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By *oJay OP Man
over a year ago

h town

You had your first meet!?

I must be doing something wrong...no replies or no interest...or I'm a minger! :s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had your first meet!?

I must be doing something wrong...no replies or no interest...or I'm a minger! :s

Patience patience patience

you only been here 3 weeks .

Relax, chill and enjoy making friends

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By *oJay OP Man
over a year ago

h town

I am trying but people either don't reply...or one member told me I was a fat ugly c@nt...kinda no need!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to be rude.

Block delete or report and carry on regardless

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

Why are you here? Its a serious question. One to ask yourself.

Read the forums and contribute. Check out other single guy profiles to see what a good on looks like, then add more information about yourself on to yours.

This isn't the place to roll up and expect women to throw themselves at you. There is a lot of competition and you have to devote time and effort into building friendships. Bit like the real world really.

As has been said, patience is number one requirement. This is a community and people will want see you participate. With patience, perseverance and a pleasant attitude, you'll eventually get to that elusive meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, absolutely no need to be rude!

You have to realise you are one of many so you need to stand out. Personally if I receive a message I always look at the profile first. If it doesn't appeal I would delete the message without reading it.

I would delete a message from you!

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

I know the topic appears regularly in the forums and most newbies ask it? I guess I asked questions equally about my rights and wrongs... at the start?

So... why doesn't Fab pop something up online when peeps sign up to the site? Like a expectations guide? Point out some of the unspoken rules and thoughts? Kind of mentor people a little bit... could even pop up like an animated character... like the "paperclip" in the microsoft software... they could have a character called... say... um... "Roger the Dildo"... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know the topic appears regularly in the forums and most newbies ask it? I guess I asked questions equally about my rights and wrongs... at the start?

Fab assumes, quite rightly, that you, having thought about becoming a swinger for some time whilst regularly knocking one out in the toilet with your newspaper on the floor in front of you opened at Page 3 with all sorts of fantasies running round your head, have then ventured online to google and typed in 'swinging' and, once you've got past all the websites selling playground apparell, you've clicked a link that brought you here. It's quite a lengthy drawn out process to even find this site, and then you have to register an account (once you've tried a few usernames like BigCock, SuperLoverman, ICanDoYouRealGood, that haven't been taken already), you are then set and ready to go. I can hear you thinking: "right, where's all these cock hungry girls I've read about in NOTW!"

Here comes the reality check...

They're here, but because they have hundreds of single guys to choose from, and have probably already got a few 'tried & trusted' playmates already, they can afford to be extremely selective when sifting through their 500 daily messages.

Will this guy fit in with my busy schedule? No. Delete.

Will this guy want more than I'm prepared to give? Yup, probably. Delete.

Is this guy too 'needy'? Yup, Delete.

Will he expect exclusivity if I meet him? Can't risk it. Delete.

Now THIS guy has a bit of charm about him, doesn't sound pushy or controlling, is happy to go at my pace, sounds like a laugh, doesn't take himself too seriously... Ok, then, REPLY.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

** that was to the OP, not Dickens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had your first meet!?

I must be doing something wrong...no replies or no interest...or I'm a minger! :s

Any comment I make is made with the intention of helping.

Other viewpoints are available.

Extracting the main ideas from your profile it says :- I am here. Call me.

I think that would work for ......mmmmm Clooney , Pitt , Downey Jr. maybe.

Your avatar is very dark and small and indistinguishable so I wouldn't know if you are a 'minger' or not. Top marks for it being a face though. Obviously I cannot see your private pics.

You cannot accomodate. Where do you expect to have sex ?

You travel. Do you know where you can be and when? Do you take enough time to get to a 'know enough to fuck him' state of trust with females or do you think that women are happy to have sex with ANY one that asks ? Are you confusing promiscuity with prostitution or porn ?

There really ARE women out there who will meet you : without time , without pics , without any pre requisites at all and when they do, your first lesson on who you wouldn't like to meet will have been a practical one.

This is best taken as a lifestyle ( something i've never achieved if honest ) No one minds or judges if you just want to get your leg over - most would settle for that - but in theory it is a lifestyle that takes time to get into.

Good results take thought, effort and time.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Part one of the Tau of Tobleton:

Be Desireless

Don't fixate on how you get your first meet / shag, because the harder you try the more it will slip away from you.

Think instead about how best you might get involved in your loal scene and you might give people the opportunity to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had your first meet!?

I must be doing something wrong...no replies or no interest...or I'm a minger! :s

just be patient and it will happen. enjoy the social side of things and making some good friends.

Before you know it you will be having your first meet.

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