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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear Forumites, Fabbers and Friends

Wow what an amazing evening here in North Wales. The sun is beaming down it warming rays, birds are singing merrily in the trees and all seems well with the world. Pooch and I will saunter out later to watch the sun melt like a crimson ball into a clear blue sea, heaven.

We have noticed recently lots of keep fit, get fit, perfect body and mind threads. The most recent invention seems to be the fibbit watch. It monitors your heart and steps rate, people my friends in the real world included seem fixated by this. The magazines, films and television supply us with images of a perfect world populated by perfect presenters and stars.

Chums , you are perfect already, you are unique and wonderful.

Pooch and I spend many hours gazing at the stars, the billions of galaxies and planets. It’s a very humbling thing. We are the only plant we know of with life. The billions and trillions to one chance that our planet has life and that you even exist is amazing. You are amazing.

So chums no questions this evening I just wanted you to realise that in this image obsessed world in which we live you are one of a kind. You’re not too fat, or too thin, too small or too tall, too old. You have the perfect body for you and the perfect person in it. No over thinking please and be more compassionate with yourselves as you are with others.

Have a wonderful evening, friends.

Pooch and I are heading off to say nighty night to the sun

Taff and Pooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all made of stars.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

excactly..well said that man and pooch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^ this is why I adore you my lovely friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"^^ this is why I adore you my lovely friend "

and pooch and I adore you , we are just making a play list of songs to watch the sunset x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

But im not doing it to be perfect. Im doing it to have a good reasonably active, healthy life. Thats all i want and to maintain it and if i can do it with the help of fitbit then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the best sunsets Ive seen was in Mallory Square.

Such a spectacular view, enhanced by the crowd which gathers every evening to watch and applaud when the sun finally slips into the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^ this is why I adore you my lovely friend

and pooch and I adore you , we are just making a play list of songs to watch the sunset x"

May I recommend this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTdCzIduUb4

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But im not doing it to be perfect. Im doing it to have a good reasonably active, healthy life. Thats all i want and to maintain it and if i can do it with the help of fitbit then so be it"

Hey i wasn't having a pop at your fitbit . I love technology. There are so many best body threads . I just wanted people to realize how jolly spiffing they are already xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely thread...op.

Shame some think.its jyst for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"^^ this is why I adore you my lovely friend

and pooch and I adore you , we are just making a play list of songs to watch the sunset x

May I recommend this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTdCzIduUb4"

Thank you its delightful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a lovely thread...op.

Shame some think.its jyst for them."

Its for every one

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Dear Forumites, Fabbers and Friends

Wow what an amazing evening here in North Wales. The sun is beaming down it warming rays, birds are singing merrily in the trees and all seems well with the world. Pooch and I will saunter out later to watch the sun melt like a crimson ball into a clear blue sea, heaven.

We have noticed recently lots of keep fit, get fit, perfect body and mind threads. The most recent invention seems to be the fibbit watch. It monitors your heart and steps rate, people my friends in the real world included seem fixated by this. The magazines, films and television supply us with images of a perfect world populated by perfect presenters and stars.

Chums , you are perfect already, you are unique and wonderful.

Pooch and I spend many hours gazing at the stars, the billions of galaxies and planets. It’s a very humbling thing. We are the only plant we know of with life. The billions and trillions to one chance that our planet has life and that you even exist is amazing. You are amazing.

So chums no questions this evening I just wanted you to realise that in this image obsessed world in which we live you are one of a kind. You’re not too fat, or too thin, too small or too tall, too old. You have the perfect body for you and the perfect person in it. )"

Well, I appreciate the sentiment Taff, but it just isn't true. For reasons which are sometimes beyond our control, some of us have put weight on and need to take it off again!

I don't do so for anyone else, on the contrary, the boobs will shrink and there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth!

I know how amazing I am, I know what I am worth, and I know I will be happier back at my normal weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's beauty in everyone

I'm not striving to be an uber fit muscleman, just be healthy and happy with myself, and enjoy the activities and being outside (especially in this lovely weather )

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Great post Taff

Everyone is special in their own way.

I don't believe there is such a thing as perfect, as that is very much a subjective thing, but people can certainly be perfect for each other.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's beauty in everyone

I'm not striving to be an uber fit muscleman, just be healthy and happy with myself, and enjoy the activities and being outside (especially in this lovely weather )"

I wish my nackerd knees and ankles could stand up to running again I loved Hal marathons. Years of footy , rugger and running have made it imposable . Running gives you space to think

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

3 years ago i had no quality of life, i weighed 21 and 1/2 stone and my mental health was shit. I now weigh 9 and 1/2 stone and my mental health is the best its ever been. Through sheer hard work and determination ive changed my life around. Three things happened this week that made me realize just how far ive come and no way am i going to let anyone plant a negative thought in my head. If i want to be obsessed by my fitbitb i bloody well will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group hug!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Aww well this is lovely

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I know i'm perfect Taff you've told me before!

And yes, I agree, everyone is perfect in their own way...apart from a small minority.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"^^ this is why I adore you my lovely friend

and pooch and I adore you , we are just making a play list of songs to watch the sunset x

May I recommend this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTdCzIduUb4"

Sweet tunage honey x

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Great thread OP. Enjoy your evening.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bless you Taff, you are a lovely chap. Enjoy your walk xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the reason I wrote this thread is because of my own story

its not a dig at any one I promise.

This week has seen the culmination of a nine month project. sadly the end result didn't go my way but that's life. I threw my heart and soul in to it.

Friday I was shattered and this weekend I have taken time to think about things.

this time three years ago I was in a very different place, my head was full of negative thoughts and I could see very little light.

I had self doubt and hated every thing about myself . its been a long three years back to be the chap I was before. then on Friday morning something happened , a ghost from my past slipped back and the image sent me back to those darker days, not the happy chap you all know.

I have just seen a thread , are women over 40 past it, muscular men , and the fitbit debate.

I thought we could all do with a positive blast me included so please this thread is not aimed as a dig at any one , maybe one person and that's myself

taff

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"the reason I wrote this thread is because of my own story

its not a dig at any one I promise.

This week has seen the culmination of a nine month project. sadly the end result didn't go my way but that's life. I threw my heart and soul in to it.

Friday I was shattered and this weekend I have taken time to think about things.

this time three years ago I was in a very different place, my head was full of negative thoughts and I could see very little light.

I had self doubt and hated every thing about myself . its been a long three years back to be the chap I was before. then on Friday morning something happened , a ghost from my past slipped back and the image sent me back to those darker days, not the happy chap you all know.

I have just seen a thread , are women over 40 past it, muscular men , and the fitbit debate.

I thought we could all do with a positive blast me included so please this thread is not aimed as a dig at any one , maybe one person and that's myself

taff

"
well in that case you should know better then try and plant negative thoughts to others that are bettering themselves

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A friendly thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have asked the mods to remove the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry yourself taff. Someone, somewhere will find offence/negativity/see it as having a dig.

Such is the way of the Internet.

And on that note in taking the hound out

Spent the day walking in the park hearing every kid that saw him shout "sausage"!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"A friendly thread "
is it? Or is it to try and make people feel shit about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friendly thread is it? Or is it to try and make people feel shit about themselves"

Please......get a grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right, I am perfect

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread "
why? Its aready achieved what it set out to do and if it makes one person feel shit about themselves so what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh. Interesting read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread why? Its aready achieved what it set out to do and if it makes one person feel shit about themselves so what"

It was an attempt to make people feel just the opposite and feel good about themselves. I am.sorry it cause you any offence

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread "

Aw shame, for what it's worth I am not the slightest bit offended, I simply disagreed without any hard feeling, I hope you know that! xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

It's a nice thread,I do however feel a little unhealthy myself at the mo,but I'm trying my hardest to improve on that (failing miserably however)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread

Aw shame, for what it's worth I am not the slightest bit offended, I simply disagreed without any hard feeling, I hope you know that! xx "

I know it wasn't meant to offend but it has and that's never a good thing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread why? Its aready achieved what it set out to do and if it makes one person feel shit about themselves so what

It was an attempt to make people feel just the opposite and feel good about themselves. I am.sorry it pcause you any offence "
im not offended im upset

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread why? Its aready achieved what it set out to do and if it makes one person feel shit about themselves so what

It was an attempt to make people feel just the opposite and feel good about themselves. I am.sorry it pcause you any offence im not offended im upset"
then I am truly sorry as I dont like upsetting any one

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Dear Taff and Pooch

Your sunset sounds glorious and I hope you both enjoy your meander when you go out later on.

Thank you for what I perceived to be an uplifting and positive message.

I don't know your history but it sounds as though you've come a long way over the last 3 years and I hope that the incident in Friday has only caused a temporary blip.

Hugs n stuff

Lisa

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Taff you ate such a fantastic chap and always bring a smile with your positiveness.. I thank you for your thread. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff I actually love you a little bit, you soppy old philosopher. As I am visiting home I'm also having dog cuddles with the crazy hound, she says to pass on that she loves Pooch a bit too (though she only stares at stars in a confused manner pondering if she might be able to herd them into a less haphazard formation)!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Sending a very large huggle to Taff and anyone else who would like one x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff I loved your post.

your ethos too.

Any naysayers should, frankly, fuck off!

Enjoy your evening with pooch xx

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Dearest taff and pooch, that was the loveliest thought provoking thread, and for someone who does give herself a hard time, it has certainly made me think that perhaps you are right, so for now and maybe just for now, I shall not worry and just enjoy being me, Thankyou our lovely, lovely friend, please don't ever change Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread why? Its aready achieved what it set out to do and if it makes one person feel shit about themselves so what"

Diamond - very rarely do I consider any of your posts to be horrible or directed but on this occasion you are out of order.

No one is taking away from you what you have achieved in any way but for you to come out with what you have is uncalled for.

Many of us have been through hell over the last few years - some haven't survived, some have but are very broken, others healing and only a little broken.

Others are perfectly healthy and loving life - the point is we are all individuals here with our own lives.

FFS - if you'd gone at certain other posters on here I wouldn't be writing this post at all. I might even be joining in.

But Taff?

Of all the posters here he is the one most likely to cause the least offence and hurt in the history of Fab!

Someone said "get a grip" - I don't think that but I do think you need to look at yourself and consider what made you post that.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this was true then fab users would never get a no thanks and it would just be one big orgy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Look i know i over reacted and i know why i did. I want to apologize to taff hes probably one of the most up beat people on here. Dont change taff.

Im going off to sort myself out for a few days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look i know i over reacted and i know why i did. I want to apologize to taff hes probably one of the most up beat people on here. Dont change taff.

Im going off to sort myself out for a few days x"

High fives and enormous hugs and respect to you for that. Big snogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect due Diamond from us too.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have asked the mods to remove the thread why? Its aready achieved what it set out to do and if it makes one person feel shit about themselves so what

It was an attempt to make people feel just the opposite and feel good about themselves. I am.sorry it cause you any offence "

I really don't know what you have to apologise for, and there's certainly no need to ask for the thread to be removed

You've been as honest and sincere as you usually are, and just being the jolly, spiffy chap you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look i know i over reacted and i know why i did. I want to apologize to taff hes probably one of the most up beat people on here. Dont change taff.

Im going off to sort myself out for a few days x"

There is no need for any apology your a jolly up beat spiffing lady who's postings never fail to make me smile xxx

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

Well said Taff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Taff I actually love you a little bit, you soppy old philosopher. As I am visiting home I'm also having dog cuddles with the crazy hound, she says to pass on that she loves Pooch a bit too (though she only stares at stars in a confused manner pondering if she might be able to herd them into a less haphazard formation)!"

Pooch says dont fear the stars they are just iced gems he hasn't got round to eating yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread Taff, we should all love ourselves more. It has been a beautiful day. Spring is definitely sprung.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful post Taff .Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the reason I wrote this thread is because of my own story

its not a dig at any one I promise.

This week has seen the culmination of a nine month project. sadly the end result didn't go my way but that's life. I threw my heart and soul in to it.

Friday I was shattered and this weekend I have taken time to think about things.

this time three years ago I was in a very different place, my head was full of negative thoughts and I could see very little light.

I had self doubt and hated every thing about myself . its been a long three years back to be the chap I was before. then on Friday morning something happened , a ghost from my past slipped back and the image sent me back to those darker days, not the happy chap you all know.

I have just seen a thread , are women over 40 past it, muscular men , and the fitbit debate.

I thought we could all do with a positive blast me included so please this thread is not aimed as a dig at any one , maybe one person and that's myself

taff

"

It's a lovely thread, from a lovely man with a good heart.

The intention is clear and if others don't want to enjoy the spirit of it then they don't have to.

Thank you Taff for you positive blast you always make me feel perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a beautiful, sincere and very uplifting thread.

Thanku it really cheered me up and take no notice of the negative responses

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I hope the big red ball melted into the water with great beauty.

Everyone needs a reminder everyone once in a while that we are all special and beautiful in our own ways. Gadgets might help us keep to some sort of routine but they can't make us make the changes: those come from within.

Sandi Toksvig has the back page of Good Housekeeping. Last month she wrote an amusing piece about the Fitbit and her friend who tricks it into thinking she's standing up and moving around by raising her arm and waving it around. The punchline was that as this happens in bars and restaurants they end up with more food and drink as the waiters keep coming over.

Pooch is your Fitbit and you are his.

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By *oah FenceMan
over a year ago

Calne


"Beautiful post Taff .Xx"

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff you inspire a feeling of warmth and sincerity in all your posts. Totally spiffing chap and a lovely sentiment in your thread too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for you Taff mate

https://youtu.be/3biZkA-TNvs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aww cheers bud I do like that Icelandic Pixie army of me great song

Big Time Sensuality is a fave too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wHuXpWSNa-8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I'm not too sure what the post is all about to be honest ~ but I'm enjoying looking at your peachy arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Just because...

Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros - Man On Fire

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08WeoqWilRQ

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