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By *ooboo62 OP   Man
over a year ago

Driffield

Single men do you get weary of "singles and couples " wanting what's on your profile, then "singles and couples " don't reply or acknowledge you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men do you get weary of "singles and couples " wanting what's on your profile, then "singles and couples " don't reply or acknowledge you?"

There's not much on your profile

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By *ooboo62 OP   Man
over a year ago

Driffield

But unless you state your lifestyle hobbies and family, there's notch else to put, we as you do have to be a bit private?

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

I think to ask that question you have to have a bit more on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men do you get weary of "singles and couples " wanting what's on your profile, then "singles and couples " don't reply or acknowledge you?

There's not much on your profile "

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"But unless you state your lifestyle hobbies and family, there's notch else to put, we as you do have to be a bit private? "

Yes there is. Say what you enjoy about this lifestyle, what you would like to experience, what you don't. Tell people about you as a sexual being. We don't need to know your personal family life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But unless you state your lifestyle hobbies and family, there's notch else to put, we as you do have to be a bit private? "

Be as private as you like but if you're not getting replies, then maybe change something.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Single men do you get weary of "singles and couples " wanting what's on your profile, then "singles and couples " don't reply or acknowledge you?"

They don't need to reply or acknowledge you there are 20 single guys to every couple or single female on here if you stand out from the crowd you will get meets.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Man, I understand your concern, but have patience and be creative in your profile. Be aware that couples and women receive dozens of messages daily. Don't blame them if there's no answer.

I usually don't send messages. Their privacy and my self-esteem prevents it. Who wanted to meet me, knew how to find me.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

No. Because however well you think you match someone else's requirements, they may disagree. Or they might think you sound great, but they have other options that are just a bit higher priority.

There's no point stressing about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But unless you state your lifestyle hobbies and family, there's notch else to put, we as you do have to be a bit private?

Be as private as you like but if you're not getting replies, then maybe change something."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as you might be what they are looking for they may not find you attractive or might something about you they don't like. Or they might find someone who suits them better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently opened this account (have a joint also) verified i might add.

We see all sorts of nonsense on all our accounts. If people dont read your mails, just block them and move on to those that are hear with the intention of making the effort.

I appreciate accounts that get bombared, we had over 400 mails in one day last week and guys were spammimg us and moaning. (which doesn't exactly help the situation) it took us 2 days to acknowledge the reasonably local. Over 100 miles away and im sorry but no shag is worth a 200 mile round trip on fab chance they wont show.

It is what it is

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Not all single men get weary some do very well and get answers as they put a little effort into their profiles.

When a profile is basic photo's you may not like, has nothing on it, doesn't match what you're looking for in the slightest you're already on the next message/profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure that if you write you're a single man looking to get his leg over, they'll be queueing up!

No need to state what you're offering that other men aren't or personality, humour....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this rapidly turning into another 'Burns Thread'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But unless you state your lifestyle hobbies and family, there's notch else to put, we as you do have to be a bit private? "

there's loads on my profile and it all relates to what i'm looking for on here so that guys can decide if we'd enjoy meeting.

like others have said they also have to find you attractive to reply, and plenty of good looking guys have put me off by sending crap messages to me so even if i fancy them i might not want to meet them or even talk to them.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"Single men do you get weary of "singles and couples " wanting what's on your profile, then "singles and couples " don't reply or acknowledge you?"

"Wanting what's on your profile"? But you have totally hedged your bets - your profile basically says 'anything and everything'! So you think that anybody who wants anything should want you, just because you haven't ruled anything out? When couples/ladies have an inbox full of messages from males who show some personality in their profile, they will find it easy to pass you by.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"But unless you state your lifestyle hobbies and family, there's notch else to put, we as you do have to be a bit private?

there's loads on my profile and it all relates to what i'm looking for on here so that guys can decide if we'd enjoy meeting.

like others have said they also have to find you attractive to reply, and plenty of good looking guys have put me off by sending crap messages to me so even if i fancy them i might not want to meet them or even talk to them."

And you have a big bunny to look at on there, incase folk don't want to read the words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men do you get weary of "singles and couples " wanting what's on your profile, then "singles and couples " don't reply or acknowledge you?"

Nope

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