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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry to do this but after a stream of messages accusing me of being a man in my dead Nannas clothes I'm now curious as to whether people really do think I look like a man. This isn't a 'look at me tell me how wonderful I am' plea I'm interested in peoples opinions.

But if you do think I look male be nice about it

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No you look like a women to me.

Sorry you've had some horrible messages.. Report and block the sender

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How many messages have you had that don't accuse you of being a man @ why haven't you blocked the person?

You know you don't look like a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to do this but after a stream of messages accusing me of being a man in my dead Nannas clothes I'm now curious as to whether people really do think I look like a man. This isn't a 'look at me tell me how wonderful I am' plea I'm interested in peoples opinions.

But if you do think I look male be nice about it"

What? they all say you look like a man in your nannas clothes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you look like a woman to me lovely. Theres some nasties on here just ignore and block xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I think the response of "Specsavers" springs to mind

Your deceased grandmother wasn't a WPC by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can't repost message as it will get me a forum ban but separate messages off 3 different accounts saying I look like a man in drag, I look like a bad female impersonator and I need to stop doing it and admit I'm male.

All have been blocked and reported but it doesn't stop the doubt in my head now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No you don't look like a man!

Let me guess, the nasty message was sent after a "no thanks" message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty, sad bastards. Ignore them. They're probably jealous that you can get meets and they cannot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" No you don't look like a man!

Let me guess, the nasty message was sent after a "no thanks" message? "

No Was sent as a first contact initial message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No you don't look like a man!

Let me guess, the nasty message was sent after a "no thanks" message?

No Was sent as a first contact initial message"

Still nasties ive had ones insult me who havent even seen my face . Some sados just get a kick out of it bless em. Just pity em xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you don't look like a man darling, I have found that preventing newbies from messaging dramatically cuts down on accounts set up purely for the purpose of being "untish" as my friend would say.

Smile and rise above it. There are some sad little buggers out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No you don't look like a man!

Let me guess, the nasty message was sent after a "no thanks" message?

No Was sent as a first contact initial message"

Was probably same nutter on different accounts or new accounts.

Trolls are a part of Internet life and the best response is no response. They'll be loving your current status and loving this thread if they see it.

Without fuss just delete and block. Done with the press of a button, they'll get sick of setting new accounts up a long time before your finger gets sick of pressing the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you look every bit the lady to me ,,take no notice hun i been told I'm really a transvestite,silly buggas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've got a lovely smile, don't let any knobhead on here wipe it off your face.

you look fine.

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool


" No you don't look like a man!

Let me guess, the nasty message was sent after a "no thanks" message?

No Was sent as a first contact initial message"

Well just ignore such shallow idiotic comments, you look fab, lovely smile and lovely body as shown on your profile

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"No you look every bit the lady to me ,,take no notice hun i been told I'm really a transvestite,silly buggas lol "

Haha id say more than silly, is it not just best too turn your nose up and forget

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool


" No you don't look like a man!

Let me guess, the nasty message was sent after a "no thanks" message?

No Was sent as a first contact initial message

Still nasties ive had ones insult me who havent even seen my face . Some sados just get a kick out of it bless em. Just pity em xx"

Hit the nail on the head just show Pitty lol, I mean some people won't even send a messege never mind insult them lol

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS
over a year ago

nottingham

Some people get there kicks out of being nasty

Maybe they just have sad little lives .

The one rule I go by on here is never get upset by something a total stranger who doesn't know you says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look beautiful, don't pay attention to assholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

utter nonsense!

Ignore them x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Hi OP ... you look like a lady to me .... and your varis say your a lady .... so you are a lady .... tell em to troll off .... lol .... xx

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool


" utter nonsense!

Ignore them x"

Just some people get a kick out of aduse, ignore them damn right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you look like a woman. I get called at sorts and mostly ignore it. Ignore the cunts and move on. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as tony said - it will be the same person 3 times over who needs to find better things to do with their time - block and ignore and very much a woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People saying report these immature trolls.report for what exactly,expressing an ill judged opinion?this isn't the playground,we can't go running to teacher everytime we get upset.this is an adult site for adults,it's about time everyone started behaving likewise.

To the op,no you don't look like a man,and all you can do is block n move on.but reporting to admin?that's just as childish as the ones that made the nasty comments.

Block,move on,my guess is you get considerably more admiring messages than you do bad.concentrate on those n forget the others.good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible shits, you look lovely.. Get that block button going I say..

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Just some sad wierdos ( probably one on separate accounts).

Internet is full of assholes; block, report, move on....

And don't feed the troll(s)!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If someone is abusive, please report and block. There's just no need to be unkind. Some people don't deserve a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people don't deserve a second thought. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pity we don't have a "shoot" button!!

You look like a lovely lady, ignore the nasty bastards! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cant please everyone on here.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

You'll always get the odd random who set up accounts purely to abuse people. I think all on here have had the odd completely random nasty message - please try not to let them bother you x

You may find that one or two of them would actually have preferred you to have been a CD as that was their preference xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not got my glasses on this morning and even I can tell your a bloody lady! Ignore the abuse and enjoy fab! As the youth of today would say 'fuck the haters'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love how online it seems acceptable to forgo any etiquette..

I will find you..

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I've not got my glasses on this morning and even I can tell your a bloody lady! Ignore the abuse and enjoy fab! As the youth of today would say 'fuck the haters' "

Glasses not needed really, it's sad when people stoop so low

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I really do wonder what goes through people's heads at time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not got my glasses on this morning and even I can tell your a bloody lady! Ignore the abuse and enjoy fab! As the youth of today would say 'fuck the haters'

Glasses not needed really, it's sad when people stoop so low "

I need glasses to see the tv and unless folk are up close to me I can't see faces. Jealous, vindictive, stupid, there's a range of reasons someone would stoop so low sadly no one will know the senders reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really do wonder what goes through people's heads at time... "

Thin air?

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By *ark_uk_1968Man
over a year ago

chertsey

Look all lady to me. Very sexy

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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

OP with them tits an veries you are very much a lady just block an forget cos you are having fun an long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you should never let a complete stranger affect your life in any way.

Only inadequate people will take the time to send such messages, they put others down to mask their unhappiness.

Next time just block and delete the silent treatment is the only solution for a moron.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

I get called a man when I say no to people. To me it's just another idiot to add to the block list.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

you look all woman to me in fact where did you get that red undie set i love it

least you wernt told you make a cow look pretty like i was x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear that you're in your 40s and never been insulted. FABS a cruel world sometimes. If it's any consultation your nan had some lovely clothes.

There maybe needs to be a 'that person called me a name' section on the forums for just such occasions.

P.s...maybe also apologise for possibly offending men now who like to wear their nan's clothes....oh it's endless isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some right knobbers about! You look all woman. Ignore and block and chin up buttercup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some right knobbers about! You look all woman. Ignore and block and chin up buttercup.

"

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like a jolly spiffing lady to me .

Some.people can be beastly especially if you reject their advances .

Just block them and enjoy the chuckles in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look lovely and very much a lady.

I know it can be hard to ignore but some people are just horrid bastards.

I've been sent some really abusive messages it used to upset me but now it's like water off a ducks back.

Move on and have fun.

Knitter kisses for you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to do this but after a stream of messages accusing me of being a man in my dead Nannas clothes I'm now curious as to whether people really do think I look like a man. This isn't a 'look at me tell me how wonderful I am' plea I'm interested in peoples opinions.

But if you do think I look male be nice about it"

OP a few people constantly feel the need to go out of their way to put other people down especially if they are having more fun. That is their 'thing' ... they have probably sent similar messages to others.

Don't feel like it is a personal attack on you. You definetly don't look like a man. As people have said ignore/block them and carry on having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't repost message as it will get me a forum ban but separate messages off 3 different accounts saying I look like a man in drag, I look like a bad female impersonator and I need to stop doing it and admit I'm male.

All have been blocked and reported but it doesn't stop the doubt in my head now"
definitely sounds like its the same person trolling. tell him/her to go fuck themselves. no you don't look like a man, even the best of tvs cannot replicate boobs like yours, so yep youre deffo a woman. an if your nan wore the same clothes you do she must have been quite a trendsetter, Go nan!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it personally. Love and respect to all people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like a lady to me!!! Don't let them get you down xx

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