hope you never find yourselves on the end of someones insults. Treat others how you wish to be treated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the insult here was us wasting time and petrol only to be decieved. Time is precious to some of us and being messed about by someone who clearly isn't who they say is the biggest insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the insult here was us wasting time and petrol only to be decieved. Time is precious to some of us and being messed about by someone who clearly isn't who they say is the biggest insult."

We all do things differently. I would never travel to meet and play with someone I'd not met in the flesh first: smacks a bit of desperation to me.

However, if you take the chance and the people don't meet up to your expectations there are ways of saying things: we can all be insulting, some of us however try not to offend, especially if we recognise we have to take some of the blame for things not quite turning out to plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry we blame ourselves for not doing our homework properly but it was our 1st meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the insult here was us wasting time and petrol only to be decieved. Time is precious to some of us and being messed about by someone who clearly isn't who they say is the biggest insult."

Annoying, frustrating and irritating yes. A waste of time and petrol yes. short sighted of them yes but insulting. But then I guess that depends on how you define being insulted.

I find the belittling of people because of their size, age, race, height all insulting.

Being angry at them for wasting your time your entitled to but to publicly call them names I dont think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody is quoting miles, swingers must still be imperial and not metric .

More interesting if somebody asks how big are you ,and you can reply 165mm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are chatting to couple or single that live far away and you all seem to get on would you travel and meet up ?

If so how far would you travel ?"

As far away from my "Constituancy" as possible...... Can`t be too carefull.

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