FabSwingers.com forum: Don't shoot

By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Me down please

But does anyone else feel the same when talking to a potential meet and he talks about a meet he has planned before you or after you or his previous meets ?

I don't know what or how to describe the feeling it's not jealousy just something you don't want to hear about ?

And when it's a single male profile and he has pics of him with other random women ?

Or is it just me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what hes saying - if saying how wow she was and making you feel insecure then thats bad - if it a humourous story to tell well thats an ice breaker - but it shouldnt really bother you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't discuss previous meets with someone I am potentially meeting. I think that would be disrespectful to both parties.

I always wonder about single males with lots of photos of previous meets on their profile. Does she know, has she given permission? I would think a verification is sufficient.

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By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

"depends what hes saying - if saying how wow she was and making you feel insecure then thats bad - if it a humourous story to tell well thats an ice breaker - but it shouldnt really bother you "

The first one

Telling me how good she is at blow jobs etc - which makes me nervous more than anything when I do meet - feel like I will be compared or something if that makes sense ?

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By *i Lady Next Door OP Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

"I wouldn't discuss previous meets with someone I am potentially meeting. I think that would be disrespectful to both parties.

I always wonder about single males with lots of photos of previous meets on their profile. Does she know, has she given permission? I would think a verification is sufficient.

Disrespectful is probably the word I am looking for Thankyou !

I totally understand it's a swingers site and that's what happens and I see the veris but don't need to know the stories really xx

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I think you are right to think that way;

I think it's impolite to talk to someone about what I have done ( or might do) with someone else.

Unless asked to; but even then, I would make sure I never identified the other person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't mind the pics at all. they probably really like the pics that's all, plus it can give you an idea of what the guy is into sexually. doggy style pics put me off but cunnelingus* pics turn me on.

but if a guy started chatting sex at me, unless it was a teaser of what we were gonna do and both wanted that, yeah i would feel disrespected.

*idk how to spell that.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Me down please

But does anyone else feel the same when talking to a potential meet and he talks about a meet he has planned before you or after you or his previous meets ?

I don't know what or how to describe the feeling it's not jealousy just something you don't want to hear about ?

And when it's a single male profile and he has pics of him with other random women ?

Or is it just me ?

Xx "

The first bit, it would really depend on what and how it was said. We've mentioned past meets before, if we been asked certain things. We wouldn't name who it was, just might talk about it generally.

As for having pictures with others, no generally that doesn't bother me. Lots of couples have pics with others in, so why not singles.

The only times is when they haven't blanked out the other person(s) face but have their own. Or the photo is mainly the other person and they have a hand or big toe on show, if you zoom in very carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand how you feel, but I've never felt like that, if that makes sense.

I might chat about mutual friends with a meet, or say "I took such and such to such and such a place when they visited", but the nitty gritty details or who else you both meet when you're not meeting each other? No way.

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