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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's just preference. Even if if was ageism - so what? No one is under any obligation to have sex with anyone they don't want to irrespective of any reason given.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of people are not keen on the idea of meeting people who are older than their parents or younger than their kids.

Others just feel that a bigger age gap means that it's harder to talk and socialise.

On the other hand, some people really like older, or younger folk and others will shag anything with a pulse.

Cal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!"

It's not interviews for jobs in B and Q it's sex with strangers. Making sweeping generalisations about the characteristics of certain age groups is far more ageist in my opinion than exercising a choice over the age of people you have sex with.

Why should I revise the age of people I want to meet because of your experience?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd hate to think of people having sex with those that they find unattractive, just so that someone doesn't view them as prejudiced.

Don't make do, just aim for what you really want.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

A bit like saying there's racism. No it's a preference on who we want to be intimate with. If we're not attracted we're not attracted simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What You really mean is....

Your not getting any action in here and you think if people hadn't got age restrictions on their profiles then maybe you'd get more punani ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

41 is no age

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

How very dare we have a preference

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Oh I only find my age is an issue after I've said no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh...such is life. I don't see it as missing out. I see it as if I'm out of their preferences then they won't be interested in me. How can i be missing out with someone who isn't interested in me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!"

You are alone in thinking people are ageist. It's their body so their choice.

Am I alone in thinking people who moan about preferences are whingey twats

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We are ageist.

Assuming ageist means we make pre- judgements about people based on their age.

For regular friends and playmates it's all about personality and a connection so she does not matter but for light hearted fun and relief when away at a hotel we want something different.

It's down one we will probably never meet again, we don't want them here for hours, it's just a bit of fun and for that, young, fit guys are the order of the day.

Now we could just say fit but every guy on fab thinks he is fit so if we instead set an age limit it filters out a significant number of those who will not be what we are looking for in that circumstance.

Every filter is 'something-ist' including whatever ones you may have set OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah course i will have sex with age groups i dont find attracruve to tick the equality and diversity check box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make my choices from experience.

I'm not going to be satisfied with a man just because he has experience,because I won't be turned on by him.

Younger doesn't always mean inexperienced and older doesn't always mean experienced. The amount of sex one has had also doesn't mean you will be better than someone with less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not so much ageism as heightism...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah course i will have sex with age groups i dont find attracruve to tick the equality and diversity check box "

Great,count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly discriminate.... but only on the grounds of stupidity or ignorance...

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!"
. Each number makes their own decision based on what they want . They are also entitled to use age as a deciding factor .

As there are members of all ages on this site , it is just a question of funding the right ones for you.

It would be strange if age was not one of the deciding factors .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we want fun with over 60s we will take the wife's mum to Llandudno for the day thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a preference not an ism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about what one is attracted to and nothing to do with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why won't those 19 year olds shag me ?

I just don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young women are not for me,i couldnt meet anyone younger than my daughter i know thats weird but its just the way im thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's frustrating when you see a profile you like and your a year past the limit

But then if someone's ages limit is 18 to 99 that puts me off

Can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have their own preferences and its cool. Its your profile and you get to decide who you do and don't meet.

Dont get glum chum just carry on enjoying the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's about what one is attracted to and nothing to do with age "

Just looked at your age limits

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the age I am and yes it is harder to find people as I get older but then I like a challenge to find someone who will play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And OP I'm assuming that this is a self centered post and that you aren't making a stand for all the pensioners on here and at 44 I can honestly say I've never felt that my age has been a hinderence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's frustrating when you see a profile you like and your a year past the limit

But then if someone's ages limit is 18 to 99 that puts me off

Can't win "

So you wouldn't message a hot chick with age range of 18-99 ?

Pmsl yer ok

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I had a relationship with a man coming on for 16 years older than me. When I met him I fancied him as he still looked good, by the time we parted ten years on - I can honestly say he was wrinkly, pretty bloody bald and just NOT someone I would look twice at.

I am not perfect or claiming to be, likewise I'm not looking for a 'perfect' man - just someone I am attracted to and although there are exceptions to the rule, men in their 50's/60's aren't what I fancy

Likewise I don't want to be meeting my sons mates or mates kids!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!

You are alone in thinking people are ageist. It's their body so their choice.

Am I alone in thinking people who moan about preferences are whingey twats "

You are not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might as well say we should fuck anyone who asks.

I'm here for my own enjoyment. I decide who I play with because it's my body and if I have an age preference that is my choice and I will not change that because some people don't think it's fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have age limits on fab simply to try and narrow down to couples that we are more likely to have common interests with, the upper age limit has been reduced as people lie about their age. In a club, age is irrelevant and we play with those we are both attracted to and never felt to ask someone's age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might as well say we should fuck anyone who asks.

I'm here for my own enjoyment. I decide who I play with because it's my body and if I have an age preference that is my choice and I will not change that because some people don't think it's fair.

"

What would you do if no one wanted to meet you at all apart from older guys??

What would you do then if your choices of who wanted to fuck you were limited to older men??

Just curious what you would do if the only options you had were older guys?

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

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By *ot_couple84Couple
over a year ago

Andover

We have listed our age preference on our profile but not added filters to our messages. This is largely because the majority won't be for us but we do know that some will be (and couples won't both always be within the ages), I still tell them that they are over our age preference if I'm not attracted to them...I'm 26 I don't really want to meet with someone old enough to be my dad or older!

The individual(s) are the important thing to us but in our experience all men I tell are over the age limit say they "look after themselves and don't look their age" I've spent time chatting to some guys before they eventually send a pic only to be left deflated...

We also don't meet younger men (clubs an exception as I don't ask age etc there) but an arranged meet won't happen with younger guys, I don't like the idea of being 'the older woman' but it's all about personal preference, OP you need to respect others opinions and find someone else to message.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Yeah course i will have sex with age groups i dont find attracruve to tick the equality and diversity check box "

Good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might as well say we should fuck anyone who asks.

I'm here for my own enjoyment. I decide who I play with because it's my body and if I have an age preference that is my choice and I will not change that because some people don't think it's fair.

What would you do if no one wanted to meet you at all apart from older guys??

What would you do then if your choices of who wanted to fuck you were limited to older men??

Just curious what you would do if the only options you had were older guys?"

I'll answer that one,as someone who usually only meets younger men. I'd wait for the younger minded older men who I feel an attraction to,I'll be patient and search. If I don't find any I'll pay a younger escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might as well say we should fuck anyone who asks.

I'm here for my own enjoyment. I decide who I play with because it's my body and if I have an age preference that is my choice and I will not change that because some people don't think it's fair.

What would you do if no one wanted to meet you at all apart from older guys??

What would you do then if your choices of who wanted to fuck you were limited to older men??

Just curious what you would do if the only options you had were older guys?

I'll answer that one,as someone who usually only meets younger men. I'd wait for the younger minded older men who I feel an attraction to,I'll be patient and search. If I don't find any I'll pay a younger escort "

Ha Ha but you would meet the older men though.

That's the thing I'm getting at. People like to say they have choices and wouldn't meet old fat thin ginger etc? But limit the choices that are available and it's funny how many people will change their mind.

You set of fickle bastards

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc"

You forgot heightism

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

You forgot heightism "

Preferencism....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a preference but I can imagine a frustrating one at times ~ probably explains why occasionally age 49 morphs into 51

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

You forgot heightism "

Horsefuckermoanytwatisum

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I wasn't aware I had to be P.C here.

Or

Or should it be like at work places where they would never take on a certain age person but can't be seen to discriminate between them so waste everyones time even?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm totally ageist!

On paper.

If I'm contacted on here by someone who's 30 I'm so far from interested. Likewise if I'm contacted by someone in their 50's... I'm not responding with any more than a polite no thank you.

If I met both of those people in person, it wouldn't matter how old they were if there was a spark.

Contrary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not a bit ageist to assume most young couples just want a "burst of fun" not to mention some of the older couples we've met who act like they are in their teens (which can at times be cringeworthy)

Preferences are preferences at the end of the day, no point in doing something (or someone) you don't enjoy doing!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't aware I had to be P.C here.

Or

Or should it be like at work places where they would never take on a certain age person but can't be seen to discriminate between them so waste everyones time even? "

You mean when they interview them and they have no intention of employing them ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm not an employer, my body is not covered by government statute to allow all comers to enter.

My sexual preference has always been older men and I can't see it changing now. I'm surrounded by young men, my daughters and girlfriends friends and sons. I haven't looked at one and thought hmmm...I would!

I've said to my daughters/friends ooh, he's a handsome chap with the same tone as oh that's a nice pair of shoes. I can appreciate good looks, charm, charisma etc in all...doesn't mean I want to fuck em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

You forgot heightism

Horsefuckermoanytwatisum"

Choice!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Lots of people are not keen on the idea of meeting people who are older than their parents or younger than their kids.

Others just feel that a bigger age gap means that it's harder to talk and socialise.

On the other hand, some people really like older, or younger folk and others will shag anything with a pulse.

Cal"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!

It's not interviews for jobs in B and Q it's sex with strangers. Making sweeping generalisations about the characteristics of certain age groups is far more ageist in my opinion than exercising a choice over the age of people you have sex with.

Why should I revise the age of people I want to meet because of your experience? "

Exactly!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What You really mean is....

Your not getting any action in here and you think if people hadn't got age restrictions on their profiles then maybe you'd get more punani ?

"

In a nutshell. Can't possibly be because he's married of course, it's his age.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Meh...such is life. I don't see it as missing out. I see it as if I'm out of their preferences then they won't be interested in me. How can i be missing out with someone who isn't interested in me?? "

...or you them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"For me it's not so much ageism as heightism... "

I refrained from saying that!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

You forgot heightism

Horsefuckermoanytwatisum

Choice!! "

Though ironically I wanted to send you a complimentary message on how amazing your pictures and profile are..... But was blocked by your age filter.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Young women are not for me,i couldnt meet anyone younger than my daughter i know thats weird but its just the way im thinking"

You're not alone: I don't meet anyone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young women are not for me,i couldnt meet anyone younger than my daughter i know thats weird but its just the way im thinking

You're not alone: I don't meet anyone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer quick short bursts of fun and excitement personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't aware I had to be P.C here.

Or

Or should it be like at work places where they would never take on a certain age person but can't be seen to discriminate between them so waste everyones time even?

You mean when they interview them and they have no intention of employing them ? "

Yeah... like when they interview women...

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

You forgot heightism

Horsefuckermoanytwatisum"

How did I forget Horsefuckermoanytwatisum!

I also forgot sexism and sexualityism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that a lot of people are missing out on some very good fun with others just because they restrict the age of people they want contact from on fabswingers. I have met with lots of older women and men and also younger women and men all of whom have their own unique sex appeal. The older generation tend to have more experience, take their time and ensure everyone has a good time. The younger ones tend to be looking for quick short bursts of fun and games, but aren't always sure what they want.

What are other peoples views on this - or am I alone in thinking we are becoming more and more ageist on the site.

Check others at both ends of the spectrum, you might get surprised at what you find and enjoy !!!!!!!!"

My cunt is not an equal opportunities employer...There are no isms where she is concerned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is right in that age is just a number and there will be exceptions. Typically, I do not fancy women much older than myself, so I do not actively search for them - but they can contact me, and I have been pleasantly surprised on a couple of occasions.

Personally, I'd like more ways to narrow down my searches and wish other men would be equally selective (or discriminatory, depending on your view).

Yes, a few fine specimens will slip through the net but that's life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not meet below 30's it's a personal prefrence.

I'm a mum of a twenty something & am not attracted to that age range.

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By *ragonDuo34Couple
over a year ago

Spalding


"If we want fun with over 60s we will take the wife's mum to Llandudno for the day thanks "

Lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could say that everyone's preferences on here are a ism.

Racism, ageism, sizeism, lengthism, locationism, accomadateism, uglyism, muppetism, trollism, timewasterism etc

You forgot heightism

Horsefuckermoanytwatisum

Choice!!

Though ironically I wanted to send you a complimentary message on how amazing your pictures and profile are..... But was blocked by your age filter. "

nothing ironic about that...

its down to choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might as well say we should fuck anyone who asks.

I'm here for my own enjoyment. I decide who I play with because it's my body and if I have an age preference that is my choice and I will not change that because some people don't think it's fair.

What would you do if no one wanted to meet you at all apart from older guys??

What would you do then if your choices of who wanted to fuck you were limited to older men??

Just curious what you would do if the only options you had were older guys?

I'll answer that one,as someone who usually only meets younger men. I'd wait for the younger minded older men who I feel an attraction to,I'll be patient and search. If I don't find any I'll pay a younger escort

Ha Ha but you would meet the older men though.

That's the thing I'm getting at. People like to say they have choices and wouldn't meet old fat thin ginger etc? But limit the choices that are available and it's funny how many people will change their mind.

You set of fickle bastards

Lol "

I would,if I found one who turned me on. It's rare for that to happen so I block them and don't waste our time letting them message me. I don't want to give an older man "a chance", I want to talk to the ones I know I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might as well say we should fuck anyone who asks.

I'm here for my own enjoyment. I decide who I play with because it's my body and if I have an age preference that is my choice and I will not change that because some people don't think it's fair.

What would you do if no one wanted to meet you at all apart from older guys??

What would you do then if your choices of who wanted to fuck you were limited to older men??

Just curious what you would do if the only options you had were older guys?

I'll answer that one,as someone who usually only meets younger men. I'd wait for the younger minded older men who I feel an attraction to,I'll be patient and search. If I don't find any I'll pay a younger escort

Ha Ha but you would meet the older men though.

That's the thing I'm getting at. People like to say they have choices and wouldn't meet old fat thin ginger etc? But limit the choices that are available and it's funny how many people will change their mind.

You set of fickle bastards

Lol

I would,if I found one who turned me on. It's rare for that to happen so I block them and don't waste our time letting them message me. I don't want to give an older man "a chance", I want to talk to the ones I know I want to meet. "

So blocking is a polite way of saying

Thanks for your message but no thanks???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get enough messages from other ages that we are interested in so aren't missing out on anything.

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"we get enough messages from other ages that we are interested in so aren't missing out on anything.

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though."

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex."

Anger management

Or ironically perhaps sexual frustration

Can hear the venom in your words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex."

i don't wanna fuck guys my age though, they're old.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

As a younger guy, i'm going to have to say i disagree, whilst seeing your point,and having supported your point in the past.

In the past i would have agreed, saying that i got overlooked because of my age, then i realised it was my attatchment to my age that got in the way of things. I went to a club thinking ''oh god these people are going to treat me like a child, Ill be pushed to the corner and ignored''

The truth was once i relaxed and allowed myself to be the mature and eloquent person i am, my age didnt matter.

In regards to fabs as a website and the filters and such, people will have their preferences due to their experiences and i respect that. I enjoy the the thought that at a club i can be mature enough or charming enough or whatever enough of a person to evoke some sort of questioning of these filters, and having done so brings a smile to my face. People will be people, they like comfort zones and with the unutterable expectation that this lifestyle brings to an outsiders perspective i think its okay to have such measures, if it in turn offers a further expression of oneself.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex."

True to an extent; most of the whingers I see are older ( and rather pathetic ) blokes who think that they will get easy shags from younger women.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex.

True to an extent; most of the whingers I see are older ( and rather pathetic ) blokes who think that they will get easy shags from younger women.

"

Or younger guys thinking all women should be cougars

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex.

True to an extent; most of the whingers I see are older ( and rather pathetic ) blokes who think that they will get easy shags from younger women.

Or younger guys thinking all women should be cougars "

or older women thinking all young men think that older women should be cougars

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex.

True to an extent; most of the whingers I see are older ( and rather pathetic ) blokes who think that they will get easy shags from younger women.

Or younger guys thinking all women should be cougars

or older women thinking all young men think that older women should be cougars "

I was referring to the younger guys who post threads...not them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex.

Anger management

Or ironically perhaps sexual frustration

Can hear the venom in your words"

You're trying to read things into my words that weren't there.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"

maybe the older people are missing out on what they want though.

Maybe they should just fuck all the older people. Then we'd see less whinging on the forums about older people not getting enough sex.

True to an extent; most of the whingers I see are older ( and rather pathetic ) blokes who think that they will get easy shags from younger women.

Or younger guys thinking all women should be cougars

or older women thinking all young men think that older women should be cougars

I was referring to the younger guys who post threads...not them all "

fair play

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