FabSwingers.com forum: Who am I ?

By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

In the swinging world ?

I'm confused, from the terms in the "swinging world"

Am I classed as a cuckold or hot wife ?

I'm married, hubby knows I'm on here, he probably gets more excited than me when I go to meet

He gets the odd picture whilst he is working of whatever (or whoever) I am doing at the time in a meet

He doesn't join in or meet with me, I meet alone with anyone I fancy

Plus what dress size would people class to be a bbw ? I'm a very curvy size 16 - is it different peoples opinions or is there a rule ? Am I bbw ?

Help please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are an individual

if you want to be defined by labels you should choose those yourself.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Judging by your profile, you can be pretty much who you want to be. Your hubby has given you free rein to do so, why not take advantage of that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to be a bbw? ...there's no rule a bbw means different things to different people x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Cuck suggests a humiliation aspect which you haven't mentioned. I would therefore take it you are more of a hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would be your labels, so pick the ones you associate with. Be who you are and not who others choose to portray you to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you are describing is the Hotwife scenario...but why the need for a label? Just enjoy being you and what you do rather than get bogged down in how others see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need a label your unique and there is only one of you. Enjoy your individuality, be compassionate to yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has got me flouncing whilst getting up singing 'I am who I am' and wishing I had a feather boa to hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread has got me flouncing whilst getting up singing 'I am who I am' and wishing I had a feather boa to hand. "

Chuckle , you do make me smile x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I thought it was going to be a riddle, like:

"My first is in dildo, but not in vibrator..."

Op: you can't be a cuckold, technically you could call yourself a hotwife, but the choice is yours. There are no rules.

And isn't size 16 now the average female body size? So, while you are free to describe yourself as bbw, personally I'm not sure it's applicable in your case.

Mr.ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you are an individual

if you want to be defined by labels you should choose those yourself. "

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you're living your life your own way ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the swinging world ?

I'm confused, from the terms in the "swinging world"

Am I classed as a cuckold or hot wife ?

I'm married, hubby knows I'm on here, he probably gets more excited than me when I go to meet

He gets the odd picture whilst he is working of whatever (or whoever) I am doing at the time in a meet

He doesn't join in or meet with me, I meet alone with anyone I fancy

Plus what dress size would people class to be a bbw ? I'm a very curvy size 16 - is it different peoples opinions or is there a rule ? Am I bbw ?

Help please

Well if my opinion counts for anything (which I doubt) I would say your a hot wife and curvy not a BBW, just the naughty lady next door. Im not far from you but I'm 6ft 2 and 9 inch so I reckon my lucks out, but love the pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great video about social labels

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=q0qD2K2RWkc

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By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Thanks for all your replies - great help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word? Lucky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who am I?

A girl is no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could easily get away with the BBW label.

if you wanting to put this stuff on your profile to clarify to people, but i think your profile explains everything and labels tend to reduce people to something a little less than the person they are and shove them into a broad category, not sure if it would work for you but if it does then fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who am I?

A girl is no one. "

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By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

"In a word? Lucky !

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

Good on you! What a spirit!

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By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

I didn't really want to put a label on myself I just wondered if I am classed as bbw in the swingers world and if I was cuckold or hot wife - I get asked a few times through messages if I am a hot wife and never really knew the answer but now I do Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i ever get to cuckold someone i will call myself hotwife, even if some people don't think i'm hot.

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