FabSwingers.com forum: Does cheating turn you on?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morality police please step aside. This forum post is not for you.

This is a place for people to discuss if the act of cheating specifically turns them on, and to share their stories.

You could be the wife or gf who gets turned on and loves shagging one of your work colleagues or the builder ding the loft behind his back.

Or the husband or bf who gets turned on having his dick sucked while having phone sex with his missus while on a business trip.

Or the man or woman who gets turned on by shagging those who are already in a relationship.

So, does cheating turn you on? Share your stories!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I hate cheating. So much so that I've only done it once. I hated the lying and the stress and the constant anxiety about being caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the morality police. Life is complex. But, no, cheating does not turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a pretty big erection when I found the cheat codes for vice city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm turned on by any attention my wife gets I've offered her free pass to fuck but she refuses love the idea of her fucking younger guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheated on my ex husband and I guess it was a bit of a thrill or I wouldn't have carried on with it for six weeks.

It's not something I would ever do again though

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am seriously tempted to cheat, I know I'm not happy in my current relationship. So I leave that relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I am seriously tempted to cheat, I know I'm not happy in my current relationship. So I leave that relationship. "

Though the topic is not about morality of it or if you should do it. Question is if it turns you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving the morality aside the answer is no, I fine no thrill in cheating

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Strangely, I do find it a turn-on, not being willing to cross the boundaries of respectability, but finding lust and small steps pushes into the abyss of seemingly shameless adultery. My husband and all vows trashed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I hate it. Definitely not a turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's a turn off if I think about it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it's a turn off if I think about it. Xx"

I do get a lot of messages saying it turns men on me being married though so it does for some xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I hate cheating, it's disrespectful when done behind someone's back. If everyone knows what's going on and you've got permission then it's not cheating and you get to have your cake and eat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was cheating regularly I didn't do it because it turned me on, I did it because I felt trapped in my relationship.

Cheating doesn't turn me on, in itself, in any circumstance (and if I meet a cheat - that actively turns me off).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with me it's a yes! But I'm not sure if it's the thrill of possibly getting caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think with me it's a yes! But I'm not sure if it's the thrill of possibly getting caught "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I sleep with a married woman it is not because she is married but because she is attractive, I do not find any satisfaction in fucking a woman just because she is married.

So the answer is no.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I did get a feeling of vengeance. There were complex reasons for our break up ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Only when I play monopoly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has permission to have sex with someone else, so long as she tells me. I find it a huge turn on. Not sure if that's actually cheating though.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I think with me it's a yes! But I'm not sure if it's the thrill of possibly getting caught "

all well and good, each to their own i suppose till said husband taps you on your shoulder and the next thing you know is you wake in traction with 2 broken legs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few exes cheat . first happened when was 18 and I was incredibly turned on. I've accepted I get off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Cheating at anything is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a woman I am attracted to, not a marital status.

It doesn't turn me on, yet it doesn't turn me off either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a pretty big erection when I found the cheat codes for vice city"

R1, R2, L1, L2 L, D, R, U, L, D, R, U

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly for a person who has done a lot of it, no. The act itself doesn't. In the sense it doesn't enhance the sex. It's a slight detriment.

But, I do have a thing for fucking married women from time to time.

Generally I'm tired of the concept of cheating. Of being in bad relationships which didn't fulfill me and of the lies and the paranoia that comes from it.

Hence why I'm happy to have found L, all the good stuff, none of the bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not personally but I believe a significant proportion of cheaters do it for the thrill.

There are plenty of swinging couples where one half is allowed some weekend fun but sneaks around during the week - just for the thrill.

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not personally but I believe a significant proportion of cheaters do it for the thrill.

There are plenty of swinging couples where one half is allowed some weekend fun but sneaks around during the week - just for the thrill. "

I've come across people in my life swinging and non swinging who cheat for kicks, I always wonder why so many people believe that there must be something wrong in a relationship if one partner cheats, I don't think that's always the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not personally but I believe a significant proportion of cheaters do it for the thrill.

There are plenty of swinging couples where one half is allowed some weekend fun but sneaks around during the week - just for the thrill.

My anecdotal experience is that two thirds of cheating is done when the sex at home isn't what they want and one third would would cheat no matter what the other half did.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not personally but I believe a significant proportion of cheaters do it for the thrill.

There are plenty of swinging couples where one half is allowed some weekend fun but sneaks around during the week - just for the thrill.

My anecdotal experience is that two thirds of cheating is done when the sex at home isn't what they want and one third would would cheat no matter what the other half did. "

Yes, I'd agree with you there on a completely non-scientific basis.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't mind watching the partner who is being cheated on kicking the arse of both fuckers

And I am anti violence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a pretty big erection when I found the cheat codes for vice city"

Share them

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I used to enjoy moving my boats about when playing my brother at Battleships. I hope this doesn't make me a bad person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to enjoy moving my boats about when playing my brother at Battleships. I hope this doesn't make me a bad person?

I hope that's not a euphemism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't mind watching the partner who is being cheated on kicking the arse of both fuckers

And I am anti violence"

My husband was worried I would seek vengeance for his cheating and cause trouble for the woman. It reinforced the idea that the man I had been with for 30 years didn't have a clue about me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to enjoy moving my boats about when playing my brother at Battleships. I hope this doesn't make me a bad person?

That kind of cheating pissed me off more than my husband's affair. Can't stand people who cheat to win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "Hand of God" .. 30 years ago, the cheating barsteward!

Makes me cum every time I think about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "Hand of God" .. 30 years ago, the cheating barsteward!

Makes me cum every time I think about it!

1 I'm too young to remember it!

2 not bothered about football

3 Diego Maradona had stupid hair and was angry we won the Fawklands

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I wouldn't mind watching the partner who is being cheated on kicking the arse of both fuckers

And I am anti violence

My husband was worried I would seek vengeance for his cheating and cause trouble for the woman. It reinforced the idea that the man I had been with for 30 years didn't have a clue about me at all. "

I jest with my comment to be honest as I do believe in dignity at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "Hand of God" .. 30 years ago, the cheating barsteward!

Makes me cum every time I think about it!

1 I'm too young to remember it!

2 not bothered about football

3 Diego Maradona had stupid hair and was angry we won the Fawklands "

Has anyone mentioned Tom Brady yet?

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