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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the best steps to take having sex or play 3 weeks after giving birth. As i have a meet tonight and not a clue where to start

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You gave birth three weeks ago

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You gave birth three weeks ago "
yep and i feel great

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"You gave birth three weeks ago yep and i feel great "

ring Jeremy Kyle, you're a medical miracle

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You gave birth three weeks ago yep and i feel great

ring Jeremy Kyle, you're a medical miracle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as you are prepared to be interrupted by cries for feeding and nappy changes. I think her pussy will be the least of your problems. By the way you are looking good on it. Lol

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Make sure you check the stitches frequently and watch for any stress related leakages from any point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So long as you are prepared to be interrupted by cries for feeding and nappy changes. I think her pussy will be the least of your problems. By the way you are looking good on it. Lol"
will have night alown lol thanks tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure you check the stitches frequently and watch for any stress related leakages from any point."
cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she's anything like me she'll be an emotional rollercoaster & sore as fuck ~ enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if she's anything like me she'll be an emotional rollercoaster & sore as fuck ~ enjoy!! "
hahahaha thanks maby a film and chill in the end

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

She's given birth 3 weeks ago

I'm surprised she's even thinking about sex never mind from a swinging site.

Ensure you cover up....or you could be posting this again in just over 9 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's given birth 3 weeks ago

I'm surprised she's even thinking about sex never mind from a swinging site.

Ensure you cover up....or you could be posting this again in just over 9 months "

I have known her for years and allways played around and ill be covered up lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sex after giving birth three weeks ago.

Probably still bleeding

Will be delicate down there

Probably nervous as she may think shes got a bucket fanny

Will soley be relying on condoms as wont have got contraception sorted

Will be constantly worrying about the baby all night

Will be lactating

Will be suffering from severe physical and mental exhaustion

Possibly be very emotional.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex after giving birth three weeks ago.

Probably still bleeding

Will be delicate down there

Probably nervous as she may think shes got a bucket fanny

Will soley be relying on condoms as wont have got contraception sorted

Will be constantly worrying about the baby all night

Will be lactating

Will be suffering from severe physical and mental exhaustion

Possibly be very emotional.

"

Thankyou she was the who asked me lol will keep all that in mind tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex after giving birth three weeks ago.

Probably still bleeding

Will be delicate down there

Probably nervous as she may think shes got a bucket fanny

Will soley be relying on condoms as wont have got contraception sorted

Will be constantly worrying about the baby all night

Will be lactating

Will be suffering from severe physical and mental exhaustion

Possibly be very emotional.

"

Ahhh, the joy and miracle of childbirth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op as you say you know her id suggest a bottle of wine, flowers, chocs n a good film. Then see what happens but don't expect full intercourse xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They used to advise a six week wait I'm guessing that's changed. What I would say is that all sex doesn't have to involve penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if she's anything like me she'll be an emotional rollercoaster & sore as fuck ~ enjoy!! hahahaha thanks maby a film and chill in the end "

I know I would appreciated a film night

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"They used to advise a six week wait I'm guessing that's changed. What I would say is that all sex doesn't have to involve penetration."

Yes, I was thinking six weeks too. Not that we actually waited that long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op as you say you know her id suggest a bottle of wine, flowers, chocs n a good film. Then see what happens but don't expect full intercourse xxx"
sex isn't even on my mind this is just an what if lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They used to advise a six week wait I'm guessing that's changed. What I would say is that all sex doesn't have to involve penetration."
indeed thanks

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Takeaway & maybe a film - if she can stay awake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Takeaway & maybe a film - if she can stay awake "
i may cook

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Wear a condom she will be fertile as fuck

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"They used to advise a six week wait I'm guessing that's changed. What I would say is that all sex doesn't have to involve penetration."

Not they still do say six weeks mainly because you can't start contraceptives til after that time frame and are highly fertile, however if you feel up to gentle intercourse it's ok just listen to your body if it hurts stop.

In both my pregnancies I had emergency c sections and had sex 72hours post partim

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Op as you say you know her id suggest a bottle of wine, flowers, chocs n a good film. Then see what happens but don't expect full intercourse xxx sex isn't even on my mind this is just an what if lol thanks "
right, most people when they have a baby their first intimacy is with their partner. Im assuming she does have a partner. Your first experience is usually emotional.

You say youve known her years, she may act a bit clingy. But id say spoil her, curl up watch a film maybe run her a bath massage her feet.

Again the assumption is she doesnt have a partner, so why not not you just spoil her, make her feel good about herself and enjoy her "me" time cause she wont be getting much off that after a baby.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And take her a bunch of flowers

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Vulberable thats the word i was looking for not clingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They used to advise a six week wait I'm guessing that's changed. What I would say is that all sex doesn't have to involve penetration."

No. It has not changed. My little one is 8 months. I was advised not to have penetrative sex for at least six weeks by my midwife, due to the chance of infection.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And be mindful that if you do have sex shes always going to remember you. Like you all remember who you lost your virginity too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op as you say you know her id suggest a bottle of wine, flowers, chocs n a good film. Then see what happens but don't expect full intercourse xxx sex isn't even on my mind this is just an what if lol thanks right, most people when they have a baby their first intimacy is with their partner. Im assuming she does have a partner. Your first experience is usually emotional.

You say youve known her years, she may act a bit clingy. But id say spoil her, curl up watch a film maybe run her a bath massage her feet.

Again the assumption is she doesnt have a partner, so why not not you just spoil her, make her feel good about herself and enjoy her "me" time cause she wont be getting much off that after a baby."

Thanks will do flowers didn't even cross my mind lol and she will be spoilt

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sex after giving birth three weeks ago.

Probably still bleeding

Will be delicate down there

Probably nervous as she may think shes got a bucket fanny

Will soley be relying on condoms as wont have got contraception sorted

Will be constantly worrying about the baby all night

Will be lactating

Will be suffering from severe physical and mental exhaustion

Possibly be very emotional.

"

All of the above!

After six weeks my husband broached the subject of sex and I nearly took his gead off. Can't imagine swinging three weeks in.

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex after giving birth three weeks ago.

Probably still bleeding

Will be delicate down there

Probably nervous as she may think shes got a bucket fanny

Will soley be relying on condoms as wont have got contraception sorted

Will be constantly worrying about the baby all night

Will be lactating

Will be suffering from severe physical and mental exhaustion

Possibly be very emotional.

All of the above!

After six weeks my husband broached the subject of sex and I nearly took his gead off. Can't imagine swinging three weeks in.

Each to their own."

Its not swinging im just asking for advice on this site

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sex after giving birth three weeks ago.

Probably still bleeding

Will be delicate down there

Probably nervous as she may think shes got a bucket fanny

Will soley be relying on condoms as wont have got contraception sorted

Will be constantly worrying about the baby all night

Will be lactating

Will be suffering from severe physical and mental exhaustion

Possibly be very emotional.

All of the above!

After six weeks my husband broached the subject of sex and I nearly took his gead off. Can't imagine swinging three weeks in.

Each to their own.

Its not swinging im just asking for advice on this site"

Your original post uses language that suggests you are meeting for sex though

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