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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, do I wink, invite as friend or message? What's your preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message.

Winks I rarely look at.

Friend requests from someone who I haven't chatted to will be deleted.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Wink or chat. Never send friend request till we chatted or comfortable.

Nosey! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message, if the person who's messaging me fits what I'm looking for.

Winks I don't look at and I tend to block unsolicited friend requests, as those people who send them clearly can't read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know the pianos on my foot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely message. I don't look at winks either. And some don't like adding you to their friends list, unless they have chatted with you for a bit.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So, do I wink, invite as friend or message? What's your preference? "

Messages are always the best option, but remember that it needs to be worth reading.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink. They're easier for me to ignore if i don't find the winker attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank. They're easier for me to ignore if i don't find the wanker attractive"

Did you have to lower the tone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a jolly spiffing message , and not some one liner .

A cheery hello will always go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank. They're easier for me to ignore if i don't find the wanker attractive

Did you have to lower the tone? "

Miss I...if you keep misquoting me I'm going to put you over my knee

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Wink or message first. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a pub and ask them to be your friend without speaking to them first, so why should it be any different on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank. They're easier for me to ignore if i don't find the wanker attractive

Did you have to lower the tone?

Miss I...if you keep misquoting me I'm going to put you over my knee "

Haha I don't know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a message. I ignore winks and only accept friend invites from people I've been chatting to and feel comfortable sharing my private pics with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message - a decent one, one we know that you've taken the time to read our profile, let us know a little.

Winks - depends which of us is logged in as to whether we look at them.

Friends request - if we haven't chatted then it's a block and delete.

Same goes on my singles profile and happens countless times a day despite stating the obvious.

Just lets us know that you haven't read the profile....

Mx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's fine advice! Thank you! Hugs and kisses and best wishes to you all! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wank. They're easier for me to ignore if i don't find the wanker attractive

Did you have to lower the tone?

Miss I...if you keep misquoting me I'm going to put you over my knee "

Thanks for the chuckle!

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