FabSwingers.com forum: Pics of others in a singles profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In typing the headline I thought I'd expand the question.

I was originally going to ask if anyone else felt that single guys profiles shouldn't have photos of their conquests (or photos they've nicked off tinternet) as I doubt the subject would be aware they were being used as a fab trophy.

But I don't think this sort of thing is limited to single guys. Do couples or females do it too?

I feel it's a form of showing off. "Look at the quality of shags I get"

"This is my latest conquest. I'm that good"

So am I just being a bit prudish or tight assed or is it a little bit creepy and seedy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they're just reminders of good times in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love putting action pics up , and although plenty are just us , there are also lots showing ' our conquests ' as you put it .

Can't say it bothers us or anyone else we know to be honest .

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have those kind of pics, but if others have and they're either impossible to recognise or there's consent then all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all."

A guy we met did just that and all that was of him was a bit of his leg and all of the wife. I was furious at first.

Fortunately his accounts gone now anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan myself xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all."

This is more where I was heading... I think... Single guy profiles where it's at most a cock at edge of frame and predominantly it's the unknown female in frame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally do regard it as showing off and I'm not a fan of them, especially when the pic is of just his cock and the woman sucking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one picture of me with another guy in my private pics. It's there because he asked for us to put one up, so we did. *shrug*

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

If it's a pic of mostly a woman and the last inch of his cock then I see no point in them.....

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Turn Off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does depend on the Picture tbh. I like erotic poses and Action shots but I once had a message from a single guy and his avatar was a pair of boobs. I think his hand was there somewhere. But the Picture did nothing for me....it was a shit picture and not a particularly nice pair of Boobs either.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Every bloke in my pics knows he's going to be on here, which is why I blank out faces, tats, etc etc.

My problem with guys who show only women on their pics is that they show so much woman, and so little them. Sure, show that you have meets, but I'm not meeting them. I want to see the bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that make me

are the unverified profiles with muliple pictures of different action shots. Chances are the ppl in them dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only got one pic up of me in action n he knows it's on here. So no it's not a prob for me although I doubt I'll put anymore action shots up. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of these pics either, unless there's a good balance of pics throughout the profile. I want to see the guy I'm about to have a conversation with, not a full back catalogue of his sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all."

I can't stand pics that show 1" of a guys cock and then the rest an anonymous female's face/body/fanny/arse - often with just her eyes blacked out. Of course they gave their consent to be plastered all over a swinging site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally do regard it as showing off and I'm not a fan of them, especially when the pic is of just his cock and the woman sucking it

How about the other way round lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of a profile of a single guy with just action shots and nothing of him! Okay if it has a bit of both. Ideally it's the person I'm meeting I want to see not the woman he's been with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In typing the headline I thought I'd expand the question.

But I don't think this sort of thing is limited to single guys. Do couples or females do it too?

I feel it's a form of showing off. "Look at the quality of shags I get"

"This is my latest conquest. I'm that good"

So am I just being a bit prudish or tight assed or is it a little bit creepy and seedy? "

I can see where you are coming from but it does depend on the photo.

Are you just a teensy weensy bit jealous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all.

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't think it was jealousy Hants... Was it? I don't know now. Oh dear lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all.

This."

Yep, this.

I have no problem with people who show photos of just themselves or predominantly themselves, AND a few play pics as well.

But when the only photos are all of some random woman and a tiny piece of the bloke, and that's the only photos he has, I don't like that.

If the guy who owns the profile is happy to show off the body of a woman he's fucked, but too scared to put up pics of his own body, I don't want to meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't think it was jealousy Hants... Was it? I don't know now. Oh dear lol.

I don't know either. I was merely examining your motives.

Call me Freud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to agree, especially when some guys have "very little" of th selves in the pictures at all.

this

I call them hide the sausage pics

and they are offputting, to me anyway

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It depends on the pic. If there were multiple shots on a singles profile I would find that off putting anyway.

I have a couple of pics with other people in but they are in my private pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the type of picture & how many there are .As long as the profile is predominantly of the person who owns it then I think it's fine.

After all I have a few so would be a tad hypercritical to say otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do action pics pussy pics penetration pics etc my personal opinion is it can look a bit trashy can never understand people with pics of vegetables hanging out of them either but hey ho it takes all sorts to make a world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once sent a message from a man on here with 10 pics attached...

each pic showed 10 different women with (what I could only assume was) his cock disappearing down their throats....

no need lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I was once sent a message from a man on here with 10 pics attached...

each pic showed 10 different women with (what I could only assume was) his cock disappearing down their throats....

no need lol

Did you meet him???

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I only meet single men, but I won't meet a single man who has pictures of his previous conquests on his profile. At best, it shows a lack of discretion....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd prefer other peoples' bodies to be completely blacked out on a single person profile.

Frequently it can be 80% plus of the partners in the pics, with some some component of the user themselves.

We know what sex is and thus don't need instructional photo guides.

I think users consciously or unconsciously perceive that the photos of others increase their chances, versus just having a photo of themselves alone.

Rather than mask identifying aspects of someone else, such as a tattoo, the whole body including clothing, should be masked. If the photo becomes ridiculously useless, it was already so - from the perspective of provision of good visual details of the actual user.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We've got a few action pics that have others in them. Faces etc are blanked or cropped out and we've always asked permission first. Doesn't worry us if others (singles or couples) have them.

However, I do think that the photo should show the profile owner clearly. Rather than just their hand or big toe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i've got 3 guys in my public pics, had a few others on my other profile as well. they also use me in their pics.

not fussed, everyone has permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it helps show what you're into and up for on here. not really showing your conquests because nobody knows who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some pics of me giving a friend's cock some attention with my oily hands and boobs,as an illustration of what I have written on my profile. He was more than happy to have his cock in my pic gallery. I wouldn't put a pic of a man licking me or fucking me,regardless of what he looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In typing the headline I thought I'd expand the question.

But I don't think this sort of thing is limited to single guys. Do couples or females do it too?

I feel it's a form of showing off. "Look at the quality of shags I get"

"This is my latest conquest. I'm that good"

So am I just being a bit prudish or tight assed or is it a little bit creepy and seedy? "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Isn't it just their way of saying "look! I do get it sometimes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet single men, but I won't meet a single man who has pictures of his previous conquests on his profile. At best, it shows a lack of discretion...."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some guys think of it as a way of showing they're not time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally do regard it as showing off and I'm not a fan of them, especially when the pic is of just his cock and the woman sucking it

would definitely put me off the profile.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I must admit that my first thought when I see them on a guys profile is that he's trying to prove that he has actually had a shag sometime in the not too distant past...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I personally do regard it as showing off and I'm not a fan of them, especially when the pic is of just his cock and the woman sucking it

How about the other way round lol xxx"

If it's a woman's profile and only an inch of cock then there is no telling who it is though (generally!) so that's cool!

Although oddly I'm not sure I've seen many ladies profiles like that!?!?!?!?!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I keep a few, tasteful shots of me with a partner in my private gallery.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I don't like profiles where you can see more of other people in pics ,than you can the supposed person whose profile it is.

Miss.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sounds like the view from most people that single men would like to meet is that we would prefer you not to have these photos. I doubt they'll listen somehow.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't mind pictures showing the male "in flagrante" if you can see more of him than his partner, or he's easily identified in a group shot.

Having to play "Where's Wally?" or you can see everything about his playmate bar a thin black strip over her eyes, whilst only his cock is visible...nah, turn off...next!!!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

showing off or reminder of good times, doesn't really matter if it is, I like to see pictures of all types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like seeing action shots.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I only meet single men, but I won't meet a single man who has pictures of his previous conquests on his profile. At best, it shows a lack of discretion....

I agree"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's not the "action shot" that's the issue.

It's the fact that 1/2" of his cock is sufficient to count as him being in the pic.

The pic moderation here can be inconsistent at the best of times but allowing things like this is ridiculous in our opinion.

Regardless of it being male/female profile- the person whose profile it is needs to be in at least 75% of the picture or what's the point?

Not interested in fucking the other person so if we find pics like that then we're out and they're blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In typing the headline I thought I'd expand the question.

But I don't think this sort of thing is limited to single guys. Do couples or females do it too?

I feel it's a form of showing off. "Look at the quality of shags I get"

"This is my latest conquest. I'm that good"

So am I just being a bit prudish or tight assed or is it a little bit creepy and seedy? "

Im on a few couples profile I dont mind and I have a fuckbuddy who is ok with me using pics of us although I dont because I think they put other women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If other people are in our pics we always ask if it's OK for us to post on here with face not shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do wonder if people have the same attitude about couples pics? like if they're fucking they're just showing off that they've had sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand people want to show images of a good time, and there's nothing wrong with that, but I do feel the owners of the profile should be the main focus and feature of the picture, not the other people involved.

If a woman in all her glory us shown, with just a guys hand in the pic, or a centimetre of his cock, then it is not a representation of the profile owner and therefore should not not be allowed.

And those who blur out their own features and distinguishing marks but leave the other people in the photo easy to view are indiscreet.

I personally don't allow anyone to photograph me so I know I don't appear on other's profiles

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