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"I spend so much time writing well thought out and witty,original messages to people who interest me only to have most of them ignored"  or just deleted without being opened  | |||
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"I spend so much time writing well thought out and witty,original messages to people who interest me only to have most of them ignored or just deleted without being opened "A lot of women will look at the profile before reading the message and if it's obvious the profile does not fit what they are looking for, the message gets deleted unread. | |||
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"I've found that the more random and useless info you put about yourself, the more people can write a message specifically for you. OP I've read your profile and your written bit is incredibly generic. I don't get a sense of anything about you from reading it. Try adding something fun, silly or even a few outrageous lies for a by and see if it changes the sort of message you get. Yes not everyone tailors a message to a profile but a fair few do if you give them a starting off point." Shall try a little re-write but this hasn't made much difference before. We reply to pretty much every message we receive so it's not like we're rude. Not expecting literary genius but cover the basics and show a little thought  | |||
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"Thank you for posting this, I no longer feel alone in this warped desire. Shall we start a support group. Frustrated Profile Writers Anonymous? Bollocks, just blown the anonymity part!! " Wonder if there are any clubs which cater for such a kink? | |||
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"I spend so much time writing well thought out and witty,original messages to people who interest me only to have most of them ignored or just deleted without being opened
A lot of women will look at the profile before reading the message and if it's obvious the profile does not fit what they are looking for, the message gets deleted unread."Obviously! And i have read the profile or i wouldn't of sent the message believing that i fit what they are looking for | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X" good question! | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X" Something light hearted, clear you have read our profile and generally just nice. Something which evokes a response and isn't jumping straight in with "want to meet now/fuck now/I want to do x, y and z to you". We totally appreciate that first message is a bit like plucking up the courage to speak to someone for the first time but we don't bite and treat people how we ourselves like to be treated. | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X Something light hearted, clear you have read our profile and generally just nice. Something which evokes a response and isn't jumping straight in with "want to meet now/fuck now/I want to do x, y and z to you". We totally appreciate that first message is a bit like plucking up the courage to speak to someone for the first time but we don't bite and treat people how we ourselves like to be treated." Give me an example x | |||
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"I spend so much time writing well thought out and witty,original messages to people who interest me only to have most of them ignored or just deleted without being opened "Or get one word replies in the most montonous tooth pulling game of 20 questions you've ever played , like conversing with someone coming out of a coma .  | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X Something light hearted, clear you have read our profile and generally just nice. Something which evokes a response and isn't jumping straight in with "want to meet now/fuck now/I want to do x, y and z to you". We totally appreciate that first message is a bit like plucking up the courage to speak to someone for the first time but we don't bite and treat people how we ourselves like to be treated. Give me an example x" That would be doing their job for them lol. We've taken the advice regarding our profile so hopefully that will give people something to start with x | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X Something light hearted, clear you have read our profile and generally just nice. Something which evokes a response and isn't jumping straight in with "want to meet now/fuck now/I want to do x, y and z to you". We totally appreciate that first message is a bit like plucking up the courage to speak to someone for the first time but we don't bite and treat people how we ourselves like to be treated. Give me an example x That would be doing their job for them lol. We've taken the advice regarding our profile so hopefully that will give people something to start with x"Thot as much pmsl x | |||
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"We have this wild and crazy fantasy, we know it's really out there but here goes...people taking the time to actually read our profile and sending us a well thought out message. Not an obvious blanket message or copy and paste job. Think it's a little too crazy to think it could happen? "I can definitely see why its a 'wild and crazy' fantasy, as opposed to just the run of the mill, and way more doable ones... Good luck in your quest! | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X Something light hearted, clear you have read our profile and generally just nice. Something which evokes a response and isn't jumping straight in with "want to meet now/fuck now/I want to do x, y and z to you". We totally appreciate that first message is a bit like plucking up the courage to speak to someone for the first time but we don't bite and treat people how we ourselves like to be treated. Give me an example x That would be doing their job for them lol. We've taken the advice regarding our profile so hopefully that will give people something to start with x
Thot as much pmsl x"We'll assume this is from a single guy. Hi A&F, your profile caught my eye, I'm single, I'm bisexual and very much single and no marriages I'm aware of lol. I'll be honest that I'm not an outdoorsy type like A but it could be a fun way to work up an appetite for some of your delicious food and some fun and games together later on I've attached a recent face pic of myself and of course you can read a little about me on my profile. If you like the sound and look of me and think we may be what the other is looking for it would be great to hear back from you.
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"We have this wild and crazy fantasy, we know it's really out there but here goes...people taking the time to actually read our profile and sending us a well thought out message. Not an obvious blanket message or copy and paste job. Think it's a little too crazy to think it could happen?
I can definitely see why its a 'wild and crazy' fantasy, as opposed to just the run of the mill, and way more doable ones... Good luck in your quest! "Haha thank you! It's definitely a crazy one but we're hopeful | |||
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"OP what would you consider to be a good opening message if you were reading your own profile? X Something light hearted, clear you have read our profile and generally just nice. Something which evokes a response and isn't jumping straight in with "want to meet now/fuck now/I want to do x, y and z to you". We totally appreciate that first message is a bit like plucking up the courage to speak to someone for the first time but we don't bite and treat people how we ourselves like to be treated. Give me an example x That would be doing their job for them lol. We've taken the advice regarding our profile so hopefully that will give people something to start with x
Thot as much pmsl x
We'll assume this is from a single guy.
Hi A&F, your profile caught my eye, I'm single, I'm bisexual and very much single and no marriages I'm aware of lol. I'll be honest that I'm not an outdoorsy type like A but it could be a fun way to work up an appetite for some of your delicious food and some fun and games together later on I've attached a recent face pic of myself and of course you can read a little about me on my profile. If you like the sound and look of me and think we may be what the other is looking for it would be great to hear back from you.
That sort of thing x"I agree x | |||
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"Oooo I like your profile now. Made me smile when I read it. Bet you get a lot of comments about naked twister for a board game now. "It probably was a little stale how it was written previously. We shall now wait and see... No naked twister suggestions as of yet though haha | |||
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