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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now don’t get me wrong; I like sex, I may not be an Adonis or the most athletic of beings, but I am alright, in general….

The thing is I really quite enjoy the company of women, and fab is a bit hit and miss sometimes; I get a lot of free time and I would prefer to spend that free time in good company. Now don’t get me wrong; I don’t want a relationship, or a FWB or whatever the chuff they are called but I would like to spend a bit of my free time with good people, happy people, without the pretence of it being anything more than just a lovely moment, hopefully…..

So…… do I join a dating website; clearly define that I am not looking for a relationship and see? Is that dishonest of me? If so, I am not allowed cock pics right?

((to the mods; if this thread turns nasty, I probably deserve it))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find all sorts here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can find all sorts here."

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

What are you blathering about, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dating sites tend to be for dating or one night stands but try them out and be clear what you want on your profile, you never know. POF has casual dating as an option.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol "
you arent bonkers this is the bit i miss..sorry you are so far away..i miss my platonic male buddies x not that i wouldnt , but you know what im saying x online dynamic might suit you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you blathering about, OP?

"

I smoked a herbal cigarette and felt lonely.... it may be time for the care home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you blathering about, OP?

"

No idea but that's hell of a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol "

Well I eat (obviously), I fall over often but have mostly mastered the art of walking and I can pull a sentence together on occasionally.

Pick me pick me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you blathering about, OP?

No idea but that's hell of a cock "

See.... that kinda stuff just makes me

I am quite a good cook..... does that matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol you arent bonkers this is the bit i miss..sorry you are so far away..i miss my platonic male buddies x not that i wouldnt , but you know what im saying x online dynamic might suit you??"

Oh Suzy..... You honour me with your words, thank you... I don't think I can do online, I like to see a woman smile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you blathering about, OP?

No idea but that's hell of a cock

See.... that kinda stuff just makes me

I am quite a good cook..... does that matter?"

Naw not really you do know this is fab not match.com

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol

Well I eat (obviously), I fall over often but have mostly mastered the art of walking and I can pull a sentence together on occasionally.

Pick me pick me "

Knits, you live in LONDON, how can we walk along the beach, down the pretty country lanes?

I may have to move; but I don't want too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tab of fruit acid will put matters in perspective... You'll survive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you blathering about, OP?

No idea but that's hell of a cock

See.... that kinda stuff just makes me

I am quite a good cook..... does that matter?

Naw not really you do know this is fab not match.com

"

Don't want a match... just want a giggle.... Blokes walking along the beach at night alone are either suicidal or waving a detector thingy...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol you arent bonkers this is the bit i miss..sorry you are so far away..i miss my platonic male buddies x not that i wouldnt , but you know what im saying x online dynamic might suit you??

Oh Suzy..... You honour me with your words, thank you... I don't think I can do online, I like to see a woman smile...."
theres always skype x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You can find many things in one place or multiply that exponentially if you explore multiple avenues.

Know what you're after and make it happen.

How important is gender? If it's company and not sex, are you seeking a proxy wife/girlfriend? Or if it's just friends then is gender that important? I didn't perhaps get the your full drift from the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you blathering about, OP?

No idea but that's hell of a cock

See.... that kinda stuff just makes me

I am quite a good cook..... does that matter?

Naw not really you do know this is fab not match.com

Don't want a match... just want a giggle.... Blokes walking along the beach at night alone are either suicidal or waving a detector thingy..."

Haha you can wave your detector thingy at me anytime pmsl

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You can find many things in one place or multiply that exponentially if you explore multiple avenues.

Know what you're after and make it happen.

How important is gender? If it's company and not sex, are you seeking a proxy wife/girlfriend? Or if it's just friends then is gender that important? I didn't perhaps get the your full drift from the post."
great question sophie xx ill ponder on this for myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol

Well I eat (obviously), I fall over often but have mostly mastered the art of walking and I can pull a sentence together on occasionally.

Pick me pick me

Knits, you live in LONDON, how can we walk along the beach, down the pretty country lanes?

I may have to move; but I don't want too xx"

Meh walking on sand is hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can find many things in one place or multiply that exponentially if you explore multiple avenues.

Know what you're after and make it happen.

How important is gender? If it's company and not sex, are you seeking a proxy wife/girlfriend? Or if it's just friends then is gender that important? I didn't perhaps get the your full drift from the post."

It's not a surrogate girlfriend/wife I want or desire, but it is the company of women I desire. I spent a few years working in Afghanistan and Pakistan and I am quite tired of male company (no offense lads); I like or enjoy should I say, a different perspective, a woman sees the world differently to a man; its that which brings delight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can find all sorts here.

Okay; this I understand and thank you, I appreciate your comment, but.... I get A LOT of free time, and well sometimes I just want to go out for a meal or something simple, nothing complex..... maybe go for a walk....

I like talking (no shit, he likes typing too!), and well just good company; I can usually arrange a meet once a week or so; but sometimes I would just like to meet someone and chat, shoot the breeze... I live in rural Devon and meeting folks is none too easy (I study in Bristol but that's with much younger folk, love em' but I feel like their dad when we sit in the union bar).

Anyway, I am probably bonkers.. don't worry about it lol

Well I eat (obviously), I fall over often but have mostly mastered the art of walking and I can pull a sentence together on occasionally.

Pick me pick me

Knits, you live in LONDON, how can we walk along the beach, down the pretty country lanes?

I may have to move; but I don't want too xx

Meh walking on sand is hard "

Piggy Back?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

You can certainly increase your audience by being specific on dating sites - most allow you to specify 'hangout' or 'casual dating' or whatever you want in the text - I actually came here because someone was advertising for an fb on Badoo and turned out to be a swinger! But if you specify non-sexual meets I would expect you'd get a good response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im out of your age range and im a pirate so im no good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about rl platonic friends, or don't you have any geographically close to you?

A dating site sounds ideal for this, just be up front and good luck x

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