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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm here for sex mainly and if people want me just for that then that's fine. I'm also here for socialisingn and that's good too and I feel good about myself and more so since I joined fab.

All good here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

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The questions you've asked make me think that perhaps swinging is not the right hobby for you.

If you're not into casual sex, you might find it a bit difficult to get on with people here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm here for sex mainly and if people want me just for that then that's fine. I'm also here for socialisingn and that's good too and I feel good about myself and more so since I joined fab.

All good here.

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good chap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

The questions you've asked make me think that perhaps swinging is not the right hobby for you.

If you're not into casual sex, you might find it a bit difficult to get on with people here."

Yes I think your right. I enjoy the social side of here more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's recreational sex for me. I don't want them to want me in that way. I prefer it if they want to be fucking me because of who I am,and not a body to release sexual frustration on,but I like to leave it as sex with possible friendly chat every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's recreational sex for me. I don't want them to want me in that way. I prefer it if they want to be fucking me because of who I am,and not a body to release sexual frustration on,but I like to leave it as sex with possible friendly chat every now and then. "

^ this ^

I don't mind them only wanting me for sex as that's all I want them for too.

I have no time or interest in being friends or having a relationship.

I know that can be too cold for some though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome into the world of sexual commodities.

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By *hristine and MarieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Somewhere north of Spalding

I used to feel like this years ago, before I started swinging, which I then really enjoyed for a few years. Now people don't even want me for sex so I think perhaps your best course of action is to enjoy it while you can x M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting thread OP

I meet some and it's just for sex. It's fun and I enjoy it for what it is.

I also meet some where there is definitely more of a connection and with those I do more than just meet for sex. We go out to dinner, we chat, it's not a relationship but it's a bit more than just nsa sex.

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

I admire people who can compartmentalise sex in this way. I find it hard to do. I would prefer to have a regular friend than a string of one-offs, although I know full well that I'm in the minority with what I want. I've stayed in contact with some people I've met and I'm glad about that. Other people have blanked me afterwards and that's the only thing I find difficult. I would never presume to meet someone more than once, but it doesn't take much to be polite after a meet. Thank goodness those sort of people are in the minority as most are really nice before and after. If I've decided I never want to see someone again, but they took the time to message me, I always reply as good manners.

My self-esteem hasn't improved from being on this site, sometimes makes me feel worse, but then that's probably down to me overanalysing, so is for me to deal with.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*"

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I admire people who can compartmentalise sex in this way. I find it hard to do. I would prefer to have a regular friend than a string of one-offs, although I know full well that I'm in the minority with what I want. I've stayed in contact with some people I've met and I'm glad about that. Other people have blanked me afterwards and that's the only thing I find difficult. I would never presume to meet someone more than once, but it doesn't take much to be polite after a meet. Thank goodness those sort of people are in the minority as most are really nice before and after. If I've decided I never want to see someone again, but they took the time to message me, I always reply as good manners.

My self-esteem hasn't improved from being on this site, sometimes makes me feel worse, but then that's probably down to me overanalysing, so is for me to deal with."

I liked your post

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*"

He's talking about that 'past its sell by' melon he got cheap at the market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been used for 'secret fat girl sex' so being on here at least there is a degree of honesty (although I've met my fair share of massive cockwombly liars on here too). It bothered me more when I was on dating sites and you knew people were just saying what they thought you wanted to hear.

My self esteem hasn't really changed but I'm a much stronger person from being on here. People may not want to be with me but I like being with me so it doesn't matter so much anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would they want to be with me? I didn't sign up for Match.com

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*"

Would love to oblige but you're not looking for men and not below 99yrs old!

I don't know whether I can wait that long! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*

He's talking about that 'past its sell by' melon he got cheap at the market. "

I thought it was a warm pot noodle.....

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Why would they want to be with me? I didn't sign up for Match.com"

Personally I always want to be with the woman I'm having sex with. I've found over the years it works better that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

"

I'm only on here for NSA sex so if anyone starts to want me for more than a fuck and a bit of fun I don't meet them again!

Nothing wrong with my self-esteem either...I don't need Fab to make me feel good about myself

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

"I admire people who can compartmentalise sex in this way. I find it hard to do. I would prefer to have a regular friend than a string of one-offs, although I know full well that I'm in the minority with what I want. I've stayed in contact with some people I've met and I'm glad about that. Other people have blanked me afterwards and that's the only thing I find difficult. I would never presume to meet someone more than once, but it doesn't take much to be polite after a meet. Thank goodness those sort of people are in the minority as most are really nice before and after. If I've decided I never want to see someone again, but they took the time to message me, I always reply as good manners.

My self-esteem hasn't improved from being on this site, sometimes makes me feel worse, but then that's probably down to me overanalysing, so is for me to deal with.

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I liked your post

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Thanks. I don't often post on here, but your question resonated with me, so thought I'd contribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's recreational sex for me. I don't want them to want me in that way. I prefer it if they want to be fucking me because of who I am,and not a body to release sexual frustration on,but I like to leave it as sex with possible friendly chat every now and then.

^ this ^

I don't mind them only wanting me for sex as that's all I want them for too.

I have no time or interest in being friends or having a relationship.

I know that can be too cold for some though."

This^^^

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"Looking for love in al the wrong places" springs to mind.

The last thing I would want is anyone from Fab wanting more than just sex. My life is complicated enough as it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*"

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always been used for 'secret fat girl sex' so being on here at least there is a degree of honesty (although I've met my fair share of massive cockwombly liars on here too). It bothered me more when I was on dating sites and you knew people were just saying what they thought you wanted to hear.

My self esteem hasn't really changed but I'm a much stronger person from being on here. People may not want to be with me but I like being with me so it doesn't matter so much anymore

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Nice one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For singles this is perhaps the most important question of fab; it will dictate how often you play and with how many; it will also to some degree effect your enjoyment on the site.

Each to their own, I used to feel hollow and a little empty after a meet (under a different profile); because I was looking for more than my physical desires to be sated, I didn't use a dating website because I wanted to meet someone who was sexual liberated. I still came home to an empty bed I wasn't nourished.

I took some time out. Came back different; I am no longer looking for anything, I have made peace with what is; fab now allows me to sate those desires and because my expectations have changed the people I meet satisfy and nourish me; I enjoy their company and accept it is fleeting.

It's the old.phrase, people.oft tried to change the world but seldom try to change themselves...

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

It is was it is and sometimes new friends are made too. Somebody beat the hippy out of me

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*"

With a sexy arse like yours I'm sure there would be many volunteers.

(steps forward)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get called nice and no shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came here just for the sex we don't want any think else other than a good time

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By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

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its not a bloody dating site its for swinging not lifelong partners here to fuck not share lives think you're on the wrong type of site .

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

""Looking for love in al the wrong places" springs to mind.

The last thing I would want is anyone from Fab wanting more than just sex. My life is complicated enough as it is! "

yeah hopeless place a sex site trying to find love or companionship try match.com

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I find I enjoy myself enough from this site. Some of my meets have been enjoyable one-offs, some of my meets have been unenjoyable one-offs and a few of my meets have lead to quite a few repeat meets with the same people who I now consider as friends.

Whilst one-offs can be great fun I personally find that getting to know someone better; what their personal likes and dislikes are; often leads to more intermit and better sex between each other.

Like with all thinks in life, this site is what you make of it and, if you learn to accept whatever happens (which is quite often, but not always, nothing for single guys) you'll get to really enjoy yourself here when it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*

With a sexy arse like yours I'm sure there would be many volunteers.

(steps forward) "

Hehe thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined in the hope of finding a regular FB who whilst didn't want a relationship but wanted me a little more than for just a fuck.

I've found those qualities in a few people who unfortunately live at opposite ends of country to make it a regular occurrence

NSA sex in the true sense of the word leaves me feeling a little cold.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I joined in the hope of finding a regular FB who whilst didn't want a relationship but wanted me a little more than for just a fuck.

I've found those qualities in a few people who unfortunately live at opposite ends of country to make it a regular occurrence

NSA sex in the true sense of the word leaves me feeling a little cold."

Totally agree...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x"

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

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Yes ive no doubt but its not the best place is it? A side option yeah but i would keep my options open. Just mo

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

[Removed by poster at 09/05/16 17:02:29]

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I'm with u on that OP, be good to find someone decent for regular meets instead of fucking the whole site but this is a sex site so don't expect too much pal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

Yes ive no doubt but its not the best place is it? A side option yeah but i would keep my options open. Just mo"

Yes its a side option for me along with lots of others too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm with u on that OP, be good to find someone decent for regular meets instead of fucking the whole site but this is a sex site so don't expect too much pal."

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

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I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here to meet and get to know other couples together and share their sexy times. Since we are couple who live together, love each other we don't need any more love, we don't really need the sex from others either but we like to socialise and better still to hopefully learn from others as well as sharing our sexy 'secrets'. We certainly don't want any complications from any emotional 3rd party wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

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you only have to look at CC's dating thread to see that quite a few are wanting or open to the idea of a relationship.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"I joined in the hope of finding a regular FB who whilst didn't want a relationship but wanted me a little more than for just a fuck.

I've found those qualities in a few people who unfortunately live at opposite ends of country to make it a regular occurrence

NSA sex in the true sense of the word leaves me feeling a little cold.

Totally agree...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no desire to be wanted....but want to desired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"*yawns and waits for his Monday lunchtime fuck*

*sighs and wishes she had such a thing*

He's talking about that 'past its sell by' melon he got cheap at the market.

I thought it was a warm pot noodle....."

Oh ye of little faith...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I shag them when it suits me and don't want to be with them. That's the reason I'm on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)"

I'm so glad you said this. I really hate it when people randomly on a thread declare that a poster shouldn't be on Fab or that swinging isn't for them. How can you judge based on Internet posts? And not that anyone has the right to judge anyway.

It's horrible because 99% of the time the person hasn't asked if they should quit swinging.

Grr. Bugs me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)"

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

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Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?"

Not a clue but a site for relationships is surely going to have a higher chance of than a site about nsa???

I havent said he should leave or not look here or been rude. But thats my opninion. If thats what he wants use fab as a side option to which he agreed.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'd be fine with it. In fact, if they wanted more than a fuck I'd be on me toes and away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

I'm so glad you said this. I really hate it when people randomly on a thread declare that a poster shouldn't be on Fab or that swinging isn't for them. How can you judge based on Internet posts? And not that anyone has the right to judge anyway.

It's horrible because 99% of the time the person hasn't asked if they should quit swinging.

Grr. Bugs me."

There are enough "Sultans of Swing" telling everyone how they are doing it wrong. If you like NSA, cool, put it in your profile. If you are looking for more, cool, put it in your profile... informed choice; that's what fab gives us... no one is doing anything "wrong"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fine with it, it is very seldom I have fucked one two times, prefer it one time, it is nsa in its purest form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

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isn't that what fab is for

Most of the guys i meet i block after meeting, nothing personal its just i meet for sex once ive had it i see no reason to keep messaging them, its not because i dont like them its just how swinging is for me, i would hope they guys i meet and block dont get offended by this as thats not my intentions i more hope they are mature enough to move on too

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?

Not a clue but a site for relationships is surely going to have a higher chance of than a site about nsa???

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Lol, you haven't been on many dating sites have you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?

Not a clue but a site for relationships is surely going to have a higher chance of than a site about nsa???

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Lol, you haven't been on many dating sites have you!

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Nope not one ive never been single for more than a day lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?

Not a clue but a site for relationships is surely going to have a higher chance of than a site about nsa???

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Lol, you haven't been on many dating sites have you!

Nope not one ive never been single for more than a day lol"

Exactly. They are crap - full of people who will do and say anything to get a shag, plus a whole other breed of foreign fakes and scammers, as well as the usual liars, cheats and braggers. And you can't even see a pic of their cock before you meet them!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

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over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?

Not a clue but a site for relationships is surely going to have a higher chance of than a site about nsa???

.

Lol, you haven't been on many dating sites have you!

Nope not one ive never been single for more than a day lol

Exactly. They are crap - full of people who will do and say anything to get a shag, plus a whole other breed of foreign fakes and scammers, as well as the usual liars, cheats and braggers. And you can't even see a pic of their cock before you meet them!

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That's why I live by my life motto promises are comfort to a fool

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over a year ago

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here. "

I have no issue with people using the site as they desire....what i do have issue with are people complaining that there are people on here that just want to Fuck...or will Fuck anything just because they don't want anything deeper than sex. It's the way they think they are better than anyone else because they want some deeper connection. How dare they look down their noses at me because i don't want the other persons life story

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over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

isn't that what fab is for

Most of the guys i meet i block after meeting, nothing personal its just i meet for sex once ive had it i see no reason to keep messaging them, its not because i dont like them its just how swinging is for me, i would hope they guys i meet and block dont get offended by this as thats not my intentions i more hope they are mature enough to move on too

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Do you tell them you're going to block them?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I have no issue with people using the site as they desire....what i do have issue with are people complaining that there are people on here that just want to Fuck...or will Fuck anything just because they don't want anything deeper than sex. It's the way they think they are better than anyone else because they want some deeper connection. How dare they look down their noses at me because i don't want the other persons life story

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That's fine I have no issue with people looking for NSA after all that's what this site is somewhat about....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the original poster... That, is why I currently have my profile hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To the original poster... That, is why I currently have my profile hidden.

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What do you mean ?

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over a year ago

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I have no issue with people using the site as they desire....what i do have issue with are people complaining that there are people on here that just want to Fuck...or will Fuck anything just because they don't want anything deeper than sex. It's the way they think they are better than anyone else because they want some deeper connection. How dare they look down their noses at me because i don't want the other persons life story

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over a year ago

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here. "

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

The answer it's a swinging site or its a sex site so your probably looking for love in the wrong place is not disrespectful or telling someone to leave.

It's answering the question.

They can use it for that purpose, but they would have more luck in other places.

It's like me saying I come to a pub for a pint but no one offers me fine cuisine.

You can find pubs that do fine cuisine but you would have more luck in places that are not so focused on beer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the original poster... That, is why I currently have my profile hidden.

What do you mean ? "

Tired of being alright for sex but nothing more.

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over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

isn't that what fab is for

Most of the guys i meet i block after meeting, nothing personal its just i meet for sex once ive had it i see no reason to keep messaging them, its not because i dont like them its just how swinging is for me, i would hope they guys i meet and block dont get offended by this as thats not my intentions i more hope they are mature enough to move on too

Do you tell them you're going to block them?"

well no, why would i message somebody to tell them i'm going to block them?

the reason i do this is because i prefer one off meets and its just to stop guys mailing me asking for a re meet after we have met

if guys didn't do this i wouldn't block them but ive had it a few times in the past where after meeting, and i do tell them i only do one off meets when arranging meets and they have been fine with that at the time, they have mailed asking for another meet and asking why i wouldn't meet them again and i just can't be bothered with it, they think because you met and got on you should meet again and while i appreciate thats how it works for most, thats not how i like to meet and i don't see why i should have to explain my reasoning so blocking is just a easier option

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over a year ago

"To the original poster... That, is why I currently have my profile hidden.

What do you mean ?

Tired of being alright for sex but nothing more.

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Oh I understand now

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over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

isn't that what fab is for

Most of the guys i meet i block after meeting, nothing personal its just i meet for sex once ive had it i see no reason to keep messaging them, its not because i dont like them its just how swinging is for me, i would hope they guys i meet and block dont get offended by this as thats not my intentions i more hope they are mature enough to move on too

Do you tell them you're going to block them?

well no, why would i message somebody to tell them i'm going to block them?

the reason i do this is because i prefer one off meets and its just to stop guys mailing me asking for a re meet after we have met

if guys didn't do this i wouldn't block them but ive had it a few times in the past where after meeting, and i do tell them i only do one off meets when arranging meets and they have been fine with that at the time, they have mailed asking for another meet and asking why i wouldn't meet them again and i just can't be bothered with it, they think because you met and got on you should meet again and while i appreciate thats how it works for most, thats not how i like to meet and i don't see why i should have to explain my reasoning so blocking is just a easier option "

That's fair enough, I was just curious that was all

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over a year ago

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

"

If i wanted someone I'd date them.

But i dont want to date anyone so, this place offers simple easy sex without the lieing and pretending wanting more through dating sites

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response."

Because possibly you are not single so don't want or need to use this site for nothing more than NSA because you have that partnership at home. I'm single and sometimes crave a hug and hair stroking from the opposite sex I am a human being and not a robot but we are all different.

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over a year ago

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response.

Because possibly you are not single so don't want or need to use this site for nothing more than NSA because you have that partnership at home. I'm single and sometimes crave a hug and hair stroking from the opposite sex I am a human being and not a robot but we are all different. "

Did i say ypu were? Did i say the op shpuldnt look for love? No. I was simply saying as many others have that a dating site may have more luck. I haveny said not to use this site as he wishes. If he finds something here great ots all in thr open if he wishes to continue with swinging.

I wish anyone looking for love luck. I didnt meet my partner in a place that was meant for dating. I havent attacked anyone i offered adice thats all. He can feel free to listen and ignore. I wouldnt ever tell anyone what to do. But i will offer my opnion.

I dont think i even said anything offensive

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response.

Because possibly you are not single so don't want or need to use this site for nothing more than NSA because you have that partnership at home. I'm single and sometimes crave a hug and hair stroking from the opposite sex I am a human being and not a robot but we are all different.

Did i say ypu were? Did i say the op shpuldnt look for love? No. I was simply saying as many others have that a dating site may have more luck. I haveny said not to use this site as he wishes. If he finds something here great ots all in thr open if he wishes to continue with swinging.

I wish anyone looking for love luck. I didnt meet my partner in a place that was meant for dating. I havent attacked anyone i offered adice thats all. He can feel free to listen and ignore. I wouldnt ever tell anyone what to do. But i will offer my opnion.

I dont think i even said anything offensive "

You haven't said anything offensive I was simply replying to your post

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response.

Because possibly you are not single so don't want or need to use this site for nothing more than NSA because you have that partnership at home. I'm single and sometimes crave a hug and hair stroking from the opposite sex I am a human being and not a robot but we are all different.

Did i say ypu were? Did i say the op shpuldnt look for love? No. I was simply saying as many others have that a dating site may have more luck. I haveny said not to use this site as he wishes. If he finds something here great ots all in thr open if he wishes to continue with swinging.

I wish anyone looking for love luck. I didnt meet my partner in a place that was meant for dating. I havent attacked anyone i offered adice thats all. He can feel free to listen and ignore. I wouldnt ever tell anyone what to do. But i will offer my opnion.

I dont think i even said anything offensive

You haven't said anything offensive I was simply replying to your post "

I was giving my opinion the same as you are giving yours...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i want a kinkery fuckery regular person, you dont find that on match.dom..just imagine "hi fancy coming with me to display me at a local fetish event..oh, and ive been invited to a swinging party next weekend, lets go for a bite to eat before hand to get warmed up.."

.errr not happening. i know, as a social experiment i tried it ..if i want a project, maybe, but i dont and i dont want to leave this scene. i like it too much.

we are all entitled to our preferences, to state our ideal, what we want today or next weekend or five years time..

im used to being called a unicorn , im also used to being called not a true swinger, but what you wont find me doing is lying about the possibility that if someone suitable came along, i wouldnt want more, whatever 'more' is.

i dont see its anyone's business, unless they want to make it their business.

people have options, choose as you will..until then, its my life, im not hurting anyone and i say live and let live..let people be themselves, they are amazingly diverse, its what makes the world of fab so cool ..be happy people..live the life you want, cos you'll be a long time dead xx

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over a year ago

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response.

Because possibly you are not single so don't want or need to use this site for nothing more than NSA because you have that partnership at home. I'm single and sometimes crave a hug and hair stroking from the opposite sex I am a human being and not a robot but we are all different.

Did i say ypu were? Did i say the op shpuldnt look for love? No. I was simply saying as many others have that a dating site may have more luck. I haveny said not to use this site as he wishes. If he finds something here great ots all in thr open if he wishes to continue with swinging.

I wish anyone looking for love luck. I didnt meet my partner in a place that was meant for dating. I havent attacked anyone i offered adice thats all. He can feel free to listen and ignore. I wouldnt ever tell anyone what to do. But i will offer my opnion.

I dont think i even said anything offensive

You haven't said anything offensive I was simply replying to your post "

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sorry! X

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think I have been lucky that I have met guys that enjoyed a more tactile meet, the kissing and cuddling and chat as much as I did, doesn't mean I wanted anything else from them though.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"What grates me more are those who say it's a sex site not a dating site who are we to dictate where and how people fall in love. As long as we are honest and open with our intentions then to be honest I couldn't care less if people want a relationship on here.

I couldnt care less either. In fact i probably use that phrase more than any other. But pointing that out is a simple fact. Its not saying dont use it how you wish or dictating. But the original post came across negatively towards nsa to me hence my response.

Because possibly you are not single so don't want or need to use this site for nothing more than NSA because you have that partnership at home. I'm single and sometimes crave a hug and hair stroking from the opposite sex I am a human being and not a robot but we are all different.

Did i say ypu were? Did i say the op shpuldnt look for love? No. I was simply saying as many others have that a dating site may have more luck. I haveny said not to use this site as he wishes. If he finds something here great ots all in thr open if he wishes to continue with swinging.

I wish anyone looking for love luck. I didnt meet my partner in a place that was meant for dating. I havent attacked anyone i offered adice thats all. He can feel free to listen and ignore. I wouldnt ever tell anyone what to do. But i will offer my opnion.

I dont think i even said anything offensive

You haven't said anything offensive I was simply replying to your post

Oh

sorry! X"

Don't worry I was quite blunt in my response I can be quite direct. I don't go looking for a relationship on here I've given up and dating sites are just horrific

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over a year ago

"I think I have been lucky that I have met guys that enjoyed a more tactile meet, the kissing and cuddling and chat as much as I did, doesn't mean I wanted anything else from them though.

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over a year ago

"I think as long as people are honest on their profile about what they are seeking; there isn't an issue. Telling people this "isn't a dating site" or they should "leave fab if that's what you are looking for" is both rude and ridiculous.

People can and will use this site for whatever they wish. Live and let live (and good luck to all those seeking more..)

Its not rude or ridiculous to point out he aint looking in the best place.

Where is there a better place to meet someone open minded about sex than here?

Not a clue but a site for relationships is surely going to have a higher chance of than a site about nsa???

I havent said he should leave or not look here or been rude. But thats my opninion. If thats what he wants use fab as a side option to which he agreed. "

A) It's not necessarily a site about naa and

B) Pretty hard to broach the subject of swinging on 'relationship sites'!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I think I have been lucky that I have met guys that enjoyed a more tactile meet, the kissing and cuddling and chat as much as I did, doesn't mean I wanted anything else from them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to the original post,we fuck when WE both want it,not just when they do. I tell regular partners,who I've been seeing for years,that I'm not available if I don't feel like seeing them.

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over a year ago

I slept around quite a bit and tbh couldn't have given the person a second thought once they'd left.

I couldn't even tell what some of them looked like. There are others I have no doubt I forgot pretty much instantly.

There were one or two I met more than once but even then I accepted they were likely 'using' me, but cared not as I had no interest in them beyond the carnal either.

Then just over 3 years ago, I met someone (online) who ordinarily wouldn't have even been on my radar and we have been together from pretty much that day on.

The playing about stopped there and then and other than the very occasional club threesome, I/we don't indulge beyond the social.

That suits me fine. I have no interest in meeting others sexually apart from as a couple.

At the time of my sleeping around, the meets made me feel invariably good.

Now, well, let's just say I don't look with pride. That said, I don't look back with self loathing either.

It was what it was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I slept around quite a bit and tbh couldn't have given the person a second thought once they'd left.

I couldn't even tell what some of them looked like. There are others I have no doubt I forgot pretty much instantly.

There were one or two I met more than once but even then I accepted they were likely 'using' me, but cared not as I had no interest in them beyond the carnal either.

Then just over 3 years ago, I met someone (online) who ordinarily wouldn't have even been on my radar and we have been together from pretty much that day on.

The playing about stopped there and then and other than the very occasional club threesome, I/we don't indulge beyond the social.

That suits me fine. I have no interest in meeting others sexually apart from as a couple.

At the time of my sleeping around, the meets made me feel invariably good.

Now, well, let's just say I don't look with pride. That said, I don't look back with self loathing either.

It was what it was."

Similar to me apart from the partner bit

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By *opular PoppyCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Very interesting question and a very important one. Today I walked out of a meet with a man I could have, if I felt so inclined, had a fuck with. But when I met him I realised, he looked older than his pics suggested, not a deal breaker, but there was no spark, he didn't flirt, he left the enormous TV on in front of us, he kept his lounge really dark in the middle of the day...he struggled to keep the conversation going...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

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How about if they just fall in love with your very spankable, sexy, hot arse?

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I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

How about if they just fall in love with your very spankable, sexy, hot arse?

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

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Not so adverse to that

Just don't be purveying emotions over on me!!

Found out I have another stalker type person over weekend

What is it I do to people?!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"They say your a nice person etc and good fun and they shag you When it suits them but they don't want to be with you.

Anyone experienced this and if so how does it make you feel if deep down your hoping that someone really wants you for you and not just a fuck?

Is anyone's self esteem so low that they think that's all any guy or woman will ever think they are worth?

A fuck a bit of fun but nothing more?

Did joining a place like this make you feel better about yourself or worse do you think ?

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At the moment I'm taking a break, but I'm here to fulfil fantasies. I don't want anything more than that.

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over a year ago

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

How about if they just fall in love with your very spankable, sexy, hot arse?

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

Not so adverse to that

Just don't be purveying emotions over on me!!

Found out I have another stalker type person over weekend

What is it I do to people?!

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You're obviously not very good at ing them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i want a kinkery fuckery regular person, you dont find that on match.dom..just imagine "hi fancy coming with me to display me at a local fetish event..oh, and ive been invited to a swinging party next weekend, lets go for a bite to eat before hand to get warmed up.."

.errr not happening. i know, as a social experiment i tried it ..if i want a project, maybe, but i dont and i dont want to leave this scene. i like it too much.

we are all entitled to our preferences, to state our ideal, what we want today or next weekend or five years time..

im used to being called a unicorn , im also used to being called not a true swinger, but what you wont find me doing is lying about the possibility that if someone suitable came along, i wouldnt want more, whatever 'more' is.

i dont see its anyone's business, unless they want to make it their business.

people have options, choose as you will..until then, its my life, im not hurting anyone and i say live and let live..let people be themselves, they are amazingly diverse, its what makes the world of fab so cool ..be happy people..live the life you want, cos you'll be a long time dead xx"

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

There seem to be many on this site who do not understand what swinging is.

It is all about no strings attached sex.

Think about that no strings attached sex.

That means one off sex is totally acceptable just as multiple meets with the same people is acceptable simply because there are no strings attached to the relationships.

As soon as conditions such as only one off meets or only regular meets the concept of NSA sex disappears as conditions are applied.

Think about how swinging started, yes those parties where partners were often chosen through chance rather than choice (the infamous keys in the salad bowl).

Though having said that many swinging parties in the 60s were group sex parties/orgies where everyone played with whoever they wanted to.

Things have developed since those days, some prefer certain types of sex, and some look on swinging as a route to polygamy and others as an easy way to enjoy adulterous sex.

Perhaps the biggest change to swinging is the group who require some attraction to the person/people they swing with before they will meet.

We do not say this is wrong or right just it is different from how swinging used to be.

Swinging should be about enjoying the freedom of having sexual experiences with other like minded people within the limits each is at ease with.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

How about if they just fall in love with your very spankable, sexy, hot arse?

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

Not so adverse to that

Just don't be purveying emotions over on me!!

Found out I have another stalker type person over weekend

What is it I do to people?!

You're obviously not very good at ing them out

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The last one never even spoke to me from her latest profile - just contacted a lot of my verifications only know cause they told me about it! Probably so I couldn't block her.

Some odd people around

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Op its a sex site not a dating site. If you want more id look elsewhere x

Yes I know its not a dating site but there are a lot of people on places like this who don't want just sex and would possibly like more than just NSA. Judging by the posts I've read frequently

I think they should state clearly in their profile if that's their wish as I really don't want another falling in love with me.

How about if they just fall in love with your very spankable, sexy, hot arse?

I chose a swinging site to swing - not to find a relationship.

Not so adverse to that

Just don't be purveying emotions over on me!!

Found out I have another stalker type person over weekend

What is it I do to people?!

You're obviously not very good at ing them out

The last one never even spoke to me from her latest profile - just contacted a lot of my verifications only know cause they told me about it! Probably so I couldn't block her.

Some odd people around

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I think some people just over think it all. I like to keep it simple. If I fancy you ( and I do) I say so. If you fancy me to them great; if not I'll still live.

Afterwards same rules apply. Do I still fancy you and you still me then let's do it again; if not then we won't.

However I still believe, whilst the rule is simple, apart from the excitement of the first fuck, getting to know a person and what they actually like and dislike does lead to better, more pleasurable and more often adventurous sex.

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over a year ago

"There seem to be many on this site who do not understand what swinging is.

It is all about no strings attached sex.

Think about that no strings attached sex.

That means one off sex is totally acceptable just as multiple meets with the same people is acceptable simply because there are no strings attached to the relationships.

As soon as conditions such as only one off meets or only regular meets the concept of NSA sex disappears as conditions are applied.

Think about how swinging started, yes those parties where partners were often chosen through chance rather than choice (the infamous keys in the salad bowl).

Though having said that many swinging parties in the 60s were group sex parties/orgies where everyone played with whoever they wanted to.

Things have developed since those days, some prefer certain types of sex, and some look on swinging as a route to polygamy and others as an easy way to enjoy adulterous sex.

Perhaps the biggest change to swinging is the group who require some attraction to the person/people they swing with before they will meet.

We do not say this is wrong or right just it is different from how swinging used to be.

Swinging should be about enjoying the freedom of having sexual experiences with other like minded people within the limits each is at ease with.

"

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