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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the most you are willing to contribute towards a hotel cost for a play session?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

You're paying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£0 - I don't pay for sex.

If I arrange to meet someone at a hotel, I pay for the room (unless they already have one.)

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

If I did hotel meets then 50-50.... as long as it isn't one of those £20,000 a night suites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's play only and neither party is staying overnight in the room would expect 50/50 depending on cost.

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By *i Lady Next DoorWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

If someone is stopping in the hotel overnight I would suggest it would be them or me that paid depending who was stopping

If it's just play I would say 50/50

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"If it's play only and neither party is staying overnight in the room would expect 50/50 depending on cost."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the most you are willing to contribute towards a hotel cost for a play session?"

£0. We play at my place.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury


"If it's play only and neither party is staying overnight in the room would expect 50/50 depending on cost."

I often use hotels.....no cleaning up afterwards. I am happy to pay 50/50....after all 50% of £50 isn't much for an afternoon of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 all the way

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

For me it depends on who earns more (assuming it's an ongoing thing, not a one timer).

As I earn very little, I expect my partner to pay more towards overall cost, but then I do try to make it up by bringing snacks, wine, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50"

shall I book now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay. Because I want to not because I'm sexist or feel obliged to. X

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Half. No idea how anyone thinks differently.

This "I don't pay for sex" nonesense amazes me. Your not paying for sex, your sharing the cost of the facility.

If you arranged to meet at a club would you expect them to pay your petrol, snacks and club entry cos they suggested meeting?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Never paid for hotel and got no intention to. I can accomodate so why would I need to go to a hotel.

Ofcourse personal circumastances are different for everyone. I declined a meet as lady wanted hotel and i declined as i felt sleazy but she probably felt more secure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50"

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

If I booked the room and were staying the night I would pay for it and vice versa. If we were not staying I'd say 50/50.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"What's the most you are willing to contribute towards a hotel cost for a play session?

£0. We play at my place."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

£400-500 if staying overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the most you are willing to contribute towards a hotel cost for a play session?"

Depends how hot they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50

shall I book now "

I'll cover the cost happily if you bring me wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

50/50 is ideal of course, but if they travelled far I wouldn't consider asking to halve the cost of the room.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"£400-500 if staying overnight."

wow

Used to pay £40/50 or go 50/50 but then I/we would say overnight.

£0 these days as no longer have budget for hotel plays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pay all of it were my suggestion or at least half. I wouldn't even consider meeting someone in a hotel if I couldn't afford the entire bill, salary isn't a question.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I always assume that I will pay for the hotel.

If the lady specifically wishes to go 50/50 , then fine.

Same for any meals etc.

it's just good manners.

if anyone thinks that's " paying for sex" , then they have a very strange outlook on life.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

50/50 its only fair xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay for the hotel, unless the lady insists on paying half but I never ask or bring it up

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

i always pay.......just like taking a woman out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much depends. Number One Chap and I pretty much take it in turns or one pays for the hotel the other for getting into a club, it sort of evens out. To be completely honest it's just the admin and the least thing on my mind at the time. Far more entertaining things to put my mind to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really meet at hotels unless we are traveling, in which case we just pay the whole price because we are staying there for the night.

If someone were to ask for a meet at a hotel specifically I still think I'd be more inclined to just pay for the room and use it for the night following the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we had a hotel room and advertised a meet we would pay - if we arranged a meet together and the agreed place was a hotel then split 50-50 -likewise if they were already at hotel and asked us there we wouldnt pay towards it -

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