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"Doesn't matter, been wanting to write something for weeks but thinking about it this place isn't really the best place to do it. Wanted to just write quickly, give the people that know me a chance to offer advice then a mod to delete it all. My health is fine and that of my family so nothing like that, just sometimes life really gives you a shock but I'm strong, just have to be a bit stronger. Sorry don't mean to be all cryptic and stupid. " Just do it  | |||
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"Doesn't matter, been wanting to write something for weeks but thinking about it this place isn't really the best place to do it. Wanted to just write quickly, give the people that know me a chance to offer advice then a mod to delete it all. My health is fine and that of my family so nothing like that, just sometimes life really gives you a shock but I'm strong, just have to be a bit stronger. Sorry don't mean to be all cryptic and stupid. " Maybe messege people privatly ? | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
Mr ddc"I've just Googled "meerkat on waterskis" super cute | |||
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" Sorry don't mean to be all cryptic and stupid. " You're not stupid, T, and cryptic is better than being too open on here sometimes. Hopefully people who know you well will get in touch by pm. I suspect I'm outside your mail preferences (especially if cock-size is a mail preference...) but hope you find the strength to resolve things. | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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I've just Googled "meerkat on waterskis" super cute "Google otters holding hands it's even cuter  | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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"coooeeee" Blimey, it really does work {hides behind sofa} | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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I've just Googled "meerkat on waterskis" super cute
Google otters holding hands it's even cuter "Did you know they do that so they don't float apart | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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I've just Googled "meerkat on waterskis" super cute "{shakes head in disbelief} How long before cute animal pics overtake porn as the main source of internet traffic? | |||
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"coooeeee" Right so say half an hour and then take it off? I'll have to vague to stick within rules | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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I've just Googled "meerkat on waterskis" super cute
Google otters holding hands it's even cuter
Did you know they do that so they don't float apart "Yes I did , still super cute tho | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
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I've just Googled "meerkat on waterskis" super cute
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How long before cute animal pics overtake porn as the main source of internet traffic?
"My Dad when he's having a glum day tends to google animals farting videos which cheers him up immensely. He is my hero, and also a charmingly silly man! | |||
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"Say something about animals and watersports, that should work. (And I don't mean "Ah, I saw a cute pic of a meerkat on waterskis yesterday"
Mr ddc"awww was it sergei or alexanda | |||
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"If we could just share some positive experiences from those of us that grew with just our mothers, that would be nice and helpful for me to read. " Sorry, T, I've messed this thread up for you. Try a new thread entitled something like "Were you brought up by a single mum" and I promise I'll keep quiet. Sorry
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"Excuse me, *shoves everybody aside and wades in with a big stick* what seems to be the matter there dear "Oy! The thread distinctly says mods and not greasy rockers! On yer bike | |||
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"If we could just share some positive experiences from those of us that grew with just our mothers, that would be nice and helpful for me to read. " I tried to send you a pm but I'm outside your range. Don't know if it'll help you any, but I'm a single mum. I might be able to shed some light on things for you? Just a thought. I'm gonna nick your saying and say "curvy" kisses and hugs to you. | |||
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"If we could just share some positive experiences from those of us that grew with just our mothers, that would be nice and helpful for me to read. " Although I've maintained a great relationship with my Dad, it was my lovely (and occasionally crackers) mum who brought my sister and I up on her own at what I consider to be quite a young age. We didn't, and still don't, always see eye to eye and I certainly haven't achieved all she hoped for me but I have achieved a whole lot of other stuff she didn't even expect. At the time I just took for granted everything she did and now I look back and mainly think 'wow'. Doesn't stop us both annoying the crap out of one another, but at least now we can be honest enough to tell each other. | |||
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"If we could just share some positive experiences from those of us that grew with just our mothers, that would be nice and helpful for me to read. Sorry, T, I've messed this thread up for you. Try a new thread entitled something like "Were you brought up by a single mum" and I promise I'll keep quiet. Sorry
Mr ddc"Nah it's fine. It's just confirmed that this place isn't the best place to discuss what's happened because if I read people joking about I'd lose my head. It's fine I've got it off my chest now, just needed 1 impartial opinion. | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard." Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard. Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. " All sons are arseholes in their teens (well not all but most lol). I drove my mother to ruin; but she was patient, (and she moved me 200 miles from my "friends" lol). I spent 7 years married; but worked overseas for 13 (not much of a marriage to be fair). I came home because mum had a series of strokes and now I keep an eye on her; what goes around comes around... it's my turn, I can't accommodate... it limits my play, but such is life, prioritising my family is important. | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard. Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. All sons are arseholes in their teens (well not all but most lol). I drove my mother to ruin; but she was patient, (and she moved me 200 miles from my "friends" lol). I spent 7 years married; but worked overseas for 13 (not much of a marriage to be fair). I came home because mum had a series of strokes and now I keep an eye on her; what goes around comes around... it's my turn, I can't accommodate... it limits my play, but such is life, prioritising my family is important." Aaww. You sound really lovely. | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard. Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. All sons are arseholes in their teens (well not all but most lol). I drove my mother to ruin; but she was patient, (and she moved me 200 miles from my "friends" lol). I spent 7 years married; but worked overseas for 13 (not much of a marriage to be fair). I came home because mum had a series of strokes and now I keep an eye on her; what goes around comes around... it's my turn, I can't accommodate... it limits my play, but such is life, prioritising my family is important. Aaww. You sound really lovely. "Actually I am an arsehole... and "difficult to approach" according to my sisters...(who have tried to set me up with their friends). I am not lovely at all; but I KNOW I am not lovely if that counts for anything... | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard. Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. All sons are arseholes in their teens (well not all but most lol). I drove my mother to ruin; but she was patient, (and she moved me 200 miles from my "friends" lol). I spent 7 years married; but worked overseas for 13 (not much of a marriage to be fair). I came home because mum had a series of strokes and now I keep an eye on her; what goes around comes around... it's my turn, I can't accommodate... it limits my play, but such is life, prioritising my family is important. Aaww. You sound really lovely.
Actually I am an arsehole... and "difficult to approach" according to my sisters...(who have tried to set me up with their friends).
I am not lovely at all; but I KNOW I am not lovely if that counts for anything..."Ok ok. I get it. You're an arse!! Lol. I was just saying that from the way you were talking about your family you were coming across as lovely. Anyway, I don't think the forum is the place for this. | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard. Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. All sons are arseholes in their teens (well not all but most lol). I drove my mother to ruin; but she was patient, (and she moved me 200 miles from my "friends" lol). I spent 7 years married; but worked overseas for 13 (not much of a marriage to be fair). I came home because mum had a series of strokes and now I keep an eye on her; what goes around comes around... it's my turn, I can't accommodate... it limits my play, but such is life, prioritising my family is important. Aaww. You sound really lovely.
Actually I am an arsehole... and "difficult to approach" according to my sisters...(who have tried to set me up with their friends).
I am not lovely at all; but I KNOW I am not lovely if that counts for anything..."To be fair she did say "sound lovely" but I bet she's glad you set the record straight. Btw I know you're lovely | |||
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Hhhmmm. And I won't bother you again. It obviously annoyed that I commented on your post!"No it didn't my reply was tongue in cheek. 
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"If we could just share some positive experiences from those of us that grew with just our mothers, that would be nice and helpful for me to read. " My father passed away when I was aged 13 and my sister was 11. My Mum was our rock from then onwards. Not always easy and 3 females in one household, hormones were rife. Money was sometimes tight, but we managed. My sister and I are both well-balanced people. Relate well to men. I'd say our Mum was our heroine. Sarah | |||
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"Dad left when I was 2. Left mum; 2 sisters and me. I had the best childhood ever. I went off the rails as a teen. Mum brought me back. Our family has no arguments, no fights, we are friends first. I have given both my sisters away at their weddings (proud moments). We grew up on the council; we changed our lives with support and encouragement; I am working on my second degree, both my sisters are successful business women (interior design and Web design). I travelled the world; worked for the UN and other large organisations. We made it; whatever it is. When we get together; we laugh and tell stories; so much love. Dad leaving was the best thing that happened. I missed out on some things (learning and playing sports with dad, learning about shaving (I shaved with COLD water up until 21)) but such is life. Love is what binds a family and makes it strong; when one of the family unit disappears, for whatever reason; you just have to love a little more to make up the shortfall (tough love too, not spoiling) and that isn't so hard. Wow!!! What lovely words about the upbringing you've had. I only hope one day my son says something along those lines!! Although now with the teenage years upon us I doubt it!! Lol. All sons are arseholes in their teens (well not all but most lol). I drove my mother to ruin; but she was patient, (and she moved me 200 miles from my "friends" lol). I spent 7 years married; but worked overseas for 13 (not much of a marriage to be fair). I came home because mum had a series of strokes and now I keep an eye on her; what goes around comes around... it's my turn, I can't accommodate... it limits my play, but such is life, prioritising my family is important. Aaww. You sound really lovely.
Actually I am an arsehole... and "difficult to approach" according to my sisters...(who have tried to set me up with their friends).
I am not lovely at all; but I KNOW I am not lovely if that counts for anything..."totally a reflection of me as a single mum..the tough love thing and the arsehole thing..and the difficult to approach thing..im working on it. and yeah my kids love me like your family do, we are tight and i am grateful for our open communicative relationships, where we can laugh at what isnt and enjoy what is...thankyou for sharing, this helped me today x hugsOP..whatever they do, they do it out of their own experiences OP, love may not seem like love 'should be..but there is no handbook and people, unless conscious narcissists, do their best with the options they see in front of them xx hugs xx | |||
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