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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning

though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab

i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids

id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do

advice anyone please

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Change dentist

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Either:

1/ if you know him well enough, have a quiet word and say, look mate, this is strictly between you and me

Or:

2/ if you don't know him well, just totally ignore him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Remove your face pictures from your public gallery to prevent future worries.

Has the man who contacted you suggested that he might tell other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning

though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab

i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids

id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do

advice anyone please"

Set pics to private and choose who you send them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning

though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab

i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids

id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do

advice anyone please"
come off the site if it bothers you enough to let them find out, otherwise carry on, hes seen you now so no denying it

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

You could try making all your face-pics private, to give your profile an air of deniability?

Or even hide it for a while?

Mr ddc

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Ensure he receives regular BJ's in exchange for his silence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Either:

1/ if you know him well enough, have a quiet word and say, look mate, this is strictly between you and me

Or:

2/ if you don't know him well, just totally ignore him. "

i dnt know him that well i just know that he knows my family

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Message him back, he might mean no harm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning

though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab

i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids

id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do

advice anyone please"

Without sounding Critical, you have your face picture all over your profile.

I'm sure there are lots of other people know you but haven't approached you. Having said that we are all in this together and if someone mentioned that they have seen you on a swingers site, then they automatically expose themselves too. Relax and move on, don't worry about what you cant change. Happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hes been very polite by simply messaging you here - didnt come up and high 5 you in the waiting room - but if you put your face pic up for all to see im sorry but expect to be recognised -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand your angst as tray has kids who are on here hence why we don't show face pics until we chatted for a while to someone but at the same time this isn't a sex site it's a swingers site and any social media site can be used for the same thing snap chat, facebook (how many marriages has that ruined) if they do find out just tell them it's the social side and the forums you love just because your on here doesn't mean you meet or have sex with any Tom dick or harry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all and with having my face pic public it was only a matter of time before i was reconised

and to be fair to the guy he hasnt said anything negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ensure he receives regular BJ's in exchange for his silence "

I know you. what ever will it take to keep me quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile hidden - common sense prevailed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning

though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab

i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids

id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do

advice anyone please"

You will be today's news and tomorrow's chip paper. Because you have put that "dilemma" as a (forum) topic. You have opened yourself up now. You should of kept your silence and it would have blown over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ensure he receives regular BJ's in exchange for his silence

I know you. what ever will it take to keep me quiet "

haha funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Ensure he receives regular BJ's in exchange for his silence

I know you. what ever will it take to keep me quiet "

Ha Ha we will see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ensure he receives regular BJ's in exchange for his silence

I know you. what ever will it take to keep me quiet

Ha Ha we will see x"

My lips are sealed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget he is also on fab ! Don't worry about it . These things can happen and do happen it's how you deal with it that counts .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

He is on fab too ... And probably just as concerned that you recognised him

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