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Verifications as a weapon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your on a roll today clem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your on a roll today clem"

It was a big poo.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?"

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no i think its good as it is now. you can tell what sort of person they are by the verifications they leave for others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far. "

Can they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far. "

So you think it's ok for veri's to be attacked on the forum?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

So you think it's ok for veri's to be attacked on the forum?"

People attack people on here, it's a bear pit, if not their veris then it would be something else. I find veris an important part of my selection process so I am all for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

So you think it's ok for veri's to be attacked on the forum?"

I don't think it's okay if they're attacked on the forum or by pm but shit happens every now & again.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

Can they?"

Yeah they can display a green tick with no other information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone ever left a bad very? 'Package arrived too early, poorly wrapped and not what I thought I'd ordered.'

Can't say I've ever seen one. Obviously people could hide it which, I suppose in itself, is another question.

Should we be allowed to choose what ones we show or should it be genital warts 'n' all?

F

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and i have to say its another thing ive completly past caring about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They way people use and judge by them sometimes is a good filter and more revealing than the veris they are judgung by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use them. Don't often read them. Lamp-post pissing and notches...(that is MY opinion; flame away )

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?"
it's just the way it is, veris can give insight into personality and sexual prowess which can entice some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

So you think it's ok for veri's to be attacked on the forum?"

I think you and I and very many others have been around on this strange little planet fabalicious to know that the oddest things get attacked in the forums.

And, no it's not right. Differing opinions, even passionately differing opinions are absolutely part of the rich tapestry of life. Personally directed bitching and sniping, be it based on veris, pictures, personal preference or any of the other daft bloody things people hook into to target individuals isn't really on.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have yet to be 'attacked' as such for mine. But I have seen it happen numerous times. For months I didn't display any at all or the summary so just had the green tick on my profile. It didn't make the blindest bit of difference to the amount of interest or messages I got. When I did display some it made no discernible difference to me but did to some of those who had verified me. Make of that what you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that people will be attacked for anything so if it's not the veris it will be something else. Personally my veris work well for me, they show a consistent picture of the person that I am and I think it has helped me meet some lovely people

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I have yet to be 'attacked' as such for mine. But I have seen it happen numerous times. For months I didn't display any at all or the summary so just had the green tick on my profile. It didn't make the blindest bit of difference to the amount of interest or messages I got. When I did display some it made no discernible difference to me but did to some of those who had verified me. Make of that what you will."
I personally don't think verifications really matter for women. As long as they have the green tick they will still get attention I believe they only really make a difference for single males on here and perhaps couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?"

I think they are a useful filter- as are the threads about them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have yet to be 'attacked' as such for mine. But I have seen it happen numerous times. For months I didn't display any at all or the summary so just had the green tick on my profile. It didn't make the blindest bit of difference to the amount of interest or messages I got. When I did display some it made no discernible difference to me but did to some of those who had verified me. Make of that what you will. I personally don't think verifications really matter for women. As long as they have the green tick they will still get attention I believe they only really make a difference for single males on here and perhaps couples."

Do you mean for women or "women"? No one has ever pretended to be a man on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your threads "

Just the ramblings of a man sat on the toilet.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I have yet to be 'attacked' as such for mine. But I have seen it happen numerous times. For months I didn't display any at all or the summary so just had the green tick on my profile. It didn't make the blindest bit of difference to the amount of interest or messages I got. When I did display some it made no discernible difference to me but did to some of those who had verified me. Make of that what you will. I personally don't think verifications really matter for women. As long as they have the green tick they will still get attention I believe they only really make a difference for single males on here and perhaps couples.

Do you mean for women or "women"? No one has ever pretended to be a man on fab."
women not 'women'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your threads

Just the ramblings of a man sat on the toilet."

Still!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have yet to be 'attacked' as such for mine. But I have seen it happen numerous times. For months I didn't display any at all or the summary so just had the green tick on my profile. It didn't make the blindest bit of difference to the amount of interest or messages I got. When I did display some it made no discernible difference to me but did to some of those who had verified me. Make of that what you will. I personally don't think verifications really matter for women. As long as they have the green tick they will still get attention I believe they only really make a difference for single males on here and perhaps couples.

Do you mean for women or "women"? No one has ever pretended to be a man on fab. women not 'women'"

So you see how it's more important that women are verified as being real women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your threads

Just the ramblings of a man sat on the toilet.

Still! "

I mean, I know you don't give a shit but I thought it was metaphorical

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your threads

Just the ramblings of a man sat on the toilet.

Still! "

2 sessions a day if i can. Keeps me "lean".

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I have yet to be 'attacked' as such for mine. But I have seen it happen numerous times. For months I didn't display any at all or the summary so just had the green tick on my profile. It didn't make the blindest bit of difference to the amount of interest or messages I got. When I did display some it made no discernible difference to me but did to some of those who had verified me. Make of that what you will. I personally don't think verifications really matter for women. As long as they have the green tick they will still get attention I believe they only really make a difference for single males on here and perhaps couples.

Do you mean for women or "women"? No one has ever pretended to be a man on fab. women not 'women'

So you see how it's more important that women are verified as being real women.."
yes but my point was they wouldn't need to show there verifications the green tick would prove it and they would still get attention it wouldn't affect them. Single males could be affected as displaying verifications for some can be a USP in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See, if you;re verified, you're verified.Its nobodies business who by, or how many.

Who they have met is no indication of who they will meet - nor, lets face it, a true representation of all their meets because no-one publishes a crap verification. you'll never see a veri which said 'they wiped their arse on my bedspread and pissed in my fishtank'.

So 'using' them in the manner described just becomes another form of control that people think that they can exert over others.

IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like our veris and show what we want to show .

Those who don't like them don't have to read them .

Those who don't want to show them , don't have to .

Seems fine as it is to us thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your threads

Just the ramblings of a man sat on the toilet."

Have you dropped the kids off at the pool finally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your threads

Just the ramblings of a man sat on the toilet.

Have you dropped the kids off at the pool finally? "

All done! Now quick shower before tonight's meet

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

I've honestly never been attacked on here.

I reckon might now though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See, if you;re verified, you're verified.Its nobodies business who by, or how many.

Who they have met is no indication of who they will meet - nor, lets face it, a true representation of all their meets because no-one publishes a crap verification. you'll never see a veri which said 'they wiped their arse on my bedspread and pissed in my fishtank'.

So 'using' them in the manner described just becomes another form of control that people think that they can exert over others.

IMHO.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

So you think it's ok for veri's to be attacked on the forum?"

Let's face it, some people would attack others on here no matter what their profile said, it's human nature unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've all seen the comments I'm sure. "I can see why you have only 3 veri's" or "you haven't met anyone for 6 months, maybe it's time you left the site and stopped wasting everyone's time". Conversely "they've met so many people its disgusting" or even "all your veri's are from socials, you don't meet for sex".

Do you think this is ok? Should we just have a tick that says "verified" end of, without having to have ebay style feedback to be judged over?

People can do that if they want though? I like my veris and no problem so far.

So you think it's ok for veri's to be attacked on the forum?"

No. But I use that as another filter. Veris are not the only thing that people use to insult.

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