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By *orkshire bi OP   Man
over a year ago

elland

If the spice has gone out of your relationship what do people suggest to get it back.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A surprise weekend away somewhere is always good

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By *orkshire bi OP   Man
over a year ago

elland


"A surprise weekend away somewhere is always good"

Wish it was that easy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As Steve said talk, it also depends on how long your relationship has become stale? Sometimes it's better to move on than try to rekindle dead wood. Sad but true, I know, I've been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the spice has gone out of your relationship what do people suggest to get it back."

A new partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication. Unless you both realise the spice has gone nothing can be done about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fuck load of chilli powder or pepper?

Seriously though talk, but you know, be sensitive and delicate about it, saying something too bluntly can cause conflict.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what my exes have done and pout yoursleves out there for another relationship instead.

yes i am bitter.

idk spoil each other, make yourselves the centre of everything for a while. do something to make each other special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the spice has gone out of your relationship what do people suggest to get it back.

A new partner "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having seen previous posts where you referred to your partner in a less than flattering way, I would say take a trip to Relate

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"do what my exes have done and pout yoursleves out there for another relationship instead.

yes i am bitter.

idk spoil each other, make yourselves the centre of everything for a while. do something to make each other special."

That's cool, but if their heart's not 100% in it, then it's absolutely pointless. I spent the best part of 4 yrs flogging a dead horse, all she did was rip me off for £80,000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with _ce winger on this one. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do what my exes have done and pout yoursleves out there for another relationship instead.

yes i am bitter.

idk spoil each other, make yourselves the centre of everything for a while. do something to make each other special.

That's cool, but if their heart's not 100% in it, then it's absolutely pointless. I spent the best part of 4 yrs flogging a dead horse, all she did was rip me off for £80,000 "

yeah but you don't go doing stuff behind their back was my point, totally ruins people doing that. one of you think there's nothing wrong with the relationship and that you've just settled down, next thing you know they'e off looking for someone else behind your while bullshitting you so they don't have to be lonely until they find that person.

they should tell that person straight what's up firstly, not completely ruin their outlook on people by being a shit.

if you wanna stay with them then make them feel special, with your time and not superficial shit. half the time it is being treated like you're nothing that is what makes people go off you in the first place.

i am bitter about this, really.

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