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By *r B1G OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

For tv's to class theirselves as women on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

End of thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For tv's to class theirselves as women on here? "

Class yourself as you wish to be classed. Just don't try using a loo in North Carolina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can call themselves a woman but should clarify they have a cock,when messaging,as some men don't read profiles

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Call themselves what they like as though they make it clear they are not a woman

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"For tv's to class theirselves as women on here? "

personally i think things that big should be made 100% clear from the start so people can make the choice if they still want to go there or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not well enough informed really to pass comment.

I will say though if you still have a cock it could be rather misleading in the search function. I'd imagine most looking for a woman would expect a vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might encourage more guys to read a profile before their cock starts messaging on their brains behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can call themselves a woman but should clarify they have a cock,when messaging,as some men don't read profiles "

Sadly they don't read messages either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For tv's to class theirselves as women on here? "
they can call themselves whatever they want but theyre still men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Microwave thinks it's a Cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy for whoever to refer to the self as whoever they feel they are. Male, female, who cares??

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Interesting question.

We first came on fab and used an M/F profile as Erika lives and identifies as female.

And we got some abuse for it.

We deleted that profile and opened this one originally as M/M

We than had criticism (rather than abuse) from people searching for male couples as Erika was definitely not what they were looking for when they searched for 2 men.

We also had very little responce from people using the search function. People looking for M/M were not looking for us, people looking for M/F wouldn't find us as we were M/M.

There is a TV/T/S option but only as a singles option and couples using singles profiles is a whole other can of worms.

I created a thread and asked for people's thoughts. The vast majority thought M/F made more sense for us and admin were very kind in changeing this profile for us.

We make it completely clear in our profile exactley who we are and so I no reason that, assuming no one is being misled, you should not describe yourself in any way you feel comfortable.

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By *r B1G OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one "

But when they say woman as their sex and nothing else in their profile but look manly and I don't wana insult them

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


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But when they say woman as their sex and nothing else in their profile but look manly and I don't wana insult them "

I think that's poor form and would be better for them to make it clear from the outset what the situation is.

Having said that, I think our profile could not be any clearer and yet somehow we still get half way into arranging a meet and then realise they have not read one single word of it, not even the headline.

You just can't help some guys!

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By *r B1G OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

[Removed by poster at 08/05/16 23:02:59]

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone determines their own gender.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one

But when they say woman as their sex and nothing else in their profile but look manly and I don't wana insult them "

If for any reason you don't fancy someone there would never be a reason to say anything to them that might insult or offend them.

You'd just respectfully decline any further interaction and probably block.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Call yourself a zebra if you want, but it doesn't make you one.

However, if you are legally called a zebra...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one "

I think you're out of step with how it is.

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By *r B1G OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Call yourself a zebra if you want, but it doesn't make you one.

However, if you are legally called a zebra..."

I agree

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By *r B1G OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

I can put Ferrari badges on my bmw but it's still a bmw and will always come up with bmw if you run my plate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone determines their own gender. "
actually mother nature assigns gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one

But when they say woman as their sex and nothing else in their profile but look manly and I don't wana insult them

If for any reason you don't fancy someone there would never be a reason to say anything to them that might insult or offend them.

You'd just respectfully decline any further interaction and probably block. "

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one

But when they say woman as their sex and nothing else in their profile but look manly and I don't wana insult them "

I think OP has an entirely reasonable point.

If he does not find someone attractive the wether they are forthcoming with their gender or not won't matter as he's not interested.

But if he does find them attractive, the. It is entirely reasonable for him to expect someone to be the gender he assumes they are.

And if they are not, then they need to to be clear about it.

To use the old "zebra calling itself a horse" and "Ferrari badges on many BMW" analogue that gets trotted out every time on these posts, it's your car, you call it what he fuck you like.

But if you take it for a service, you better make sure the machanic knows not to go looking in the boot for an engine that's up front.

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By *r B1G OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"It's not really difficult is it! !!...cock =man. ..you're not a woman so why class yourself as one

But when they say woman as their sex and nothing else in their profile but look manly and I don't wana insult them

I think OP has an entirely reasonable point.

If he does not find someone attractive the wether they are forthcoming with their gender or not won't matter as he's not interested.

But if he does find them attractive, the. It is entirely reasonable for him to expect someone to be the gender he assumes they are.

And if they are not, then they need to to be clear about it.

To use the old "zebra calling itself a horse" and "Ferrari badges on many BMW" analogue that gets trotted out every time on these posts, it's your car, you call it what he fuck you like.

But if you take it for a service, you better make sure the machanic knows not to go looking in the boot for an engine that's up front. "

And obviously being honest is the safest option as nobody wants a shock when we open the bonnet

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Welcome to my world!!

We go out clubbing with a crowd of other ladyboys who get endless attention all night from guys who have no idea.

when it's plain the guys interest is for more than just flirting and dancing they get sent to have a word with me so I can explain the situation.

We get the occasional knob but the vast majority are great about it and a surprising number are still well up for fun.

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By *ionaScarletTV/TS
over a year ago

Dundee


"Everyone determines their own gender. actually mother nature assigns gender"

Mother nature doesn't assign feck all. Some genetic stuff is slapped together in a big gooey mess and then shaken around in a soup of hormones for nine months until something vaguely resembling a human being is squeezed out.

Then gender is assigned. If its got a wiggly bit between the legs its shuffled off to football school to be taught the offside rule.

I never did well at football school...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their profile so surely it's for them to decide what they write , if it's an honest profile then it's up to whoever to follow up should they want to ! . No one can make anyone do anything by reading a profile xxxx

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"Everyone determines their own gender. actually mother nature assigns gender"

Mother nature assigns sex she doesn't assign gender.

Male and female are recognised sexes in the UK, however intersex is also a sex in some countries.

Gender is a social construct. The terms man, woman, girl, boy, do not have the scientific basis that sex does, they are social constructs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might encourage more guys to read a profile before their cock starts messaging on their brains behalf "

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


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Mother nature assigns sex she doesn't assign gender.

Male and female are recognised sexes in the UK, however intersex is also a sex in some countries.

Gender is a social construct. The terms man, woman, girl, boy, do not have the scientific basis that sex does, they are social constructs. "

That's a really good way of explaining a very complicated issue.

I'm keeping that!

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