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By *illo0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

litherland

Ok ladies and gents what kind of message catches your eye. We all read on profiles "messages that start with hello or hi will be deleted" so how should a message get you interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies and gents what kind of message catches your eye. We all read on profiles "messages that start with hello or hi will be deleted" so how should a message get you interested"

A normal one

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I received one that just said:

Sup?

A good example of what not to send

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By *i Lady Next DoorWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any...I mean when it says "1 unread message" how can it not catch my attention .

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By *i Lady Next DoorWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Personally I prefer the ones that say they have read your profile and refer to it through their message, ones that make me laugh (not too cheesy) are always good too and ones with a face picture attached XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I prefer the ones that say they have read your profile and refer to it through their message, ones that make me laugh (not too cheesy) are always good too and ones with a face picture attached XX "

There are a lot of fake profiles that steal pics so sending one isnt always the best option how would you suggest to tackle that issue sweetie

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By *i Lady Next DoorWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Personally I prefer the ones that say they have read your profile and refer to it through their message, ones that make me laugh (not too cheesy) are always good too and ones with a face picture attached XX

There are a lot of fake profiles that steal pics so sending one isnt always the best option how would you suggest to tackle that issue sweetie "

One of the reasons why I don't meet at the drop of a hat - sooner or later they will slip up and still If they are that much of a clever liar and I turn up to meet them somewhere public then I wouldn't recognise them anyway and the meet wouldn't go ahead

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not the message it's the profile.There are some messages to which we will be unlikely to respond but we look at profiles before deciding in most cases.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

A hello wink or fab gets my attention. I dont expect war and peace in first messages or nor do i waste my time with with it on my first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendly message that's quite humorous will usually catch my eye... But before I open it, I will look at their profile. If I like the look of that too, then I will open the message and reply. So a good message and good profile combined is what catches my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when the message relates to us - maybe a certain pic, a status, or something written on the profile - shows that at least you have bothered to look

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By *illo0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

litherland


"when the message relates to us - maybe a certain pic, a status, or something written on the profile - shows that at least you have bothered to look "

Good point thank you

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Make me laugh and you are guaranteed a reply, especially if it's combined with enthusiasm. The last one I had like that said something like "OMG tell me you are really a taxi driver called Kevin with bushy eyebrows and a hairy chest so I can go back to my normal life and stop drooling over your pics. ......' Haha, very inventive!

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By *illo0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Make me laugh and you are guaranteed a reply, especially if it's combined with enthusiasm. The last one I had like that said something like "OMG tell me you are really a taxi driver called Kevin with bushy eyebrows and a hairy chest so I can go back to my normal life and stop drooling over your pics. ......' Haha, very inventive! "

ha ha quality, did he get a reply or a meet from it

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do like originality, humour, something that shows they've read my profile.

A profile with no cock pics is a good start too

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Make me laugh and you are guaranteed a reply, especially if it's combined with enthusiasm. The last one I had like that said something like "OMG tell me you are really a taxi driver called Kevin with bushy eyebrows and a hairy chest so I can go back to my normal life and stop drooling over your pics. ......' Haha, very inventive!

ha ha quality, did he get a reply or a meet from it "

We chatted for sure, but I think he was younger and further away than I was looking for lol! I asked his permission to share the message but lost it, I hate this mail system!

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