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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo depends what shape your in regardless of age in my opinion.

Some men and women regardless of age look better than some people ten fifteen years younger etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easily some of the women I have ever met (not necessarily on fab) have been over 40 !!

Nothing hotter than a woman who is comfortable in herself and knows exactly what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope we are not past it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded "

Yes exactly. But he thinks they genuinely find him attractive too. He thinks it's only partially the money. He had a relationship with one girl and got fed up of her expecting him to pay for absolutely everything, and they'd barely started dating when she did this.

Does he just have ridiculously high standards now and he's going to either be alone or screwed over by some hot chick abroad?

He reckons he spent months and months on Tinder and got not one meet out of it.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

yeah im totally past it...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Young women abroad, are looking for a pay packet. If he can't see this, then more fool him!

I think a lot of men on here have the same views, not about older women, just about women in general judging by the updates on my homepage and why I haven't met for months

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like ladies over 40

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

He is entitled to his opinion. Everyone is. BUT

I'd say he can't get any here and bases his judgements on that.

You say abroad ? Holidays ? Money and laughs abound ?

I'd say the young women wouldn't be a permanent fixture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is some really hot women over 40 on this site.

Which is why I was shocked he said it!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Um ... nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naaaaaa love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the young women overseas don't exist?

Age is irrelevant and doesn't define attractiveness.

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By *urvacious_40Woman
over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK

I certainly hope I'm not past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has told me he would like to try a woman who is 40-50 years old so I'm guessing it all depends on the person

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Anyone who stated such personal opinions as being true would not be my friend for long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think hes right but becoming a grandma and hitting 40 has seriously knocked my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like ladies over 40 "

Me too..Much sexier. I personally think.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


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The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded

Yes exactly. But he thinks they genuinely find him attractive too. He thinks it's only partially the money. He had a relationship with one girl and got fed up of her expecting him to pay for absolutely everything, and they'd barely started dating when she did this.

Does he just have ridiculously high standards now and he's going to either be alone or screwed over by some hot chick abroad?

He reckons he spent months and months on Tinder and got not one meet out of it.

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He is deluded if he thinks they find him attractive. It is his money they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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He is entitled to his opinion. Everyone is. BUT

I'd say he can't get any here and bases his judgements on that.

You say abroad ? Holidays ? Money and laughs abound ?

I'd say the young women wouldn't be a permanent fixture. "

Not holidays. Work. He works from a laptop so often has his office as a hot country somewhere as he gets bo_ed of the U.K. and likes to travel. Lived in one exotic country for six months (bastard lol).

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

In Ireland we have a name for guys like that.... Gobshite!

Age is only a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off to the scrap heap I go

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

I don't see his viewpoint but it doesn't really matter does it? If he for whatever reason wants to stick to younger women it's his life.

Women over forty aren't past it whatever "it" is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"
I had a meet with a woman once she was 47 gym goer and kept fit and my god she fucked like a 18 year old on a can of cider! Stifflers mom would of been proud

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well not really. He doesnt like what he sees so he goes elsewhere to find it. If he was sat at home not being pro active that would be different

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"Does he just have ridiculously high standards now and he's going to either be alone or screwed over by some hot chick abroad?"

Depends where 'abroad' he's going, I guess. Some countries' women would see any British man as a 'catch', and they're the ones who are likely to screw him over. Other Western European countries, maybe less so. Doesn't sound like a healthy mental attitude on his part, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope we are not past it "
can you keep up madam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded

Yes exactly. But he thinks they genuinely find him attractive too. He thinks it's only partially the money. He had a relationship with one girl and got fed up of her expecting him to pay for absolutely everything, and they'd barely started dating when she did this.

Does he just have ridiculously high standards now and he's going to either be alone or screwed over by some hot chick abroad?

He reckons he spent months and months on Tinder and got not one meet out of it.

"

Definitely gonna be screwed over by someone from abroad and course it's for his cash! Bit ironic he wants younger and thinks woman in the 40s are past it. Surely he is then? I'm not offended or 40 but he does sound a right twat.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)

The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What confuses me as well is what's he going to do when he does marry a girl and she puts on weight? Or, heaven forbid, turns 40?

Thanks for confirming my feelings on it. He talks to me a lot about this. I've known him forever and would like to see him happy.

I feel like he's his own worst enemy though.

*sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some cultures young women really do prefer the older man.

And I don't mean as a cash cow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he doesn't find older women attractive then why is it when we don't find him attractive we are judging?

he makes no sense there.

it is rare i find an older guy attractive. but i don't rule them all out at all.

you've got to click with someone to fancy them really. if that's just based on looks then fair enough, but there's loads of things that make someone attractive or not and age isn't always a part of that.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

Simple answer - No

If women in the UK judge age as a big thing isn't your friend doing the same thing casting that judgement, all be it from his perspective

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

He needs to get over himself and look in the mirror. And repeat what he's saying to himself. See if it makes sense because it seems a double standard to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sexier, hornier & I definitely get more male attention since hitting my forties.

He's clearly meeting the wrong 40-something's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some really hot women over 40 on this site.

Which is why I was shocked he said it! "

Make that a double. There are women in their 40's here, which have a body more attractive and toned than majority of the ladies I see at university.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Easily some of the women I have ever met (not necessarily on fab) have been over 40 !!

Nothing hotter than a woman who is comfortable in herself and knows exactly what she wants "

I'm well over 40 and often get asked how old I am and when I say they don't believe me.....age is but a number ......it's how you feel with yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel sexier, hornier & I definitely get more male attention since hitting my forties.

He's clearly meeting the wrong 40-something's! "

To answer OP's question, I completely don't understand his view on this matter.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I turned 40 last week. Is my fucking life over?

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Think that a lady over 40 knows she is sexy and is at ease with her body and looks.

Tracy has blown my fuze on many a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easily some of the women I have ever met (not necessarily on fab) have been over 40 !!

Nothing hotter than a woman who is comfortable in herself and knows exactly what she wants

I'm well over 40 and often get asked how old I am and when I say they don't believe me.....age is but a number ......it's how you feel with yourself"

Exactly this I hit 50 next year and often get told by people that I could pass for late 30's and not by people hitting on me either in the hope of a shag.

I'm certainly not past it and think this friend needs a kick up the back side go to spec savers and maybe look in the right places or maybe he's not attractive to women over here as they're not looking for an English passport !?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I hope women over 40 aren't past it. Otherwise I'm in big trouble !!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sorry OP, your friend is a prat. Age is not a definer of beauty or charm or passion or athleticism or even looks. We have an age range on hear to give an indication of generally who we would look at, but in Clubs we talk to anyone who takes our fancy and go from there - age is never ever a decider at this point!

He needs to grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks as if I am at 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your friend seems so set in his ways he's probably not allowing himself to be attracted to ladies over 40.

It's his loss and definitely not a reflection on you!

I love a confident sexy older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't read anybody else's comments. But hell no... Women in their forties are just starting to come into their prime....

Sorry, but your 'friend" is an arse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I turned 40 last week. Is my fucking life over? "

Not if I get my hands on you it isn't. ...gorgeous

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Your friend is old enough to make up his own mind as to the type of woman he wants to be with...if it's his preference to choose younger women from abroad then he's only exercising the same rights that we all do on here every day.

I can understand that you're concerned about his welfare and future but as his friend the only thing you can really do is be there for him if the wheel comes off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own though im 54 and far from past it

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

In my personal experience , women of the 40+ age seem to be liberated and know what they want , his loss is my gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past what exactly?

He's looking for something specific,a younger woman in her 20s. The women in the UK he's attracted to aren't attracted to him, I'm assuming he doesn't have enough money to buy their affections, so he goes to a country where young women will give their time to an older man who is free with money. It's not about women over 40 being past it,it's him not fancying older women.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

Yes his point of view is of an ageing misogynist. Good luck to him with his younger foreign (far eastern?) women who are probably in no way looking for a sugar daddy.

Simple.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)

Yes his point of view is of an ageing misogynist. Good luck to him with his younger foreign (far eastern?) women who are probably in no way looking for a sugar daddy.

Simple. "

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having more fun since turning 40 and am now having the best sex of my life.

Judging by my inbox, not everyone share's your friend's point of view. However, he has acknowledged his expectations and has adapted accordingly to meet them, so high fives to him.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

lots of men do prefer young women for the same sort of reasons that old women like toy boys, I find that the older the man is the more likely he prefers to have a very young woman, although he may not admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not passed it

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Very happy here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience mmmmm can't get enough of 40 plus. Heavenly experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh....those are his views and he's entitled to them. I don't think I'm past it and neither does hubby...anyone else's opinion doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be kidding?

I know the most sexy minx at 46; amazing figure and sexy kinky skills.

She is a pleasure machine.

Any more out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you're clearly facking gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easily some of the women I have ever met (not necessarily on fab) have been over 40 !!

Nothing hotter than a woman who is comfortable in herself and knows exactly what she wants

I'm well over 40 and often get asked how old I am and when I say they don't believe me.....age is but a number ......it's how you feel with yourself"

Well said I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a woman in her mid 40's in the office in our work and when she walks onto the shop floor everyone male as a little plimp of her.

She is absolutely stunning and if she was out on the town she would easily hold her own with any other female out there.

Kym marsh off coronation street must be around the 40 mark and she's another little stunner

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

The answer to the question is "no"!

Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss are gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48 and feel 28 lot of younger guys prefer woman in there 40 . We're definitely not "past it " but it's all about personal preference

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

51 here and sexier than ever ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your friend is off his trolley Madame his probably past it the older the lady the more experienced they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

54 and at this minute I feel past it

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

They're definitely not past in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say women in the U.K. are just less likely to put up with bad habits and severe personality flaws. This I think is more so in the case of older ladies who have more experience and know exactly what they want.

Also women in the U.K. aren't so impressed (generally) but material possession.

I would say there is nothing wrong with going abroad to find these girls but it will be unlikely to lead to a serious and meaningful relationship between equals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought life began at 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out my veris, nearly all are over 40 and they have all been very satisfying. Personally I believe a woman of that age is sexually confident, experienced, fun to be with and knows exactly what she wants.

Has your friend been trying to pull at a bingo hall? Pmsl

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

On one of my last visits to Chams, I got invited to "play" with a young black couple. I think the female was pushed into playing and she was, in my opinion, very in-experienced. She grabbed hold of my cock and was pulling it so rough and hard you`d think she was trying to start a chainsaw!!!!

Mature women all the way with me!

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Definitely not, some of the sexiest ladies I know are over 40 ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has he been emotionally hurt by a UK woman over 40? I wonder if that's why he says it?

There are lots of attractive women over 40 - how old is Helen Mirren?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I'm not passed it "

Me neither!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i fkn hope not - all our veris are lies if i am

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over a year ago


"There is some really hot women over 40 on this site.

Which is why I was shocked he said it! "

The best women... Well actually best people... I've played with from fab are all over 40.

More experience, more comfortable in themselves, all round more fun.

And anyway. It's not about age, or size or colour or anything like that. It's about how you connect that makes the sex good... And that's all in the mind.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I generally don't get along with most women over 35

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"Has he been emotionally hurt by a UK woman over 40? I wonder if that's why he says it?

There are lots of attractive women over 40 - how old is Helen Mirren? "

She's in her 60's and fit.

Women that hit 40+ are fabulous,

30's are fun n 20's are still girls xxx and I love you all xx

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Check out our pics. My Mrs is 49. But very sexy and filthy when it comes to sex with me and others

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, women over 40 are definitely past it. They passed 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't know about women being past it. My ex was 42 and she still acted like she just turned 21 and had plenty of energy about it plus an absolute lovely personality wise aswell. That's why I didn't let her go for over 4 years and was gutted when it went sour!.

Honestly Not all the women over here are bad and out of shape and I've seen a few in my line of work. There's a 43 year old who comes into the gym and puts a set of boxing gloves on and she's in the best shape of her life. Age is a number.

That's me stickin up for the girlies done for one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm certainly not pass it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 "

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men. I also earn more than a large number of the men I dated, so the gold digging accusations are inaccurate and prejudiced. I don't see why it's any different for an older man to enjoy younger women more, it's just what he's attracted to. At least he's honest in his pursuit.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 "

Interesting comment...

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

now i feel old damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an observation from a fellow called Frank Kaiser

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assu_ed in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright _ed lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

nuff said

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35

Interesting comment..."

Note I use the word most xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 "
but your age range is 18 to 41

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Sounds like that nobody is interested in him here and has to sneak orf elsewhere and pay for it

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Flik is 47 and far from past it...in fact I think she's only just getting started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flik is 47 and far from past it...in fact I think she's only just getting started "

If my 'possible' future wife will look like Flik at that age, I would be one happy bunny

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"an observation from a fellow called Frank Kaiser

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assu_ed in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright _ed lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

nuff said

"

Thanks for that smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady well over 40 here and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"an observation from a fellow called Frank Kaiser

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assu_ed in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright _ed lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

nuff said

"

Poow Poow

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"an observation from a fellow called Frank Kaiser

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assu_ed in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright _ed lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.

nuff said

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41 "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older women for the right reasons

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41 "

Yes and no restrictions either , guess I'll have to Extend it to 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48 in a couple of weeks and the men I've met nearly always come back for more.......past it no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he should move abroad grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41

Good point "
Thank-you. I have my moments

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41

Good point Thank-you. I have my moments "

He definitely wouldn't get along with me,I'm 49 in August. F*ck 49 that's the first time I've said that out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

Sounds like he's an MCP to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check the wife out , 53

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a man who can't grasp he is the age he doesn't want to meet up with.

I'm thinking a 40+ woman wouldn't put up with the BS coming her way.

*obvs all hypothetical as don't know him!

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By *estrianuyMan
over a year ago

chester

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By *estrianuyMan
over a year ago

chester

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By *estrianuyMan
over a year ago

chester

Definitely not as the saying goes there is many a fine tune played on an old fiddle.

& you can't beat a good stradervious ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

Women over 40 are more sexually active, more experienced and know how to please a man.

Your friend has a serious problem if he thinks older women are no good.

I'd pick a woman over 40 any day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly don't look 49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41

Good point Thank-you. I have my moments

He definitely wouldn't get along with me,I'm 49 in August. F*ck 49 that's the first time I've said that out loud "

You certainly don't look 49

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

I'm betting the women who find him attractive will love him long time for $5 and he probably believes them too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)

The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded "

Yep!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Did anyone dare descent on this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are they hell past it thats when they hit there peek naughty 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 40s past it? Hell no :D

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41

Good point Thank-you. I have my moments

He definitely wouldn't get along with me,I'm 49 in August. F*ck 49 that's the first time I've said that out loud

You certainly don't look 49 "

Good because I'm not yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally don't get along with most women over 35 but your age range is 18 to 41

Good point Thank-you. I have my moments

He definitely wouldn't get along with me,I'm 49 in August. F*ck 49 that's the first time I've said that out loud

You certainly don't look 49

Good because I'm not yet! "

You don't look 48 either then

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By *icebloke..but filthyMan
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

*Op*

It's clear to see; your pal is very inexperienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

The older i get, the more i look for more mature women.

Always had a thing for and older woman.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

The women I know are all over 40. And wow!!! They all know what they like and how to please a man too

So plenty of enjoyment for you still to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he really a friend?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.

I am the original stifflers mom, over 40 and as our veris show, far from past it. Xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women over 40 are definitely past it, they're rubbish in bed and smell of old ladies.

So, all men should stop messaging them and I'll take one, or two, or twenty, for the team.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.


"Women over 40 are definitely past it, they're rubbish in bed and smell of old ladies.

So, all men should stop messaging them and I'll take one, or two, or twenty, for the team. "

xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sound abit sad I'd say age has nothing to do with being attractive it's the person

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By *ynopsisMan
over a year ago

Whetstone

I like women with experience and if that's over 40s then that's what happens I am 48 and feel I am over the hill when you look at a lot of profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't passed it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number, personality and attitude shows more. However I do have an upper age limit and try to stick to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I agree, find an older lady more attractive than those my age or younger, & this site certainly has a high proportion of fitties over 40

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Humpf! He doesn't know what he's talking about x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

People project outwards onto others what they don't like in themselves. I would bet he is feeling old and unattractive and going to extreme lengths to prove otherwise to himself!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)

People project outwards onto others what they don't like in themselves. I would bet he is feeling old and unattractive and going to extreme lengths to prove otherwise to himself! "

Exactly that; plus he is obviously massively insecure; can't cope with people who have more worldly wisdom and experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the fab ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us like wine get better with age . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of us like wine get better with age . lol "

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say women abroad... Are we talking Thailand/Philippines?

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Why is it that people think we are past it over 40

Omg

We get better with age

And sex gets better as it get older

As we still learn new ways and try new things

And most differently no how to work the other sex sexually x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been thinking about him some more, and I think he may end up permanently single.

Even in his late 20's/early 30's I remember him saying he fancied some girl or other and his description was "she's really mature for her age" and would turn out to be 19.

I think whoever said he views himself as younger than he is is right. He says he doesn't see him having anything in common with women his own age.

(I have to confess he never used the words "past it", but maybe "too mature for him" is more like it?)

All his friends are settled down in couples with kids now so I think he feels a bit lost and is trying to reassess things. And I think all his friends are hoping he couples up and settles down too.

If he does find someone (whatever age) who genuinely likes him for him then that's great. But I'm not sure I can see it happening?

To be honest if all his mates were single then maybe he wouldn't be trying so hard? A slightly male chauvinist Bridget Jones maybe?

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over a year ago


"I've been thinking about him some more, and I think he may end up permanently single.

Even in his late 20's/early 30's I remember him saying he fancied some girl or other and his description was "she's really mature for her age" and would turn out to be 19.

I think whoever said he views himself as younger than he is is right. He says he doesn't see him having anything in common with women his own age.

(I have to confess he never used the words "past it", but maybe "too mature for him" is more like it?)

All his friends are settled down in couples with kids now so I think he feels a bit lost and is trying to reassess things. And I think all his friends are hoping he couples up and settles down too.

If he does find someone (whatever age) who genuinely likes him for him then that's great. But I'm not sure I can see it happening?

To be honest if all his mates were single then maybe he wouldn't be trying so hard? A slightly male chauvinist Bridget Jones maybe?

"

I have an ex colleague almost exactly like your friend, Peter Pan syndrome we used to call it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My first thought is 'what a bellend'

But we all have our preferences so I guess we should live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And 40s the new 30s .... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

Well I would have to disagree..I love the older woman. And I know a few younger blokes who also love to be in the company of one.

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By *r.GenuineMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Personally age isn't a factor for me, aslong as I find the person attractive, down to earth and genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say upfront that l was thinking of starting a thread about why are there so many stunning looking women between the ages of 40 and 55 and do not mean just on fab but out in the real world.

But l could not but respond to the prejudice and assumptions in this thread and these are my thoughts.

Firstly if you deal with older British men going with younger British women. If you changed the genders around and take out the foreign element you have all the white knights and most of the women saying there is nothing wrong with a mature woman only liking younger men. There is no real criticism in the threads when women say they want younger men. They are praised as sexy cougars, but when women don't want older men of their own age are they not saying they older men are past it. If you look at the age limits many women and couples have the clear trend is over 45 and male you are past it.

Curiously in the Guardian's Lifestyle section online there is an article called confessions of a middle aged nymphomanic and she prefers younger men not merely for the sexual staying power but also for their progressive views on life. Their vitality and the way the present themselves. As a result she upped her game more, by losing weight and better cut clothes and had a regular supply of young men.

When l was on dating sites in most of the profiles the women wanted to do exciting activities. In talking to some they said similar things about men of their own age as stated above.

Thirdly where does that leave men of a certain age? l remember having discussions with some guys who had Thai brides and l asked why. The gist of what they said was they are not particularly good looking not particularly flash and just wanted a settled life. If they went out on a night with their mates, the women who were their equivalents in age and looks who they would be interested in always tended to be chatted up by the younger mates or men.

Therefore at one level it is not surprising that some men go for younger women or go for foreign younger women. It is like older women who go for younger foreign men. That the popular press riducules these women but as l see it can be a case of looking for love or the facsimile of it wherever they can find it as not everybody scrubs up well, and has the best social skills but most people want to be loved by someone they find attractive.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

You need to pick your friends better, he sounds a right prat

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I prefer younger men and I appreciate why a man would prefer a younger woman. No problem with that. It's the insulting and demeaning of the older women (or men) as a justification.

You prefer younger partners? Fine. You prefer foreign? Fine.

Just don't be rude and abusive about those you have no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

well, as I am almost hitting 51 I would have to disagree with your friend....

the phrase 'utter bollocks' springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In relation to the question, no.

Plenty of examples of people who aren't 'past' anything, on this thread there are several who look fine, and (unbelievably) they're over 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel past it so maybe yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In relation to the question, no.

Plenty of examples of people who aren't 'past' anything, on this thread there are several who look fine, and (unbelievably) they're over 40 "

gerraway

over 40 and looking fine?

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Think women in there 40s are hot love my older woman

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

some men say that most women of a certain age have got kids so that's why they prefer a young woman whos less likely to have any.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm way past 40 & I have no problem meet men

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Think women in there 40s are hot love my older woman "

Do you have a few in the basement then?

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Think women in there 40s are hot love my older woman

Do you have a few in the basement then?"
yes got a few tied up trying to get collection lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think women in there 40s are hot love my older woman

Do you have a few in the basement then?"

Haha it's a love cellar, not a basement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im 57 and i regard myself as extremely fit and attractive for my age. I work very hard to keep a goid figure and great bum. Well thats what all the guys 40 upwards and younger tell me. So he hasnt been looking in the right places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"

Nope.

F

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By *ran_can_twoCouple
over a year ago

My wife(mrs GC2)recently turned 54 and she's getting more attention now then ever.Thats from men aged 19 to 90 !!! Haven't said that she does workout hard 6 days a week to keep her body in shape !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)

The young sexy women abroad probably think he's loaded "

you can certainly get a lot more for your money abroad lol

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"My wife(mrs GC2)recently turned 54 and she's getting more attention now then ever.Thats from men aged 19 to 90 !!! Haven't said that she does workout hard 6 days a week to keep her body in shape !!!"

And she deserves the attention. Definitely yummy

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Some of us like wine get better with age . lol "

As long as it's the wine and not the whine getting better!

(Ducks, runs and hides)

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I have a friend who is single. He's very anti-women in the UK.

He is mid 40's.

He reckons women past 40 particularly he is never attracted to. And younger women in the UK aren't attracted to him?

So he goes abroad, meets very young beautiful women (early 20's) who seem to really like him. And then seems to judge UK women based on what he's seen overseas.

He says women abroad don't seem to judge age like women here do.

But in the same breath says he wouldn't find UK women over 40 attractive?

I think there's so many things wrong with this it makes my head implode a bit.

Does anyone else see his viewpoint?

(And as I'm over 40, it's hard not to take offence tbh!)"
sounds like a very small minded man th sort who goes aboard as no UK ladies will put up with his ways so he goes to poor lands and pays for it or so it looks to me

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Are women over 40 past it?"

Mrs ddc certainly isn't. I reckon she's just entering her prime

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's an age thing it's more of a mindset. Some men prefer women to have "traditional" roles and to encounter these women your friend travels to other countries where they exist.

Women in the UK are more independent than most; with freedoms only dreamed about in other places. Many of the women your friend believes like him from far away, wish to come here and enjoy those freedoms and being intelligent and resourceful use the means they have available to do so.

Women in the UK that may hold "traditional values" are likely to be in a life partnership, leaving only women that are not traditional for your friend.

Regardless; the beauty of a bird is in its flight, not in its cage. It's a shame your friend cannot see this.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Lol .... sugar daddy .... the silly old fool

Is he having a mid life crisis ..... hope he gets well and truly stung by a gold digger .....

Wish I had a ring side seat .... lol

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

I say isn't it a good job we all like something different

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