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What do you do when your message is deleted?

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By *ullbackbutt OP   Man
over a year ago

Purton

Hello all,

I was wondering what peoples way of rembering if some one is not interested in them after a message exchange.

I have a system where I keep the sent message and then if it gets deleted I add a private note to the effect of not being interested. That way if when I am browsing I stumble across the same person I will know not to mail them again. I also find that this stops the need for blocking people. I find the block function is for people who have been rude and need to be permantly put on the naughty step.

What are your thoughts?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hello all,

I was wondering what peoples way of rembering if some one is not interested in them after a message exchange.

I have a system where I keep the sent message and then if it gets deleted I add a private note to the effect of not being interested. That way if when I am browsing I stumble across the same person I will know not to mail them again. I also find that this stops the need for blocking people. I find the block function is for people who have been rude and need to be permantly put on the naughty step.

What are your thoughts?"

Sometimes people delete messages because they don't want them clogging up their inboxes though, or they don't want them in their phone .... no-one deletes our message though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think quite alot use the block function but you get a warning anyway if you send a message to someone whose not replied

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Chill out and move on . Not all the mail you send will get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all,

I was wondering what peoples way of rembering if some one is not interested in them after a message exchange.

I have a system where I keep the sent message and then if it gets deleted I add a private note to the effect of not being interested. That way if when I am browsing I stumble across the same person I will know not to mail them again. I also find that this stops the need for blocking people. I find the block function is for people who have been rude and need to be permantly put on the naughty step.

What are your thoughts?"

Same here..Deleting your message tells you all you need to no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block. It saves messing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grit my teeth till they turn to chalk, then further plan my deadly revenge on humankind.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Same as you OP, we like the notes option.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i never thought about taking notes, what if i die and someone accesses my account...oh my...what if someone hacks my account...no no ill keep to the block button, and in my head........maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just shrug... doesn't bother me...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I cry and I cry and I cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send Pixie to do the talking. She us good with it. I am way to blunt on my messages...

Not my fault. I am just Greek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno i dont pay much attention

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Using Private Notes is a good idea... , just in case you were included in a 'block delete'. Don't mail again, but don't block them - that way, they can still get in touch with you, if they want to.

Like you, I feel that the Block button should be reserved for people who have actively done/said something unpleasant.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't often look. So do nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know, I've never had a message deleted

Ok that was actually a fib

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