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By *ax1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

St helens

Hi guy's I know I'm new but was wondering how long do you think a male has to be on fab before they arrange a social/meet.

Teying not to sound shallow but probably failed.. X x.. Lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on what your expectations of the site are.

Some men will meet someone quickly, for others it could take months or years or they will never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out to a club.

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By *ax1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

St helens

Thanks guys in totally new to the scene can single guy's go to clubs.. X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, just check it's not a couples only night before you go. Might be an idea to ring up before you go.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've been on here nearly 10 yrs. I had my first meet off here after 6 months. I only use this site for the forums now and find I get a better success rate just through talking to people as I would in a pub. A certain sexy forumite has even requested that I send her a cock pic

What is the world coming to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab some guys been on 12 months and yet to have a meet some been on 5 weeks and 6 meets all depends on your approach,patience and expectations just be yourself and respectful and vis it clubs and join in on forums anything to get yourself noticed and known but good luck

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi guy's I know I'm new but was wondering how long do you think a male has to be on fab before they arrange a social/meet.

Teying not to sound shallow but probably failed.. X x.. Lol.. "

I'd give it at least 24hrs

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

By the time you give up it might just about happen

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By *ax1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

St helens

Thanks all have fun, x x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I joined and then had a busy weekend and when I can back a couple of days later, I'd forgotten my password so I didn't do anything for about 6 months then I remembered it and got busy. Once I was active on the site, looking round, chatting, I got a meet after a few weeks. Never looked back. 4 years ago.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I joined and then had a busy weekend and when I can back a couple of days later, I'd forgotten my password so I didn't do anything for about 6 months then I remembered it and got busy. Once I was active on the site, looking round, chatting, I got a meet after a few weeks. Never looked back. 4 years ago. "

Well with that avatar, I'm betting you could crush a grape as well Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how choosy you are

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By *ax1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

St helens

Thanks guys been talking to a lovely sexy lady and she agreed to have a social tonight we've just had a good laugh and natter on phone. Thanks everyone wish us luck. X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go out to a club. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guy's I know I'm new but was wondering how long do you think a male has to be on fab before they arrange a social/meet.

Teying not to sound shallow but probably failed.. X x.. Lol.. "

It took me a few months of being on her before getting one meet. Then several months after that until I had another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here for 10 months. I count myself lucky when I recieve replies from messages. As for meets, that hasn't happened yet and it's not through lack of trying.

Just don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 10 months. I count myself lucky when I recieve replies from messages. As for meets, that hasn't happened yet and it's not through lack of trying.

Just don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed."

I thought you did have a meet but you decided not to verify each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 10 months. I count myself lucky when I recieve replies from messages. As for meets, that hasn't happened yet and it's not through lack of trying.

Just don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed.

I thought you did have a meet but you decided not to verify each other? "

She wasn't from Fabswingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 10 months. I count myself lucky when I recieve replies from messages. As for meets, that hasn't happened yet and it's not through lack of trying.

Just don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed.

I thought you did have a meet but you decided not to verify each other?

She wasn't from Fabswingers "

Oh

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

For me it was a month before I got a meet, in terms of meeting some one purely for sex then that hasn't happened yet in 2 years of being on this site.

However I do go to parties and clubs and I love it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If someone is on for over a year I'd think it time to take a new approach, if they've had no meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it was a month before I got a meet, in terms of meeting some one purely for sex then that hasn't happened yet in 2 years of being on this site.

However I do go to parties and clubs and I love it."

Oh my God, I wish more people would listen to posts like this!!!

Moaners, THIS is your Reality Check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on a lot! Lol a lot of people on here don't want to go to clubs. Women are spoilt for choice on here, slim pickings for the men. To find someone that you can make a connection with is mission impossible . I suppose the guys that shag anything that moves do really well

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"It depends on a lot! Lol a lot of people on here don't want to go to clubs. Women are spoilt for choice on here, slim pickings for the men. To find someone that you can make a connection with is mission impossible . I suppose the guys that shag anything that moves do really well "

Not necessarily some people din not want to be seen as a mumber. They want to enjoy it too.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Have a sex change, become a girl and have them taking over your life in no time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet or not, OP please be aware it's like Hotel California in here.

you. never. get. to. leave

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By *ax1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

St helens

Thanks hanky if I had a sex change I would never leave the house be exploring my body day and night... X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how good you are at getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because a bloke gets lots of meets why do people assume you will shag anyone? It is possible for single men to lead an active sex life just using fab. Personally I get repeat meets with nearly everyone. Check out catster for example, as she says saturday night will be the first of many meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because a bloke gets lots of meets why do people assume you will shag anyone? It is possible for single men to lead an active sex life just using fab. Personally I get repeat meets with nearly everyone. Check out catster for example, as she says saturday night will be the first of many meets"
personally I wouldn't meet a guy who has stacked veris from the same people, too much like being part of a harem for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because a bloke gets lots of meets why do people assume you will shag anyone? It is possible for single men to lead an active sex life just using fab. Personally I get repeat meets with nearly everyone. Check out catster for example, as she says saturday night will be the first of many meetspersonally I wouldn't meet a guy who has stacked veris from the same people, too much like being part of a harem for me"

People I meet don't do veri's every meet? 2 or 3 times and then there is not much point. I think there must be people who have regular meets over a period of time? It can't just be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because a bloke gets lots of meets why do people assume you will shag anyone? It is possible for single men to lead an active sex life just using fab. Personally I get repeat meets with nearly everyone. Check out catster for example, as she says saturday night will be the first of many meetspersonally I wouldn't meet a guy who has stacked veris from the same people, too much like being part of a harem for me

People I meet don't do veri's every meet? 2 or 3 times and then there is not much point. I think there must be people who have regular meets over a period of time? It can't just be me"
I do but it got so frequent I decided not to meet others and hid my profile, good sex can be had with just one person if you feel its THAT special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because a bloke gets lots of meets why do people assume you will shag anyone? It is possible for single men to lead an active sex life just using fab. Personally I get repeat meets with nearly everyone. Check out catster for example, as she says saturday night will be the first of many meetspersonally I wouldn't meet a guy who has stacked veris from the same people, too much like being part of a harem for me

People I meet don't do veri's every meet? 2 or 3 times and then there is not much point. I think there must be people who have regular meets over a period of time? It can't just be me I do but it got so frequent I decided not to meet others and hid my profile, good sex can be had with just one person if you feel its THAT special"

I'm a very social person so the meets usually include a night out as well, It's not just the sex for me

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